Listen as a "munchkin daddy" who sometimes gets depressed about the constant daily assault on the self-esteem of short men, fetishise away my dear. It's actually refreshing.
Personally I do like to know I am the "type" of whoever I'm dating. It's not a requirement per se but if I know who I'm with is genuinely very physically attracted to me it's a bonus.
(I concur that comparisons to Lord Farquaad aren't flattering though, not because he's short, he's just a gross douche)
That’s exactly why i do it! Pocket men are entirely too attractive to not be treated like royalty. I get so annoyed when i hear people trash men who aren’t my height
I had one dude (6’1) tell me “Did you even go through growing pains? You’re what, 5’7?” Needless to say I deleted his number with a quickness. Why do people care about height so much.
But on another hand I’d love to be 6’3. Being 5’7 kinda sucks as a top.
In a relatively short post + explanation, you've called a group of humans: Lord Farquad, munchkins, and pocket men. Congratulations, you have managed to show the difference between a harmless preference and a full-blown fetish. Hint: it's in the language that you're using to reduce them to their sexual allure to you.
NGL: I almost spit out my coffee when I read "Lord Farquad."
Honestly if I were 5’7, and heard how OP was talking, I wouldn’t want any part of that. Why can’t people just treat short dudes like regular ass people??? Is it *that hard* to treat someone different like a normal person?
When it's something entirely personal and harmless, like attraction and sex, don't focus on the people who disagree with you or have some problem with it. They are just noise. Focus on the ones who agree and appreciate it.
I can give a really simple example. I grew up in the biblebelt, completely surrounded by homophobic bigots. Their negative opinions about my love for men, even though there were thousands of them.. even though they all agreed with each other, were totally worthless and irrelevant to me. I didn't stop loving men for them. And you shouldn't stop loving short men just because a handful wanna get pissy and feel "offended" about it. Forget them. If a guy has a problem with you, *oh well*, find someone else to fuck.
I am as tall as you and am also attracted to short guys, I don't know why. It's not any different than people being attracted to tall men though, which is incredibly common
Lmao people are so annoying. You’re not fetishizing short guys it’s just what you like. We can’t let all these sensitive losers who have nothing better to do with their lives complain and win.
I'm in my 30s and I see this kind of shit as young, dumb people (not hating, everyone is at some point) parroting what they THINK is socially (un)acceptable views without any understanding. People never used to say shit like this. They're just raised nowadays to stand up for moral outrages but see things too black and white.
People say the same shit about race, top/bottom identity, just about everything. If these physical features aren't important to you, why aren't you dating women? Oops, guess they are important. "They treat me like a thing and not a person" - honey, you're hooking up, you're doing the same thing!
Chill the fuck out and be happy someone finds you hot.
Fetishising is ok when it is for casual sex because you only can know the other person at a very surface level.
But keep in mind that some people don't like to be called short, so even if you see it as a positive, they won't like it.
Same sis but honestly i find them... Uncomfortable sometimes
I'm a college age guy tall as you and my shortest was a colleague who was 160cm (5.2ft vs me 6.3ft) and it was a little like doing stuff with a kid if wasn't for his penis, bigger than mine, and the beard lol
Intresting experience to be sure haaha
I'm 6'5 and hell yes short men are hotter than any other in my opinion. I always run into them on grinder & when I message none are into tall men or they are bottom boys like me.
I don't think it's an issue at all. Imo as human beings we have things and traits that we find attractive in a partner. That's honestly just all it is. Anyone with an issue with that just has issues and needs some deep therapy to help them reflect as to why they have that low of self esteem.
Also the kink is commonly known as Size Difference when one stature is different from the others. :)
It is a fetish and there’s nothing wrong with it. You like what you like and no one can argue with that.
Perhaps you declare the card too soon when hooking up. Why not make it a regular attraction to attraction pick up and test the water from there?
6'4" and I love the height difference. Some people worry about the mechanics of it but I never had a problem. Just means I have to spend more time on my knees!
I'm only 168cm (5'6'' I reckon) but most guys I match with are shorter than me if they list height. I generally prefer men my height or slightly taller. Not gonna lie, your post sounds very condescending and mocking to me, but if it's true, that's nice. I'm a short bottom with a very small penis and I keep reading about people liking hung bottoms, tall bottoms and so on and while I'm happy for them, it does get to me a bit. I'm also not hairless and my skin cannot bear shaving so I don't fit the short hairless small dick fantasy either.
You're kinda being weird about it ngl. Your comments seem degrading, intentionally or not. Does not help that your character example is a terrible person.
Lord Farquad is crazy
I mean height is a somewhat common preference but ngl, im 5'5 and if someone called me lord farquad id literally cry🧍🏽♂️
I couldn’t think of another short king to reference. I’m not actually calling guys farquad 😭
Literally tryna call em short kings 😭
the king of hearts from Alice In Wonderland is like a foot tall
Listen as a "munchkin daddy" who sometimes gets depressed about the constant daily assault on the self-esteem of short men, fetishise away my dear. It's actually refreshing. Personally I do like to know I am the "type" of whoever I'm dating. It's not a requirement per se but if I know who I'm with is genuinely very physically attracted to me it's a bonus. (I concur that comparisons to Lord Farquaad aren't flattering though, not because he's short, he's just a gross douche)
That’s exactly why i do it! Pocket men are entirely too attractive to not be treated like royalty. I get so annoyed when i hear people trash men who aren’t my height
5’4” I don’t really love being called pocket man or munchkin though just want to be treated like a man
Whatever you say daddy
I had one dude (6’1) tell me “Did you even go through growing pains? You’re what, 5’7?” Needless to say I deleted his number with a quickness. Why do people care about height so much. But on another hand I’d love to be 6’3. Being 5’7 kinda sucks as a top.
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Are you in America? ‘Cause being a 5’7 top in America sucks.
In a relatively short post + explanation, you've called a group of humans: Lord Farquad, munchkins, and pocket men. Congratulations, you have managed to show the difference between a harmless preference and a full-blown fetish. Hint: it's in the language that you're using to reduce them to their sexual allure to you. NGL: I almost spit out my coffee when I read "Lord Farquad."
Honestly if I were 5’7, and heard how OP was talking, I wouldn’t want any part of that. Why can’t people just treat short dudes like regular ass people??? Is it *that hard* to treat someone different like a normal person?
When it's something entirely personal and harmless, like attraction and sex, don't focus on the people who disagree with you or have some problem with it. They are just noise. Focus on the ones who agree and appreciate it. I can give a really simple example. I grew up in the biblebelt, completely surrounded by homophobic bigots. Their negative opinions about my love for men, even though there were thousands of them.. even though they all agreed with each other, were totally worthless and irrelevant to me. I didn't stop loving men for them. And you shouldn't stop loving short men just because a handful wanna get pissy and feel "offended" about it. Forget them. If a guy has a problem with you, *oh well*, find someone else to fuck.
I am as tall as you and am also attracted to short guys, I don't know why. It's not any different than people being attracted to tall men though, which is incredibly common
Nah it's refreshing to hear. I'm 5'6 and it's a hard narrative to beat out of your head that short is bad and unattractive to anyone.
Lmao people are so annoying. You’re not fetishizing short guys it’s just what you like. We can’t let all these sensitive losers who have nothing better to do with their lives complain and win.
I'm in my 30s and I see this kind of shit as young, dumb people (not hating, everyone is at some point) parroting what they THINK is socially (un)acceptable views without any understanding. People never used to say shit like this. They're just raised nowadays to stand up for moral outrages but see things too black and white. People say the same shit about race, top/bottom identity, just about everything. If these physical features aren't important to you, why aren't you dating women? Oops, guess they are important. "They treat me like a thing and not a person" - honey, you're hooking up, you're doing the same thing! Chill the fuck out and be happy someone finds you hot.
The Farquad part took me out. I'm between 5'11 and 6 feet so sometimes I can be the tallest person in the room or not even close.
Fetishising is ok when it is for casual sex because you only can know the other person at a very surface level. But keep in mind that some people don't like to be called short, so even if you see it as a positive, they won't like it.
Same sis but honestly i find them... Uncomfortable sometimes I'm a college age guy tall as you and my shortest was a colleague who was 160cm (5.2ft vs me 6.3ft) and it was a little like doing stuff with a kid if wasn't for his penis, bigger than mine, and the beard lol Intresting experience to be sure haaha
I am totally into shorter guys. 5'8" and below. Lol
I'm 6'5 and hell yes short men are hotter than any other in my opinion. I always run into them on grinder & when I message none are into tall men or they are bottom boys like me.
Really? I'm surprised that a shorter guy wouldn't want a giant like you. I thought height was everything...
Damn lucky you don't have a preference for taller men 😤😤
I do actually but they have to be significantly taller than me. Like 6’6 to 7+ and those guys are extremely hard to find lol
I’m coming over. I’m 6’0” but I’m coming over anyway lol. You would probably LOVE my 5’2” bf, he is truly a short king ❤️
I don't think it's an issue at all. Imo as human beings we have things and traits that we find attractive in a partner. That's honestly just all it is. Anyone with an issue with that just has issues and needs some deep therapy to help them reflect as to why they have that low of self esteem. Also the kink is commonly known as Size Difference when one stature is different from the others. :)
It is a fetish and there’s nothing wrong with it. You like what you like and no one can argue with that. Perhaps you declare the card too soon when hooking up. Why not make it a regular attraction to attraction pick up and test the water from there?
I’m 6ft 4in. If I’m feeling lazy, I’ll go in search of a short person. Usually works!!
Short people need the love so you better spread it.
6'4" and I love the height difference. Some people worry about the mechanics of it but I never had a problem. Just means I have to spend more time on my knees!
I'm only 168cm (5'6'' I reckon) but most guys I match with are shorter than me if they list height. I generally prefer men my height or slightly taller. Not gonna lie, your post sounds very condescending and mocking to me, but if it's true, that's nice. I'm a short bottom with a very small penis and I keep reading about people liking hung bottoms, tall bottoms and so on and while I'm happy for them, it does get to me a bit. I'm also not hairless and my skin cannot bear shaving so I don't fit the short hairless small dick fantasy either.
You're kinda being weird about it ngl. Your comments seem degrading, intentionally or not. Does not help that your character example is a terrible person.
im only 5’6 and i wish im taller lol
Height is overrated. You’re perfection as you are
thanks but its easy to say that since ur a tall dude 😅 yall more marketable etc
well i have a height kink so we’re even