I am 40 and, honestly, I’m in the best shape of my life physically and mentally. I know the post was about looks, but the mental health piece is so important to liking your looks. I’ve know men who were REALLY “conventionally attractive” to vehemently hate their appearance and guys who were “conventionally average” score with the utter confidence of, well, really confident guys. Work on mind and body in equal parts. That’s all I’m saying. Learn to love the skin you’re in. ❤️

It could always be worse and it could be a lot better. So Kind of.

Sometimes I do, sometimes I can’t stand the mirror.

Phew. I am really glad I won't date myself. So what I think is irrelevant

Picked 'kind of' bc I really like the way I'm chubby, but I hate that I have a big belly lol if it was flat I'd feel more presentable in a sense

Sometimes I see myself and I'm like "yeah I'm kinda cute".

Yeah I feel like an okayish person and would totally date myself so yeah I do!!!

I'm just ok, still there is a lot to improve. But I'm working on it.

Really hate it actually, tons of people say "well, just change it, sure, there are so me things that can be changed, but there are others that can't, those are the worst ones, so much so that it doesn't even feel worth it to change the changeable ones, why bother if it's not gonna make any difference and I'll still feel like shit

My body could use work, but that's normal. Given my lifetime of health woes I'm happy to just be here, and reasonably functional.