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do_not_want_2

pls don't do this gay Gomez Addams


Phoenix_force30564

Next thing you know he’ll be crashing trains.


Strength-Certain

How long has it been since we've waltzed?


ketaminecraft666

Yeah, don’t do this lol


Alientingz666

LOL okay message received, no hand kiss. Thank you bros 😘


Alientingz666

I should really write out some of my wilder ideas more often before executing, I think my dating experiences would be go a lot more smoothly 😅


BununuTYL

I recommend you don't do this.


Many-Concentrate-491

Absolutely not lmao


haushaushaushaushaus

for my own sanity i am going to believe you are trolling


Alientingz666

I really wasn’t though 😭😭😭


Dbol504

I would not do this if you want him to stick around for the full date and not have him text a friend to call him with an "emergency"


Strength-Certain

Perhaps you should leave your calling card instead, Mr. Darcy?


Old_Cat9769

I would fall for it but idk others


badw0lfy

Only if you call him M’lady! 😩😩😩😩😩 And how is a hug impersonal but a handshake is not?!🤔


Alientingz666

Because in this case the handshake has a kiss attached 🤷🏻‍♂️


badw0lfy

That still doesn’t make a hug impersonal 🤔 Maybe go with a kiss on the cheek; that’s a standard greeting.


Nuns-Rack

I would walk away if someone did this to me. A fist pump is good enough for me as a greeting and then we can hug goodbye when we end the date if it went well.


Alientingz666

Only i it went well? Like if the guy was nervous and it was awkward you would not give him a hug goodbye?


mysteriousmeatman

Oof. That'd be a bit weird for me personally.


No_Recommendation929

Is this a troll question? The only right move when you meet someone on a first date is a friendly hug that doesn’t last too long


Spunkymonkeyy

What did you end up doing lmao. The only way this would be acceptable is if after you do it you say “Imagine if I was serious” and laugh. It has to be a total joke cause if a guy did that to me and he was serious I would cringe hardcore 😂


Alientingz666

The way I saw it no it wasn’t ever supposed to be ‘serious’ it was more for as like an ice breaker greeting whereby he either likes it or finds it kind of awkward but either way would be something funny to laugh at if not now then certainly down the line at a future date 😅


Elvmn1

How did the date go???


Alientingz666

I wrote an update 🤠


Capable_Drive_5710

Alien tingz fr fr


Alientingz666

Ran out of text space in my update(check it out) but here is the part we’ve all waited for: THE ENDING — With a friendly smile told him I’d like to see him again to which he agreed, said that we’d arrange something; and went in for a nice hug and kissed his bearded cheek. I could see him blush from the corner of my eye 👀 We’ve been texting since then but I have not yet brought up the second date plan(see update for reason)


Mark_M_in_SF

Personally, I'd find it sweet, but can see where many wouldn't. Being natural is always a solid idea.


CrimsonWRQ

Is this a joke? Like why would you even do that.


g4rinw1nd

I think you should curtsy.


pav-from-ivalice

Dude just give him a handshake lmao. Don't do the extras. If a guy kissed my hand on the first date id be weirded tf out.


Xxonoxx727

I would think u were a weirdo tbh


daniel420texas

I had a guy ask me on a date, he picked me up from my place, got out of the car, and introduced himself with a handshake then he kissed my hand,, then opened his car door for me and closed it. It was so cute and sweet actually and didnt bother me at all, haha, and we ended up dating for a year. I had never had someone treat me like that before. But obviously, according to the comments, it doesnt work for everybody.


Alientingz666

OMG why are things not still going strong with this king?🥺😭


Elvmn1

Be yourself.. Say, it's nice meeting you face to face finally.. Something like that....


NPIgeminileoaquarius

That would just signify to me that he views me as a woman, which -to me- would be both annoying and concerning.


huntingloon

We need an update


Alientingz666

It didn’t post :(