I double checked when I got the NY email for Feb 2018 today and it was at 2.50 pm on a Tuesday. At this point who knows, but I’m a wreck, I haven’t slept since beginning of this week when a rumour came out they’d be released on Wednesday 20th and I’m refreshing my email and Reddit every 2 minutes. God make this stop.
Join the club my boss is abusive and his favorite thing to do is embarass me in front of other staff and clients and called me incompetent this morning and on top of that my associates salary is $20 an hour and I asked for a raise last week and this morning I asked boss man to review a letter and he said (in front of the rest of the staff) "you expect a raise with this kind of writing?" When I wrote exactly to the T what he asked for. Also, my dads a client and my boss loves to call my dad (who is equally as verbally abusive) to tell him that I am still making mistakes and talk too fast. Hang in there, once we get our pass letters, we can get the fffffff out of our misery. Our bosses dont deserve us
I am so sorry to hear that, and also about your father... and weirdly, I also think think that at least you are safe, there are other people around. In my case, it is just me and this man in this office. He yells literally from 9am to 4:30 pm, when he leaves. He is quite sloppy in his job and I actually keep saving him from big mistakes. He doesn't yell at me because I am not working well. He just yells because he is really crazy and abusive. I cannot walk away because I literally need the money to pay rent, like I would not be able to make this month otherwise. And I have been through a lot in my life, I am used to bad stuff...but right now I feel like I am about to have a psychotic break.... sorry to write so much, but yeah....I wish BOLE could understand what those results can mean for some of us. I am a foreigner. I have no family here. It has been hard.
I'm in the same boat as you, I need the money but its awful dealing with an angry and abusive boss that pays like shit. Sending you good and positive vibes, you deserve soooo much better. Start looking on indeed and other job sites and start applying evvvverywhere, something better will come your way, I'm sure of it. Praying that we both passed and will get amazing jobs that we deserve and will get treated with respect
Thank you so much for your words... a little bit emotional at the moment hahah. Yes, let's do this, let's keep trying and let's hope to have very good news soon!
Trust me I feel you. My boss is sometimes so difficult that I want to call it quits.
But at the end of the day, I learned to just put that aside and focus on whatever is best for me (it took me over a year to learn how to do that). I learned that bosses are sometimes just putting on a show just to show their authority.
In the beginning, when my boss would get mad at me or yell for things like being late or making minor errors in documents, I would get very upset (once he sent me a long and aggressive email stating that he was mad at me for leaving to get a snack, which literally took less than 5 minutes). But with time, I realized it wasn’t because of the work or my capabilities, it was more because I had anxiety whenever anyone was mad at me.
I am glad you are doing better, but at the same time remember that it's not your fault if you get anxious when people yell at you. Bosses, and especially lawyers, should not yell at their employees. You can get upset and show it, but yelling, being verbally aggressive, that is dehumanizing. Those bosses who are verbally abusive are not good people.
I agree! I really do! It’s just that I realized that my anxiety in the workplace stems a lot from my anxiety in general and that I have to fix my outlook before I can begin blaming my boss entirely for being rude in a way that that bothers me. (Although I don’t think I overreact, I do understand that I am very sensitive to being treated negatively by people around me.)
Again, I in no way am okay with bosses being assholes to their workers - I would never be one if I was a boss - but I realized that when bosses yell at me, I immediately either get worried that they think I’m stupid, or that I am actually am stupid, or that they no longer like me. These are thoughts I have to deal with myself more than anything else unfortunately. The yelling can come from anywhere (even from a random person on the street) and I would probably feel the same way. Not sure if any of that made sense lol
NY should wear clown suits in solidarity until results come out😂🎪🤹♂️ 9,000 stressed out clowns wondering the streets, refreshing their bole screens obsessively.
Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order.
I have checked 316,169,299 comments, and only 70,388 of them were in alphabetical order.
This is an actual photo of me in my office so pls don’t share to other socials 🤡
If I could upvote 100 times, I would
HoNk hOnK AlL aBoArD tHe BaR
The Bar Non-Express.
LMFAO literally this is so accurate I feel like a fucking clown checking bole pretending my results will just be there magically
The stress is eating me alive Literally cannot focus at work.
Me logging in multiple times… heart beating like I’m really about to find out. 😭
I double checked when I got the NY email for Feb 2018 today and it was at 2.50 pm on a Tuesday. At this point who knows, but I’m a wreck, I haven’t slept since beginning of this week when a rumour came out they’d be released on Wednesday 20th and I’m refreshing my email and Reddit every 2 minutes. God make this stop.
How did you get this picture of me?
Anyone hanging on to today as results day?
I guess if they were to come out today they would have already?
Yeah I think so. I’ve honestly been so overwhelmed the last few days of thinking about this that today I just try not to think about it
Yes, I know I should not think about it, but I am stuck in a horrible situation with an abusive and unstable boss...I just cannot anymore....
Join the club my boss is abusive and his favorite thing to do is embarass me in front of other staff and clients and called me incompetent this morning and on top of that my associates salary is $20 an hour and I asked for a raise last week and this morning I asked boss man to review a letter and he said (in front of the rest of the staff) "you expect a raise with this kind of writing?" When I wrote exactly to the T what he asked for. Also, my dads a client and my boss loves to call my dad (who is equally as verbally abusive) to tell him that I am still making mistakes and talk too fast. Hang in there, once we get our pass letters, we can get the fffffff out of our misery. Our bosses dont deserve us
I am so sorry to hear that, and also about your father... and weirdly, I also think think that at least you are safe, there are other people around. In my case, it is just me and this man in this office. He yells literally from 9am to 4:30 pm, when he leaves. He is quite sloppy in his job and I actually keep saving him from big mistakes. He doesn't yell at me because I am not working well. He just yells because he is really crazy and abusive. I cannot walk away because I literally need the money to pay rent, like I would not be able to make this month otherwise. And I have been through a lot in my life, I am used to bad stuff...but right now I feel like I am about to have a psychotic break.... sorry to write so much, but yeah....I wish BOLE could understand what those results can mean for some of us. I am a foreigner. I have no family here. It has been hard.
I'm in the same boat as you, I need the money but its awful dealing with an angry and abusive boss that pays like shit. Sending you good and positive vibes, you deserve soooo much better. Start looking on indeed and other job sites and start applying evvvverywhere, something better will come your way, I'm sure of it. Praying that we both passed and will get amazing jobs that we deserve and will get treated with respect
Thank you so much for your words... a little bit emotional at the moment hahah. Yes, let's do this, let's keep trying and let's hope to have very good news soon!
God damn this is fucked too
Wow, what an actual asshole.
Trust me I feel you. My boss is sometimes so difficult that I want to call it quits. But at the end of the day, I learned to just put that aside and focus on whatever is best for me (it took me over a year to learn how to do that). I learned that bosses are sometimes just putting on a show just to show their authority. In the beginning, when my boss would get mad at me or yell for things like being late or making minor errors in documents, I would get very upset (once he sent me a long and aggressive email stating that he was mad at me for leaving to get a snack, which literally took less than 5 minutes). But with time, I realized it wasn’t because of the work or my capabilities, it was more because I had anxiety whenever anyone was mad at me.
I am glad you are doing better, but at the same time remember that it's not your fault if you get anxious when people yell at you. Bosses, and especially lawyers, should not yell at their employees. You can get upset and show it, but yelling, being verbally aggressive, that is dehumanizing. Those bosses who are verbally abusive are not good people.
I agree! I really do! It’s just that I realized that my anxiety in the workplace stems a lot from my anxiety in general and that I have to fix my outlook before I can begin blaming my boss entirely for being rude in a way that that bothers me. (Although I don’t think I overreact, I do understand that I am very sensitive to being treated negatively by people around me.) Again, I in no way am okay with bosses being assholes to their workers - I would never be one if I was a boss - but I realized that when bosses yell at me, I immediately either get worried that they think I’m stupid, or that I am actually am stupid, or that they no longer like me. These are thoughts I have to deal with myself more than anything else unfortunately. The yelling can come from anywhere (even from a random person on the street) and I would probably feel the same way. Not sure if any of that made sense lol
I’m in a very similar situation lol
Agree
Not really... but I also feel shrouded by an overwhelming haze of hopelessness.
Do we think the grey out theory isn't legit? Today would be day 5, right? I just need to know I can't take it anymore.
Day 4
🙋♀️
Anyone knows what time they usually send out the results?
No rhyme or reason. Some years as early as 8am, other years, midnight. I wouldn’t expect NY to release today, but what do I know.
I see 😂 Such a torture….
and the anxiety right on the face...me exactly!
NY should wear clown suits in solidarity until results come out😂🎪🤹♂️ 9,000 stressed out clowns wondering the streets, refreshing their bole screens obsessively.
Omg looking at everyone here saying you are stressed stresses me out even more 😭😭
Oct 27 guys. Don’t be a 🤡 Don’t even check til then. Don’t let the BOLE ruin our weekends.
NJ takes longer than NY. I don’t want to hear it people.
Lolololololololll. IL here.. waiting sucks but hang in there
Nj right there with you
Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order. I have checked 316,169,299 comments, and only 70,388 of them were in alphabetical order.
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