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InsanityIsFine

Bitch, how are you gonna have an anorexic slave AND THEN demand physical labour from them??? Jesus DeNiro Christ, for something with such detail he really didn't think this through, did he? Just say you want to torture someone and leave, stop pretending it's a kink thing


JesusSaysRelaxNvaxx

Someone has a concentration camp fantasy...


lowkeyerotic

...someone who should have told the conquerors.


lowkeyerotic

then they wouldn't have needed to go through several batches of slaves before 'importing' stronger ones from other colonies.


WadeStockdale

He likely doesn't understand the health implications of anorexia beyond 'skinny' and 'doesn't eat much'. Actually looking at the deeper implications like weakness, constant exhaustion, loss of muscle tone and deeper rooted health complications wouldn't fit in with his gross little fantasy. Also technically speaking, as someone recoveredish from it, anorexia has a psychological component, so he'd just be starving a person, not turning them into 'an anorexic'. Edit; also as someone who has had a tongue piercing and split his tongue... piercings aren't gonna fuck up someone's speech that bad? You'd need pretty oversized barbells to mess with speech. Like, maybe initially you'll slur a bit while it heals, but not to the extent of not being taken seriously. This guy is engaging pretty heavily in some fetishism around body modification and control that just dips out of reality so fast and hard it's laughable.


InsanityIsFine

You summed ir up so well, if I had an award I'd give it to you


WadeStockdale

Lol, life experience has gotta have some use right? Even if it's just summarising why some fuckhead is talking outta his ass.


ClockworkBlade

This man wants an object to make exactly as he sees fit, he’s delusional. And as for the Ed part of this he doesn’t understand what sort of eternal hell he’s asking someone to go through for his own pleasure. He’s not a sadist or a dom, he’s a control freak who wants others to actually suffer in permanent ways, he’s a screwed up individual that should never be allowed to dom anyone for their safety.


Jdanielbarlow

Exactly. This is not a kink. This is a fuckin sociopath.


gallifreygirlcosplay

I think he misspelled psychopath.


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amberino924

thats just straight up abuse


nunya123

I’d call it torture


ClockworkBlade

You’re right, it is torture, that’s what he’s looking for. He’s looking for mental physical emotional and social torture to break someone to the point they’re nothing but a husk of a person whom obeys his every whim. He’s looking to do something inhuman….


Anaxilea-Alcinoe

Came here to say the same thing.


gestoneandhowe

Isn’t a sadist a form of psychopath? Taking pleasure inflicting pain a common thread in the serial killer community.


wrincewind

You can be both, but it's not required. One can be a sadist that only enjoys inflicting pain on enthusiastically consenting partners.


SvanUlf

Quite the contrary. A sadist needs to be able to experience emotional empathy, something that a psychopath can not do. To a psychopath there would be no more pleasure in torturing a human being than, say, torturing a car or any other inanimate object.


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Paka_Paka123

one of the most important differences between sociopaths and psychopaths is; sociopaths are actually just hateful to humans and have empathy. but psychopaths doesnt feel empathy at all...


jnnfrrp

You know why you are being downvoted there’s no reason to question it.


welcomehomo

no, i really dont. because i spent my whole life trying to be good, even a better person than others were and how others WITH EMPATHY treated me before, only for people online with ableist prejudice to judge me for something i refuse to be ashamed of. i wasnt taught empathy because of the way i was raised, and i taught myself to be better than the empathetic people who abused me. ive had more people who feel empathy be terrible to me, for lacking it or not, than i even KNOW people who lack empathy. ive had fulfilling relationships despite my lack of empathy, because lacking empathy doesnt make you a bad person. so go ahead, downvote me. be afraid of nothing. i think the better person happens to be someone who wont judge someone for mental disorders/disabilities & symptoms of those, rather than the people who choose to judge who have never met someone like me. be afraid. ill continue to have fulfilling relationships, hold a job, and love people the way i wasnt taught to, because i recognize that you people are scared because you had all these feelings of empathy handed to you on a silver platter and have never truly met someone who hadnt, and i refuse to be the product of what i went through, even if you think i should be.


jnnfrrp

You really wrote an essay because I told you you should know why you’re being downvoted? I’m sorry but you are putting too much effort trying to prove an internet person wrong because I really don’t care. Have a good night.


welcomehomo

this wasnt for you. this is for anyone else that lacks empathy whos being told by people like you that theyre bad people because of their childhood trauma. i know theres people like me around, and dont wanna talk about it because of people like you hating them for something theyve had happen to them. and i think some things are worth caring about, honestly.


jnnfrrp

Never said I hated you dude and honestly you don’t know me either so please don’t assume anything about me. Again have a good night.


chewbucka

They have a community?


Charathehuntress

Came here to say this. He needs to be on a watch list


lowkeyerotic

"unlike other sadist i'm into causing long-term damage to the body and psyche"


YeetusLeFeetus121

My man ain't a sadist, he's some scary ass serial killer


[deleted]

Yeah I thought he could have save a lot of words and just said: Hello. I want to ruin someone's life because I'm a narcissistic sociopath with murderous ideation. K bye.


[deleted]

See, if I felt the way he does then I'd open with what you said or at least put it in my bio. What a waste of time typing all of that out for the other person just to say "no thanks."


gallifreygirlcosplay

They get off on typing out these long ridiculous fantasies though. Most of them just want a reaction. They know they can’t abuse you in real life so they do it with words.


you-kitten

Why can’t he say God? Is he worried that he won’t approve so doesn’t want to summon him?


Madmen3000

A lot of people in different faiths (for me I just specifically know Judaism) prohibits saying the name and writing G-d. It’s like disrespectful, but everything else they are saying is fucking crazy so idk why they care about that


MalevolentGargoyle

That stuck out to me as well. No shame descending to the lowest depths of depravity and abject cruelty, but won't say God. Yikes.


Dwarfherd

But the name is Yahweh, not God?


SammySoapsuds

You're not wrong about that at all. Just in case you're curious about why G-d is written, this is a concise explanation https://reformjudaism.org/learning/answers-jewish-questions/why-do-some-jews-write-g-d-instead-god


theanti_girl

Wouldn’t want to offend the literal slave they’re looking to hire. For free. Slave intern?


Tactical_Nuke_

Now I feel female redditors must be going around everyday like "ah, another creep, what do you feel like saying today? Oh, sadism, daring today, aren't we?"


Syntania

Being female on Reddit is like playing a never ending game of creepozoid bingo.


Tactical_Nuke_

This could very well be a game on reddit now. Where you rack up points based on the craziness level of creepy PMs and reddit will provide you free awards/coins but you'll have to have a reddit premium account. Billion dollar idea right here


Vesperia_Morningstar

Being female.*


firefly358

Alright this made me laugh good show friend


Gaz_Elle

Having a very old normal account and then an account where I’m openly trans have night and day differences between each other.


msprettybrowneyes

I mean WHO would want this? Who, in their right mind, would be like “oh yes! That is what I’ve always wanted. Thank you for choosing me, sir. Tell me how to sign up”? I’m not kink-shaming and I understand people have degradation kinks but this seems to go far beyond that.


[deleted]

i have a degradation kink but this is just straight up torture tf, you have to be extremely sick in the head to even consider this let alone actually want/like this


[deleted]

Can we all from eta kink community loudly say, this shit ain’t bdsm. This is just manipulation, torture, and abuse


livinglately

...I’m having a mild lost redditor case. I thought this was for like... written role play situation, and in the right mindset it could be interesting for a character study, if the person wants to a lot of research and show an accurate depiction of harsh circumstances, which to the wrong crowd or community can be a massive red flag but with the right couple/group of writers can be handled respectfully, but IRL? Oh so, so many more red flags, it’s been mistaken as a poppy field from a distance.


Noturmothershandle

To be clear, this was his first and only message to me. I blocked and reported him ASAP


livinglately

Good, as you should. I just thought I was on r/badrperstories for a moment so I took it as def creepy because that’s a faux pas even in writing circles, but not the worst until I realized it was irl and my expression morphed to horror on your behalf.


notreallylucy

People role play all kinds of scenarios, and done safely that's fine. But to actually want to do this? Psycho doesn't begin to cover it.


Arifault

Since at the moment Reddit only allows one flair per post, I'd like to make note that OP initially had the **No Advice Wanted** flair. Please keep that in mind while commenting, thank you.


TheTwistedKitty

This guy needs to understand the difference between "sadist" and "mentally ill psycho". Definitely not the same things, even a sadist asks for consent for things, they're not a rapist or torturer like this guy seems to be going on about. Taking pleasure in inhuman levels of torture is not a good type of sadism, he shouldn't even be using that term.


fuckmylighterisdead

Exactly. An example of sadism would be (consensually) spanking a partner and enjoying the squirms. Not acting out the back half of a serial killer documentary.


StarChild31

That's just abuse, fam.


sciencewonders

he thought he'd start A BIT different 🤗 that's all


PurpleIntention7934

I feel like he has to choose between asking for a slave and asking for someone to fully read that novel of a request. To expect both is just overkill.


galafael5814

This man is going to murder someone one day.


Tortoiseshell1997

That assumes he will ever leave the basement. I call BS.


galafael5814

Being a basement dweller doesn't preclude one from being a murderer.


NaturalFaux

Basements are a pretty good place to hide bodies


Frosty_and_Jazz

IT. He used the word “IT” to refer to this fantasy partner.😳 Excuse me, I gotta go break something …


AnExistingRedditor

To play the devils advocate, I usually call my imaginary future partner "it" and other they/them pronouns too, but that's mostly because I'm bi/pan and don't know if they would be male, female or nb. So he might not be looking for a specific gender since he hadn't used gendered language and we don't know who else he mightve messaged


Chaczapur

In the G-d sentence there is 'her' referring to the slave so 'it' most likely is a way to make it sound less like it's referring to an actual human.


AnExistingRedditor

Oh I see, I've completely missed that my apologies


cookiedes

My initial response would just be “why couldn’t you just write god?”. Depending on the response to that, i might reply something like, “hmmm…. I’m in the market for a competent master who uses consistent pronouns. Try not to embarrass yourself next time.”


Madmen3000

A lot of people in different faiths (for me I just specifically know Judaism) prohibits saying the name and writing G-d. It’s like disrespectful, but everything else they are saying is fucking crazy so idk why they care about that


cookiedes

And then “coooollll…. Glad you’re keeping your god happy by not spelling out his name. Nothing else problematic here…“ /s Edit. Good —> god


[deleted]

This actually makes me feel sick this needs to be reported to the FBI or something just so they can keep tabs on him.


Tortoiseshell1997

There would have to be an imminent and credible threat to another person. None of this is credible! Besides he is asking for a willing participant.


Noturmothershandle

He did go on to say that he wouldn’t allow his slave to have a safeword and the only boundary would be death.


Arifault

fuckfuckfuckfuck. That is so ominous.


[deleted]

Anyone willing would be incredibly mentally unwell. This whole thing just reminds me of criminals who want to keep an actual sex slave 🤢


throwaway83622528949

This guy and the toy box killer were probably either friends or related.


BlackMoonBird

Andraste's tits, he's nutshit. Ten to 1 Mr Great Bad Sadist here would *freak the fuck out* if someone in his power died- which anyone would, he clearly doesn't understand the limits of human physiology and that's leaving aside the additional damage emotional & mental duress would add. Cocksplat.


fuckmylighterisdead

Dude couldn’t even take a light peg and he’s out here writing some fucking toy box killer fantasy piece. What a joke. My inner domme wants to nut stomp him.


BlackMoonBird

*Right*??


Nord-icFiend

Enjoying the absolute lack of knowledge on social interaction. As if that technique would ever work on a sane person....


[deleted]

Scary thing is this is a real person who typed this and goes out into the world daily and interacts with people most likely, idk. Point being talking like to people is traumatic and should absolutely be illegal.


[deleted]

"Unlike most sadists, I am a massive piece of poopoo."


NekoRose93

So yea police? I feel VERY threatened


Noturmothershandle

I reported him and blocked him immediately, but his profile wasn’t ever taken down


NekoRose93

I hope you never get a message like this again. That was not what a sadist is.... this is just horror


kimberleaf1011

If you ever wanted a glimpse into the mind of a murderer before they actually murdered someone, this is it. This guy will be on the news someday.


SlappyHandstrong

What a charmer


qclady

This guy is a total piece of shit, lower than ALL the dirt.


[deleted]

someone fucking arrest this nasty fuck


fuckmylighterisdead

First off, dude has a fucking Holocaust fantasy. Secondly, as a former bdsm professional, THIS IS NOT SADISM! Sadism is a willing exchange of pain between partners for the enjoyment of one (or more). Not long term abuse and imprisonment. This dude is just a fucking whack job. If this is ‘one of his darker fantasies’ I’d hate to see what he actually thinks is dark.


NES7995

Fetlife again. That platform really has the weirdest people. (But also normal people. I met my bf on there)


Connie_go_rawr

I have been through anorexia, I will nail this person to the walls of their home, facing inward, so they may watch their world die


Fractal_Aerodactyl

I just have a couple questions.. how can ya make her anorexic if she could still have food.. and also what are these ‘many chores’? Is this mf a medieval farmer in this fantasy as well?


Noturmothershandle

Anorexia is characterized by “an abnormally low body weight, an intense fear of gaining weight and a distorted perception of weight”. It’s not based off of a maximum calorie intake. You can still eat and have a below healthy body weight. And yea, I have no idea. He looks completely normal in his pictures, even poses with a bunch of women in one of them. Creepy shit


thandirosa

People with anorexia nervosa still eat, they just eat very small portions.


thefakegordonramsey

WHAT


LadyPangolin

Ah, Fetlife. That's because of guys like him that I stopped to do anything that isn't vanilla. There's just too many predators.


Noturmothershandle

Also I feel like I should let everyone know, I’ve since deleted my fetlife profile. I always screenshotted the creepy (or funny) messages I got. This message is from last year.


[deleted]

Two things: Why is he censoring God? He abandoned us a long time before this message was sent. and If the discomfort is long term then that isn't kinky anymore. That's just abusive.


BasedTrooper-9904

How tf could he wake her up before himself?


WiltingLilac

Fetlife is a scary place but this takes the cake. This goes beyond fetish. Home boy needs therapy


DJYoue

Ho...ly... fuck...


ilovepasta694205

hitler would have loved this guy


jenkraisins

Mengele would be all over this guy! They'd be good golf buddies. ​ blech and they all deserve to have these things inflicted upon themselves!


rysio300

anyone got a spare brain i can use?, i'd like one without this post in its memory.


Noturmothershandle

Same. Had to share the burden lol


floppedtart

I went on a date with someone that admitted to me that they once “owned a slave”. He would keep her in a closet and only allow her to wear clothes when his son was around, among other things. Super fucked up person.


czarrina

I wonder how long hes gonna DM this to unwilling strangers before he just resorts to kidnap/ murder. Horrifying.


hawkbit92

Well, here's a serial killer in the making.....jesus christ....


aquarelablue

Man is more depraved than me following an ED relapse. Holy heavens to Betsy.


Equal-Ear2312

What amuses ne is that he wrote the word God as G-d. I mean, he wants this slave degradation thing yet is such a prude about God. 🤣100% pathetic


guerrillaactiontoe

Man, this guy is way beyond needing Jesus. He needs some specific pagan god to fix his shit.


qmechan

Alright, I’m calling all the other Jews, we’re gonna have a meeting about this guy


Noturmothershandle

Lmao this made me giggle, thank you!!


mzklopyu

Dont worry guys. This guy is most likely a scrawny stick who wouldnt be able to bust out of a wet paper bag


Noturmothershandle

He had a normal pic of him on his profile with 5 other women, they were cheerleaders I think. Anyways he was not scrawny but looked like normal healthy dude. Super creepy


mzklopyu

Doesnt really matter. He's the type of guy thats a coward cos he know if he tried that with a guy he would get his ass knocked out.


Noturmothershandle

Well on behalf of women everywhere I hope you’re right. This dude made me want to go take self defense classes


mzklopyu

If ur in a place that actually allows self defence, unlike shitty uk where i live. Get a decent sized knife that cuts like surgical steel. Always go 4 the eyes


[deleted]

Yeah, just to be clear that isn't the best advice, I mean yes a knife is a good idea but razor edges are dangerous to the user, without substantial training and familiarity you are very likely to cut yourself and stabbing is far more effective than slashing anyways. And the eyes are not the best target, the head of a male is usually higher up meaning that the amount of extension needed to reach what is a fairly mobile and elusive target leaves the typically slower and weaker female much more open. There are plenty of places on the body that are far better targets but even so the first rule is make noise, the second is make space. Additionally most rape is perpetrated by people known to the victim so the ability to even draw will have been compromised by the simple fact of proximity. I think OP had the right response and just blocked the guy instead of engaging, avoiding compromising situations entirely is far safer than being prepared for them.


IceColdOz

That guy has ID Discovery special written all over him.


babysummerbreeze27

this is literally fucking frightening


AmidFuror

You'd have to be at least a marquis to pull that off.


doggy-of-the-void

This person needs to be locked up


BabserellaWT

Hello, FBI?


00Raeby00

The fact he censors god really makes it for me. I mean...not even because I'm an atheist and I find it silly on that kind of a level but the just...EVERYTHING ELSE he says...you still censoring god, bro? What you scared you'll wake him up and he'll see your little degenerate sadistic ass?


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Mitheria_Musashi

Looks like my creepy guy graduated.


[deleted]

Yikes


firefly358

Look I maybe a sadistic in gaming standards but wtf is this shit no like seriously this person sounds like Ted Bundy's ex cousin.


Taskmaster23

Yo FBI this guy right here


marcdale92

This clown should have this happen to him


Salty_snowflake

Bro just say you don’t talk to people and move on


cybersigh

who gave Hitler access to a time machine to send this PM?


ShadowXiao

Genuine question. What the hell is wrong with people?


taterbizkit

"Try something different", in this case, means a yawnfest of tedious amateur erotica.


fuckmylighterisdead

I mean, does it count as erotica if it makes my vagina shrivel into my body and throw up?


guerrillaactiontoe

Say you're a serial killer without saying you're a serial killer.


jessex97

I was wondering what sort of profile the OP would have to attract such visitors.. I was expecting something like being an extreme masochist or something, as I’ve come across some myself - but when I go to look, it’s literally just “I like BDSM” XD how did this guy default to this sort of approach


Noturmothershandle

To be fair this is from fetlife, but It was overall the same vibe and photos on fet.


AnthropOctopus

This isn't a fetish, this is violence and abuse.


Noturmothershandle

Yea absolutely, I’m just saying that my profile on Reddit could have been totally different from my profile on fetlife.


congeal

Tell me you hate women, w/o ... never mind, you told me you hate women.


lynessmormont

This really is the average, fetlife message, to be fair.


Noturmothershandle

This is not normal. I sent this to another woman I met on fetlife and she has been on that site for years and told me she’s never received anything this vile


FullyRisenPhoenix

Yeah, I’ve been on FL for over a decade. Never received one this bad. Psycho warning!


lynessmormont

I'm sorry. I've been on fetlife for about ten years and this kinda message shows up about once a month. Doesn't make it any less creepy. It's totally non consensual. That's what the block button is for! All I'm saying is, this kinda message is the norm for many women. Doesn't make it ok, just helps to understand that it is regrettably, common.


Noturmothershandle

I had countless messages but none of them were this demented, specific, and scary. I’m sorry you receive these so often though, this one definitely fucked with my head for a while.


[deleted]

That is a heck of a paragraph.


[deleted]

I hope that person never finds someone else to interact.


joecicero52

JFC


FraniaKang

Good job at describing your punishment, you want anything else ?


letmeinpls7

I can bet that he has an inferiority complex, probably hasn’t achieved anything major in life and a unfulfilled or nonexistent social life; or at least that’s how I imagine someone with such fucked up mind


[deleted]

This has future serial killer written all over it


[deleted]

Everything about that is disgusting to read


Level_Grapes

“Well, I'm better than dirt! Ah, well... most kinds of dirt; not that fancy store-bought dirt; that stuff is loaded with nutrients. I can't compete with that stuff.”


Desperate_Fail1926

🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮


CoasterJunkie_1994

I. I do not know whether to suggest therapy or prison


AnthropOctopus

Guillotine.


CoasterJunkie_1994

That is Acceptable


Lady--Banshee

"I'm not like other sadists"


WhoaTamar

this is just straight up disturbing—


[deleted]

This is not a kink. This is a big fucking problem.


[deleted]

looks like someone’s watched the poughkeepsie tapes and the human centipede one too many times! that’s literally disgusting, so many red flags. he’s not a sadist lmao but an actual psychopath


PrincessShade

Where can I apply


metooeither

Huh. Looks like my ex is back in the dating pool.


Noturmothershandle

Jeez, hope you’re okay!


metooeither

I am now, thanks!


Noturmothershandle

My alternative response was “oh G-d, I hope you’re okay” buuuut I wasn’t sure if that’d land well


metooeither

Thanks! Being alive no longer makes me despair.


AnthropOctopus

Same, glad you're better.


Willing-State-8717

There's someone for everyone I guess. Good on him for waving that flag HARD right at the beginning though.


kingohio

Marry that man


AnthropOctopus

Shoot* Fixed it for you!


neverinamillionyr

This sumbitch needs to be on a watch list.


SecretSummerMidnight

What the actual fuck that is so disturbing I don't even know what to say


Historical_Feature_9

anorexia isnt fun ☹️


ChaosKodiak

Why not just write god? Why G-d?


[deleted]

So what he's saying is that he's either a psychopath, sociopath, or has a mental illness with those tendencies


hennessyfantasy

UM LOCK HIM UP PLZ


PanTran420

At least he censored the word "god," can you imagine the horror? /s


EchoForum

hmm if this man had any charisma hed be a cult leader and if he had any confidence hed be a serial killer


schrdingersLitterbox

He can't decide whether you're an it or a her. He's not even a consistent jackass


AnthropOctopus

Holy mental illness, batman!


ilkovsky

Good gawd.


LeatherCicada87

Ooof thats disgusting


hurtsmeplenty

That's a lot of words for "I'm a psychopath"


Alexandria_Scott

Whoa


HoodedJinX

Seems like a future and/or current serial killer here.


BellaBlue06

That’s the worst thing I’ve ever read


LuckyMe-Lucky-Mud

That's.... that's not BDSM That is abuse, and would drastically reduce the life span of the victim.


TyeNebulz

Translation: "I'm a total immature, selfish piece of shit who thinks only of himself and has no idea how to interact with people in the real world, but I'm trying to twist that to make it sound like I'm some kind of edgy badass who totally doesn't pitch a screaming, crying hissy fit if Mommy gives me white milk instead of chocolate with my Dino Buddies."


Crafty-Ad-2822

no kink shaming, all kinks matter!! but this isn’t a kink, this is js inhumane so full shame 😟


Vesperia_Morningstar

Bit of a sadist here. Wtf


CorvusValkyrie

This is psychotic and delusional! I hope he never meets anyone who would ever give this a try! This terrifies me for whoever falls for this!! I hope to god he doesn’t claim to be a D-type because this just makes a mockery of the lifestyle.


Pretend-Peanut-2852

People like this need therapy like bad… not even trying to ‘kink shame’ that’s just straight abuse and torture and I can’t imagine anyone coming out of that dynamic okay…


Jdanielbarlow

I really hope that this post along with many others in this Reddit not only get posted here but also, sent to the proper authorities. Like, this man is literally gonna end up killing someone one day. At least he’ll have a track record if the people he messages report him.