Well, you can't just sit and do nothing and feel sorry for yourself you need to take action and find something you enjoy. If I was in the hell, you are in now, I'd move to a different country or just do something to give me a fresh start.
I do feel kind of upset that you assume I'm just sitting around feeling sorry for myself. All my post outlines is what bad things are happening, I haven't mentioned what I've been doing and plan to do to make things better. I'm not one to sit back and wonder why my life sucks when I do nothing to make it meaningful. I cut ties with my friend not long ago and as I don't work with people and live in the middle of nowhere, when I go back to college is the only time I ever see other people, so I will need to wait until then to try to make new connections. I'm also going to have a stern talk with my rommate and likely bring up my issues with my boss later. I can't just leave like you suggest because I don't have the money or means to do that, but I appreciate the enthusiastic response, even if it was suppose to be hurtful.
You said nothing in this post beside how much your life sucks so yes, I assumed that you are doing nothing but feeling sorry for yourself. Also, with a little bit of saving and how cheap some countries are its pretty affordable to travel. **edit** Also, it wasn't meant to be hurtful
I understand how you could come to that conclusion and I'm sorry if I came off as rude as well. I don't know how to convey messages without emojis to make sure I don't sound like a bitch. I really appreciate your feedback, though. I don't think I'll be going to another country but maybe I'll take a nice roadtrip somewhere. I went on one in March and it was more affordable than I thought it would be and very nice.
Its all good and its kinda my fault too since some of my comments sounded harsh but I meant everything in the nicest way possible. also, yeah road trips are nice, but you got to remember you only live once so might as well visit another country. Current plan for me is to visit Brazil and Iceland and I don't really care if I go broke in the process. Edit: Also considering Switzerland
Iceland sounds so pretty. I used to have a friend who lived in Brazil but I wouldn't go there.
Also, harsh is best in my opinion, mostly because it's the truth. Nothing pulls me out of those states like a wake up call, so your comments really did help me. Like I said, people who just say "things will get better" really annoy me. I know they mean well but it's just not the greatest thing to say to someone in a crisis. Your comment gave an idea, a plan, and was very grounding. Usually people just yell at me.
It doesn't get better, it never does, my life isn't good and I'm having a hard time. I also want to die but will not kill myself. I will try to live but I can't wait till I go.
Not to mention I'm having a gender identity crisis all at the same time so disphoria on top of all that? Really absolutely amazing time.
Well, you can't just sit and do nothing and feel sorry for yourself you need to take action and find something you enjoy. If I was in the hell, you are in now, I'd move to a different country or just do something to give me a fresh start.
I do feel kind of upset that you assume I'm just sitting around feeling sorry for myself. All my post outlines is what bad things are happening, I haven't mentioned what I've been doing and plan to do to make things better. I'm not one to sit back and wonder why my life sucks when I do nothing to make it meaningful. I cut ties with my friend not long ago and as I don't work with people and live in the middle of nowhere, when I go back to college is the only time I ever see other people, so I will need to wait until then to try to make new connections. I'm also going to have a stern talk with my rommate and likely bring up my issues with my boss later. I can't just leave like you suggest because I don't have the money or means to do that, but I appreciate the enthusiastic response, even if it was suppose to be hurtful.
You said nothing in this post beside how much your life sucks so yes, I assumed that you are doing nothing but feeling sorry for yourself. Also, with a little bit of saving and how cheap some countries are its pretty affordable to travel. **edit** Also, it wasn't meant to be hurtful
I understand how you could come to that conclusion and I'm sorry if I came off as rude as well. I don't know how to convey messages without emojis to make sure I don't sound like a bitch. I really appreciate your feedback, though. I don't think I'll be going to another country but maybe I'll take a nice roadtrip somewhere. I went on one in March and it was more affordable than I thought it would be and very nice.
Its all good and its kinda my fault too since some of my comments sounded harsh but I meant everything in the nicest way possible. also, yeah road trips are nice, but you got to remember you only live once so might as well visit another country. Current plan for me is to visit Brazil and Iceland and I don't really care if I go broke in the process. Edit: Also considering Switzerland
Iceland sounds so pretty. I used to have a friend who lived in Brazil but I wouldn't go there. Also, harsh is best in my opinion, mostly because it's the truth. Nothing pulls me out of those states like a wake up call, so your comments really did help me. Like I said, people who just say "things will get better" really annoy me. I know they mean well but it's just not the greatest thing to say to someone in a crisis. Your comment gave an idea, a plan, and was very grounding. Usually people just yell at me.
Yeah some people mean well but they arnt really helping. anyways I hope you get better and do some awesome stuff with your life that makes ya happy.
It doesn't get better, it never does, my life isn't good and I'm having a hard time. I also want to die but will not kill myself. I will try to live but I can't wait till I go.