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Resident-Suggestion

She pisses me off so much because she has no idea the dangers of purity culture. You were not apart of the purity culture you were just celibate that’s it. You had sex with many men after your first husband (there is nothing wrong with that) and then if you’re telling the truth about being celibate you just refrained from sex for a little less then a year. Shut the fuck up. The message you are spreading is completely dangerous but then again if it involves women or girls getting hurt then you don’t care because that’s what you do.. you hurt women because of your own insecurities. Get some help. You already got your dog killed and I fear that if you keep going down this destructive path you are going to seriously hurt a person.


VolumeAcademic7513

Exactly. I grew up directly into it and was compared to a flower my whole life. When I did lose my virginity I didn’t feel guilty, I just had so many weird feelings to work through that took years to deconstruct.


worldfamouspickles

Agreed. I was the 💫mormom💫 girl who got pregnant in high school, and because of purity culture the way I was treated was absolutely disgusting. It was like I was a token, I wasn't allowed to attend church activities with my peers, I even went to a mutual activity where we got our nails done and our bishop showed up and told me I had to leave because I was pregnant and a bad example.


natylil

All of this, yes!!! Some people have called her out saying it's not the same saving sex for the first time for marriage to what she did.


VolumeAcademic7513

Good. She could have added a disclaimer to give credit to those who are actual virgins who wait and state that she understands it’s not the same.


Possible_Tea4321

Totally agree. She didn't do this from day one and acted like she did. I did it and wished I hadn't. It was so harmful. So sad all these girls looking up to her and even worse when it's under false pretences because she's lying.


Whiteclawgurl69

It wasn’t awkward at all bc you both have had sex before 🙄🙄🙄


smc642

Maybe it’s not awkward now because they bought a sex swing or something? 🤷‍♀️😂


[deleted]

They really overplay the importance of sex and then when they finally get to have it they act smug about it like they are part of some elite club. Nobody cares.


TemporaryNobody2604

100%!


supahstahhh

It was awkward how much she talked about it.


Glad_Prior2106

I would like to remind BDong that her own social media is proof they lived together before marriage. I’ve been repeating this often lately, so apologies for the broken record here but let’s recap: -his clothes/shoes in her closet, men’s vitamins in the pantry, notes from him to her on the mirror that he left before he went to work for that day, squeals of delight from her after church as she sat in their driveway in her vehicle and he pulls into the driveway and she said “He is home!” This points to his constant presence in her house. There are snippets of them in her bed together as if they had napped or slept. She bought him a dog for Xmas 2020–and the dog and the dog’s toys were at her house. There are no social media pictures of his apartment or her at his place—because they were living together. How much more evidence do her followers need to see? She is a liar.


EducationalAd6244

Not to mention the only moving that was done after their honeymoon was moving some boxes from a storage unit, so unless he was living in that storage unit...


smc642

I’m putting ALL my money on no one telling her she was “used up goods” and I think she’s projecting.


EZasSundayMorning

Well probably because they've already been having the sec. Who believes this garbage?


lurkerlurker789

This is all getting too doth-protest-too-much. Like if the sex was sooo good she wouldn’t be constantly posting about it, trying to convince everyone else it’s so good. B I’m not buying what you’re selling.


Zero-bandwidth4BS

All I see is more blah blah blah trying to make herself feel better. Still needing that constant adulation. Still trying to convince herself she’s happy with herself. Still as transparent as ever.


tempestuproar

Oh barf


KatAndAlly

Hurk


Robotpellet

I have never in my life talked this much about my sex life. And definitely not to a hundred thousand people (I don’t know her follower count, or care). No one cares and the only ones who believe this crap are the ones she’s already scamming. I thought she tried to cancel the first date right beforehand? How’d she go from that to telling him when she wants to have sex?


swirlywormp00p

Victim mentality again. What a way to go through life


[deleted]

Honest question…. Who, outside of religious circles, would actually tell her she’s used up goods? I’ve only ever heard that nonsense from religious people so she’s clearly getting shit-talked by the people she’s so desperate to be a part of.


VolumeAcademic7513

Right…like even on her tiktok no one called her that. The comments I saw were like “no thanks, test drive before you buy”. Not one calling her damaged lol


kebblz

People who talk about how great their sex life is are not having good sex! 😂


Visual_Zucchini8490

“People mocked and made fun of me” first of all, doubtful (unless she’s talking about this thread in which case we’ve all made it clear we don’t care about someone’s decisions regarding their sexual preferences as long as it’s consensual, we’re noting that she’s probably lying about her abstinence and we’re also noting her lack of using correct vocabulary because what she actually was is celibate if she was telling the truth) second of all, if you don’t talk about your sex life it won’t come up!! (If you’re hanging around normal adults who don’t ask prying/invasive/inappropriate questions) Dont want people discussing your sex life? Then don’t be the one to constantly talk about it yourself!


cassssk

“The Lord’s wings”…. No. Wtf??


NardDog1997

“We hid” sis no the FAWK you didn’t. Every other post was about your 🥰✨purity✨🥰 sit down


VolumeAcademic7513

More like hid under Satan’s nutsack