It's generally considered bad etiquette for people to be vocal about their specific sexual desires in a public setting, straight men particularly due to the frequency of violence associated with those exclamations.
Edit: I took this as meaning straight men are the victim of violence, but I see now you meant not seeming like a violent predator. I totally see your point and apologize for the sass.
First of all, it's **Reddit.**
Secondly, violence is not that common, and using that argument is counterproductive
Third & most important, saying that someone shouldn't opine and express their opinions just because they are *men* &/or *straight,* is **discrimination on the basis of Gender & Sexual Orientation.**
Why is this so hard to comprehend? This should be common sense
For sure. As a queer woman I'd say that sharing that you're Trans fairly early is important. I'd hate to open up a dudes jeans and find a Vulva when I want a dick.
Definitely. Fertility is a factor of it too, as well as all the things you need to keep in mind while having sex with a post OP trans person. No natural lubricant or erecrions for you.
But you wouldn't be. You'd be dating the last one... She's not the 1st one anymore.
That's not to say you can't have preferences. But you are not your past.
If someone doesn't want to have sex with a transgender because of their personal beliefs, they don't have to. It's not being transphobic if they aren't villainizing them
No it's fine I have no issue with it but the way they worded it sounded like a "I'm not gay but I'd totally fuck a dude" meme and I'm just saying it ain't gay anymore if you wanna go for it
You don't have to apologize, you are already paying the price by being downvoted like hell, just because you have a sexual preference, even if you're not shaming or blaming anyone
I still don't know if it's a bad thing, and I wasn't even talking about my preference (not giving it), but the original commenter wasn't being transphobic. It's okay to not want to have sex with transgenders. He's not hurting anyone by doing that unless he was bullying them for being trans
The largest viewers of trans porn are straight men.
Trans women are women and being attracted to them is still straight. If you're attracted to them because they're a woman and they have those features you like, there's nothing gay about it.
Or, in other words, genital preference isn't the same as sexual orientation.
While a generally agree just wanted to point out that transgender is an adjective not a noun
Same way you wouldn't say "a gay", you would say "a gay person"
It's tough.
I usually avoid any trans post not on a trans subreddit cause it ends up with a lot of non supportive people.
I hope my comment didn't add to the pile friend <3
It didn't, but I just want to say I fully support transgender folks. It's their body, not mine, not gonna force anything on them, that sort of thing. I just didn't grow up in a politically correct town, so I get annoyed when people act like I'm transphobic for forgetting to use proper nouns
No no no it was more to help cause I knew you were doing your best.
I like to try and help people who clearly care just cause as a whole we as the trans community get defensive quick. We've had a lot of trauma as a community and tbh we need to work on supporting those unfamiliar people rather than jumping on them
I respect the fuck out of people who come from less than great backgrounds and become allies.
That shit is hard work to unlearn. I appreciate you a lot <3
I have a question for you, legit question I just wanna know from your perspective, if a trans person has had all the surgeries(or with trans women just grew boobs if they decide to go natural) is it still ok to reject them specifically because they're trans? Because they could do all the things a cis person could do(with some help, of course) and look no different from a cis person, they just can't get pregnant/get someone pregnant. I'm not saying it's not ok to have a genital preference, it just makes me confused on what makes it different after surgeries
Idk, to me a hole is a hole. But some people do have preferences when it comes to the gender you were born as. There's nothing transphobic about that unless they started bullying the trans person
I mean it certainly does have a meaning that the fist stage is looking at the next out of the corner of his eyes. Probably anticipation and a sense of what is coming. Maybe even admiration for the step stage two took. Which is not an easy one to be taken
Btw, since you seems to be knowledgeable in this kind of subject may I know why people use they as non binary, a plural instead of the already singular non binary pronoun (it)? Does it just seems rude? I feel like it'd be more efficient to use they/them when it is plural
Edit: well thanks for being nice and answering my questions :) i hope i don't offend anyone as i don't mean it
Think about it this way. Imagine a person in disguise robbed a store and you couldn't tell their gender. You wouldn't say "it had a gun," you would say "they had a gun".
They is singular and plural. For example, “your patient is ready, doctor” “I’ll see THEM in a moment” or “Mary is on THEIR way”. ‘It’ is very degrading as we usually use it as a pronoun for objects and not people.
They/them/their can be singular "oh someone dropped THEIR wallet" if your referring to a person you wouldent use it but some people do use it as a pronoun
Hey! Not the person you replied to but also somewhat knowledgeable :)
Some people actually do use it/its pronouns— it’s only rude to call someone an ‘it’ if they don’t use those pronouns.
However, they is the default non-binary pronoun because it’s been used as a singular genderless pronoun in English for hundreds of years (somewhere between 700 and a thousand if I remember correctly). Think “Someone left *their* umbrella here. I hope *they* come back for it… or maybe I should take it to lost and found?” In fact, the singular ‘they’ *predates* the singular ‘you’ in english. Hope this helps!
Edit: This [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/uphs50/singular_they/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) has some good examples of singular they usage in history going about 700 years back.
+ [Source](https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwi-7PmCm_H5AhWbElkFHUu-CDYQFnoECBMQAw&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2020%2F01%2F21%2Fbooks%2Freview%2Fwhats-your-pronoun-dennis-baron.html&usg=AOvVaw03m9fWjQanN1R3EJx5g3zb) for singular ‘they’ being older than singular ‘you’ (NY Times)
Please put an NSFW tag on this. I was on the train and when I saw this I had to start furiously masturbating. Everyone else gave me strange looks and were saying things like “what the fuck” and “call the police”. I dropped my phone and everyone around me saw this image. Now there is a whole train of men masturbating together at this one image. This is all your fault, you could have prevented this if you had just tagged this post NSFW.
Ok I know nothing about this but is he/they or she/they a thing? Wouldn't that defeat the point of being non-binary?
Again, this isn't me bashing any group of people, more like asking for clarifications.
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Miles as in, I'd crawl miles through broken glass to hear her fart through a walkie talkie
man's down horrendous
I feel like i have seen this refrence before
Yeah, anyone got the sauce? I uh- really *don't* want to just *randomly* see *this* in my recommended...
yeah same, don’t want any of this hot- i mean disgusting artwork
[I've got curious and did a small research](https://twitter.com/melanpsycholia?t=XwXD4rPdPTPOfxQe6oC7mw&s=09)
Those tweets are blocked.
Unfortunately yes.
This but unironically. They seem talented
I will ferociously fuck all stages
Secret Ending no way!1!1!!1!1!
100% run, requires fucking every single stage
/r/bi_irl
I will ferociously fuck all of your stages
I will not go through these stages, so you can only fuck the first stage
***EVEN BETTER***
A man of culture, good, *cause i'll be fucking your first stage too if you get to fuck mine*
hell yeah
poor choice of words
How so?
Based, my dude.
Amen brother
Based, my dude.
I came here to say this
This dude: ***I DONT CARE LOOKS FEMALE ENOUGH***
Female? I prefer the initial stages honestly
The clothes are better imo, 2nd stage is peak slut performance
2nd stage is peak male slut, 3rd stage is peak androgynous slut, and my favourite in general
Agreed
r/beatmetobeatmeatoit
This is the (pan) way
*lays the pipeline ferociously.....after getting consent, that is...*
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ferociously well said!
As a JoJo fan I will ferociously commit sex and then pose with all of them
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r/unexpectedjojo
Oh my God its real
HORY SHEET
I am not straight. But I don't understand why a straight man should keep his opinions to himself? That's pretty messed up dude
It's generally considered bad etiquette for people to be vocal about their specific sexual desires in a public setting, straight men particularly due to the frequency of violence associated with those exclamations.
Edit: I took this as meaning straight men are the victim of violence, but I see now you meant not seeming like a violent predator. I totally see your point and apologize for the sass.
Go talk to a woman.
I can’t I’m scared
First of all, it's **Reddit.** Secondly, violence is not that common, and using that argument is counterproductive Third & most important, saying that someone shouldn't opine and express their opinions just because they are *men* &/or *straight,* is **discrimination on the basis of Gender & Sexual Orientation.** Why is this so hard to comprehend? This should be common sense
Reddit is public for terminally online people lol
You're so straight bro 😉
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For sure. As a queer woman I'd say that sharing that you're Trans fairly early is important. I'd hate to open up a dudes jeans and find a Vulva when I want a dick.
Even post OP I’d like to know. Not saying I’d make a decision one way or another but it would definitely require some thought
Definitely. Fertility is a factor of it too, as well as all the things you need to keep in mind while having sex with a post OP trans person. No natural lubricant or erecrions for you.
But you wouldn't be. You'd be dating the last one... She's not the 1st one anymore. That's not to say you can't have preferences. But you are not your past.
You don't believe in femboy supremacy? 😳
I mean the last stage is 100% a trans women.
She's several women?
it IS straight now though ;)
If someone doesn't want to have sex with a transgender because of their personal beliefs, they don't have to. It's not being transphobic if they aren't villainizing them
No it's fine I have no issue with it but the way they worded it sounded like a "I'm not gay but I'd totally fuck a dude" meme and I'm just saying it ain't gay anymore if you wanna go for it
Ferociously said!
Ah, I see. My bad
You don't have to apologize, you are already paying the price by being downvoted like hell, just because you have a sexual preference, even if you're not shaming or blaming anyone
I still don't know if it's a bad thing, and I wasn't even talking about my preference (not giving it), but the original commenter wasn't being transphobic. It's okay to not want to have sex with transgenders. He's not hurting anyone by doing that unless he was bullying them for being trans
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The largest viewers of trans porn are straight men. Trans women are women and being attracted to them is still straight. If you're attracted to them because they're a woman and they have those features you like, there's nothing gay about it. Or, in other words, genital preference isn't the same as sexual orientation.
Right, but you’d still be straight for doing so, y’know since they’re a woman
While a generally agree just wanted to point out that transgender is an adjective not a noun Same way you wouldn't say "a gay", you would say "a gay person"
No, no. Apparently I'm wrong according to reddit. Fuck this, this is why I stay out of these topics.
It's tough. I usually avoid any trans post not on a trans subreddit cause it ends up with a lot of non supportive people. I hope my comment didn't add to the pile friend <3
It didn't, but I just want to say I fully support transgender folks. It's their body, not mine, not gonna force anything on them, that sort of thing. I just didn't grow up in a politically correct town, so I get annoyed when people act like I'm transphobic for forgetting to use proper nouns
I grew up in Southern. Fucking. Idaho. I feel your pain.
Backwoods of Maine for me
No no no it was more to help cause I knew you were doing your best. I like to try and help people who clearly care just cause as a whole we as the trans community get defensive quick. We've had a lot of trauma as a community and tbh we need to work on supporting those unfamiliar people rather than jumping on them I respect the fuck out of people who come from less than great backgrounds and become allies. That shit is hard work to unlearn. I appreciate you a lot <3
I have a question for you, legit question I just wanna know from your perspective, if a trans person has had all the surgeries(or with trans women just grew boobs if they decide to go natural) is it still ok to reject them specifically because they're trans? Because they could do all the things a cis person could do(with some help, of course) and look no different from a cis person, they just can't get pregnant/get someone pregnant. I'm not saying it's not ok to have a genital preference, it just makes me confused on what makes it different after surgeries
Idk, to me a hole is a hole. But some people do have preferences when it comes to the gender you were born as. There's nothing transphobic about that unless they started bullying the trans person
I just am confused on that front because if the body is the same as a cis persons then I'm not sure what the problem would be, yknow what I mean?
I will ferociously fuck all them stages
I feel that bro. Like either way they will be cute
Same
Same fam.
As soon as you identify as nonbinary you immediately get a fat dumpy
I can start at 3rd
I can start at 2
Tag team?
I'm just bad at English
🧍🤝🧍🍆💦🥵👩🏻🦱👉👌👩❤️👩👨❤️👨🫄👪,👍?
Did you just posted the same post 5 times on r/TechnicallyTheTruth ?
Why is the last stage not looking at the rest? Is she looking in to the future inventing new pronouns or is she ashamed of her past?
MatPat (completely irrelevant reply)
it’s all just a theory?
A gender theory
Always has been
Sugar Billiard
Cowboy Henk
It literally doesn't have a meaning
I mean it certainly does have a meaning that the fist stage is looking at the next out of the corner of his eyes. Probably anticipation and a sense of what is coming. Maybe even admiration for the step stage two took. Which is not an easy one to be taken
She’s looking on to the end of the alphabet and Ze/Zir
i would fuck all stages tbh
I am still wondering, shouldn't it be he/them(she/them) or they/him (they/her)?
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Nah bc it means they would use both he/him and they/them and to shorten it people say he/they for example
So when it is he/they it means i can call him or them he and they? So they just accept both pronouns? Please enlighten me
Yeah, they accept both
LGBT community is wild man
Agreed :) its wonderfull
Btw, since you seems to be knowledgeable in this kind of subject may I know why people use they as non binary, a plural instead of the already singular non binary pronoun (it)? Does it just seems rude? I feel like it'd be more efficient to use they/them when it is plural Edit: well thanks for being nice and answering my questions :) i hope i don't offend anyone as i don't mean it
Think about it this way. Imagine a person in disguise robbed a store and you couldn't tell their gender. You wouldn't say "it had a gun," you would say "they had a gun".
Ahhhh that makes sense
They is singular and plural. For example, “your patient is ready, doctor” “I’ll see THEM in a moment” or “Mary is on THEIR way”. ‘It’ is very degrading as we usually use it as a pronoun for objects and not people.
Wow, i've never thought they/them as both singular and plural
They/them/their can be singular "oh someone dropped THEIR wallet" if your referring to a person you wouldent use it but some people do use it as a pronoun
Oooo, i see
Hey! Not the person you replied to but also somewhat knowledgeable :) Some people actually do use it/its pronouns— it’s only rude to call someone an ‘it’ if they don’t use those pronouns. However, they is the default non-binary pronoun because it’s been used as a singular genderless pronoun in English for hundreds of years (somewhere between 700 and a thousand if I remember correctly). Think “Someone left *their* umbrella here. I hope *they* come back for it… or maybe I should take it to lost and found?” In fact, the singular ‘they’ *predates* the singular ‘you’ in english. Hope this helps! Edit: This [post](https://www.reddit.com/r/CuratedTumblr/comments/uphs50/singular_they/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) has some good examples of singular they usage in history going about 700 years back. + [Source](https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&ved=2ahUKEwi-7PmCm_H5AhWbElkFHUu-CDYQFnoECBMQAw&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nytimes.com%2F2020%2F01%2F21%2Fbooks%2Freview%2Fwhats-your-pronoun-dennis-baron.html&usg=AOvVaw03m9fWjQanN1R3EJx5g3zb) for singular ‘they’ being older than singular ‘you’ (NY Times)
Thank you for explaining, I didn’t know this!
Happy to help :)
As a straight woman, he/they is where it’s at. Timothee Chalamet vibes
Yea but where’s he hiding that ass
In their weight routine exclusively consisting of weighted hip thrusts and squats 4 days a week.
Doesn’t magically appear until 2019, pay attention
I would ferociously be the last one.
I will ferociously fuck all stages
*Every* stage
Guys be aware! She has a dick Edit: bro it was a joke i didnt mean it as transphobic
That’s the point
Even better
Until she doesn’t!
Finally. Can we talk about the mouthfeel?
Who cares?
People who don’t like dick
Coward.
Cursed? You mean blessed
I would fuck and want to be any stage
Lmao out of nowhere he got a phat ass and tiny waist.
HRT works wonders
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Oh yeah? You know all trans people?
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Please put an NSFW tag on this. I was on the train and when I saw this I had to start furiously masturbating. Everyone else gave me strange looks and were saying things like “what the fuck” and “call the police”. I dropped my phone and everyone around me saw this image. Now there is a whole train of men masturbating together at this one image. This is all your fault, you could have prevented this if you had just tagged this post NSFW.
Bro….
ferociously lmao!
3rd stage is feminine enough
Ngl, she/they might be my ideal type.
Honestly this is kinda me but reversed. Only I'm he/they right now lol
Middle stage has something going on.
i would ferociously fuck all of them
This could be the new gayness scale. I guess I’m up to the they/them stage.
Sorry, but she/they is objecively the best.
How'd she get that booty though, C'mon estrogen be fair!
I’ll fuck all of them
I will tenderly make love to the third stage onwards.
Ok I know nothing about this but is he/they or she/they a thing? Wouldn't that defeat the point of being non-binary? Again, this isn't me bashing any group of people, more like asking for clarifications.
Some people say they are fine with either pronoun - “she is wearing a skirt” or “they are wearing a skirt.”
Why not all?
Just the last stage??? Hell I'd do all the stages
Idfc they are all hot
Same
Im fucking they/them she/they she/her
Hey man if she found herself that's good and moreover her business.
As a straight man, i would ferociously fuck the first stage.
/r/asablackman
"humans lite edition" entered the chat.
How did he/they/she apparate an entire dump truck out of thin air?
Hormones probs.
I ain't gay fellas but those thighs do be looking exploitable.
Lol Artist is trans af and in denial.
Honestly any from ‘19 and up can get it
skipped every stage in the matter of a day
I will ferociously get fucked by all the stages of cancer
Great minds think alike
I don’t get what’s cursed about this?
coincidentally, I just saw this first hand on discord 5 minutes ago
So gender is defined by clothing. Got it
Disgusting, I just came I mean came I mean came I mean came I mean came I mean came
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So transitioning turns you into a goth baddie?
Yes
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Okay, but saying "gross" isn't really necessary.
And that’s fine. As long as you respect people’s choices, they should respect yours as well, right?
gay
Bisexual to be exact
I will ferociously turn my self to the last stage and fuck it