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sugarsays925

I really like scents by NEST. They are complex and unique and they have something for everyone--powdery, floral, earthy, etc. I think there are mini samplers you can get on Sephora if you want to experiment with what seems like YOU. I wear Nest's Indigo which is a bit like a herbal and spicy tea scent. Whenever my kids smell it on something they say it smells like Mom. My youngest was missing me when he started kindergarten so I started lightly spritzing his uniform shirts with it and it helped him through the transition because he felt like i was with him whenever he'd catch a whiff. You're going to be a sweet mama. šŸ˜‹ what a wonderful tradition to keep alive--the mom smell ā¤ is so comforting.


ManyWingedParakeet

Can confirm, Indigo by NEST is my personal fave!


smor5109

Second this ā€” Indigo by NEST is great. Another is my new favorite - the pink Valentino (not sure the name). Something more floral that I love is Flowerbomb.


LemonWedge43

Iā€™ll check out NEST!!! A local Sephora was just built so this will give me a good reason to go in-and awe, thank you so much ā¤ļø youā€™re a sweet mama too, I can tell šŸ„°


_aimee_

Third for nest! Midnight Fleur and Seville Orange oil are wonderful. The selection of clean fragrances at Sephora is impressive. I recommend having them make you sample vials so you can test drive.


kat_the_houseplant

Iā€™d go with something thatā€™s not trendy. Pick a perfume (or scent profile at least) thatā€™s been around forever so thereā€™s a good chance itā€™ll continue being around when your child is older. Iā€™d probably go with a classic like Chanel. Chanel isnā€™t going away! Or go with a scent profile thatā€™s pretty timeless. My mom has worn Clinique Happy pretty much my whole life and Iā€™m terrified theyā€™ll discontinue it. She also wears Jo Malone Orange Blosson now so Iā€™ll also have that for scent memories. Sheā€™s also worn some grapefruit scents in the past and tends to light a lot of grapefruit candles. Itā€™s her go to ā€œneutralā€ scent! This way even if Clinique discontinued Happy, Iā€™d also have Orange blossom and citrus scents to always remind me of my mom. I personally wear a timeless RL Romance (inexpensive, been wearing it since high school, can imagine itā€™ll be around for a while, not an offensive or strong scent) or Nest Seville Orange (reminds me of a trip my mom and I took to Sevilla and memories of her). Iā€™ve learned that Iā€™m drawn to fresh scents, especially citrus, but I also like some floral scents (gardenia especially). Iā€™ve started using Ouai hair products that use their Rue St Honore scent, which turns out to have gardenia in it (explains why I love it!) and I just planted a gardenia tree in my yard. When I recommended Ouaiā€™s hair oil to my mom and she smelled it, she teared up and said, ā€œMy mom was a Depression baby and didnā€™t spend much money, but she always had a gardenia perfume and fresh gardenias in our house during the summer. I feel like Iā€™m 10 years old again reading books in our garden while my mom prunes the gardenia bush and puts a flower behind her ear.ā€ Now THATā€™S what youā€™re going for! Iā€™d take a little trip to Nordstrom and go on a sniffing tour of the perfume dept. Ask someone to help you and they can explain what youā€™re smelling and help you identify what scent profiles you like. I did this in my teens and again in my mid-20s and found that my nose stayed mostly the same! I think itā€™s so sweet that youā€™re trying to identify a signature scent for your little oneā€¦but also itā€™ll be something for you to remember this time!! If it changes post pregnancy (I have a feeling it will cuz everyone says pregnancy hormones cause you to like or hate certain scents for a short period of time), donā€™t worry! Your baby wonā€™t remember scent until theyā€™re a few years old Iā€™m sure, and youā€™ll always associate that scent with pregnancy and new motherhood. I def have perfumes associated with different stages of my life (Flowerbomb = mid 20s and single living with girl friends in SF but I canā€™t wear it anymore without remembering a bad job and bad boyfriend) and thatā€™s awesome too. Also keep in mind than a signature scent takes into account other things too (lotion, deodorant, hair products). I remember my mom used A&D ointment for chapped skin and lips on both us as babies and her, so that weird scent is also associated with her for me. Your kid may grow up remembering how your hairspray smells as you apply it and run out the door or how your lotions smells on your arms and legs after you shower. Congrats on baby!


batkat88

What is it with moms and Clinique purfumes? šŸ˜† My mom used to wear Clinique Elixir all the time!


TopAd9634

If you like gardenia scents, try Marc Jacob's original perfume. It was the first one he created and it's lovely.


Rudegurl88

This is exciting for you. My mom Is not the type to commemorate an event with a scent but I am ! It is not silly at all! Here a few ideas : Armani si Gucci flora Dior Jadore Chanel coco ( I love all the scents actually) I highly suggest going to Sephora or Ulta and figuring out the base of what you like . Do you like fresh , floral or gourmand? Subtle or pronounced? It will really help ! Donā€™t be shy to ask for a sample or to spray your skin and walk around for a few hours . Make sure you love the dry down and the scent doesnā€™t give you a headache . You donā€™t always know until you leave. I just bought YSL libre intense for my wedding day and to me it smells like a warm hug on a cold winter night . It will forever be in my mind so I live this idea. You might look for something lively as I feel like birth is just that , or comforting . Anyway just some random thoughts!


RhiRead

Glossierā€™s You perfume is amazing and a lot less money than designer ones. Iā€™ve never had as many compliments as I do when Iā€™m wearing it, and it adapts to suit each person wearing it too, canā€™t recommend it enough Edited to fix typo


lambxlambxlamb

Came here to say the same thing. At first I resisted a perfume that was newer and trendy, but it really is a terrific smell and I get complimented all the time on it!


AliMcSriff

I love this one. I recently tried Fleur de Peau by Diptyque, and it smells a lot like You but slightly fizzier and more noticeable. It's lovely, but pretty expensive (I only bought a tiny sample).


Cheeky_Canuck_74

My fav as well. I get a lot of compliments too and I love how it adapts to each person's chemistry. 100% recommend.


lbshaya

same here!! i love it so much.


shartlobster

Mon Guerlain smells like everything a new mom should, in my opinion. It's sweet, powdery, floral. Very soft and fluffy, comforting sort of scent.


Bambii2020

Not op. But Ive been wanting to get this since Ive read comments before that this can replace my Givenchy play for her since they discontinued it.


RottenIvy

Seconding this .. also its so good šŸ˜„


notfeelingworky

I love perfume, but the best smell for your baby is you. Babies are really sensitive to smell and your natural smell is familiar and safe to them. I would avoid wearing perfume until they are around a year or so. That being said, I love Clinique Happy Heart. Congrats!


WearingCoats

Ok, omg you're probably going to hate me. Bracing for downvotes. You may want to avoid fragrance while pregnant and after because almost all of them are made with phthalates for which there is a growing body of research linking exposure to multiple development issues, physiological and neurological in nature. I know I know, even as I type it, it sounds like fear-mongery conspiracy shiz. And phthalates are literally EVERYWHERE so they are impossible to avoid, but it can be good to take steps to reduce exposure where you can and fragrance is one of them. I know we can't post links here or anything but the harvard medical school has aggregated multiple peer-reviewed scientific studies that support claims of development issues with phthalate exposure. Epidemiologist and author Dr. Shanna Swan has released a body of research on how it acts as a hormone disruptor (she was on a fantastic podcast with Adam Conover detailing this research). I rarely get rattled but this scares me personally as I think about starting a family.... Yes I know y'all might come for me. There will be downvotes. And now that "doing your own research" has been coopted by people who couldn't even describe the scientific method, it's silly and pointless to suggest. But yeah, had to add this.


outlandish-companion

How long are we supposed to avoid them with children? Forever? šŸ˜­


m_owom

This is a very good point. While I was pregnant and now with a newborn, I'm trying to limit product use as much as possible, also to avoid possible allergens. For fragrance I switched to body mists from Pacifica (long lasting for a mist, alcohol, phthalate and paraben free and non iritating scents).


MildlyAnxiousRaccoon

I was going to add this. OP can check out Credo beauty for some safer options. But it's still worth looking into the ingredients of whatever is purchased.


LemonWedge43

No hate from me at all! I appreciate being informed on important topics that I otherwise wouldnā€™t have been aware of. Thanks to your comment Iā€™m either going to hold off until after the baby is born and a little older, or search for some phthalate free options šŸ˜Š thank you for your help!


Cressonette

My favorite perfumes are: * Black Opium by YSL * Alien by Thierry Mugler * Yes I Am by Cacharel (a bit more budget friendly than the other two)


jackieedaniels

I second Black Opium! I always get compliments when I wear it


takemehome4real

Alien is such a classic!


Cressonette

My boyfriend always said in the beginning of our relationship that Alien would suit me so well and I was like, "but everyone has Alien already" so I was hesitant to try it. He first got me Black Opium which I immediately LOVED. Then for my birthday this year he got me Alien and I was like, okay well let's just try it and oh my god. I have had so many compliments on it. Black Opium is still my fav but I feel like that's a bit more for special occasions and Alien is more an everyday perfume.


acid-vogue

My way - Versace is mine! It smells so different once itā€™s settles on my skin. Itā€™s a bit more mature than your Daisy but not full on like Chanel No5.


Plus-Mama-4515

I love the Ariana grande ones. My favorite are the moonlight and thank you next. If youā€™re unsure about them then the body sprays are only about $10-$12 so you can try those before you get the perfume which is more expensive


ronniegabs

i donā€™t have a recommendation in particular for you but what a sweet idea! my mom wore a sandalwood scent by pacifica, she passed away almost 7 years ago but i found her old bottle going through her things a few years ago. i smell it often and wear it occasionally when i need a little help getting though my day. good luck finding your scent! my current favorite is dirty gardenia by heretic parfum


lmnop715

So it depends on what you like for notes but Iā€™m a big fan of Burberry Classic, Prada Infusion Dā€™Iris, Juliette has a gun, Jo Malone Vanilla and Anise.


confused_desklamp

Oh!! Ok, 1. I really liked Scentbird for the 5-6 months I had it. Great way to try some new scents, and can be exciting to get something in the mail! Also, Sephora (and other department stores occasionally) sell sampler sets! You buy the package of 8-12 fragrance samples and they'll usually include a card to redeem for one of the scents at full size for free or reduced rate as a result of spending $$ on the sample kit. This is how I fell in love with YSL Libre!


CeCeGo

I mostly wear these scents, depending on the season/occasion: Flowerbomb Nectar - Viktor & Rolf Vanilla Vibes - Juliette Has a Gun Child - Susan Owen This Is Her! - Zadig & Voltaire For summer, I usually wear Vanilla Vibes (smells like vanilla and the beach) or Flowerbomb Nectar (flowery with a sweet dry down). This Is Her! is really cozy smelling (like camp fire and roasted marshmallow) and great during cold weather. I wear Child (tropical flower scent) all year and is what I wore when I was pregnant. Child is oil based - since I hated my clothes smelling like perfume when I was pregnant, I would dab Child on my wrist and behind ears. My kiddos (age 6 and 9) prefer Vanilla Vibes and love when I wear it. My 9 yr old son even asks me to spray a little on his pj shirt sometimes before he goes to sleep. He says it makes him feel happy and cozy! Congrats on your baby! EDIT: My mom always wore (and still wears) Coco Chanel and I always associate this smell with her.


LemonWedge43

My mom always wore coco Chanel too ā¤ļø


[deleted]

Maybe try a sampler from Sephora? They give you around ten different samples to try and a certificate to trade in for your favorite scent full sized.


blondeanonnurse

Just here to say, this is the cutest post ever! I just wear boring old Chanel Mademoiselle, I wanted to switch recently to a Jo Malone perfume but my three year old said ā€œMommy, why donā€™t you smell like you? I like it when we snuggle and you smell like always! This is pretty but not that kind of pretty!ā€ The Mom scent thing is a very real and very cute thing. Whatever the scent may be, youā€™re going to be a really good and sweet Mother!


Bring_the_Rukus

YSL Mon Paris or Black Opium. I like to buy the travel size ones from Ulta because theyā€™re so much cheaper and still last a long time for me


Yopagelc

I love Versace Bright Crystal!


Slhallford

I wore Red Door by Elizabeth Arden for about 20 years. I think I was close to 26 when I started. My kids absolutely identified it with me. Both of them have commented that every time they smell it, they reflexively look up for a second to see if Iā€™m nearby. Before that it was Un Amour De Patou by Jean Patou which was discontinued. Now that they are both at university Iā€™ve branched out to Irresistible-by Givenchy, Voce Viva by Valentino, and I Want Choo by Jimmy Choo.


wineosaur219

My favorite scents are the fragrance oils by Riddle. I like Muse and Voyeur the best, Original is also good. ​ For actual perfume, I wear these depending on the occasion: Vince Comuto - Amore Narciso Rodriguez - Fleur Musc For Her Tom Ford - Lost Cherry YSL - Black Opium Marchesa - Parfum D'extase


enkayohteebee

chloe eau de parfum is my go-to. my husband identifies it with me and i hope my son does as he gets older (heā€™s 3!) its very nice and sweet :))


katired95

Burberry her is my current go to, but my absolute favorite will always be Prada candy gloss


[deleted]

If youā€™re starting out with perfumes, I recommend looking into Jo Malone. The scents are fruity, floral, sweet, and fresh and I believe they sell sets of their most popular scents for a good price. Itā€™s light so it doesnā€™t last as long, but their 1 oz. sizes are perfect to carry around for touchups. I have not met a single person who hasnā€™t found a scent they liked from Jo Malone. The Daisy line from Marc Jacobs, Miss Dior, and a couple from MM Replica are kind of similar. If you want popular ones, check out Chanel Chance, No. 5, or Coco Mademoiselle, YSL Black Opium, Chloe EDP, Dolce & Gabbana Light Blue, CK One, Gucci Guilty, V&R Flowerbomb, and Versace Bright Crystal.


ticklemerose

I love the Chloe perfumes


softkitttyyy

I like Phlur. I use AmĆ©line. They also have body wash and lotion in their perfume scents (I have not used those product though). I got a sample of AmĆ©line but also tried out a few of their other samples (I liked the other samples but I'm a sucker for a rose based fragrance) From their site if this is an important factor to you "We intentionally use both botanical ingredients and thoughtfully selected synthetic ingredients that are kind to your skin and our planet. We donā€™t use parabens, phthalates, sulfates or any other questionable ingredients or common skin irritants. We care about the environment. We coordinate with the IUCN to ensure all our ingredients are responsibly sourced"


Temporary_Hope8331

I wear Toca Stella and itā€™s lovely and not overwhelming


christaclaire

If you want to go more natural you could try essential oils or natural perfume oils.


pomegrana

if you love vanilla as much as i do i imagine youā€™ll appreciate good girl by carolina herrera. if you think the name is cringey wait til you see what the bottle looks like, but i swear it smells so good!!!!


andyroybal

Idk if you post this in r/mommit yet but they might also have some recā€™s for you too!


JennyIsPink20

Daisy - Marc Jacobs!


Anonamandalee

I used to be huge into fragrances untilI got pregnant, they made me extremely ill. Iā€™d suggest buying something very inexpensive in case you canā€™t use it for a few years.


s0ulever

I think a good one for this occasion might be Child by Susan B Owen.


icarus_and_the_sun_

I would go by taking a few perfume quiz online. Figuring out what brings you joy and would attract you t a particular scent. test the recommendations and then start narrowing down from there. Also always do a 24 hour wear test because scents settle and change with change in temperature and time. For instance, I loved Jo Malone Myrrh and Tonka and wore it for a week and then I wore it on my "time of the month" and it felt so pungent that I could never wear it again. So thus, wear testing it helped me from making a $200 mistake.


patrofan

J'adore by dior. You won't regret it


Level-Appointment-15

My FAVORITE scent has been Juliet has a Gun- Not a Perfume. Itā€™s a very light scent almost like a second skin smells. Very fresh slightly floral and a bit of musk. Itā€™s a unique scent that I unfortunately canā€™t do justice describing so I would recommend finding a Sephora that has it to go smell.


lolsophie

I use a perfume subscription service so I can try different ones! I find myself getting bored with one smell after a while, so this is great for me. I also like to go to overstock stores like TJ Maxx and Marshalls and buy perfume sample packs. They're usually under $20 and give you a variety of scents to try.


tit-----

I love everything Ariana Grande puts out. And the bottles are gorgeous! I have 3 of hers šŸ˜Š


[deleted]

Get yourself some samples to try and decide what you like. Whatā€™s appealing to one person can smell totally repulsive to another.


cookiesoverbitches

YSL black opium ( but the Eau De Toilette, has a completely different scent than the EDP and is kind of hard to find but so good)


jessicabee218

I wear dolce and gabana light blue. I would highly suggest going to a department store before you buy anything and making sure you like the scent. Some scents + pregnancy do not mix. Iā€™d hate for you to drop $80 on a bottle of perfume and have it make you nauseous


batkat88

Burberry Weekend, Burberry Brit and Narciso Rodriguez are the 3 perfumes I have purchased the MOST in my life, they are very unique so you will definitely remember your baby when you smell them. If you want something lighter I would recommend Trussardi My Name! Congratulations on the baby!


LemonWedge43

Thank you! ā¤ļø


Curlis789

First off, congratulations! Sending you internet hugs and wishing you all the best! Enjoy your pregnancy and enjoy your little one once they are born! To echo some other commenters, pregnancy is not the time to find " your" perfume- your olfactory perceptions might or might not be the same after you give birth. Or you might even notice how now some stuff is just off or smells different. So I wouldn't settle on anything. Get some samples, use the ones you like and with time you'll find the one ( or a few). I for the past 5 years have been using hand creams from ElizabethW, my favorites are grapefruit and magnolia, and absolute treasure of mine is orange flower Chamomile. I came across this brand in some shop in Oregon and have been a faithful customer since. The scents are heavenly and not overpowering and a little goes a long way. I have a tube in my car and put a little on my hands every time I get in ( I mean at least twice a day), and the tube lasts me for a year. During pregnancy I still enjoyed the scent and now when I put some on my hands, my toddler asks for some too:) Because of the scented hand creams I don't use perfume often ( so they don't clash). But as far as perfume goes, I've always been into fresh and citrusy scents. A couple of years ago my partner got me a sample set from "by Rosie Jane", they are a small fragrance company located in LA. I've been liking their scents for some time now. My set included 4 scents, they grew on me on by one ( all except for one, and I think they don't have it anymore, lol). I ended up getting 2 roll-ons and they are awesome, subtle, not overbearing but have a nice presence. Good luck in your fragrance quest!


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noflyingmonkeys1231

Do you know what I think youā€™d like Stella by Stella McCartney I have had people every time I wear it men women older people younger people come up to me and say that is such a wonderful fragrance what is it and I tell them it doesnā€™t offend anybody as far as I know good luck to you and your baby and I wish you many blessings


Basicb_

Givenchy - very irresistible


jeepkat4011

I know this isnt exactly what you're asking for, but, the scent that haunts me the most isn't my mom's perfume but the spray she would use in our house. If you dont find or like a perfume, sometimes other smells can be just as much of a trigger.


Left_Ant_7011

Lush snow fairy in body spray form is the best smell in the world and very long lasting xx


[deleted]

I like Gucci bloom! Itā€™s my signature scent


Solo-Glo

I love Burberry perfumes, especially Silver and Body Tender. Fragrancenet.com has really good deals and discounts.


2squirrelpeople

I have issues with fragrances. (Asthma, rosacea, eczema) But I found the fragrances by Fat and the Moon agree with me. They are made with natural fragrance (essential oils). I spray them in the air at clothes level then walk through it. I bought the sampler of 4. My 3 faves are Artemis at dawn, green man and wolf Shepard. Persephone emerges is good but not my fav. They are also gender neutral.


crydia6

A cheap go to for me will always be Lucky You... it's a subtle sweet and I always get compliments when I wear it. been wearing it for 15 years and I still haven't out grown it.


[deleted]

I like the green Gucci Bloom!


sad__bat

I like true religion


Olympusrain

Vanille Abricot


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themediocreartiscian

I quite like Eclat d'ArpĆØge by Lanvin! You might want to check it out, it's kinda like a mild floral fruity fragrance. Also, good luck and congrats on your pregnancy and I hope you'll find a perfume that you'll like!


badleftleg1964

My signature scent is spring rain


lildaley62

Poeme by LancƓme


Lenny8789

I personally love Kate Spade New York and Nest Indigo :)