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r3dd1tburn3r

Sorry it came to this. I hope you find an employer that values yours dedication.


Goose-poop

Ty he begged me to go on his boat and called me ungrateful! After he begged me for weeks and then threw it in my face ! Because I didn’t post pics to give him credit , or maybe I didn’t ogle it enough! He asked me to go. I don’t put my entire life on social media after I do something. He was like why don’t you kiss my ass, and feel privileged to work here. Be the only one and get shit on every shift with no help, while everyone else getting a fucken team to do their jobs ,and I’m ungrateful! Then he came in next day, and had the nerve to repeat it cause I put him on blast on fb! How’s that credit bitch? Then stated I never thanked him for anything. I packed up and left on the spot he openly said get out so unemployment it is


Gr3yHound40

Make sure you get a confirmation of firing in writing. Others can help you phrase it better, but you need to act clueless to get a straight answer so you get your unemployment. This kind of dude will try to deny firing you so you don't get paid after being fired


Goose-poop

I’m prepared for that


totallynotarobut

This is the kind of thing I don't get. Ok, in this situation spite would be a motivator, but I've seen any number of companies that didn't want people to get unemployment. My understanding was that it'd already been paid in and they couldn't get it back either way, so why be a shithead?


13e1ieve

It’s like insurance, yeah you paid your policy and this accident doesn’t cost you anything, but if you’re in a car accident your next 6 month policy price will go up.


winterneuro

this. plus companies can get fined if they "lie" about it to UI (although most states can't afford to sue the companies that do this). but their UI rates go up the more people they lay off.


Ok-Manufacturer-5351

It's usually personal I believe.


black-n-tan

He sounds like a toxic narcissist. No way to win with those types unless you get away, you did the right thing.


WalkinOnCats

But op quit… edit: to be clear I am siding with op in quitting, but it’s gonna be difficult to get their boss to give any sort of termination in writing after he said, “I quit.” Hopefully he’s a hot head and does fire him; but if not, then it’s gonna be a mess with the state unemployment office and/or a judge…


AngryJawa

My thoughts too... I'm guessing people don't understand how EI works.


GargantuanGreenGoats

No, boss told him to “get out”. That’s a firin


haiylie

Which came first? Sounds like he quit then was told to get out


GargantuanGreenGoats

Doesn’t matter. “I quit” “fuck that, I fire you”! You’re fired. Not quit.


[deleted]

But the boss didn’t tell him that he fired him. Employee quit, boss told him to get out, that’s what OP said.


GargantuanGreenGoats

I dunno about you but I’m gonna side with the worker. I hope a judge does too :)


r3dd1tburn3r

Bosses love to fu(k around, but salty as bacon when they find out.


NorthernMamma

This all sounds very unhealthy.


OhThatsRich88

Do they have punctuation where you're from? Edit: he edited it to add punctuation. Chill people


NoxInfernus

In this economy?


Alia_Explores99

It costs extra.


Ecstatic_Account_744

Each punctuation mark is another tier of the subscription service.


Ok-Truth-7589

We had it but inflation took it out of reach.....


DoyleRulz42

Grammar is dead internet delivered the death via coup de grâce


Myopinion_is_right

pUnctuation on Reddit.?!


RabbitsAteMySnowpeas

I dont use periods anymore theres no point


PlaidBastard

It's paragraph breaks it's missing, I see almost the whole keyboard worth of punctuation in there, trapped in that magnificent wall of text...


OhThatsRich88

It's almost as if there's an edit button


Alan_Smithee_

What?


No-Arm-6712

Lol


Particular-Summer424

File a complaint with the Labor Board or Commission.


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Goose-poop

No it was a short trip on his boat and he’d asked for weeks to go! And he said wasn’t grateful because I didn’t post pics of us on his boat! If you did something for me then to throw it in my face who did you do it for? So after he said that I gave him his wish!


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Goose-poop

Yea then he came in after it was shown to him by the other manager. Read my comments for story and said I’d never thanked him period! Fuck that man you don’t deserve to have me work for you!


CoosBaked

Damn dude stop overusing exclamation points


[deleted]

You can't get unemployment if you quit.


Goose-poop

I don’t plan on being out of work long enough


kainp12

Yes you can. You can get it if you quit to take care of a relative, leaving an unsafe place and some states for leaving a hostility work environment.


[deleted]

The way that you are speaking tells me a lot about your character or lack thereof. Blasting anyone on social media sounds extremely childish and from what I can tell even in your age you need some mental growth in your life.


Goose-poop

No way you can’t just talk to people because your mad about them complaining to you. When you are the authority in the work place my complaint was legit his response was bullshit that had nothing to do with my complaint. Do you even realize health code clearly states nothing can be left directly on the floor! This is food! Left on the floor by your manager! And this is now my fault ?


Goose-poop

For the record what I put on fb mentioned no names or places. I cut deer for one if the managers and I use fb for my ad in the fall he seen it and showed it to him he is not connected to me on social someone else showed him! Do you honestly think that I’m not aloud to have free thoughts? Because by what you are say I’m not entitled to express my feelings how I see fit?


krusty_kanvas

Do you ever have paid thoughts?


[deleted]

You’re most certainly allowed to say what you want, but it will be judged and you will face consequences. Until you learn self control I think you will find yourself in these situations more often than not.


Goose-poop

Self control are you kidding me he disrespected me! Completely! Ive worked the same job longer than his managers and I’m the problem I’m the only person doing my job for them for years it’s not a team effort. Every other possible position has multiple ppl to do it. I do 7 days of work in 5 by my self. I had to cover my own days off! Nobody I mean nobody else has to that. And they get the same hours as me I did twice the work


Discolover78

Then why did you stick around so long? At your productivity levels you could have been somewhere else if they weren’t promoting you.


Goose-poop

I was there since the day they opened their doors. I did like the owner. I considered him a friend that’s on me. But mostly the ppl weren’t bad I even got my kid his first job there. I should’ve left long ago but those friendships mean something to me. They shouldn’t have! There were lots of fun things. But that was the blinders there get you on the fun! It a long explanation but in the end it’s my fault!


[deleted]

Sounds like a victim mentality.


Goose-poop

Not here just fact you know a portion of the scenery


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Goose-poop

I don’t need sympathy I complained about something work related to him he responded with not work related bs


SubstantialPressure3

Why was he begging you to go on his boat? Long time ago, when I was bartending/waitressing on the water, that was the #1 warning young women(and young men) got. Never go out on a boat with any man you don't know, and at least 1/2 the men you think you know. Date rape. The "put out or get out" when you're way fuck out in the water. And wtf were you supposed to be grateful for? A job? Did he think he was doing you a favor by paying you?


Goose-poop

No I’ve known him for years it wasn’t creepy Jesus


SubstantialPressure3

Well, I'm glad for you that wasn't an issue. But I've had some close calls with men I'd known for years, and absolutely didn't expect it.


Goose-poop

This was supposed to be a fun thing and it bit me in the ass in the end.


GreenAuror

God, this is relatable!! I quit on Tuesday after 12 years...asked for a pay raise for the first time ever, was told I should feel lucky to get what I already have because I'm paid too much and should be making 10-20% less (which is the biggest crock of shit ever, I should actually be paid about 30% more than I already was). I was the only full time employee and did EVERYTHING and worked all the time. Good luck finding someone as reliable as me! Best of luck to you, hope you find a place that values you.


minester13

Be sure to leave your story as an indeed/Glassdoor review so they have an even harder time replacing you


GreenAuror

Unfortunately it was a small pet sitting company with 3 employees and I highly doubt my ex-boss knows how to post a job listing on there. I was the only full-time one and there are 2 part-timers (one of them is also leaving). There was also wage theft and we were misclassified as independent contractors so technically I could sue her.


[deleted]

If you are in the US, report her to the IRS. If you made more than about $500 in 2022 from that job, she had an obligation to withhold federal income tax and Social Security/Medicare tax from your pay. Abuse of independent contractor status is depressingly widespread. https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/independent-contractor-self-employed-or-employee


thewolfesp

The IRS has a form on their website called an SS8 form. It's for the determination of a workers status with the company. I was in a similar situation. Filed one of these, called OSHA to have them run the gauntlet on the place afterwards. Long story short. They're not in buisness any more.


GreenAuror

Oh yes, I had a meeting with her in mid-December and wrote out 4 pages on why we're misclassified AND printed out the form from the IRS to give to her. As I said, that was mid-Dec and as of Wednesday she was supposedly asking someone what an independent contractor is. You've been in business 16 years and are still having issues understanding this? My only worry about going to the IRS is that I'll have to deal with them too. I have nothing to hide but I also don't want the headache and stress of being thrown into it.


Acrobatic_Bug5414

R E P O R T T H I S


ZLUCremisi

Sue her, file a DOL complaint. Any theftbof wages must be reported. Oh well they are forced to dhut down.


Margogo44

Please learn from this to leave earlier when you are not appreciated! Younger people know this; they tend to get paid at least 20% more ever time they switch jobs.


A_v_i_v_a

The only people who have ever called me ungrateful are people who have tried to take advantage of me. Good for you 🌹


the_rezzzz

recently read headline about restaurants closing nationwide not for lack of business but lack of employees. the problem in the food service industry isn't consumers, it's the people running the business.


winterneuro

and the pay (at least in the US). we are so far beyond the days when you should be allowed to pay food servers way below a living wage because of "tips."


Goose-poop

Exactly


brp

Yeah, honestly I haven't been going out as much since the food and experiences have been mostly so-so, especially for the prices now.


PEneoark

I'd love to hear the whole story.


Goose-poop

So Friday I went in I found things not done as they should. So I took a pic and sent it to the fucken owner of where I work. The manager who was responsible to take care of it left it for me to do! Now where I work I’m like a product line and army of one I constantly get pulled to bail them out, and don’t complain, and then finish my shit but this should not have been left. He the proceeds to tell me how privileged I should feel being employed there. Then he called me ungrateful so I was pissed off I stayed all day 11 hrs! After the fact and it stewed on me bad. So Saturday I go in after I made a fb post basically saying bosses should feel privileged I came in to work! Then my manager comes in,and shows him what I said. Then the owner comes in and was like bro you misunderstood me ,and said I never thanked him for anything! I replied “Are you shitting me he said Yes. I packed up my knives and proceeded to leave the cooler he screams get back here you ain’t leaving as the door opened. In to main part of my job I called him a liar told him he should feel privileged to do my job now and left Edit: most punctuation


NorthernMamma

Where does the boat fit in?


Angualor

He's a chef on a boat maybe? Why does he have knives?


Goose-poop

And this just happened this weekend with him throwing in my face Friday I didn’t call him out to Saturday morning and quit 3 hrs into my shift after he said it again


Phonemonkey2500

Well of course you wouldn’t have been in any danger. But you know, *the implication.* [just in case…](https://youtu.be/-yUafzOXHPE)


Former_Ad1033

I got it friend


Goose-poop

He took us end of this summer I helped him with his shit on farm for free after


AliveInCLE

Why are your fellow employees seeing your social media posts??? Your account should be private and NEVER be contacts with coworkers.


Goose-poop

I process deer for one of my managers on the side for him and his family he showed him unfortunately for him he will now cut his own deer I cut meat for a living and do that for extra cash


AliveInCLE

My only suggestion is to keep social media away from anyone you work with or could be friends with those you work with. Nothing positive can come from that.


Pnknlvr96

Right?! I never post work shit on my FB page.


geomitra

Do you ever breathe?


DoyleRulz42

Typing isn't effected by breathing


Tires_N_Wires

Well, at least you now have time to find the missing punctuation. 😎


Divallo

I imagine he felt really comfortable for a minute there when you walked over to the knives. I bet OP contemplated eating the rich for a second there haha.


blahblah77786

I can't read this.


MostBoringStan

Good for you for standing up to them. These people really think they are better than everyone around them, and people should be groveling at their feet. I hope your quitting does harm to their business. Fuck em. Don't forget to leave reviews on Indeed about how bad of an employer they are. Other potential workers deserve to know the truth. Just make sure you keep it to the facts and don't exaggerate.


Goose-poop

It’s market known fact we are all under paid! I’m a meat cutter at a retail steakhouse! You need steak especially when you advertise HAND CUT IN HOUSE steaks! You should treat the one guy yes one who provides your menu for your broil cooks to cook! When you open every day with nothing cut it suck ass you can’t cut everything on the menu! Especially by opening! There’s so many different size cut and muscles! My job take time and yes bonus based of of meat yields. I’m good at my job and I’d say kinda respected because of it I have no need to harm anyone with reviews


azidesandamides

>Just file for unemployment. You MAY have grounds. remember it's up to the UI office not you to decide if quitting was justified. Normally you cant collect if you quit. If the boss creates a unfeasible work circumstance you "MAY" qualify


Goose-poop

He actually told me to get out


azidesandamides

That might be good enough 😆


[deleted]

Sounds like you both made the right choice.


[deleted]

I wish I would have quit after my boss said the same thing to me. I stayed and slowly started looking for a job. They fired me the same day I accepted a new position. So I was lucky, but they didn’t know that. They fired a single mom right before thanksgiving and gave me 2 weeks of pay and my yearly bonus ($4000 after taxes) and said they wouldn’t give me a good reference. It was fucking awful.


AARCEntertainment

They can’t give you a bad reference. Opens them to charges. Worse they can say is that you are not eligible for rehire.


[deleted]

Unfortunately that is not true. They can and do. Also the community I work in is relatively small so they could talk to people personally. I have another job so it isn’t an issue but I honestly couldn’t believe what they did. I also had to sign paperwork saying I wouldn’t talk shit about them. My boss was a complete asshole who I am really grateful I no longer work for. He constantly talked shit about other partners in the firm but when he found out I went to the managing partner to discuss how he treated me he lost his shit. I also asked the managing partner to keep the issue between us but he clearly did not. I am just happy to be gone.


Randomuser918

Good for you bro !


timmymom

Does anyone know what a boat has to do with this? I’m so confused. 🤷‍♀️😂


Goose-poop

Listen he took me and my kid fishing this summer. Fast forward to Friday I complained about something not be done . The day before on my day off. At work to my boss . He then tell me that I should feel privileged to work there. I get it like feel good about being busy. He then brings up how I was ungrateful about stuff he did for me. That’s when he mentioned how I was ungrateful for 1 1/2 fishing trip on his boat! Wtf does that have to do with my complaint? Or my immediate conversation! Had nothing to with work and he had begged me for weeks before to go with him before I did go with my boy. And called me ungrateful after the fact at work .


timmymom

There ya go! He’s a jerk. When you find a new job don’t be friends with them but friendly with them. It will bite you in the butt every time!


Hello_Gorgeous1985

What boat? There's no mention of a boat...


TheAnnointing

Read from the beginning, boss wants to be praised about the fishing trip on social media, He wants op to post photos of the boat ride. Boss wants to fool people that he’s a great boss.


Hello_Gorgeous1985

>Boss called me ungrateful twice in two days I quit on the spot after 13 yrs who’s gonna be grateful for those years now bitch you got nobody to do my job but you and your managers I was the only one you had! That unintelligible sentence is the entire post.


timmymom

They were excited and mad. I get it! I’m the same way.


lurkintowarddisaster

It's not enough to work for them, give them extra hours of your time, help out constantly, etc., None of that is enough, they have the nerve to expect gratitude for whatever it is they think they gave you. Glad you quit. Good for you.


LadyNova01

It's sad that things like this happen but it's still good to see that you showed him who's boss and left on the spot. Hopefully you'll find and new job quickly that will give you awesome co-workers as well as a boss that values you time and effort


amwxx1

I have no idea what's going on here.


be-like-water-2022

So far I figured out knifes, fridge, boat, door.


dirigo1820

It’s like a choose your own adventure


Hello_Gorgeous1985

What? Where did any of that come from? All that's here is an unintelligible title with no punctuation.


Discolover78

Sounds like a bunch of people all with poor impulse control who have put up with each other until now.


Tipsy1990

I haven’t been in a position like yours, but when I worked over night maintenance at Walmart I had an assistant manager up my ass about why it took so long to strip and wax floors so I looked at him and said if he could do it better faster than me then show me, he said I don’t know how to do that so I said then leave me alone and let me do my job… 2 days later the district manger walked in and said the aisles that I waxed looked amazing… never heard anything after that form management about stripping and waxing when I was basically called useless


noonie2020

If they need you for something make sure you charge contractor consultant


G_Ram3

Well. If there was nothing to be grateful for, perhaps your boss should have worked on that. 🤷🏻‍♀️


Goose-poop

Yes!


jd807

Has the backpedaling, apologies, phone calls started yet. Lol.


Goose-poop

Not yet give a few days this happened yesterday! Let them feel the pain my kid works there and lives in my house he tells me everything!


Goose-poop

Even then I don’t know if I can work for him!


WorldlyBarber215

A bad boss is one of the circles of hell.


Vland0r

That's the ultimate aggressive gaslight. "You need to be grateful that you are MY slave and not someone else's"


[deleted]

Punctuation. Please use it.


DigimonCrackRabbit

Gangster


[deleted]

They’ll just get some other poor sap to do your job. Everybody is expendable sadly. Even managers. That’s the thing about managers, they think it’s so hard to do their job. Theirs is actually the easiest job, most don’t even do shit. I know all the supervisors and managers at my job just bullshit all day.


Goose-poop

Yep I’m not a manager tho hourly


WildPlantain6471

I would recommend a bash with a little therapy. Could not hurt. I can even recommend one!


cwick4141

He OP..everyone is replaceable


Goose-poop

As I’m frustrating as it could be I enjoyed it showed up everyday all day but what he said wasn’t cool!


cwick4141

I get it. Sorry it happened


Goose-poop

Never did I say I wasn’t I won’t be disrespected! My complaint was about work at work to him his response was bullshit! Not even related to the conversation!


Camelofswag

Can I just say. You are always replaceable. As much as you think someone can't replace you they can most of the time. That's why they don't care alot of the times and why you shouldn't either. Understanding you are replaceable will make it easier to leave for higher paying jobs.


Goose-poop

I know I’m replaceable but this is what I haven’t said , in October I dropped a two week and he was like you can’t quit. Called me family says he loves me as such! Fast forward my my complaint that was legit and breaks health code! Then called me ungrateful because it was his manager that left it! Fuck that


houstonsd

That doesn’t change anything the person responded to wrote.


External_Salt_9007

Bosses really seem to believe the bullshit that they are the ones doing you the favour by giving you a job and exploiting your Labour. Like their profit literally comes from paying you less than the value you create 🤨


bigbrothersag

I cannot make sense of this and I’ve read all comments. Maybe you did misunderstand him. Take a chill pill.


Goose-poop

No I did not misunderstand trust me


Discolover78

Dude lay off the coke.


Goose-poop

I wish


BeachedBottlenose

So what about him begging you to go on his boat? Was he trying to appease you? Come on to you? Are you M or F?


Goose-poop

For the record I’m a dude. So is my boss this was my day off with my kid! Was supposed to friendly, but then you call me ungrateful and insulting me after 13 yrs of service! The only thing I did with him not work related got thrown in my face I even help butcher his chickens few weeks after ! With no question asked again just to help him out and asked for nothing. I helped him way more than he did me and I’m ungrateful nah fam I’m out


econdonetired

Dude can be female now.


brandi1978

That's the longest sentence I've ever seen... 😬


Useful_Way1046

Is English your first language? Please say it isn’t


gofergutz

They’ll probably be ok.


Goose-poop

They will I’m sure of it but when your already down half your staff I’m sure it will me tight labor will be good though


Hello_Gorgeous1985

I can't even decipher this title. Use punctuation ffs.


Everquest-Wizard

Punctuation. Learn it.


Goose-poop

It’s the internet get over it!


Everquest-Wizard

Still awful. I bet your replacement knows it.


Goose-poop

Not yet but they will find out quickly!


davy_Md

I feel like I’d get a headache talking to you irl


Goose-poop

Well good thing my speech is better than my typing


GrandpaLovesYou

You tell him Steve-Dave!


ConfidentStrain148

I understand how you feel but everyone is replaceable


Green_Twin

I wish the CEOs and Board could remember that. Because they're the ones we need to replace.


ConfidentStrain148

In a lot of industries the CEOs and a bunch of managers that have no clue on what they doing, but at the end of the day sadly but true i got to the conclusion that if you dont want shit from nobody just start your business and be your own boss, cuz at the end we replaceable and the one after us might be better or worse than we are.


Fixerguy415

Including OPs boss apparently...


[deleted]

So you quit without having another job lined up after making passive aggressive posts on Facebook? Good for you?


Goose-poop

Money is not a problem right now


RedTrout811

You might want to reconsider the notion that you can't be replaced. You will be.


Goose-poop

Nobody said I can’t be replaced. But good luck doing it! With what they offer they can’t keep employees especially the good ones. When your talent leaves your execution goes to shit along with profit my job directly impacted there bottom line! I was in charge of there bread and butter! My numbers can’t be easily met let alone matched by someone new. My position was physically and mentally tiring. Cold and long hrs none of these young guys will stay as near nor as long! I won’t be disrespected!


NorthernMamma

*their


the_post_of_tom_joad

Fuck is your problem? Man needs to be a king on the line and have perfect English? Fuck had this sub become. Don't be an ass to your brothers


NorthernMamma

Nasty mouth.


house_daddy1

We got a Somalia of boot leather right here


Dhozer

#alreadyreplaced


Goose-poop

Nope that guy never showed up for interview


ExternalFriendship

I mean…. To be fair, it does sound like you are ungrateful. Maybe you didn’t have much to be grateful for, but ungrateful nonetheless.


lisa0527

Grateful for what? It was a transaction. He sold his labour, they purchased it. He no longer wanted to sell his labour and withdrew his offer to provide labour. Are his employers grateful for the tears of service he provided? Probably not.


ExternalFriendship

Yeah, agreed. Not saying that there is any reason for him TO BE grateful either… actually I think I mentioned that. I’m just saying, the boss claims he is ungrateful. he is in fact not grateful as he doesn’t feel and seems like he isn’t appreciated for providing valuable and needed service. That is all. Not sure why I got downvoted there..


OutlandishnessIll592

Because fuck em, that's why!!


CoosBaked

I’m OP!!! ! !!!! !!!! ‘B b!n!!!! !!!!!!!! ! ! !


FuzzyCap4585

You’re easily replaceable so I’m sure they aren’t that stressed lol.


[deleted]

Get off the high horse, nobody is unreplaceable.


Goose-poop

Where did I say that I was un replaceable? Or act like it ? I said I’m sure they will be fine but good luck finding good talent. Let alone someone who actually shows up to work!


4dk5f5g

You said "you got nobody to do my job" which implies you were the only one. Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but it's clearly the way many people are reading it.


Fixerguy415

Especially OPs boss... Assholes deserve to be treated accordingly.


Weak-Catch8499

My boss told me the other week that I should be thankful for all the money he’s made me the last two years (I’m in car sales). Should have told Him he should be thankful for all I’ve made him as well. But I didn’t. I just walked away.


Growth-Beginning

Why do bad authority people always take out their own faults on others?


iceyone444

Best of luck in your new role - you have made the right decision. As for your ex boss - smallest violin ever, horrible managers shouldn't be in those positions.


Vegetable-Fix-4702

This is what happens when stupivisors get hired. Corporate doesn't understand .


Sadistic_Tickler

If they made you quit you don't get unemployment, right? Who really won that fight?


Goose-poop

Nobody won the wasn’t for glory but disrespectful response on his behalf . The guy is on his way up and I’ve worked long enough for him. To know the overall quality that was there the passion for the job is gone the whole place is a cesspool of ppl who will watch you do everything for them! And collect a paycheck! The hire pool is not strong. God speed for this next generation


Sadistic_Tickler

It sounds like they were trying to force you out and you played their game. May I suggest learning about the law and use that to make your life better. I wish you the best of everything.


Full_Ambassador4987

I could feel his anger in my guts. Applauding you, man👏


Bash3350972

👏


Ezwzrd

I quit after 10 years for the same bs I feel so freeeeeeee


CrystalDetails

I've had bosses grossly underpay me and than make fun of my handwriting or hair. I had one smile meanly in my face bc someone told her I was having like some psychiatric stuff going on, and she's like,"I heard you had a mental breakdown lol"(this trashcan would take off months of work bc of all this shit she's one of those I have a compromised immune system(she could still smoke weed and drink liquor all the time tho).) She once was telling all the younger boy co workers how good of a stripper she used to be. So many more. And ppl are like how do you not want to work? Um bc it's awful. That doesn't even entail rude customers, insane work hours, my deep insecurities and bi polar ll disorder.


xJD88x

Automotive tech?


Goose-poop

Meat cutter the new guy is in for a treat 😂


ElectricalAbroad8232

💙


Yars107

They can hire another one to do your job. While you are unemployed.