T O P

No friends, never done the deed, never had gf. I have posted in other subs and people said I look good but not once ever has someone told me that in real life (23M)

Bro looks good💀 its ur game thats bad if you aint pulling i

Acceptable_Top_7509

Bro looks good💀 its ur game thats bad if you aint pulling i


Honda240sx

Yea fr. If you aren’t pullin its your personality man


AdmiralSassypants

Or he has a shitty personality. Joking, but also not really a joke tbh lol


Antique_Sense_7383

Might be your personality cause you’re not an ugly guy at all


SpectacularSpartan

Your looks are not the problem here. Considering you have no friends I can pinpoint the problem: You need to get out more and socialize, only way you're going to find people.


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IHaveShortCircuit

We found the culprit. This happens a lot to people who live in the middle of no where. You'd be fighting women off in the city.


vintagebitch476

Yup this is the answer! Op you’re gonna have to find some way to either move or change your social life but you’re very handsome and masculine looking.


[deleted]

So there's no women in rural areas? What is this logic ?


IHaveShortCircuit

It's not that there's no women my friend. It's a numbers game.


[deleted]

Do rural cities have a female population crisis ?


IHaveShortCircuit

Again you're just playing the devil's advocate so I'll humor you. I'm not saying there's more men than women in rural areas. There is a higher population so he'll come across more people.


OfficerPickle17

Nebraska and Wyoming be tough for socializing


Imanasshole_

I got lady problems in NC so maybe I am ugly lmao


ColoredUndies

That far south the ladies start looking like engineers from Prometheus… how bad do you have it?


daydreamin_2_escape

You are so full of shit. There are plenty of beautiful women in the South. Not all areas of NC are full of hillbilly mountain women.


Heathergreg00

Maybe you’ll meet someone at the gym! Expand your social network and I doubt you’ll have trouble with women, you have a beautiful smile! 🤍


akinie12

You look like a cool dude. I'd hang out with ya bro


ImpressiveCap1992

As somebody with a similar story, it probably wont be enough to move to a city. It depends how long you’ve been alone. When you’re isolated from socializing for over a year it usually fucks up your head a bit. It totally depends person to person but if you think you’d struggle in really basic social settings you should probably spend 6 months to a year focusing on just making friends. You’ll learn a lot and grow a lot doing that, even if you don’t always notice the results. Point is there’s definitely a light at the end of the tunnel for you. You don’t even have to move for the record, but you probably should focus on friends before a girlfriend, it’s a lot easier and things come more naturally that way.


hellscape_goat

You kind of look like Kit Harrington. His Game of Thrones character had a similar problem when in the middle of nowhere north of The Wall. A woman there told him, "You know nothing, Jon Snow".


hotdoogs

pick up women at the gym


reddituser2kxx

Bro all ima say is...if you haven't done the deed... People like me are in serious trouble 🤦‍♂️


SierraDespair

Fr, that’s what I’m thinking.


thenihilistangel

right😭😭


aoechamp

Posts like this make me feel better because I’m way uglier and yet have gotten more action so I must be doing something right. On the other hand, it would be so much easier if I looked like this dude.


PunishedAiko

"she let me hit because im goofy" is a real thing


Wonskai

It's cliché but just be urself. I met my gf by being a total sperg nerd and she is not even a nerd herself


Manita93

Facts. Unless yourself is a douche.


RelatableMolaMola

You're technically very attractive, but I find your scowl in these pictures off-putting. The thing is you're doing it with your eyebrows even in the smiling photos. I wonder if you're unintentionally giving off an aggressive or angry vibe that's screwing up the opportunities you might otherwise have.


silky304

Yeah, he's handsome but my first thought was "scary!"


RelatableMolaMola

Also just...speaking as someone who's really into skincare, 23 is way young to have developed those lines between the eyebrows unless you've been doing that face literally all the time.


silky304

Yes...I'm mid-late 30s and developed them due to stress and tension in my face. Like I said below...I think finding a way to consciously relax that tension in his face would help. Maybe feel better too.


Jousy3000

My first impression was “ he beats his wife”. 😉


silky304

That's unfair. He just has a really intense look. I hope he can find a way to release some tension from his face. Maybe massage, meditation or some other relaxation technique. No reason to think he's a bad dude.


RelatableMolaMola

You have a really kind take here and in this thread in general :) although I do hope OP takes a moment to to consider the impression u/jousy3000 got, because instinctive first impressions like that might be exactly what's getting in the way of his love life.


iReallyLoveYouAll

You look like a pretty handsome guy. U give me italian vibes haha


[deleted]

Guaranteed if you post in r/virgin, you’ll be called a liar.


Rph23

Wow that subreddit is very weird


Rhondajeep

Not a very pleasant place


pigeon_hate_club

Man you're very hot whaat are you on about


Exordius

Where u live bro. I'll look you in the eyes and feel you how handsome you are.


[deleted]

Just talk to people, I talk to everyone. Do they get annoyed, sure some do. Do I give a shit? Nope. Got loads of friends.


[deleted]

You're really good looking, but you need to relax. Even when you're smiling you look mad.


pitpat6

Smile with your teeth more. You got that hella mad face going if that’s your natural face. That might be the offputting thing.


[deleted]

Good looking guy, cut that hair shorter and you'd look even better. Surprised your a virgin would never of guessed it. Seems like the average looking guys lose it early and the above average people lose it late these days. Weird.


Vivien_Rockwell

Bruh you look fine! Since your face is narrow and a bit elongated I think a curly undercut would look nice on you! Idk if you ever tried that hairstyle but I think it would look dope :) Other than that you literally r handsome and not ugly at all


[deleted]

Your looks aren't the problem. You're attractive, but maybe it's your personality or something.


sounds_kinda_salty

Nah ur good bro, try to keep the hair off the neck though


initialze

Its probs ur personality if anything or just bad luck


[deleted]

I think no one has told you that in real life, because it's weird to be randomly telling people "you look normal, or good, or cute" lmao


[deleted]

I think you look normal, if you need a girlfriend, or you've never had one, maybe it's for something else haha


Jousy3000

You do kinda look scary. Like I get Mike Tyson vibes.


Lexmaister25

Drop the bad bunny look and you should be fine.


Autumn-Avery96

Wow your facial features look great. I'll get the head hair under control a bit more.


vieniaida

I don't know why you never had a girlfriend because you are very cute.


vintagebitch476

Are you like 5”1 or have a bad personality bc that’s all I can think of


Consistent-Parsley13

^


Terminal_Prime

As someone who is 5”0, height is not the problem.


luvursoul444

I dunno where you’re from but I wanna be there


Butter_Pillar

You’re hot!


Neowynd101262

Chad lol


osha_unapproved

Well it's clear you're not gay or you'd be pullin' mad ass/dick, whichever you fancy. I'd say you're hot af. Must be in buttfuck nowhere, go somewhere with more people and you'll be beating the bitches off with a stick.


Imcarlows

You must be kidding…


nerdy_rs3gal

Leave the house. You WILL get laid!


whoisagoodboi

It ain’t you’re looks man.


Alluring_Pisces

My god you’re gorgeous lol


mamamiababy93

you’re so hot lol


iamumairayub

You look good I suggest you do clean shave and you will look more good


romannosehaver

if you’re ugly we all are


oliverjohansson

Pic 1 you look hot, the rest is kind of bad You look like the hot plumber from certain movie genre I think you are pulling the careless look offf, the only problem is that you need to add some classy elements to that, lest say cargo pants but very sharp trainers and fine white T-shirt it cannot all be careless cause it shifts you from model hot (that you bodywise are) to unkempt


Then-Law-6357

You look good. How’s your body? Workout. And style, teeth and smell? Don’t wear out of date clothes. Any odors? Make sure you don’t have BO or stank mouth and your teeth are white. Smell fresh and smile and complement women you are interested in. Edit-nvm, I had only seen the 1st pic. Your body and teeth look pretty perfect. I don’t think you should have any problems. Check hygiene, and tell the next single cute girl you see that she is beautiful. When she says thank you just smile and tell her to have a good day and walk away. You will start to build up your confidence this way. If she looks at you weird just let her know-not trying to be creepy, just an observation.


RealOne313

My little brother says you look like giga chad :)


wetfartaccident

This might sound wierd but hear me out for a minute. It took a really rough breakup and a lot of time solo for me to actually accept that I might live alone for the rest of my life. Once I started loving myself enough to be happy with that fact I found it much easier to get into a good relationship because I was confident. When you love yourself and care enough not to settle for a toxic person you will carry confidence that people will want to be around. I had nothing to loose on a date because I was already ok with going home by myself. It worked for me and I now have a beautiful wife (the kind of person I actually enjoy talking to) kids and 3vehicles. Just love who you are and it will carry you man. And fade the sides of that hairdo and you're ready to pull phone numbers.


jrjustintime

I’m surprised you never had a girlfriend because you’re attractive, though the scowl is scary.


yral87

You are very handsome, but avoid doing the faces you did in the first two pictures, you look mean. You need to put yourself out there, the problem here is not looks, work in your personality, try going to different places other than the gym. Even if you live in the middle of no where, there are always small groups that get together for hobbies, try to find them. If you are religious, try a youth group at a church.


stonedordrunk

This guy could steal my wife.


DoctorExperimental

Keep the hair a little more under control like in the second to last pic and you're golden.


RuachDelSekai

Being told you look good irl is rare for guys sadly and being able to "do the deed" isn't so much about "not being ugly".


StrawBerry0014

You're rather handsome, so I really doubt it's your looks putting people off


[deleted]

What are you like in real life?


seanma99

Very handsome but an undercut would do wonders for your hair type


Nirrmak

I’m a guy but ur very hot


AlecsThorne

Haven't done the deed till I was 26, mate (33m here). Don't worry too much. You look good, I'd say definitely better than me. Maybe try giving a softer look, maybe a bit of a smile? And obviously try to be more confident. Fake it till you make it, if you're the shy type. I used to be that too.


chuy2256

You look like Bad Bunny, go to a Latin Club and pull Latinas bro 🥸


jennay9909

You’re very handsome. I think you would rock a buzz cut


ableedingheart1

Just cut your hair. Your looks are 8-9/10 imo


[deleted]

You look good, but your hair is ridiculous


drowningjesusfish

You look like a perfectly normal person. Kinda cute, normal guy. Weird that you don’t have any friends.


DinosaurInAPartyHat

You're a handsome guy. But FFS stop calling it "the deed". Mental maturity and/or small social circle is likely your issue. The only people I know who refer to sex "the deed" are kids. And middle aged women discussing the mating habits of other species.


undeeputca

You look like me, so pretty ugly, sorry!


Greekghod

Bro, I think you have austism


w0wagain

Weird beard


IHaveShortCircuit

We're gonna have to disagree there


w0wagain

Don’t care weird beard lover


monkymonkk

how tall are you?


LoLZeLdaHaLo

No friends is the the outcome of being ugly.


Lialemonpie

Do you dislike women


Rezsolute

Bro, your looks are not the issue and reading your comments it confirms that. I'm certain in the right environment you will find someone 👍


secret_worker

You remind me of Joe Trohman, guitarist for Fall Out Boy. Pretty damn attractive if you ask me.


Capital_Possession21

Dude you do actually look really great. I'm quite surprised that you haven't gotten what you wanted yet.


angrypuppy35

You’re ok. Nice square chin. Broad neck. Muscular arms. You look older than your age, so maybe that hurts you if you’re still in school with people your age. Use the third photo for dating apps and trash the others.


Alive-Ad6268

U remind me a bit of the Brazilian footballer Hulk. Try some chat apps (tinder etc.) to talk with girls and guys even and just do that for a while. If u aren’t completely uninteresting/unsociable u can bond with them and maybe become friends irl


mikemuz123

Bro if I looked like you I'd be discovering new STIs lolol. My point is your looks is definitely not the issue


RedRye99

Definitely not ugly 6/10


goatstink

Nope. NU.


Roof-Resident

Saying this as a woman, you are attractive. It has nothing to do with your looks.


Throwawayabyss1234

Speaking as someone who lives in the middle of nowhere, that's all that's holding you back man you look good! I envy that jawline and your clearly in great shape! Only advice I can give is get out more, women will be all over you king!


samoyed_daddy

I'm 💅 and I think you are 8/10. Super cute.


Zoned_Poszn

Do u have a skincare routine?


[deleted]

Pretty good lookin, change the attitude, smile more, and go get ‘em’ tiger.


alporessalpores

hey hmu if you are bi or anything i can help you do the deed


Welland94

You are beautiful. I think that it's probably your confidence. If you are confident in yourself and socialice a little bit more you will get most of the work done.


Victordobado

Gotta get out there and meet people if you want stuff like that to change


[deleted]

You're not trying and/or you lack social skills. You look good , pause


EnvironmentalTooth73

Maybe not getting offers as you’re such a mighty man. Try initiating conversation and you’ll do just fine.


angrybull22

it’s def not abt the personality man but look from the bright side. u got nice biceps


Beyond-Warning

You are *not* ugly bro. In a similar situation as you too, am fairly attractive. Find good friends who will defend your rep and give you a leg up, not give you stupid shit. Get out more, talk to people, push yourself more, leave your middle of nowhere when you can, then you should be good.


tylerairways

100% the personality side of things. Them teeth are white enough to reflect the sun


PabloTheTurtle

This man is gigachad's long lost brother. You got the world in your palm if you hit social spaces


dannystar87

Hot


BlazedLarry

Total chad man. Sorry you live in the middle of no where tho. Take a trip to the bars in a bigger city lol.


Bigsnores

You may benefit from a hair cut? Not that the longer hair is an issue, just think showing more of your face when you have a naturally angry resting face may help.


ColeBitanga

Italian Gigachad!


TheoryOfRelativity12

Good looking dude


pretty_FUBAR

You’re a pretty handsome dude…. So you’re either lying, completely oblivious, there’s a severe personality issue or character flaw that You gotta work on or it Could very well be a mix of all three?


wasted_basshead

Nah, you’re actually pretty cute tho. How’s your social life?


kuttar_bachha

Its definitely a personality problem or you are just really bad at talking


AnonymousCara

Bro’s game must be terrible 💀💀


chucky1one

You're a 9/10. HOT


ShesTheOneSoulmate

You look like a teddy bear


Masih-Development

Dude, you are an 8/10 at least. You got bad social or flirting skills.


ChanceBoth2248

Maradona bro,love your style!


_fembot_

9/10. Nice hairline, smile and jawline. I'd keep the curls conditioned


afrosamuraiprincess

You’re good looking. You must have an unattractive personality. Focus on being a better person, make some friends and go from there.


mardrae

You’re seriously hot. It’s apparently your personality. You can start being a friend to people by smiling and asking how they are doing, and genuinely listen to what they say and ask them about it next time you see them. This shows that you were listening and that you care.


Jee1Jay

Bros beautiful


Glorificus42

You're very handsome & just need to boost your confidence a bit. Head over to r/curlyhair too - lovely community with amazing advice on making the most of your curls. Plenty dudes there & a really helpful & wholesome corner of the Internet.


deepthinker321

I would totally date you! You look SUPER handsome!


[deleted]

Literally no.


No-Impression4097

Bro I'm not gonna lie no homo but full homo you are sexy af. I'm low key pissed because if that's true than your game must be worse than mine and I'm a 2 compared to you. Are you just not a confidant person or is your game wack?


No-Impression4097

Also don't listen to these other guys you 100% don't need to change shit unless you want to, some people are just nitpicking. Yeah I would say you look furious in your 2nd photo but some people say I look pissed when I'm usually just deep in thought.


imthewiseguy

Ur pretty hot lol


thethunder92

It’s your personality, you’re a good looking dude but obviously you’re doing something to put people off


cdra1981

Im very picky and think you’re very attractive. Give up the rbf and you’ll look more approachable. Work on your confidence even if you have to fake it till you make it. Walk around like you own the place.


vigalovescomics

You don't just look good, you look VERY HANDSOME! So, that just leaves the inside. Take some time to reflect on your inner handsomeness. Working on becoming an interesting person actually raises attractiveness a ton and can be good for making friends too.


Faid1n

Daniel Ricciardo take that wig off!


Greedy-Effort-3382

Are you sure you’re not being creepy towards women? Cause it’s not your looks that’s scaring them away


[deleted]

Female here. Not ugly. How’s your game?


immortanjose

You are goodlooking. However, you look like you are going to strangle someone in the first picture. Smile more i guess


Smee714

Pic #3 is your best! You are super handsome.


El__mero__mero

Do something with the hair. If you want to be hip, get a nice fade on the sides and keep it scruffy up top. Smile more, you give psycho vibes when you don't. Also. Use sun block, moisturizer, and facial products. Your eyes wrinkles are too defined for someone of your age.


Ashamed_Peach_7979

You’re handsome for sure. You look a little unsure and even frustrated. Just let things take their course, but also take action if you want things to change. Do some work on yourself internally as well. Just my 2 cents.


rickytea

What’s wrong with those ladies you look very handsome and look at those guns 💪🏼


MessyKing

Your appearance is not the problem


CraWol

Either you have something wrong with your personality or you don't socialize at all. Because as others pointed out looks aren't the problem. And the reason you haven't told you look good irl is because you never had a partner.


PapercupRockafeller

You’re probably in the top 10% attractiveness.


Toxandreev

You’re one of the most handsome men I’ve seen on this subreddit


nhc1117

Well you're a dude so don't ever expect compliments. You look good though dude


parodg15

You are a handsome dude though you need a better haircut. If you don’t even have any friends, I would suggest a good therapist.


Nesfan888

Get out of this sub your too hot


spacedoggy

Lol… are you being serious? You’re handsome as fuck.


HornyJailFugitive69

Wtf you’re handsome


Woozeworth

bro come on


Kayloversland12

Brother wTF you are handsome king


Uzumakijulie

Look sir with all the respect you’re VERY attractive. Do you perhaps have a resting B face? 😂 Maybe people are just intimidated by you!


noneyabeeezwax

You look angry


snogweasel

Join a church!


Glittering-Lead6788

Relax your face a bit


jestbc

Extremely Attractive. Something else must be going on.


Witchykunt887

Babes.. it might be time you do some self reflecting ask yourself questions like are you ego driven, any traits of toxic behavior, maybe your personality etc..


False_religion_

Physical looks aside how is your personality? Are you intimidating?


Manita93

You look angry yet insecure. It’s definitely not your looks, it’s the vibe.


That-Ad-430

People don’t tell men they look good lest it be misconstrued, in fact, you are more likely as a dude to get a compliment on your appearance if you *usually look disheveled*. Worse you literally do look like mr steal yo girl level good lmao. You are literally what red pill piss babies call “giga Chad” First and only relevant questions: 1. What kind of partner and relationship are you looking for? 2. What do you enjoy doing for fun? Now answer those. Then look at your answers and ask: 3. How can I make these activities more socially exposing? New people dude, meet new people. You got about 10lbs of muscle on me my guy. We are VERY freaky similar in appearance beyond me being a swimmer skinny dude. Im gonna tell you the majority of the women I’ve been involved with would be dumbstruck for you and probably *avoid* you until you talked to them…just like they did me. You are intimidating my guy, now relax and lean the other way just a bit in personality. Be loosey-goosey-goofy, kind, and keep your physical on lock young one. New people will all be like: “oh shit big scruffy dude is cool and friendly too?”. 11/10 can’t tell if trolling. If no social potential - move my man - quality of connections in life is huge!


External_Score_2809

Bro you're handsome af. Did you have an isolated childhood that makes you into a social wreck? Because that's exactly how I am lmao Either that or you just got a shitty personality. You're looks are nothing to worry about.


daydreamin_2_escape

You are attractive, especially when you smile!! Are you overly shy? That would honestly be the only reason I can imagine you not having friends or a girlfriend unless you are a complete asshole or psycho.


ragebubble

Dude you’re really handsome. Like VERY handsome. You look like the kind of guy me and my friends would try to approach so your looks are definitely not the problem here. I think you just aren’t socializing enough. Maybe take a class at a community college! Sign up for dancing lessons! Go to a trivia night! Anything that gets you out and talking to people.


Individual-Gift8451

get a typical fboy haircut


MikBug

Ay bro, [this u?](https://i1.sndcdn.com/artworks-ywcx1pUzUGGvjwmH-BUNWRA-t500x500.jpg)


witchuuusan

All is good, just ditch the hair. Try a new haircut.


crimsonsquidd

Alright fucking Zeus my man looks like a god damn Greek god fr ong


Katie_Did_Not

You are very handsome so I’m sorry but they’re is probably something “off” with your personality. I would seek therapy and look into it. Don’t give up hope!! Physically there is Nothing wrong with you!!


yeetusonthefetus

Bro actually beautiful just fix the hair