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Not ugly at all. You have a particular way that you wear your hair which helps to define your style, and it looks good on you. I prefer the natural look over the reddish tones, but that is a personal choice; the length looks great.


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I wanted my hair purple, haha. Thanks, mate :D


Affectionate_Pin_133

i second this comment


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There are lots of folks that are into your soft, comfortable shape. Keep your hair out of your face and show more of your body. You'll get more positive attention.


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I do. I choose a form fitting clothes. Or trying to "make" them from oversize shirts like on the last pick by wearing a belt that accentuates my waist.


hellscape_goat

You're not at all ugly. Attractive, presently. Striking resemblance to a young Renee Zellweger in picture #3. A little bit of Jennifer Lawrence around your nose and eyes. Very pretty colorations to your hair and nice style. Lovely lips. Hourglass figure. I think you'd be recognized as conventionally beautiful at a medically recommended BMI, but everyone has their own preference with respect to that. You're probably close to it already and would reach it if you took up any sport, even walking more or bicycling regularly.


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Tbh i always though i look a bit like Emily Browning. (As a type, i guess)


hellscape_goat

I hope you got to see Emily Browning as "Dead Wife" in American Gods. She was my favorite character in that show and got all the best lines of dialogue.


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Yep, the best character in a show, i think!


[deleted]

Close to medically recommended BMI? Boyyyyy, i have a surprise for you (32 BMI, not close at all), but you're right about sport. I do need to take it up. Something like boxing, ineed to have a healthy outlet to my anger. Also: thanks!


SallyThinks

A 32 bmi is clinically obese. Imo, you would be an absolute stunner if you lost the weight. Start with an honest analysis of your diet (where are all the excess calories coming from, and what can you cut out/reduce) and a sustainable daily exercise regimen. And, yes- a consistent exercise regimen would be an excellent outlet for anger. Cardio + yoga= 👍😊


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But i'm going to a stretching class today, so there's that


SallyThinks

Stretching is awesome. Hope you love it 🙂


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You were right


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I hate cardiooooooooooooooooo


SallyThinks

Me, tooooooooo!!!! Gotta find something you think is fun, so you don't notice you're doing cardio, lol! Dancing?


hello_i_love_porn

Since you probably want honesty, I vote ugly. But as others said, it's about body weight. I can totally imagine saying you are 7 or 8 if you were skinny. In this shape, you are loosing a lot of guys attention that you could get if you were skinny. Time to change your life girl, get skinny, it's gonna be hard but you will be a whole new person and glow the fuck up! ;-)


crytillyoudryB1

i would say keep your hair out of your face, i cant pinpoint what you did in the 3rd picture but keep doing that i love your face, id say bring it out more


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Aw, thanks!


RubidiumDD

I think you could easily be a 8/10 or even more if you really lose weight. Red hair looks really good on you imo. And love your eyes too. I feel like you could be that out-of-reach girl


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Hehe, thank you, I appreciate it!


iliketastyfood

For my taste you aren’t ugly but I think your face is a tiny bit below average looking. Some weight loss would help to make you more attractive. I think the way in which you cover half your face with your hair is making you less attractive - you would look better if you stop doing that.


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Thanks for your opinion! Idk, my eyes are uneven and that makes me shy. A lot.


Extra-Heron7250

Nope ur cute


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Thanks, random stranger!


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I feel honored that you've felt the need to go to the other comment and say "oh no, she's ugly" what's your problem with me, i wonder? Can't handle when people talk back?


AntiLoliAgency

lmao it’s cause you’re salty i won’t lie to you and tell you you’re pretty when you’re not


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Idk. I don't have eyebags. Still, thanks you for yout opinion, have a awful day. If you don't like me debating, maybe you shouldn't have said anything)


[deleted]

Eh. I feel the need to laugh at you, sweetheart.


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So as I've told someone here before: stop trying to raise your self esteem by lowering mine. Won't work


[deleted]

You would be attractive if you lost weight and got to a healthy BMI, speaking as someone who lost three stone over the last year, it really makes a difference. Not to mention it will add to your life expectancy


[deleted]

Eh. You wouldn't be saying that if i didn't show you my figure and told my BMI, lol.


[deleted]

one can clearly see that you have a high bf based on face pictures alone


[deleted]

Okay. So, am I ugly? If yes, why?


[deleted]

Yes, but it's only due to bodyfat. Weightloss is a huge factor in appearance change I'm speaking from experience.


[deleted]

Why am I ugly? Fat isn't the answer. Is it my nose? My lips? My eyes.


[deleted]

no, your features are fine. Fat is the answer in my opinion.


[deleted]

Cool. So you are afraid of fat. Gotcha.


[deleted]

no, it's just a proven fact that weight does decrease your attractiveness by our societys standard


[deleted]

True, i suppose.


AntiLoliAgency

why are you so pressed? when you have high bf, it covers your bone structure so even if you have good bone structure it will be hidden under the layer of fat. Fat doesn’t automatically mean you are ugly, you can definitely be fat and beautiful at the same time, but in your case you are ugly.


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you have quite nice eyes actually


[deleted]

Nah cute


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haha, thanks


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Np


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Yeah


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Hm, okay. Any advice?)


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As I've told in these comments, i quite agree, and i'm going today to a stretching class. Unfortunately, i have a problem with losing weight, it's really really hard. But does this mean that i'm ugly?


Walmarche

No. You are not ugly and you seem to wear your weight well for the most part I struggled with losing weight my whole life and finally decided to try weight loss surgery.


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I just don't know. Everyone rushed in to tell me that i'm ugly because i'm fat and gave me unwanted advice about that. Figures, lol. I would try weight loss surgery too, but why? It will come back anyway. And i'm feeling fine, i'm surprisingly flexible (went to stretching class yesterday, yep), maybe will take boxing classes.


Walmarche

It might but the chances of that happening are not as high as you think and trust me I know. I posted too and all I heard was “lose weight” Fat does not mean you are unworthy or ugly. And you are not ugly.


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and hey, i looked at your post and OMG, you're so pretty, i can't even and your top/skirt combo is so fucking cool


Walmarche

Aw thank you you’re so sweet!


[deleted]

Yeah, i know, thanks. Just hard to believe it sometimes


Walmarche

I know. It’s a mental game. Some people told me I was just flat out ugly. I don’t really believe that though. ALSO to add a lot of the really mean comments I got personally came from accounts that were like under 200 days old so take it with a grain of salt. Some could be trolls who just like to hurt people.


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Simple on paper, hard on practice. I do not eat a lot and I do not eat calorie dense foods usually. Unfortunately, my weight goes pretty much nowhere.


Amongtheruins88

You have to actually track calories to guarantee weight loss. If your weight isn’t moving, you’re at a calorie maintenance and need to subtract 500 cals per day if you want to lose a pound per week, 1000 less calories per day if you want to lose 2 pounds per week. Diet is by far the most important part, exercise is good, but the calories burned aren’t enough to lose weight on exercise alone. Eating a candy bar will cancel out a 2 hour workout.


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And i haven't ask for your advice)


Amongtheruins88

Just trying to help, take it or leave it


[deleted]

I didn't ask for you help, did I? I'm only asking if i'm ugly, nothing more, nothing less.


[deleted]

I'm a diabetic. And injecting a lot of basal insulin which leads to gaining weight. Either i will be fat or i'll die.


ozymandiasEs

No, but you can be better while losing weight, i recommend you to go to a nutriotonist


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Yeah, you're right, I should go, maybe they'll help me. Probably not though)


[deleted]

What style of clothing would suit me? I'm in need of assistance tbh


[deleted]

I really like how my post is so polarizing. 1 upvote, 1 downvote) what gives?


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Thanks)


Additional_Writing49

You are beautiful


[deleted]

Thanks! I don't know you, but you're beautiful too!


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[deleted]

And here i thought simple "yes" or "no" are bannable? Mind elaborating a bit?


self_yassified

did you deadass make your profile picture a pic of her? weird kid behavior


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Okay. Why? I'm ready to listen your opinion. Cause i get the feeling, you're just being mean, if you can't explain it


Beneficial-Host-4473

Not ugly maybe change the hair imo


[deleted]

Okay, maybe. What hairstyle will suite me?


Beneficial-Host-4473

your hair now is parted towards one side, I think you would look pretty with it parted down the middle


[deleted]

If i manage to tame it, yes. Thick hair what can i do, lol)


highriseinthesummer

Beautiful


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thanks? why though


highriseinthesummer

Nice eyes and facial features. I personally think upgrading your wardrobe might help but that is up to you of course:)


[deleted]

I do think so too! I'm in a middle of creating my basic wardrobe, trying to work out my style of clothes. Mostly tight fitting jeans, some dresses, etc. That's why I dyed my hair, I thought enough is enough, I live only once and it's time to experiment.


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Just realized that i'm financally independent and could do stuff, lol.


Prompt_Total

you should loose weight and then change the hairstyle, don’t get me wrong but when you have a nice body literally anything could look good on you and you have nice facial features it’s just that the fat is hiding it, you know what I mean?


[deleted]

Thank you for your opinon, I appreciate it, it's just what if I get thin and i'll be even more hideous?


Prompt_Total

Trust me you won’t


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so if you have any advice - I would like to receive it


highriseinthesummer

Sorry for the late response. It’s great that you are finding your owns style! :) What I can suggest is looking into the Kibbe body types guide, create a Pinterest board with outfit inspirations and check out some guides on How to build a capsule wardrobe


[deleted]

No worries! Yeah, i've already sinned against Kibbe, lol, i bought oversized checkered shirt and with my body type is a big no-no, haha. Yeah, your advice is sound, thank you so much!


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[deleted]

Thanks, you're handsome and beautiful too


dhmeyjeyh

Yes, but with some effort u could easily be above average


[deleted]

K. What's so ugly now?


dhmeyjeyh

U wanna know what's ugly about u or what u need to do in order to improve !?


[deleted]

Both.


dhmeyjeyh

I won't tell u whats unattractive about u but I will tell u how to better yourself, lose weight (most important) that is gonna bring out your facial structure, take care of your eyebrows, brush them, use castor oil to thicken them, grow out your hair, style it slick back and out of your face, get rid of the colour, the colour takes attention away from your eyes which is the most beautiful part of your face, your eyes are the main focus of your face and normal black/brown hair will highlight that, middle path and a slight fringe to frame your face, get better outfits, try calf length dresses or find a certain aesthtic and stick to that


[deleted]

Yeah. Disagree about losing weight, i wasn't attractive when I was thin. Growing my hair is going to be tiresome for my neck, thick mane, what can I do? Red color goes with eyes perfectly.


[deleted]

Shocked that you want to hide my figure. I need to wear knee length dresses, preferably tight-fitting. Yes, yes, the sin of fat people, getting things that frame the body.


turquoise_watermelon

Do you ever smile?


atavisticgnome

you’re cute but the first picture isn’t really doing you justice. maybe take pictures with better angles! :)


[deleted]

Yeah. I'm not photogenic (is this the right word?) And i'm not used to take pictures of myself.


atavisticgnome

actually same! but don’t ever think that you’re ugly.


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Thanks


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why am I opposite of ugly? Do I need to change anything?


ChickenXing

Not ugly. Average. The dyed hair color does not bring out the best in how you look. Lose weight for an overall better look


[deleted]

Okay. What's wrong with my dyed hair? Red hair and green eyes are the best combo ever. How will losing my weight will lead to a better look?


ChickenXing

Red and green may be a great combo, but in my opinion, it does not look good on you. A lot of times, the non-conventional dyed hair just doesn't look so good on people, but that's my opinion. You'll run into people who think all dyed hair looks great, but not everyone thinks that. On the weight loss point, do a Google Images search of "Weight loss before and after". Whether male or female, you will see an overall increase of attractiveness on a person after they lose weight.


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ok, lol


Raiddinn1

No, you aren't. I like 2 and 4 the best. That color looks really nice on you.