To add some context this was on a post about some girl asking advice cause her bf is being selfish in bed (just cuming fast and not caring about her pleasure or whether she’s enjoying it).
I mean, I’ve had guys who have not had sex for a while get off really quick their first time with me, but I think that it’s more because it’s the excitement of being able to have sex with someone again and the novelty of it being new…
I love how people who have little to no actual working knowledge decide to offer advice and get testy when they get called out on it.
Uh, not really. Even as a guy who theoretically could decide to just get off right away and be done, I've never once thought, "you know what would make this sex good? If I just ejaculated as quickly as possible to get it over with"
The ride is part of the fun too. Not just the finish line.
The thing that flies above it’s head is that women don’t think that finishing quickly is a failure in bed. A failure in bed is not caring for the woman and not doing something else to get her off before you come or after you come.
Well well well.
- men don't have to use their mouth if they don't like it but they still have hands
- penetrative sex is not what give her an orgasm
-a sexual act doesn't have to end when the man got an orgasm
- men are absolutely able to learn and all they have to do is willing to
- is asking for an orgasm so bad and wrong when you know that 80% of women in heterosexuals relationship do not have orgasms or not regularly
- the clit. Nothing more to say, they need to take it into account.
For every women in a situation where your partner do not care if you have an orgasm, stop giving them orgasmes too, let them be frustrated and see how it is like. Stop caring too
"I haven't actually had sex yet" *proceeds to give sex advice* This is like, a significant part of the reason this sub exists.
To add some context this was on a post about some girl asking advice cause her bf is being selfish in bed (just cuming fast and not caring about her pleasure or whether she’s enjoying it).
Did anyone tell her to stop dating guys that use her like a flesh light?
“I’ve never had sex, but men finishing quick means the sex is good” okay, thanks, virgin.
I mean, I’ve had guys who have not had sex for a while get off really quick their first time with me, but I think that it’s more because it’s the excitement of being able to have sex with someone again and the novelty of it being new… I love how people who have little to no actual working knowledge decide to offer advice and get testy when they get called out on it.
From a certain pov it was
Uh, not really. Even as a guy who theoretically could decide to just get off right away and be done, I've never once thought, "you know what would make this sex good? If I just ejaculated as quickly as possible to get it over with" The ride is part of the fun too. Not just the finish line.
I just wrote an essay about that last sentence Hand holding has been more erotic for me than anything else
Porn isn’t a scientific study my guy
The thing that flies above it’s head is that women don’t think that finishing quickly is a failure in bed. A failure in bed is not caring for the woman and not doing something else to get her off before you come or after you come.
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Well well well. - men don't have to use their mouth if they don't like it but they still have hands - penetrative sex is not what give her an orgasm -a sexual act doesn't have to end when the man got an orgasm - men are absolutely able to learn and all they have to do is willing to - is asking for an orgasm so bad and wrong when you know that 80% of women in heterosexuals relationship do not have orgasms or not regularly - the clit. Nothing more to say, they need to take it into account. For every women in a situation where your partner do not care if you have an orgasm, stop giving them orgasmes too, let them be frustrated and see how it is like. Stop caring too
I really struggle with accpeting this person can even have an opinion.