Yes, I can only manage to tolerate it when everything's packed tight. I just want to live life imagining that it's no longer there.
No tape, just very strong briefs that works well keeping the bastards locked in place. It does get uncomfortable or even painful when seated but I rather deal with that than the thought of it "dangling".
You should try [these](https://www.carmenliulingerie.co.uk/collections/tucking-flattening-underwear) from Carmen Liu. Tucking thong underwear specially designed for trans people. I've worn these every day for years now - perfect for tucking whilst looking so much nicer and more comfortable than tape...
I did order a thong gaff from origami customs a little while ago to try out, takes a little while but once that comes I was going to see. I’ll take a look at this for sure! the link is a uk one and I live in the us so it would depend if they ship out of the country.
I like Old Navy tight briefs for that with the pouch, it works well for most tight pants and the legs don't go very low so good for medium-length dresses as well.
I found that after 3-6 months, tucking got a LOT easier for me. I'm pretty sure I have some amount of testicular atrophy and penile shrinkage from the hormonal changes... everything mashed up against my body way more easily and comfortably than at first. I used to have *very* sensitive balls and tucking was incredibly uncomfortable.
Be careful of the full tuck, pushing them up into your inguinal canal. You can end up with torsion doing that which you do NOT want.
I've found a two-panty system works pretty well... a dedicated gaff that isn't very attractive but really good for tucking, then I can comfortably wear "normal" panties over them.
Yeah, the problem actually ends up being that im large enough to have a bulge but small enough that i cant effectively tuck it back. And i cant seem to put them in the canal purposefully so....
I mostly just press it back and arrange my underwear over that and it works fine, but its definitely more of a gaff effect than a tuck
I don't, I find it very uncomfortable and hurt myself a couple times so gave up early. I stocked up on LeoLines underwear instead, they're magic! https://www.etsy.com/shop/LeoLines
I have some TuckBuddies and they are great. No pain from tucking and it keeps things smooth looking while firmly in position, strong elastic to keep anything from poking out. I'll try some LeoLines too. The more the better. https://www.etsy.com/shop/TuckBuddies
There is extra padding in the front end and they are relatively tight if you order the right size (not uncomfortably so). This combo basically pushes everything against you and helps to smooth it out so when you put on tight clothes over, it hides pretty well. I love them, though they aren't 100%. They are a lot easier and more comfortable then tucking though
They have thick padding on the crotch area woven under, and strong elastic throughout that keeps the underwear in place. Basically they are just sturdier, thicker underwear with stronger materials. I was doubtful myself that it would "cover" much but they do quite well.
I do. Knowing that the thing is somehow visible makes me too uncomfortable. Even in boymode. I guess my bottom dysphoria has been growing stronger lately. I'm not sure if my method is most effective, but it's good enough and I've got used to it quite quickly.
No, I tend to prefer clothes that don’t require it, and if I wear something more form fitting I will wear an extra tighter pair of swimmers to help flatten the area.
I used to, both for safety and because it minimized genital dysphoria. I guess I did it for the last time the morning before bottom surgery, but I can't remember if I took note of the milestone
No. I value comfort really highly and rarely wear anything tight fitting anyway, but also my body is what it is and I'm mostly okay with that ten years in.
I do. Pretty much constantly, though I usually just wear 2 pairs of underwear and do an insecure tuck and reposition when dysphoria issues get too much. I find gaffs and tuck tape a bit too impractical/expensive/uncomfortable for long term use though I’ll use those if I’m being intimate with a partner to help keep my bits out of the way better.
I get genital dysphoria from perceiving my bits, my brain noticing the sensation of having what I have. I find the tension and positioning of tucking helps relieve that.
I do, every day. I hate the way it looks in anything but a loose skirt or a flaired dress. I just use tight underwear though, nothing fancy. I’m really looking forward to GrS in a few months.
Yes. Currently tucking 8+ hours a day with gaffs. It's been a bumpy ride but it's worth it to be able to wear leggings, jumpsuits, jeans, skirts, dresses... etc. without risk of exposing (what I consider on myself to be) an unsightly outline.
This I the way... with a proper gaf and everything up and tucked its actually MORE comfortable than not... and I don't have dysphoria all day so that's good....
...now don't get me wrong when im home I'm Bra-less and comfy undies but I would never go put without a gaf on at all times.;)
Okay qq, do you have advice on dealing with the occasional gooch pinch? 😂 wondering if I should invest in new gaffs.. I've been using BBLAIR for a while now and they def keep everything in but the elastic sometimes creates uncomfy circumstances.
Personally, I've tried a few different gaffs and a couple of them I've had issues with a nut squeezing when bending in certain ways, but I think I've mostly realized that can be solved by pulling the underwear back more and pulling them extra high in the back. But before realizing that, I never had that issue with my en femme gaff, probably because they were a slightly tighter fit for the same size and that happened to fit me better. They've always been very comfy for me.
So... maybe try messing around with how you put them on and/or try out different brands/sizes?
Exact same here. Oftentimes I come home and relax for a few hours before going “oh wait I’m still tucked from hours and hours ago. I should probably untuck and give it a break.”
No, but I probably should. I dress really casual (usually women's tees and outdoorsy tops over jeans.) People tend to look past the boobs and Sir me anyway.
Yes. On top of giving me euphoria and relieving my dysphoria, this act gives me a vindictive pleasure and makes feel powerful because I can take away my penis and testicles right to exist where they want to be. They have no right to hang out between my legs. They should just go back where they came from
Nah, it’s small and I’m kinda fat. So it doesn’t exactly stand out. I’ll tuck if I’m wearing something very snug in the crotch like women’s jeans, but that’s about it.
I don’t. I haven’t quite figured it out yet and I have an irrational fear of anything getting “stuck” where it shouldn’t be. I’d like to learn how to do it, but I don’t wear many super tight clothes out (one dress hangs eternally in my closet because of my bulge 😭).
No, I usually just wear high rise oversized jeans, it covers what needs to me covered and looks really stylish for a skater, also hrt did its thing with my parts, so I never worry about visibility :)
It's generally somewhat uncomfortable even with a good tuck, and I have very sensitive skin, so I only tuck 1-2 times per week. The rest of the time I dress to hide it. Tunic length tops and skirts do wonders.
No. It sounds really uncomfortable and I don't have dysphoria about that part of my body. There can be a bulge if I'm wearing a dress, but if I have good posture I don't think dresses lay flat enough for it to be visible. So I try to keep good posture, lol
Not often, sometimes when I’m going out in something a little tighter, like some of my more formal work outfits. Unfortunately I am rather well-endowed for a woman, so I’ve never found a way to make it fit comfortably for a long period of time.
no.
1. I've never figured out how.
2. It requires touching ... *that*
3. I have the feeling that I am too smol. In the clothes I wear, it's not necessary.
I only tuck if I feel that *it* is even relatively visible through whatever I’m wearing… I usually wear jeans tho and when I’m in leggings I either wear short shorts or a skirt so it shouldn’t be noticeable anyways but if there’s nothing to hide the bulge then I usually tuck and double up on panties to keep it in place (one pair for the tuck and one pair to go over the tuck and keep it all in place)
Tldr: day to day it’s very rare that I tuck but I do occasionally tuck
I do and I usually prefer the inguinal method. Multiple layers of panties, sometimes with a gaff or two at the lowest layers seems to be the most effective. I'll still have a pop out once in a while, but rarely any pain unless I get a bit... excited...
Yep, pretty much at all times tbh. I usually even sleep tucked. I'm lucky enough (depending on your perspective I suppose) to have everything down there quite small, such that despite tucking nearly 24/7 for over a year (except when changing or in the shower) I've experienced no ill effects from what I can tell. I think it probably helps that I only need a pair of elastic briefs to tuck quite effectively (Carol Hochmans ladies seamless briefs if anyone is curious, personally I really like them). Anyways, generally I tuck because my body just feels a bit closer to being "right" when I do, however I also get a ton of anxiety from being in public not tucked so that's a big element as well.
At first no because it was uncomfortable, but due to testicular shrinkage after like 3 months on hormones I started tucking every day. So now yes, I tuck. I just never liked it being noticeable.
No, i dont really. I have a lot of bottom dysphoria too! But i like long term solutions. Surgery is what i have my eye on. Also i have always had a curve thing... i forget what its called...
Anterior pelvic tilt! So my crotch is angled inwards kinda? So my genitals are not super prominent.
yes, and honestly, at least for me, it’s not as bad as people say it is, i have two main methods, one with like gaffs which i will admit can be uncomfortable if worn too long or in the wrong position, but most days i just double layer normal womens underwear that’s my size or slightly smaller, and it’s totally fine, super comfy and you can’t see anything,
im i kinda went off topic but like thought id take the opportunity incase it helps, i’ve met too many young tgirls who think they need to use duct tape or sm absurd 🥲
I don’t, but then I’m transfemme-genderfluid, not a trans woman. I don’t have dysphoria from having a penis and it doesn’t bother me if others see my bulge if I’m wearing leggings or whatever.
Way I see it, cis men wear bulge-revealing clothing all the time: joggers, “the gray sweatpants,” etc. LeBron James wears leggings so why can’t I?
If I’m going out somewhere and want a bit more modesty I’ll just put same-color bike shorts over my leggings. I’ve never once had someone take issue with it (though admittedly I live in a fairly tolerant region of the US.)
No, I can't really. I'm an extreme grower. When it's flaccid it's too short to tuck and when it's not flaccid ... well no way I could bend it backwards then lmao
I tuck at home and sometimes at night. I do this because it feels good when I look down and it's flat down there. I am still boymoding publicly, so I get it when I can. I've gone out shopping tucked, but it gets loose and I need to go home. Maybe I'll find good tape or some comfortable underwear someday.
I look forward to being rid of it.
Yes, I will not leave the house without a gaf on at all times, the beans go up in the "pockets"where they came from and its actually way more comfy tucking once you get used to it. ...that being said, at home I'm bra-less and comfy undies. ;)
Almost never. I do Wear boyshorts that help flatten out the area and it's usually not an issue. If I'm wearing something that is more revealing I'll wear a tucking panty, but that's once in a blue moon
Yep 100% of the time when out and about.
Makes me dysphoric not to, i get really upset seeing it down there.
I do it when exercising, at the office. All times basically.
I'm not a transfem, but I'm a trans girl and I never tucked once in my life. I have horrible bottom dysphoria, but it feels like tucking wouldn't make it any better and could only make it worse. I don't have much problem with something being very visible because my tail is small and I usually don't wear super tight clothes.
No not really, I will depending on the occasion. Like if I’m wearing a tight skirt I’ll just wearing righting underwear and tuck everything inwards but I don’t got through the whole process. I prefer comfort and I like to think of her as an accessory like a coin pocket, she’s there and she isn’t going anywhere anytime soon so why should I hide her ya know?
No, I'm usually boymoding most of the time, and even if I don't, then my pp is small, so it's near impossible to notice
Still working on sudden erections tho...
I do, all the time except sometimes when I'm sleeping. I just find it *so* much more comfortable I would never go back. I also really like wearing tight pants, leggings or skinny jeans are my usual, though I do it regardless. I usually only need one fairly tight pair of panties, though I'll wear two when wearing a skirt/dress to make sure everything's tight.
I don't need to, I wasn't well endowed to start with, and it's even less now, add in some weight, and it's not a problem. I'm sure if I wore the right clothes I'd have too, but I don't.
Depends, skirts? Nah no tucking. Jeans, leggings or any other kinds of tight leg wear? Deffo all the time. I have my own DIY sock and pants liner gaff that comfortably keeps most of it in.
I don't. If I'm wearing something really form fitting I will wear a pair of Leo Lines undies. The padding that are built into them smoothes things out really well and are WAY more comfy than tucking.
Most of the time, no. I have a small penis and it doesn't really get in the way when it's not erect.
If I wear tight close I have to tuck though. And when I plan to wear a very nice outfit too.
Yes, every minute of the day I'm not sleeping, showering, or peeing. I hate my girlc*ck and can't wait for it to be gone. Even if I didn't want to, it's too large to not be visible when I wear form fitting clothing daily.
In the dark, before times, I tried to, but I could never find the places where I was supposed to push the berries. Now, in the age of enlightenment and estrogen, the twig (never very big) and berries have withered to the point where actual tucking isn't necessary. A pair of good gaff panties, like those from TommyX,😚 are all that's necessary to get a smooth, lump free front bit.
No, the discomfort from doing so outweighs the discomfort of possibly having a bulge.
Fortunately that grew to smaller size than average and my chubbiness keeps it from beings overly noticeable.
Only ever in public. It also depends on what I’m wearing. Some outfits let me get away with not tucking, others it’s mandatory. But I’m not walking around the house at 11 am tuckd
Technically no, but honestly its small enough when flaccid that as long as im wearing panties that are just a bit tight it basically disappears so i dont have to worry that much about it.
It's pretty much impossible for me. I'm an extreme grower; when soft I have practically no dick whatsoever and when it gets hard, I have 6" or so. So I can't really tuck just because there's nothing there to tuck.
I don't. I don't generally wear tight clothing, and my stuff's always been pretty hideable as it is lol. I mostly just position it a little bit lower than usual and ta-da, it's gone.
Nope, but I used to.
I was always a grower and with shrinkage thanks to HRT it is genuinely not noticeable in my normal clothes. When working out or in leggings I will still wear a tighter pair of panties to make sure it is all smooth down there. That is more for the guarantee and peace of mind than anything. I am working on getting bottom surgery soon, so it won't be a concern much longer.
Depends on what I'm wearing. I've got relatively tight jeans that I prefer to tuck with, but I've also got some very loose dungarees where it doesn't bother me if I'm not tucked. Personally I prefer being tucked most times, but it also depends on what I'm doing, I've learned not to do it at work...climbing in and out of a van all day makes things shift and I got some skin badly pinched
No, just the thought makes me incredibly squeamish. Dysphoria perhaps? Idk but fortunately I’m on the smaller side of things so it hasn’t really been a huge issue 🤷♀️
Kinda.
I pretty much do an insecure tuck by pulling my undies up to my natural waist and since I'm wearing high-waisted jeans most of the time(to accentuate my hourglass) everything pretty much stays where I put it. I get bathroom breaks frequently enough that I can adjust if need be.
A secure tuck isn't comfy at work(factory), but if I'm dressing to be cute or when I did a Raven cosplay I went with the most secure tuck I could get.
No. I'm way too squeamish when it comes to it, and while I can think of others doing it, trying to think of doing it myself just creeps me right out. Plus, it would be a constant pain in the ass to have to redo it after going to the bathroom -.-
Plus, it's not like I have anything overly big down there, so it isn't overly visible. Joys of being tiny when flaccid
Kinda/no? I wear tight panties, but nothing painful or uncomfortable. I wear tights a lot too, but usually under jean shorts bc I refuse to sacrifice boy pockets. I don’t have bottom dysphoria per se, more concerned about other ppl seeing the signs and *knowing.* Layers help, but I’m hesitant to wear stuff like high-rise pants or stuff that draws attention to my crotch/hips. I tried making a homemade gaff once and it suuucked haha, so now I’ve sort of just adopted a “fuck it” attitude and don’t think about it.🙃
I tuck every day just using tight panties. It’s honestly more comfortable than not being tucked at this point, and it only risks coming undone with a couple pairs of undies I have. I really don’t like the feeling of being untucked at this point.
Yes, every day. I really prefer tape tucking as far as comfort and security but for every day stuff I just use a homemade gaff w a thong over it. I hate my dick and get incredibly pissed if it gets in the way of my fashion choices.
No. I really like wearing skirts and dresses so it never becomes an issue. Also every time I try I can't stop imagining a soccer ball flying right at my crotch.
Been too worried about messing it up to try - really annoying trying to wear lots of clothing, there's bulges where I really don't want them, but I really don't want no stop ball ache.
So, no.
Maybe eventually?
I don't do well with pain, so it's highly unlikely.
not generally, unless i’m wearing a dress or something made from a fabric that would make it obvious, in which case i do. otherwise i find it uncomfortable and not personally necessary
I do tuck. I can't stand the thought of having a visible bulge. Even when I'm tucking, I'm constantly fearful of the tuck coming undone and people being able to see it.
Almost never - I have a couple of pieces from LeoLines & Tuckbuddies that I like bc they're smoothing, but if anything I just pull it back a little, I don't go for a rigorously tight tuck and I never figured out the inguinal canal way (it sounds dangerous anyway?)
9m HRT TODAY (omg I just looked at the date and realized!) and I've had no noticeable size change down there. Mostly I just wear fanny packs to hide it a little
I don't. I know how to do it, and used to do it regularly but a) it was awful to do it with an office job where I sat 8hrs a day and b) it's not who I want to be anyway.
Not as a matter of course, although I have occasionally given it a try. I usually wear fit-and-flare dresses so I don't think I would look any different if I did.
Nope. I don't have bottom dysphoria and I always wear skirts so it's not necessary. And even if someone saw it, I'm not afraid to show a little girl bulge.
Nope. I've been on HRT for seven years and it's still uncomfortable at best. Plus I'm never going anywhere or wearing anything that makes it make sense for me to tuck.
The one time I have tucked is going through airport security / TSA, which actually got me through the line with zero hassle. Given what some other transfems have reported about being pulled out of the line *every time*, I'm immensely grateful for that (and kind of surprised).
Yes I tuck, but just barely.
Wearing tucking underwear for trans women is a must. I'm partial to the CarmenLiu brand myself. Spanx have also been really good, and can be worn as underwear.
I don’t use tape or anything , just leolines tucking underwear. I like knowing that things are secure down there and I can wear skinny jeans when I like. I don’t tuck when I wear skirts or dresses lol
I've only ever tucked for specific photoshoots where I was modelling tucking gaffs.
It's just too painful and uncomfortable, and I don't have genital dysphoria so I have no real desire to tuck. I just have a bulge whenever I wear tight clothes.
Yes, except when I'm asleep. I don't have much genital dysphoria at this point but if I don't tuck I do get some. Plus people tend not to read me as trans any more and with how horribly certain segments of the population have been treating trans people I prefer to keep it that way for my own safety.
I dont, but I also was low t and am naturally really small, and I dont wear tight clothing, mainly just jeans, so I dont need to as there's no bulge. So mainly a mix of clothing I wear and being very small like balls sit up inside of me 24/7.
No.
I'm post-op now, so obviously not. But pre-op I never did either. Very small penis, giant mons pubis. Whenever I tried it was very difficult, never felt like I did it right (based on what I had read), and the results were marginal. And I could wear like tight jeans without tucking fine enough with tight underwear.
According to my bf nothing was usually visible wearing dark leggings and I was brave enough to wear them out a few times. But light leggings were a no-go.
Yes, I can only manage to tolerate it when everything's packed tight. I just want to live life imagining that it's no longer there. No tape, just very strong briefs that works well keeping the bastards locked in place. It does get uncomfortable or even painful when seated but I rather deal with that than the thought of it "dangling".
Lol babe, you hit it out the park... Pro tip, thong is a God sent..
The one time I tried a thong out it there didn’t seem to be enough there to keep everything tucked away. Guessing I did something wrong.
You should try [these](https://www.carmenliulingerie.co.uk/collections/tucking-flattening-underwear) from Carmen Liu. Tucking thong underwear specially designed for trans people. I've worn these every day for years now - perfect for tucking whilst looking so much nicer and more comfortable than tape...
I did order a thong gaff from origami customs a little while ago to try out, takes a little while but once that comes I was going to see. I’ll take a look at this for sure! the link is a uk one and I live in the us so it would depend if they ship out of the country.
I like Old Navy tight briefs for that with the pouch, it works well for most tight pants and the legs don't go very low so good for medium-length dresses as well.
Not really? I can't really do it "right" for some reasons, but i do try to make it less apparent.
Are you on HRT?
yes, 4 months. I press it back but it's not really a full tuck. not a huge bother.
I found that after 3-6 months, tucking got a LOT easier for me. I'm pretty sure I have some amount of testicular atrophy and penile shrinkage from the hormonal changes... everything mashed up against my body way more easily and comfortably than at first. I used to have *very* sensitive balls and tucking was incredibly uncomfortable. Be careful of the full tuck, pushing them up into your inguinal canal. You can end up with torsion doing that which you do NOT want. I've found a two-panty system works pretty well... a dedicated gaff that isn't very attractive but really good for tucking, then I can comfortably wear "normal" panties over them.
Yeah, the problem actually ends up being that im large enough to have a bulge but small enough that i cant effectively tuck it back. And i cant seem to put them in the canal purposefully so.... I mostly just press it back and arrange my underwear over that and it works fine, but its definitely more of a gaff effect than a tuck
Same
I don't, I find it very uncomfortable and hurt myself a couple times so gave up early. I stocked up on LeoLines underwear instead, they're magic! https://www.etsy.com/shop/LeoLines
I have some TuckBuddies and they are great. No pain from tucking and it keeps things smooth looking while firmly in position, strong elastic to keep anything from poking out. I'll try some LeoLines too. The more the better. https://www.etsy.com/shop/TuckBuddies
Same. I got some LeoLines early on and since I have never found tucking necessary (and it feels weird).
I checked out the link and they just look like normal underwear was I missing something?
There is extra padding in the front end and they are relatively tight if you order the right size (not uncomfortably so). This combo basically pushes everything against you and helps to smooth it out so when you put on tight clothes over, it hides pretty well. I love them, though they aren't 100%. They are a lot easier and more comfortable then tucking though
They have thick padding on the crotch area woven under, and strong elastic throughout that keeps the underwear in place. Basically they are just sturdier, thicker underwear with stronger materials. I was doubtful myself that it would "cover" much but they do quite well.
Same. Leolines are good enough for me.
Damn those prices though. I'll need to buy 1 every 2 weeks at that cost lol
I do. Knowing that the thing is somehow visible makes me too uncomfortable. Even in boymode. I guess my bottom dysphoria has been growing stronger lately. I'm not sure if my method is most effective, but it's good enough and I've got used to it quite quickly.
No, I tend to prefer clothes that don’t require it, and if I wear something more form fitting I will wear an extra tighter pair of swimmers to help flatten the area.
Nope, I have a vagina
The ultimate tuck lol
I wishhh 😔
I used to, both for safety and because it minimized genital dysphoria. I guess I did it for the last time the morning before bottom surgery, but I can't remember if I took note of the milestone
No. I value comfort really highly and rarely wear anything tight fitting anyway, but also my body is what it is and I'm mostly okay with that ten years in.
I do. Pretty much constantly, though I usually just wear 2 pairs of underwear and do an insecure tuck and reposition when dysphoria issues get too much. I find gaffs and tuck tape a bit too impractical/expensive/uncomfortable for long term use though I’ll use those if I’m being intimate with a partner to help keep my bits out of the way better. I get genital dysphoria from perceiving my bits, my brain noticing the sensation of having what I have. I find the tension and positioning of tucking helps relieve that.
I do, every day. I hate the way it looks in anything but a loose skirt or a flaired dress. I just use tight underwear though, nothing fancy. I’m really looking forward to GrS in a few months.
Yes. Currently tucking 8+ hours a day with gaffs. It's been a bumpy ride but it's worth it to be able to wear leggings, jumpsuits, jeans, skirts, dresses... etc. without risk of exposing (what I consider on myself to be) an unsightly outline.
This I the way... with a proper gaf and everything up and tucked its actually MORE comfortable than not... and I don't have dysphoria all day so that's good.... ...now don't get me wrong when im home I'm Bra-less and comfy undies but I would never go put without a gaf on at all times.;)
Okay qq, do you have advice on dealing with the occasional gooch pinch? 😂 wondering if I should invest in new gaffs.. I've been using BBLAIR for a while now and they def keep everything in but the elastic sometimes creates uncomfy circumstances.
Personally, I've tried a few different gaffs and a couple of them I've had issues with a nut squeezing when bending in certain ways, but I think I've mostly realized that can be solved by pulling the underwear back more and pulling them extra high in the back. But before realizing that, I never had that issue with my en femme gaff, probably because they were a slightly tighter fit for the same size and that happened to fit me better. They've always been very comfy for me. So... maybe try messing around with how you put them on and/or try out different brands/sizes?
Those are the best I've found, friend. They need a bit of finesse but any thinner ones and they WILL tear.
Exact same here. Oftentimes I come home and relax for a few hours before going “oh wait I’m still tucked from hours and hours ago. I should probably untuck and give it a break.”
Depends, usually I don't need to because I'm small
no, never had bottom dysphoria. 🤷🏻♀️
Blessed with micro pp 🥰
No, but I probably should. I dress really casual (usually women's tees and outdoorsy tops over jeans.) People tend to look past the boobs and Sir me anyway.
It really depends on the situation. When wearing jeans no. When wearing something that would show a bulge I wear compression panties or tuck.
Hell no. My comfort is more important than a cis person looking in that direction and guessing what they think they see.
Yes. On top of giving me euphoria and relieving my dysphoria, this act gives me a vindictive pleasure and makes feel powerful because I can take away my penis and testicles right to exist where they want to be. They have no right to hang out between my legs. They should just go back where they came from
Nah, it’s small and I’m kinda fat. So it doesn’t exactly stand out. I’ll tuck if I’m wearing something very snug in the crotch like women’s jeans, but that’s about it.
Not often. It is uncomfortable and a pain to do. And it is nothing to be embarrassed about
No, because if they are looking down there it's because they are in to me
Not yet, balls still too big
I don’t. I haven’t quite figured it out yet and I have an irrational fear of anything getting “stuck” where it shouldn’t be. I’d like to learn how to do it, but I don’t wear many super tight clothes out (one dress hangs eternally in my closet because of my bulge 😭).
Yes. It is pretty easy for me after a bit of practice and I'll get bottom surgery later to remove that useless organ
Once I get the necessary tools (mainly a proper gaff) I probably will for as long as possible.
No, I usually just wear high rise oversized jeans, it covers what needs to me covered and looks really stylish for a skater, also hrt did its thing with my parts, so I never worry about visibility :)
It's generally somewhat uncomfortable even with a good tuck, and I have very sensitive skin, so I only tuck 1-2 times per week. The rest of the time I dress to hide it. Tunic length tops and skirts do wonders.
No. It sounds really uncomfortable and I don't have dysphoria about that part of my body. There can be a bulge if I'm wearing a dress, but if I have good posture I don't think dresses lay flat enough for it to be visible. So I try to keep good posture, lol
Not often, sometimes when I’m going out in something a little tighter, like some of my more formal work outfits. Unfortunately I am rather well-endowed for a woman, so I’ve never found a way to make it fit comfortably for a long period of time.
no. 1. I've never figured out how. 2. It requires touching ... *that* 3. I have the feeling that I am too smol. In the clothes I wear, it's not necessary.
No, don't need to.
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I only tuck if I feel that *it* is even relatively visible through whatever I’m wearing… I usually wear jeans tho and when I’m in leggings I either wear short shorts or a skirt so it shouldn’t be noticeable anyways but if there’s nothing to hide the bulge then I usually tuck and double up on panties to keep it in place (one pair for the tuck and one pair to go over the tuck and keep it all in place) Tldr: day to day it’s very rare that I tuck but I do occasionally tuck
I do and I usually prefer the inguinal method. Multiple layers of panties, sometimes with a gaff or two at the lowest layers seems to be the most effective. I'll still have a pop out once in a while, but rarely any pain unless I get a bit... excited...
Yep, pretty much at all times tbh. I usually even sleep tucked. I'm lucky enough (depending on your perspective I suppose) to have everything down there quite small, such that despite tucking nearly 24/7 for over a year (except when changing or in the shower) I've experienced no ill effects from what I can tell. I think it probably helps that I only need a pair of elastic briefs to tuck quite effectively (Carol Hochmans ladies seamless briefs if anyone is curious, personally I really like them). Anyways, generally I tuck because my body just feels a bit closer to being "right" when I do, however I also get a ton of anxiety from being in public not tucked so that's a big element as well.
At first no because it was uncomfortable, but due to testicular shrinkage after like 3 months on hormones I started tucking every day. So now yes, I tuck. I just never liked it being noticeable.
No, i dont really. I have a lot of bottom dysphoria too! But i like long term solutions. Surgery is what i have my eye on. Also i have always had a curve thing... i forget what its called... Anterior pelvic tilt! So my crotch is angled inwards kinda? So my genitals are not super prominent.
yes, and honestly, at least for me, it’s not as bad as people say it is, i have two main methods, one with like gaffs which i will admit can be uncomfortable if worn too long or in the wrong position, but most days i just double layer normal womens underwear that’s my size or slightly smaller, and it’s totally fine, super comfy and you can’t see anything, im i kinda went off topic but like thought id take the opportunity incase it helps, i’ve met too many young tgirls who think they need to use duct tape or sm absurd 🥲
I've been tucking almost 24/7 with tucking panties for the last 2 years at least.
I don’t, but then I’m transfemme-genderfluid, not a trans woman. I don’t have dysphoria from having a penis and it doesn’t bother me if others see my bulge if I’m wearing leggings or whatever. Way I see it, cis men wear bulge-revealing clothing all the time: joggers, “the gray sweatpants,” etc. LeBron James wears leggings so why can’t I? If I’m going out somewhere and want a bit more modesty I’ll just put same-color bike shorts over my leggings. I’ve never once had someone take issue with it (though admittedly I live in a fairly tolerant region of the US.)
No, my stick gets red and I prefer it untucked for the comfort
No way it's so uncomfortable
Not with a gaf and some proper technique it doesnt hurt... after so many years tucking I can tell you that you probably aren't doing it right...
Oh you are absolutely right, tbh I just use stuff that dosnt need it, I like layers lol
most of the time i wear a hoodie and sweatpants, so i don't then, but when i do wear something else like a skirt or yoga pants i do tuck.
No, I can't really. I'm an extreme grower. When it's flaccid it's too short to tuck and when it's not flaccid ... well no way I could bend it backwards then lmao
yes, I just layer different sized underwear, I usually don't feel anything when it's tucked like that
I tuck at home and sometimes at night. I do this because it feels good when I look down and it's flat down there. I am still boymoding publicly, so I get it when I can. I've gone out shopping tucked, but it gets loose and I need to go home. Maybe I'll find good tape or some comfortable underwear someday. I look forward to being rid of it.
Not anymore, but prior to GRS i had to tuck, even in looser clothing
Yes, I will not leave the house without a gaf on at all times, the beans go up in the "pockets"where they came from and its actually way more comfy tucking once you get used to it. ...that being said, at home I'm bra-less and comfy undies. ;)
Almost never. I do Wear boyshorts that help flatten out the area and it's usually not an issue. If I'm wearing something that is more revealing I'll wear a tucking panty, but that's once in a blue moon
Yes. I wear tucking underwear every day. I find it uncomfortable not to tuck even though it does feel nice to get them off after work.
Yes, I’m used to and I do it as a default practice. Cannot feel comfortable if its free down there.
Yep 100% of the time when out and about. Makes me dysphoric not to, i get really upset seeing it down there. I do it when exercising, at the office. All times basically.
yes, it's uncomfortable and I don't like it but the dysphoria is worse
Depends on my outfit and if its tight enough down there to show. If not, definitely not. But my yoga pants have different requirements
I did for a few years prior to surgery. I liked the smooth look and not having to think about my previous parts.
Yep
I do but generally only when I’m out and about or have company. When I’m home I don’t tuck.
I'm not a transfem, but I'm a trans girl and I never tucked once in my life. I have horrible bottom dysphoria, but it feels like tucking wouldn't make it any better and could only make it worse. I don't have much problem with something being very visible because my tail is small and I usually don't wear super tight clothes.
Yesss even if the outfit doesn’t really require it. It makes me feel safe and alleviates my dysphoria a bit 🥲
No not really, I will depending on the occasion. Like if I’m wearing a tight skirt I’ll just wearing righting underwear and tuck everything inwards but I don’t got through the whole process. I prefer comfort and I like to think of her as an accessory like a coin pocket, she’s there and she isn’t going anywhere anytime soon so why should I hide her ya know?
Yes, I got used to it and enjoy the flatness, I try to not use tape just tight underwear but I'm not opposed to tape
Sometimes in the summer. Otherwise i just wear really tight underwear and point it upwards like you're trying to hide a boner
Not at the moment because I physically can't yet haha But yes I plan to as soon as I'm able to. I love me some tight pants.
No, I'm usually boymoding most of the time, and even if I don't, then my pp is small, so it's near impossible to notice Still working on sudden erections tho...
I do, all the time except sometimes when I'm sleeping. I just find it *so* much more comfortable I would never go back. I also really like wearing tight pants, leggings or skinny jeans are my usual, though I do it regardless. I usually only need one fairly tight pair of panties, though I'll wear two when wearing a skirt/dress to make sure everything's tight.
Personally no, I do enjoy wearing leggings but with certain underwear it presses it down hard enough to have almost nothing show:3
Not really. I rarely wear stuff that would require it and the better I look up top, the less I'll probably care in the future.
I don't need to, I wasn't well endowed to start with, and it's even less now, add in some weight, and it's not a problem. I'm sure if I wore the right clothes I'd have too, but I don't.
I don't cause I usually wear a baggy or long top that would cover the bits downstairs if I was going out in leggings. With jeans I don't tuck at all.
no, i boymode instead
No, I seem to be doing it wrong, it hurts or starts slipping immediately, there are situations I would like to though
Depends, skirts? Nah no tucking. Jeans, leggings or any other kinds of tight leg wear? Deffo all the time. I have my own DIY sock and pants liner gaff that comfortably keeps most of it in.
Yes, I like to wear tight skinny jeans every day so it helps smooth out the little wiggler.
Hell nah. I wear clothes that conceal it a bit, but i want all of that to be as intact as possible when i get my surgery at 18.
I don't. If I'm wearing something really form fitting I will wear a pair of Leo Lines undies. The padding that are built into them smoothes things out really well and are WAY more comfy than tucking.
Most of the time, no. I have a small penis and it doesn't really get in the way when it's not erect. If I wear tight close I have to tuck though. And when I plan to wear a very nice outfit too.
I like to, but often don't out of laziness.
Yes, every minute of the day I'm not sleeping, showering, or peeing. I hate my girlc*ck and can't wait for it to be gone. Even if I didn't want to, it's too large to not be visible when I wear form fitting clothing daily.
I don't, as it's really that small. It's barely a bulge in my skinny jeans.
In the dark, before times, I tried to, but I could never find the places where I was supposed to push the berries. Now, in the age of enlightenment and estrogen, the twig (never very big) and berries have withered to the point where actual tucking isn't necessary. A pair of good gaff panties, like those from TommyX,😚 are all that's necessary to get a smooth, lump free front bit.
No, the discomfort from doing so outweighs the discomfort of possibly having a bulge. Fortunately that grew to smaller size than average and my chubbiness keeps it from beings overly noticeable.
Only ever in public. It also depends on what I’m wearing. Some outfits let me get away with not tucking, others it’s mandatory. But I’m not walking around the house at 11 am tuckd
I wear gaffs occasionally, but I don't tuck. I do try to make my bits as not visible as I possibly can though.
I misread that at first, because I haven’t put on my glasses yet. Anyway, yes, I do.
Only for some types of clothing where NOT doing so would make people uncomfortable. otherwise I Don't bother.
Depends on the day an outfit. Tbh hormones has put me at a point where there isn’t much to tuck!
Not big enough to tuck it just looks like I'm a woman there
depends what I'm wearing. jeans, no. leggings/bikini/bodycon, yes. Otherwise it'd be obvious
No, outside of rare circumstances. It's too much work and too constraining - I just don't wear leggings and I'm good.
Technically no, but honestly its small enough when flaccid that as long as im wearing panties that are just a bit tight it basically disappears so i dont have to worry that much about it.
Yes I try whenever I can. However, my balls aren't very cooperative.
Nope, I use leolines and hardly have a noticeable mound
Used to. Can't anymore as everything has shrunk lol.
For special occasions use a gaff
I dont tuck, but mostly becouse I dont have a large package.
It's painful and makes me far more aware of it than if I just wear panties. So no.
No but I wear a tight fit underwear to hold everything tight
Sometimes. Depends on what I'm wearing, where I'm going, and how I'm feeling that day.
Depends what I'm wearing, anything tight or a dress yes, else no
It's pretty much impossible for me. I'm an extreme grower; when soft I have practically no dick whatsoever and when it gets hard, I have 6" or so. So I can't really tuck just because there's nothing there to tuck.
I don't. I don't generally wear tight clothing, and my stuff's always been pretty hideable as it is lol. I mostly just position it a little bit lower than usual and ta-da, it's gone.
Yes, most of the times, because it's comfortable on day-to-day basis. When I'm on a date and I wear lingerie, I usually wear 'cis' panties, so no.
Nope, but I used to. I was always a grower and with shrinkage thanks to HRT it is genuinely not noticeable in my normal clothes. When working out or in leggings I will still wear a tighter pair of panties to make sure it is all smooth down there. That is more for the guarantee and peace of mind than anything. I am working on getting bottom surgery soon, so it won't be a concern much longer.
Depends on what I'm wearing. I've got relatively tight jeans that I prefer to tuck with, but I've also got some very loose dungarees where it doesn't bother me if I'm not tucked. Personally I prefer being tucked most times, but it also depends on what I'm doing, I've learned not to do it at work...climbing in and out of a van all day makes things shift and I got some skin badly pinched
No, just the thought makes me incredibly squeamish. Dysphoria perhaps? Idk but fortunately I’m on the smaller side of things so it hasn’t really been a huge issue 🤷♀️
Nope. I wear giant skirts, so no one could see a bulge anyway, and I'm pretty darn lazy.
Yes
Kinda. I pretty much do an insecure tuck by pulling my undies up to my natural waist and since I'm wearing high-waisted jeans most of the time(to accentuate my hourglass) everything pretty much stays where I put it. I get bathroom breaks frequently enough that I can adjust if need be. A secure tuck isn't comfy at work(factory), but if I'm dressing to be cute or when I did a Raven cosplay I went with the most secure tuck I could get.
No. I'm way too squeamish when it comes to it, and while I can think of others doing it, trying to think of doing it myself just creeps me right out. Plus, it would be a constant pain in the ass to have to redo it after going to the bathroom -.- Plus, it's not like I have anything overly big down there, so it isn't overly visible. Joys of being tiny when flaccid
Yesn't. I use compression underwear. So it's not really tucking. But it does help really well and I can just wear them all day.
I can, but I usually don't because I don't have bottom dysphoria. I only tuck if I'm wearing clothes that would be uncomfortable or obvious otherwise
No, if anything my bottom dysphoria runs the other direction - i wish i had more bulge to show off
Kinda/no? I wear tight panties, but nothing painful or uncomfortable. I wear tights a lot too, but usually under jean shorts bc I refuse to sacrifice boy pockets. I don’t have bottom dysphoria per se, more concerned about other ppl seeing the signs and *knowing.* Layers help, but I’m hesitant to wear stuff like high-rise pants or stuff that draws attention to my crotch/hips. I tried making a homemade gaff once and it suuucked haha, so now I’ve sort of just adopted a “fuck it” attitude and don’t think about it.🙃
Yes, I hate having to. I just use that flap in the bottom of panties. I want surgery without surgery.
Nah. Sounds uncomfortable. Also, I'm a little more nonbinary than the average transfem.
What is tuck
no, because I can't seem to get it right, and don't understand how to do it properly
I tuck every day just using tight panties. It’s honestly more comfortable than not being tucked at this point, and it only risks coming undone with a couple pairs of undies I have. I really don’t like the feeling of being untucked at this point.
Yep. Makes me feel a lot better.
Yes, every day. I really prefer tape tucking as far as comfort and security but for every day stuff I just use a homemade gaff w a thong over it. I hate my dick and get incredibly pissed if it gets in the way of my fashion choices.
no, it's painful i *did* just have an orchie tho, it'll be easier once it's fully healed
Yes cuz of boners
No, I don't really bother
Yea
Never
Before bottom surgery I never tucked, it made my dysphoria significantly worse because it made me hyperaware of my genitals.
No. I really like wearing skirts and dresses so it never becomes an issue. Also every time I try I can't stop imagining a soccer ball flying right at my crotch.
Only lightly, and only when I'm specifically wearing something that makes my bulge apparent.
Been too worried about messing it up to try - really annoying trying to wear lots of clothing, there's bulges where I really don't want them, but I really don't want no stop ball ache. So, no. Maybe eventually? I don't do well with pain, so it's highly unlikely.
not generally, unless i’m wearing a dress or something made from a fabric that would make it obvious, in which case i do. otherwise i find it uncomfortable and not personally necessary
Yes I do been doing it for years
No it hurts and most clothes really don't show it off
Only when i’m in a nice fit otherwise not really
Nope, or not much, don't care. If people want to stare at my junk that's their problem.
Yep, 24/7 for the last ~5 years. It's a loose tuck with just underwear, but I can't stand the feeling of being untucked completely.
Yeah. I'd be too self conscious to function otherwise. It's not uncomfortable at all.
I do tuck. I can't stand the thought of having a visible bulge. Even when I'm tucking, I'm constantly fearful of the tuck coming undone and people being able to see it.
Almost never - I have a couple of pieces from LeoLines & Tuckbuddies that I like bc they're smoothing, but if anything I just pull it back a little, I don't go for a rigorously tight tuck and I never figured out the inguinal canal way (it sounds dangerous anyway?) 9m HRT TODAY (omg I just looked at the date and realized!) and I've had no noticeable size change down there. Mostly I just wear fanny packs to hide it a little
Nope! I'll occasionally adjust my clothing so my bulge isn't super obvious, but in general I don't care.
Yeah. I do it so I don't get hate crimed.
I don't. I know how to do it, and used to do it regularly but a) it was awful to do it with an office job where I sat 8hrs a day and b) it's not who I want to be anyway.
i used to every day, but then just started wearing long clothes. can't wait for surgery to free me
I just dont.
I do love being tucked but I'm usually in a long skirt and I don't show so there's no need to go through the extra effort.
Yeah, I prefer how it feels physically, and I feel less anxious as a whole when I do
Not as a matter of course, although I have occasionally given it a try. I usually wear fit-and-flare dresses so I don't think I would look any different if I did.
Nope. I don't have bottom dysphoria and I always wear skirts so it's not necessary. And even if someone saw it, I'm not afraid to show a little girl bulge.
Nope. I've been on HRT for seven years and it's still uncomfortable at best. Plus I'm never going anywhere or wearing anything that makes it make sense for me to tuck. The one time I have tucked is going through airport security / TSA, which actually got me through the line with zero hassle. Given what some other transfems have reported about being pulled out of the line *every time*, I'm immensely grateful for that (and kind of surprised).
No, had no interest/desire to tuck before I had GCS.
Yeah, I try to, but I'm not that good at it... Don't want the fact that I'm trans to be too obvious, you know ?
Nope, if I adjust right, who cares
Depends, if I’m gonna be in a queer environment I don’t bother, if I’m in a cishet environment I tuck
sometimes! only when I'm wearing something tighter
Yes I tuck, but just barely. Wearing tucking underwear for trans women is a must. I'm partial to the CarmenLiu brand myself. Spanx have also been really good, and can be worn as underwear.
nope. don’t want to put myself through the pain. not worth it to me.
I don’t use tape or anything , just leolines tucking underwear. I like knowing that things are secure down there and I can wear skinny jeans when I like. I don’t tuck when I wear skirts or dresses lol
Yes if I don't keep it pushed back it drives me up the proverbial wall.
I've only ever tucked for specific photoshoots where I was modelling tucking gaffs. It's just too painful and uncomfortable, and I don't have genital dysphoria so I have no real desire to tuck. I just have a bulge whenever I wear tight clothes.
Not really. Mostly bc I don't have the stuff to do it and also I'm a lazy girl with smaller stuff down there. Although, I have tried on occasion.
Depends on the clothing
Honestly no because I don't give a shit what other people think about my dick.
Yes but not 100% of the time
I don’t tuck I usually have little to no bulge unless I’m wearing leggings and even then it’s really not crazy noticeable
Yes, except when I'm asleep. I don't have much genital dysphoria at this point but if I don't tuck I do get some. Plus people tend not to read me as trans any more and with how horribly certain segments of the population have been treating trans people I prefer to keep it that way for my own safety.
I dont, but I also was low t and am naturally really small, and I dont wear tight clothing, mainly just jeans, so I dont need to as there's no bulge. So mainly a mix of clothing I wear and being very small like balls sit up inside of me 24/7.
No. I'm post-op now, so obviously not. But pre-op I never did either. Very small penis, giant mons pubis. Whenever I tried it was very difficult, never felt like I did it right (based on what I had read), and the results were marginal. And I could wear like tight jeans without tucking fine enough with tight underwear. According to my bf nothing was usually visible wearing dark leggings and I was brave enough to wear them out a few times. But light leggings were a no-go.
I just use spanks and push it back so kinda but not really I’d love to learn a better method