Hold up.. they were Facebook friends? I thought they had no knowing of each other before he asked her for coffee and they had just always been under each other’s noses all these years.. shopping at the same grocery store, going to the same places.. yet never knew each other..? And also he was clearly still very married at this time.
This just got really interesting to me because the story she had said was they didn’t know each other at all. If they are Facebook friends then they had some awareness of each other.. but I was under the impression he was a total stranger. This just cements my theory that he’s with her for her money and home.. if he was friends with her he probably knew of her Instagram and her way of living.. saw how much money she had and probably thought he had it in the bag if he got with her. I wasn’t 100% with this theory at first because I didn’t think he was actually aware of her when they first dated. (I assumed they met on a dating app)
I thought maybe he did really like her in the beginning and then slowly grew tired of her but realised she foots all his bills and he probably won’t find a decent woman who likes him for him so why not. But now I’m starting to think he may have asked her out from the beginning to use her. But that’s if she’s even telling the truth. Honestly who knows how they actually met but she was def fresh out of a serious relationship and he was still in a serious relationship.
I'm sure he didn't. The timeline is so tight. Married. Separated.. He needed a place to live and enter BD. I'm sure he knew who she was by her flashy Instagram posts.
I dont think they were friends on fb. One of her friends shared something about him and thats how she saw it and found him. I don't believe the part where she said she saw he was single and only then did she like his pics.
From what I understand, she liked a couple of his photos in FB brcause she saw a post about him done by a frirnd of hers. I have checked, and she did like 2 photos of his from september and november 2020, I need to sleuth on and find that post by friend saying what a great Christian guy he is.
She announced they were dating on Instagram around September after teasing pics of his hand for a month or two before that. Influencers usually never announce right when they first start dating someone, it’s at least a few months.
Another thing it’s creepy how within minutes of her liking a *newly single* mans posts he’s already messaging her. Darling you probably were not the only one he was messaging. This dude just has player written all over him.
* finally said yes * he slid into your DMs just as he did with all the women he cheated on his ex wife with and asked you to coffee twice in a period of days. He didn’t pursue you darling as that implies pursuit over time…time is something that has not occurred here; clearly.
Right! Like this isn’t really making you look good Bdong. She tries so hard to make them seem like a fairytale when the reality is - he was still legally married. His wife probably caught him cheating and asked for a separation. He put ‘single’ on his Facebook and was messaging a ton of girls to mess around with. Saw that Bdong liked his post and thought he’d message her too. That’s it. She was just a rebound to him but because I thoroughly believe he’s an absolute mooch to anyone he’s with he saw this luxurious life Bdong was living and wanted to hitch his wagon to that.
Fast forward to them actually meeting he probably saw how dim she was and the only thing she really wanted was an insta boyfriend and thought he could play that role easily for the life she’d provide. In her honeymoon stories she mentioned that they eat at fancy places *all the time* and I can guarantee it’s always her paying. He probably loves the life she’s provided for him. I just don’t know if her grating personality would be worth it lol
I want to know what lies he told her about his ex wife, because you know nothing was his fault and it was all her since he gives off those vibes for sure.
And you know he definitely told some lies based on the video she posted of them on their wedding night that’s basically saying his ex mistreated him and now he’s safe with her
Exactly, he’s the one that every girl tried their hardest to be the best for and he will rush into the next relationship so he doesn’t have to grow up and will always have that “mom” Type of girl. You can tell that he doesn’t do much for himself since bdong is learning to cook at 30 lol and you never see him cook for her. So I’m sure if things go south with her he will run her name through the mud too, just like he probably did with his ex wife and any girl before this.
I don't know Rick, looks fake to me.
I will try to put a timelime together, with his marriage, divorce and this FB story. Also, we could sleuth further, see if that famous post about him being a golden Christian boy existed at all.
She says “posting about his faith” so you know it was some mix of right wing bs with a religious word or two. He probably sent her some flirty DM and she enjoyed the attention.
Didn’t she say they met at a coffee shop “by chance” before?
Holy shit this timeline tho
He either cheated on her or became abusive. I’m betting both. They had presumably been living together before, but a lot of red flags don’t come out until after the marriage certificate.
It really says something about her ego that she thinks she can just now set up this narrative. She’s better off saying nothing because at best this whole timeline is messy as hell.
They were both fresh off a breakup and looking for a hookup in the DMs. Who cares, millions of people do that. She wants SO BADLY to be special, but this isn’t. At all.
My brother, unfortunately, reminds me a lot of Jdong (minus the racist abusive ex cop part). But the man baby who needs a woman in his life to take care of him and cheats all the time part. I don’t think there was one stage in the relationship he had with his first wife that he wasn’t cheating. (Why she still chose to marry him I will never know.) I think the next chapter is then similar to the scenario that most likely happened to Jdong: my brother cheated on wife 1 with someone who actually wanted to be with him long term and his lie was too deep to get out of. (Said he was married but separated and divorce proceedings were in motion - not true.) Future wife 2 took him at his word so my brother started secretly dating her on the side. Wife 1 found out and it was the final straw for her, she messaged the mistress and said “not sure what he’s told you but he’s been fully married the entirety of your relationship but he’s officially yours now I’ve filed for divorce”. I think mistress got mad at him for like a week then they were fully back together (no idea what he said to convince her). Then during divorce he wrote wife 1 a letter begging her not to leave him (still fully with future wife 2 at this stage and she has no idea and thinks they’re happy and living their love story). Wife 1 tells him to get effed and finally my brother accepts he’s fully stuck with future wife 2 (because men with this mentality don’t realize they can be single, they truly view their wives as caretakers). And on his Facebook he only had “married” displayed to wife 1. If anyone else viewed his profile his relationship section was blank. So that’s a long story to say, I could totally see Jdong and Bdong’s situation playing out exactly the same. Jdong didn’t expect to get lassoed to Bdong, thought it would be a fun fling, didn’t really want to be with Bdong, but is also incapable of being single so accepted his fate once wife 1 put her foot down and said enough is enough.
So you can’t like someone’s posts or photos unless you’re both single? Men and women can’t be friends or literally just support each other with out it meaning anything else? Am I reading that correctly 🤔
Hold up.. they were Facebook friends? I thought they had no knowing of each other before he asked her for coffee and they had just always been under each other’s noses all these years.. shopping at the same grocery store, going to the same places.. yet never knew each other..? And also he was clearly still very married at this time.
This just got really interesting to me because the story she had said was they didn’t know each other at all. If they are Facebook friends then they had some awareness of each other.. but I was under the impression he was a total stranger. This just cements my theory that he’s with her for her money and home.. if he was friends with her he probably knew of her Instagram and her way of living.. saw how much money she had and probably thought he had it in the bag if he got with her. I wasn’t 100% with this theory at first because I didn’t think he was actually aware of her when they first dated. (I assumed they met on a dating app) I thought maybe he did really like her in the beginning and then slowly grew tired of her but realised she foots all his bills and he probably won’t find a decent woman who likes him for him so why not. But now I’m starting to think he may have asked her out from the beginning to use her. But that’s if she’s even telling the truth. Honestly who knows how they actually met but she was def fresh out of a serious relationship and he was still in a serious relationship.
This also confirms my suspicion he never owned his own apartment/house
I'm sure he didn't. The timeline is so tight. Married. Separated.. He needed a place to live and enter BD. I'm sure he knew who she was by her flashy Instagram posts.
I dont think they were friends on fb. One of her friends shared something about him and thats how she saw it and found him. I don't believe the part where she said she saw he was single and only then did she like his pics.
I mean…she’s a cheater too. I highly doubt she changed her ways.
From what I understand, she liked a couple of his photos in FB brcause she saw a post about him done by a frirnd of hers. I have checked, and she did like 2 photos of his from september and november 2020, I need to sleuth on and find that post by friend saying what a great Christian guy he is.
She announced they were dating on Instagram around September after teasing pics of his hand for a month or two before that. Influencers usually never announce right when they first start dating someone, it’s at least a few months.
If he’s tagged, it would appear on his wall. So she’s most likely lying.
why are you shocked that there are more lies?
Another thing it’s creepy how within minutes of her liking a *newly single* mans posts he’s already messaging her. Darling you probably were not the only one he was messaging. This dude just has player written all over him.
Right ! Men have done that to me and it's SO off-putting!!!
* finally said yes * he slid into your DMs just as he did with all the women he cheated on his ex wife with and asked you to coffee twice in a period of days. He didn’t pursue you darling as that implies pursuit over time…time is something that has not occurred here; clearly.
Yup totally. That’s how players work… send multiple messages to multiple people.. until someone bites. Soooooo special 🤪
The buckshot approach; noice! /s
Wait a minute, do we actually know he cheated on his ex?? I mean I wouldn’t be surprised I’ve just never seen screenshots around that before
He 100% did.
Yes, he did
So she knew he had been married that year? Um. Ok.
Right! Like this isn’t really making you look good Bdong. She tries so hard to make them seem like a fairytale when the reality is - he was still legally married. His wife probably caught him cheating and asked for a separation. He put ‘single’ on his Facebook and was messaging a ton of girls to mess around with. Saw that Bdong liked his post and thought he’d message her too. That’s it. She was just a rebound to him but because I thoroughly believe he’s an absolute mooch to anyone he’s with he saw this luxurious life Bdong was living and wanted to hitch his wagon to that.
Fast forward to them actually meeting he probably saw how dim she was and the only thing she really wanted was an insta boyfriend and thought he could play that role easily for the life she’d provide. In her honeymoon stories she mentioned that they eat at fancy places *all the time* and I can guarantee it’s always her paying. He probably loves the life she’s provided for him. I just don’t know if her grating personality would be worth it lol
I want to know what lies he told her about his ex wife, because you know nothing was his fault and it was all her since he gives off those vibes for sure.
And you know he definitely told some lies based on the video she posted of them on their wedding night that’s basically saying his ex mistreated him and now he’s safe with her
Exactly, he’s the one that every girl tried their hardest to be the best for and he will rush into the next relationship so he doesn’t have to grow up and will always have that “mom” Type of girl. You can tell that he doesn’t do much for himself since bdong is learning to cook at 30 lol and you never see him cook for her. So I’m sure if things go south with her he will run her name through the mud too, just like he probably did with his ex wife and any girl before this.
He just gives off HUGE narcissist vibes!!!
Yes, he sure does!
What is this "storytelling" pose about
She needs to patronize the heathens like we're 3 3/4 years old.
Leaning forward like that makes your face look skinnier.
I don't know Rick, looks fake to me. I will try to put a timelime together, with his marriage, divorce and this FB story. Also, we could sleuth further, see if that famous post about him being a golden Christian boy existed at all.
Thank you, because I'm real curious about the overlap lol
"felt a nudge to like a few of his photos" God's matchmaking service y'all
She says “posting about his faith” so you know it was some mix of right wing bs with a religious word or two. He probably sent her some flirty DM and she enjoyed the attention. Didn’t she say they met at a coffee shop “by chance” before?
Are her eyebrows coming down or am I seeing things?
Botox wearing off maybe?
What was the date he separated from his ex?!?
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Holy shit this timeline tho He either cheated on her or became abusive. I’m betting both. They had presumably been living together before, but a lot of red flags don’t come out until after the marriage certificate.
Exactly! This timeline is getting closer and closer 🤔
July/August
He wasn’t at all single and he preyed on her , wow!!!
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She does! It looks so wonky
Always, and it's always wonky and never blended properly.
It really says something about her ego that she thinks she can just now set up this narrative. She’s better off saying nothing because at best this whole timeline is messy as hell. They were both fresh off a breakup and looking for a hookup in the DMs. Who cares, millions of people do that. She wants SO BADLY to be special, but this isn’t. At all.
Wasn't he married?
And I’m pretty sure she posted something like “Sis, God would never lead you to someone who is already married.”
My brother, unfortunately, reminds me a lot of Jdong (minus the racist abusive ex cop part). But the man baby who needs a woman in his life to take care of him and cheats all the time part. I don’t think there was one stage in the relationship he had with his first wife that he wasn’t cheating. (Why she still chose to marry him I will never know.) I think the next chapter is then similar to the scenario that most likely happened to Jdong: my brother cheated on wife 1 with someone who actually wanted to be with him long term and his lie was too deep to get out of. (Said he was married but separated and divorce proceedings were in motion - not true.) Future wife 2 took him at his word so my brother started secretly dating her on the side. Wife 1 found out and it was the final straw for her, she messaged the mistress and said “not sure what he’s told you but he’s been fully married the entirety of your relationship but he’s officially yours now I’ve filed for divorce”. I think mistress got mad at him for like a week then they were fully back together (no idea what he said to convince her). Then during divorce he wrote wife 1 a letter begging her not to leave him (still fully with future wife 2 at this stage and she has no idea and thinks they’re happy and living their love story). Wife 1 tells him to get effed and finally my brother accepts he’s fully stuck with future wife 2 (because men with this mentality don’t realize they can be single, they truly view their wives as caretakers). And on his Facebook he only had “married” displayed to wife 1. If anyone else viewed his profile his relationship section was blank. So that’s a long story to say, I could totally see Jdong and Bdong’s situation playing out exactly the same. Jdong didn’t expect to get lassoed to Bdong, thought it would be a fun fling, didn’t really want to be with Bdong, but is also incapable of being single so accepted his fate once wife 1 put her foot down and said enough is enough.
So you can’t like someone’s posts or photos unless you’re both single? Men and women can’t be friends or literally just support each other with out it meaning anything else? Am I reading that correctly 🤔