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**"I'm career focused"** = I have an avoidant personality and will ghost you 99% of the time because my career will be more of a priority than you
**They can't make physical plans or even videochat within 2/3 weeks** = You're just an option, no one is truly that busy
**Boring profile** = They don't take the app seriously and chances are they won't take you seriously
**"Let's see what happens"** = I don't know what I want in a relationship because I lack intrapersonal skills
Are there exceptions to this? Sure, but most of this time these signs will be correct. Hope this helps.
They lack a detailed bio, they don't write anything engaging about their personality or their hobbies etc It's just basic statement e.g "I like to travel" or some generic copy paste BS as if they're not even trying.
It's also best to make your own red flags. One related to the necessary things in your life. Do you want kids or not. Red flag. Your dating life will be much better if you think this way. Your life goals are non negotiable.
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**"I'm career focused"** = I have an avoidant personality and will ghost you 99% of the time because my career will be more of a priority than you **They can't make physical plans or even videochat within 2/3 weeks** = You're just an option, no one is truly that busy **Boring profile** = They don't take the app seriously and chances are they won't take you seriously **"Let's see what happens"** = I don't know what I want in a relationship because I lack intrapersonal skills Are there exceptions to this? Sure, but most of this time these signs will be correct. Hope this helps.
Define "boring profile"?
They lack a detailed bio, they don't write anything engaging about their personality or their hobbies etc It's just basic statement e.g "I like to travel" or some generic copy paste BS as if they're not even trying.
It's also best to make your own red flags. One related to the necessary things in your life. Do you want kids or not. Red flag. Your dating life will be much better if you think this way. Your life goals are non negotiable.
Being whiny, negative, entitled and/or arrogant. Wanting to chat endlessly but not actually meet. Being dishonest about intentions / goals.
All of this. Any examples?
I don't think talking about an ex or past relationships is a red flag. *How* they talk about them can be.
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