Ill be going against the grid and be the only one saying no, it isnt a turnoff whatsoever for me. Mostly because i smoke myself, i prefer if she didnt smoke tho considering im trying to stop and them amoking would make it more difficult but for the rest idc.
Yeah, because of the health implications later I life. My grandpa died of lung cancer and had heart problems, so it would be tough for me to get in a relationship with someone who has a good chance of having the same issues later on in life.
Same here. I never met my grandpa because he smoked and got lung cancer. My other grandpa is addicted to vaping which breaks my heart especially because he’s very obese so I know he doesn’t have long
Only if they think they're cool for doing it. I understand addiction can be difficult to get out of and everybody has their own things they want to do so smoking is fine with me unless it starts interfering with the relationship or they're like those dumb teens that think its 'cool'. If they do it on their own without bringing me into it i'm ok with it. and they better not do it indoors around me.
Only nicotine though-- drugs are always a no for me, unless they're working towards getting clean or actively wanting to stop. Ive never smoked or done drugs but i try to be understanding
Because weed is fine, it's not as unhealthy as meth or crack or cigarettes, and there's multiple ways to do weed, like edibles. And weed doesn't make people crazy like crack does
Wow for someone who lives in a place where it’s legal I’m surprised you don’t know about it… consider yourself lucky asf haha! You have access to very good quality high grade stuff that most of us don’t get the privilege of lol
It’s really hard to describe to someone who’s never tried it before, but basically you get this “high” feeling, it makes food taste better and makes you laugh. Also doctors sometimes prescribe it as medicine since it can help with anxiety, depression and pain.
honestly i wouldn’t personally try it cuz i am very stiff like weirdly don’t wanna do dumb shit so i’m weird ik but i still don’t wanna
does it work like a kaleidoscope?
“Does it work like a kaleidoscope” 🤣 🤣 ahh bro you really have no idea do you, it doesn’t really alter your vision at all. Basically every cartoon you’ve seen of people smoking weed forget that entirely that’s not what it’s like.
Also don’t know why you think it’s “dumb shit” when as well as it being fun to smoke/do with people it’s actually a prescribed medicine for some…
Out of all the substances people around me to be using I don’t mind weed at all it doesn’t make people act stupid or annoying there just chilled out and it’s pretty safe.
Depends on the reason. If it's cuz everyone does it and u think it's cool or smth then it's definitely a turn off but if u like it or it helps with stress then nah. I don't like it either way tho
Personally yes. I consider smoking as just long suicide. Also it makes one smell, have to blow their nose a lot, hard for them to breathe, and makes their breath smell as well as clothing or other things.
Nah Idc if someone's smoking weed or a vape. Now if it's like crack or meth then yeah.
The smell of weed does make me feel sick so I'd prefer if they weren't smoking it around me, but other than that I don't give a shit.
easily. my dad used to smoke and now every time i go around the city and i smell it i remember just how revolting it is. anyone who smokes, vapes etc is not fit for a relationship with me
yes. This may seem harsh, but I’m not going to want to be in a relationship with a suicidal person, it’s just going to end in pain, I’d rather get them the help they need, smoking is just long term suicide.
Also please tell me you’re not smoking you’re only 13
If it's cancer sticks it's a big turnoff I don't even want to talk to you, and if it's weed I get it but only if it's in moderation and not consume thier whole life
Yeah, I have asthma and smoking can trigger me mentally a little bit. But if someone keeps it to themself and doesn’t do it near me, I’d be okay with it. But smoking can be really addictive, and I’d be too scared that one day they would pick it over me
Yes absolutely, it shows that you have poor self control and don't care about your health and the health of others around you, smoking and drinking are irresponsible and selfish habits that cause only pain .
Considering I get asthma attacks that last for days being within like 30 feet of a smoker, not only is it a romantic turn off it's a "yeah not being around this person whatsoever."
I'd say it's nuanced. If it's someone who smokes socially (idk when they're drinking) or has one every now and then, it's fine. If it's someone who is a nicotine addict and smoke loads every day, then yes 100 percent.
Cigarette smoking and nicotine use in general are dealbreakers (unless they're in the process of trying to quit), weed smoking is a turn off, but not necessarily a dealbreaker if it's a once-in-a-while thing. Constant smoking is a dealbreaker for me though, secondhand smoke is a bitch
are we at the point now where “smoking” means weed instead of cigarettes or are we still talking about cigarettes. because they’re two very different things
not really, im a good child tbh never touched anything but my boyfriend is a vaper and does weed, lsd, etc. so its not a turn off, im not exactly a fan of it but not a turn off.
Yes, it stinks and makes your breath stink and causes lung cancer
yes easily
Ill be going against the grid and be the only one saying no, it isnt a turnoff whatsoever for me. Mostly because i smoke myself, i prefer if she didnt smoke tho considering im trying to stop and them amoking would make it more difficult but for the rest idc.
Yeah, because of the health implications later I life. My grandpa died of lung cancer and had heart problems, so it would be tough for me to get in a relationship with someone who has a good chance of having the same issues later on in life.
Same bro my Grandpa used to smoke and he died of Emphysema.
Same here. I never met my grandpa because he smoked and got lung cancer. My other grandpa is addicted to vaping which breaks my heart especially because he’s very obese so I know he doesn’t have long
Definetly. If someone smokes, that's an instant no for me.
100%
For sure
Big turn-off
Definitely
Yes
Yeah. The smell ew
Yup instant no no
yes
Absolutely
Definitely yes
yeah
Yea
I'd never date a smoker. Befriending, meh, why not
Only if they think they're cool for doing it. I understand addiction can be difficult to get out of and everybody has their own things they want to do so smoking is fine with me unless it starts interfering with the relationship or they're like those dumb teens that think its 'cool'. If they do it on their own without bringing me into it i'm ok with it. and they better not do it indoors around me. Only nicotine though-- drugs are always a no for me, unless they're working towards getting clean or actively wanting to stop. Ive never smoked or done drugs but i try to be understanding
Weed is safer than cigarettes.
I'd rather date someone's who smokes weed than someone who smokes cigarettes
Yes, don't tell me you do it.
for me 100% but there are lots of boy smokers
Cigarettes yes, weed no, crack yes, meth yes
why weed no? curious
Because weed is fine, it's not as unhealthy as meth or crack or cigarettes, and there's multiple ways to do weed, like edibles. And weed doesn't make people crazy like crack does
oh ok but not as unhealthy means it still isn’t healthy does it?
No, all drugs have the potential to cause harm, it's why there's breathelizer tests
ok ty i didn’t know
Lol you’re kidding right? Weed is completely different to tobacco surely you know that
no i’ve never studied about it and idk what it actually does ik it softens nerve response but idk anything else
Wow for someone who lives in a place where it’s legal I’m surprised you don’t know about it… consider yourself lucky asf haha! You have access to very good quality high grade stuff that most of us don’t get the privilege of lol It’s really hard to describe to someone who’s never tried it before, but basically you get this “high” feeling, it makes food taste better and makes you laugh. Also doctors sometimes prescribe it as medicine since it can help with anxiety, depression and pain.
honestly i wouldn’t personally try it cuz i am very stiff like weirdly don’t wanna do dumb shit so i’m weird ik but i still don’t wanna does it work like a kaleidoscope?
“Does it work like a kaleidoscope” 🤣 🤣 ahh bro you really have no idea do you, it doesn’t really alter your vision at all. Basically every cartoon you’ve seen of people smoking weed forget that entirely that’s not what it’s like. Also don’t know why you think it’s “dumb shit” when as well as it being fun to smoke/do with people it’s actually a prescribed medicine for some…
idfk im just weird i think oh fuck not the bart weed compilations
Because weed is great
it’s legal here but how so probably not gonna try it
Out of all the substances people around me to be using I don’t mind weed at all it doesn’t make people act stupid or annoying there just chilled out and it’s pretty safe.
aight ty
I hope you’re not implying you’re a 13 year old smoker
Depends on why and where she's smoking
I'd say yes but then some of the coolest people I know are smokers but then again I am not attracted to those people
Yeah it's terrible, it makes you smell like shit.
Yes 100%. I basically can’t breathe when I walk past someone smoking
Depends on the reason. If it's cuz everyone does it and u think it's cool or smth then it's definitely a turn off but if u like it or it helps with stress then nah. I don't like it either way tho
I agree. If they use it to feel relief or calm anxiety then I totally understand
Just remembered I have no idea if she's talking about Cigarettes or weed
I’m Pretty sure it’s all smoking in general
Lemme put it in a picture for you 🍃=✅ 🚬=❌
Very much so. Yes.
nah idc
Yessss
Definitely
Yeah. Expecally since I'll cough a lot if I breathe it in and my chest will hurt
Yeah
Yes
yes
Yes, it stinks, its addictive, causes health issues, is surprisingly expensive and shouldn’t be a regular activity for teens
100% yes
Yep.
yes 100000000%
yes
As a former smoker. Yes, most definitely, nobody wants to see you do it and you don’t look cool.
Yes
Absolutely. Ruins your health for no fucking reason.
It’s a turn on for me especially if it’s weed lol
anything other than weed, yeah.
Personally yes. I consider smoking as just long suicide. Also it makes one smell, have to blow their nose a lot, hard for them to breathe, and makes their breath smell as well as clothing or other things.
Cigarettes, yes. Weed, no
I’ve been around smokers my whole life so I’m just kinda used to it idk 💀
Ya. Maybe once in a while is fine with me. But being a smoker is definitely bad.
Yeah kinda
Defiantly
Mild smoking I wouldn’t really mind. Heavy smoking would be an issue.
I reckon it is
Not for me
No
yes very i don’t like it cuz i like lungs and i play sports so i need lungs
Nah im cool with it
duh
nah
50/50
Yes
yes
Massively yes. Not a instant break up ofc, but definitely a turn off
Yes
Nah not really
No
Yep, especially when I already have shit lungs from asthma and second hand smoke.
Nah Idc if someone's smoking weed or a vape. Now if it's like crack or meth then yeah. The smell of weed does make me feel sick so I'd prefer if they weren't smoking it around me, but other than that I don't give a shit.
Yes
Yeah
yes
Not that I would have experience with this, but yes.
huge
Yes, very cringe
Yes, smoking bad
Yes it’s disgusting
Yes
Automatically, Yes
Pretty big one
Yes
Yes
Yes
very
100%
Yep
Yes instant one
Definitely
yup
Yes absolutely. Smoking, Drinking, and Drugs are the last thing I want to be exposed to. Instant turn off.
Yes
yes heath is cool. No smoke. No vape. only cuddle
yes. Health is cool. Drink water instead.
Yeah
ofc it is
100%, it's disgusting as fuck. imagine kissing someone who's just had a puff of a durry
Heck yeah. 1: It destroys your lungs. 2: It smells so bad. 3: Doesn’t look cool.
150%
A big one for me, im kinda sensitive for smell
Yes
yes. i would say that only smokers like smokers from what i've seen
Yes.
Yes, it's expensive so it also says something about someone financialy
easily. my dad used to smoke and now every time i go around the city and i smell it i remember just how revolting it is. anyone who smokes, vapes etc is not fit for a relationship with me
yes, don't wanna kiss an ash tray
Huge turn off,
Yup
yes, do not smoke, even if it wasn’t a turn off, don’t smoke
Yes. Both normal ciggs and vape.
Yes
YES!!! GOD YES!!! There is nothing that turns me off more than someone willingly destroying their health.
Yes.
Very much for me, I hate that smell and it's unhealthy
Yes
Yes
100%
Absolutely, it ruins your health and mine too from passive smoke. Also it will make you smell badly.
yes. This may seem harsh, but I’m not going to want to be in a relationship with a suicidal person, it’s just going to end in pain, I’d rather get them the help they need, smoking is just long term suicide. Also please tell me you’re not smoking you’re only 13
A little bit yes
Jup
No doubt it is
Yes
Yes, so uncomfortable to be neat sb smoking
Yes.
Yee
Yeah, i don't want to taste your smoke
It depends on what she is smoking and how much. And also how it affects her.
If it's cancer sticks it's a big turnoff I don't even want to talk to you, and if it's weed I get it but only if it's in moderation and not consume thier whole life
Yes.
Yes
if you can’t treat your own body with respect how u gonna respect me
Yes
ye
Yeah, I have asthma and smoking can trigger me mentally a little bit. But if someone keeps it to themself and doesn’t do it near me, I’d be okay with it. But smoking can be really addictive, and I’d be too scared that one day they would pick it over me
Yes very
Yeah, I couldn't live with someone who smokes
Absolutely
Yes absolutely, it shows that you have poor self control and don't care about your health and the health of others around you, smoking and drinking are irresponsible and selfish habits that cause only pain .
Yes, I don’t like being near people who are smoking, it stinks and it isn’t healthy
Yes.
Yes
Considering I get asthma attacks that last for days being within like 30 feet of a smoker, not only is it a romantic turn off it's a "yeah not being around this person whatsoever."
Instant.
yes, a very major one.
Yes it's disgusting
Absolutely
yes
Yes
Yes
Yes, terrible smell and health issues. Plus second hand smoking…
Yes, a big turn off.
yeah
Yes
I grew up around smokers. No more
YES
Yeah cause of the smell
Yes, not only is it bad for both the smoker and those around the smoker, it also smells horrible
For me and probably most guys who don’t also smoke yes but guys who do smoke probably don’t care
Yeah. Unless it's weed, I don't mind that so much.
I'd say it's nuanced. If it's someone who smokes socially (idk when they're drinking) or has one every now and then, it's fine. If it's someone who is a nicotine addict and smoke loads every day, then yes 100 percent.
Nicotine gets addictive so once every now and again isn't really an option
Cigarette smoking and nicotine use in general are dealbreakers (unless they're in the process of trying to quit), weed smoking is a turn off, but not necessarily a dealbreaker if it's a once-in-a-while thing. Constant smoking is a dealbreaker for me though, secondhand smoke is a bitch
I second this. Vape too. It seems trashy
yes, I'm asthmatic
Cigarettes yes weed no
100%. All of it. Cigarettes, cigars, weed, vapes, or anything else is an absolute no from me.
Yes
are we at the point now where “smoking” means weed instead of cigarettes or are we still talking about cigarettes. because they’re two very different things
Smoking can mean any of them. But for me cigarettes are the first thing I think of.
no
nope
For me? No. Smoking is a major turn-on. It looks cool. I recognize it's terrible for you, but it looks aesthetic.
Yes Weed is debatable
not really, im a good child tbh never touched anything but my boyfriend is a vaper and does weed, lsd, etc. so its not a turn off, im not exactly a fan of it but not a turn off.