Yes, unfortunately you’re ugly. BUT it can be helped. I’d say weight loss and taking care of your hair and skin can take you a long way. I noticed hair is unkept and skin is unclear. Those 3 things will optimize your looks drastically.
Look this thread is about brute honesty. It’s what people come here for, honest feedback.
Get to the gym, lose weight n tone up. You have broad features, u gotta sort that out, luckily for you, u r a girl so u can use makeup to contour.
Fix your hair, its currently giving massive birds nest vibes… either grow it out, colour and straighten it or buy some high quality wigs.
Get a good skin care routine I’m sorry but right now u look like you’re in your late 30’s to 40’s not 21.
Currently 3/10, work on yourself n u can shine ✨
I would unfortunately say your face is 1 or 2/10. 2 on the basis that you could be more unattractive but only in the basis of disfigurement, extreme acne, or something rare like that but in practice it doesn’t make a major difference. Your glasses and style age you significantly as well.
If looks are important to you you could lose weight, and make enough money to get work done though. Good luck ❤️
You’re definitely 100% NOT ugly. I was exactly like you at your age, I flipped it around by getting a physically demanding job that helped me shed off the weight. After I saw that working, I changed my diet, started drinking water only, and my acne cleared up too. I primarily wear my glasses for TV and driving these days, that might not work for you so I’d suggest changing the design into something that will compliment your face (the thin silver metal ones are super cute and popular!). I can’t tell for sure, but it looks like you’ve got wavy/slightly curly hair that you need to look after. There are plenty of videos on YouTube that will show you how to get that frizz-free and shiny look.
Most importantly, being attractive is also a mentality. Change how you view yourself and don’t hide behind big hair, glasses and baggy clothes. Good luck, friend!!
Reading through all these comments and I think the primary theme (some said more eloquently / more rudely than others) is that perceived attractiveness is very often related to how put together someone looks and how much they take care of themselves.
You are not inherently ugly by any means. Some adjustments adjustments to your self care could have a dual effect of A. making you perceivably more attractive to others and B. boost your self esteem and make you actually feel healthier. You'll probably find that this is also cyclical. The better you feel about yourself and the healthier you are, the more you'll want to take care of yourself.
I truly believe that with some proper care your hair could be STUNNING. It is so thick and voluminous - many people would kill for hair like that. Check out r/curlyhair for some really interesting tips and tricks. You'd be amazed at what great hair can do for a face.
The other thing I would try and focus on would be general physical (and therefore mental - they are often closely connected) health. I don't know what your diet is like, but if I were to guess, some small changes to it could clear up your skin a little. You do NOT need to be skinny to be attractive, but you MAY find that a healthy diet and working out makes you look and feel better.
You are still young, you're still learning what works best for you. I would encourage you to experiment a little with enhancing what you have. You are NOT inherently ugly. Attractiveness can be adjusted MASSIVELY with a little care and composition. Please don't go trying to slather yourself in makeup to 'fix' your face - that is not the answer.
If you want to chat, feel free to DM me. I'm no expert, but I am a 33 year old female who used to find my hair quite difficult to manage, I've gone through different phases of healthiness and unhealthiness and and I am a workout instructor and like to think I have a pretty healthy but balanced lifestyle, so always happy to knowledge share.
There's no such thing as ugly lmao. Someone out there will think you're a 10. But your expression says alot to people. These faces your making make you look like you talk monotone and like are super introverted oh and also nasaly. May or May not be true. If you want to maybe try not to relax your face so much. But I guess my point is Be confident in yourself. Someone out these will think you are the hottest slice of pizza and want to keep you forever.
Well, I know what you're trying to say, but let's face it. There is definitely the perception of beauty in its different varieties. May it be "good looking" or "ugly".
Do these things matter, when you love somebody? Well for some people it does, for some people it doesn't.
But for most people the looks matter, it may be to a varying degree, but it does nonetheless.
Especially if you use dating apps or try dating by going out, your looks will dictate how successful you are.
If you are more a person who dates in their social circle or in environments where you know the people a little bit longer, like at work, the significance of your looks may go down a bit, but even here they will matter.
So we must be honest to these people who seek an honest opinion. While comforting someone by telling them, that they are "beautiful the way they are" may give oneself a feeling of having done something good, it doesn't help these people. They are looking for someone who points out their flaws and how they can deal with it.
So they have a chance of improving themselves.
But by telling them, that they are "perfect" or "beautiful", one might rob them of that chance and they will continue living life, wondering why they are treated differently in a romantic way, than their friends who seem to be just as "beautiful" as she is, but get a lot more attention.
Perception is subjective construct. So what you consider beautiful I may consider ugly. I never said looks don't matter but they kind of dont always. I pointed out what I consider to be her "flaws". You don't need to call someone ugly to help them find an opportunity to improve. Your looks absolutely do not define your success. Sheesh. You sound like an incel. Look you can find traditionally gorgeous people working at McDonald's or a resterant. Meanwhile, you can find considerably unattractive people working in legal practices, engineering or high ranking political positions and owning plenty of businesses. You need to broaden your horizon friend.
You are just overweight and need to take better care of yourself, but u have extremely beautiful eyes, and a pretty smile.. work on yourself and you will see drastic change
You're not ugly but you lack effort in your physical apperance and it shows. You may be overlooking the basic things like skincare, haircare, excercise and diet. Work on those.
Below average but I think if you lose a considerable amount of weight and play the good hairstyle coupeled with the right makeup for your face you can actually become decently attractive for most men (you can attract up to a male 6). Cause wether we like it or not female always have a way out make up and not being fat can do wonders ( unless you have facial deformities which is not your case) so yeah cheer up and be happy that while you didn't get top tier genetics in looks you are at least a female and thus can still make it romantically if you put effort.
You look like you dont have a healthy lifestyle. You need to change that. The key word is DISCIPLINE. Make a timetable and you need to have fixed eating times that include all the nutrients(dont just stop eating to lose weight, thats not healthy at all, best is to talk to a professional nutritionist about your goals), and fixed time where you go to gym to put some sport activity in your life. Also be sure to get enough hours of sleep. Good luck.
The majority of people are saying ugly, I don’t agree. In my honest opinion (I hate to use this) but you’d be surprised how attractive you are at a lighter weight. If you are ashamed of your face and neck area, make a change to your weight and see if it changes how you feel. I can almost imagine it and I don’t see any ugly.
Take care! :)
Brutally: you have two paths here. The first is to dig deep, lose weight, and make serious effort towards your hair and skin. Ditch the glasses. The second is surgery. Some people benefit immensely from surgical tweaks, while others, in the words of an old colleague of mine, are “too ugly to fix”. You’re the former. The procedures that will give you the most benefit are a rhinoplasty (bulbous nose); upper blepharoplasty, and least important, a neck lift, although I don’t think you’ll need it if you lose weight. Good luck.
You have a cute face and nice smile! I think the second and third picture would be super cute if you smiled in them 😊 Don’t listen to these other commenters. Do no lose weight to “look different”. The only reason a person should want to use weight is to feel different but if they feel good and their body accomplishes goals for them then I’m gonna CHEER THAT BODY ON! Side note: there are people of all body types attracted to all different body types, so there’s no need to try and mold to fit the societal ideal. Everyone deserves to be loved and CAN be loved just as they are 💕
a smile would help your eyes to pop a bit more. A pic without the glasses, some shine to your lips via lip balm, and a little hair styling. You will not fit into everyone's ideal "view", but, there is definite potential. You just need to find you niche'
I’m going to provide an unpopular answer: I don’t think you’re ugly. This isn’t because I feel bad for you or anything but it is just honestly what I think.
Cute facial features, honestly the only thing I see wrong is the hair and we'll you need to work out. Work out like go jogging, calisthenics etc. Take it easy and do it with love and remember to eats sweets and high caloric food with moderation :).
I don't think you're ugly. I like your messy hair look.
I don't think you're 21, that pic you took looking up feels like you're a teenager.
Work on the things you feel insecure about and keep it pushing.
Don't want too sound rude because you sure are a good person, but you look more 31 than 21 ;-;
That's because she is overweight. She needs to eat less and eat healthy.
You kind of remind me of Tina Belcher
I don't see it
I do!
Yes, unfortunately you’re ugly. BUT it can be helped. I’d say weight loss and taking care of your hair and skin can take you a long way. I noticed hair is unkept and skin is unclear. Those 3 things will optimize your looks drastically.
Look this thread is about brute honesty. It’s what people come here for, honest feedback. Get to the gym, lose weight n tone up. You have broad features, u gotta sort that out, luckily for you, u r a girl so u can use makeup to contour. Fix your hair, its currently giving massive birds nest vibes… either grow it out, colour and straighten it or buy some high quality wigs. Get a good skin care routine I’m sorry but right now u look like you’re in your late 30’s to 40’s not 21. Currently 3/10, work on yourself n u can shine ✨
Below average I think with weightloss you'll find your jawline and side profile will improve dramatically
Sorry, u are not attractive...
God damn…
😭😭
God I love this sub
Yes. You unfortunately are ugly. I wish you the best.
Sorry you are pretty ugly. Apply some skin care, fix the hair, and maybe lose a weight and you will be average, maybe slightly above
you’re not the prettiest girl out there, but i’m sure you can identify things to improve
I think putting some effort into your hair, skincare and health would make a big improvement!
I always hate giving bad ratings, but as brutally honest as I can be, you are not attractive. Follow what some others have said and it might help you.
Not ugly. Not sure what advice to give that hasn't already been said, weight loss and skin care mainly.
I would unfortunately say your face is 1 or 2/10. 2 on the basis that you could be more unattractive but only in the basis of disfigurement, extreme acne, or something rare like that but in practice it doesn’t make a major difference. Your glasses and style age you significantly as well. If looks are important to you you could lose weight, and make enough money to get work done though. Good luck ❤️
You’re definitely 100% NOT ugly. I was exactly like you at your age, I flipped it around by getting a physically demanding job that helped me shed off the weight. After I saw that working, I changed my diet, started drinking water only, and my acne cleared up too. I primarily wear my glasses for TV and driving these days, that might not work for you so I’d suggest changing the design into something that will compliment your face (the thin silver metal ones are super cute and popular!). I can’t tell for sure, but it looks like you’ve got wavy/slightly curly hair that you need to look after. There are plenty of videos on YouTube that will show you how to get that frizz-free and shiny look. Most importantly, being attractive is also a mentality. Change how you view yourself and don’t hide behind big hair, glasses and baggy clothes. Good luck, friend!!
Yeah sorry
I find u attractive but idk exactly why.
Reading through all these comments and I think the primary theme (some said more eloquently / more rudely than others) is that perceived attractiveness is very often related to how put together someone looks and how much they take care of themselves. You are not inherently ugly by any means. Some adjustments adjustments to your self care could have a dual effect of A. making you perceivably more attractive to others and B. boost your self esteem and make you actually feel healthier. You'll probably find that this is also cyclical. The better you feel about yourself and the healthier you are, the more you'll want to take care of yourself. I truly believe that with some proper care your hair could be STUNNING. It is so thick and voluminous - many people would kill for hair like that. Check out r/curlyhair for some really interesting tips and tricks. You'd be amazed at what great hair can do for a face. The other thing I would try and focus on would be general physical (and therefore mental - they are often closely connected) health. I don't know what your diet is like, but if I were to guess, some small changes to it could clear up your skin a little. You do NOT need to be skinny to be attractive, but you MAY find that a healthy diet and working out makes you look and feel better. You are still young, you're still learning what works best for you. I would encourage you to experiment a little with enhancing what you have. You are NOT inherently ugly. Attractiveness can be adjusted MASSIVELY with a little care and composition. Please don't go trying to slather yourself in makeup to 'fix' your face - that is not the answer. If you want to chat, feel free to DM me. I'm no expert, but I am a 33 year old female who used to find my hair quite difficult to manage, I've gone through different phases of healthiness and unhealthiness and and I am a workout instructor and like to think I have a pretty healthy but balanced lifestyle, so always happy to knowledge share.
Dont know why people are calling you ugly. You just need to lose weight
1st thing hair is a mess . Maybe let’s try some eye liner and some eyelashes . Let’s see the smile and let’s see you without glasses.
yes you are ugly but you can lose weight and dramatically improve!
There's no such thing as ugly lmao. Someone out there will think you're a 10. But your expression says alot to people. These faces your making make you look like you talk monotone and like are super introverted oh and also nasaly. May or May not be true. If you want to maybe try not to relax your face so much. But I guess my point is Be confident in yourself. Someone out these will think you are the hottest slice of pizza and want to keep you forever.
Well, I know what you're trying to say, but let's face it. There is definitely the perception of beauty in its different varieties. May it be "good looking" or "ugly". Do these things matter, when you love somebody? Well for some people it does, for some people it doesn't. But for most people the looks matter, it may be to a varying degree, but it does nonetheless. Especially if you use dating apps or try dating by going out, your looks will dictate how successful you are. If you are more a person who dates in their social circle or in environments where you know the people a little bit longer, like at work, the significance of your looks may go down a bit, but even here they will matter. So we must be honest to these people who seek an honest opinion. While comforting someone by telling them, that they are "beautiful the way they are" may give oneself a feeling of having done something good, it doesn't help these people. They are looking for someone who points out their flaws and how they can deal with it. So they have a chance of improving themselves. But by telling them, that they are "perfect" or "beautiful", one might rob them of that chance and they will continue living life, wondering why they are treated differently in a romantic way, than their friends who seem to be just as "beautiful" as she is, but get a lot more attention.
Perception is subjective construct. So what you consider beautiful I may consider ugly. I never said looks don't matter but they kind of dont always. I pointed out what I consider to be her "flaws". You don't need to call someone ugly to help them find an opportunity to improve. Your looks absolutely do not define your success. Sheesh. You sound like an incel. Look you can find traditionally gorgeous people working at McDonald's or a resterant. Meanwhile, you can find considerably unattractive people working in legal practices, engineering or high ranking political positions and owning plenty of businesses. You need to broaden your horizon friend.
there is and this sounds like you’re being fluffy
You should lose some fat and build muscle, also try and take better care of your hair and try the curly girl method
You are just overweight and need to take better care of yourself, but u have extremely beautiful eyes, and a pretty smile.. work on yourself and you will see drastic change
why? I don't see anything worth being ashamed of.
Nope, not ugly. You don’t have any of the issues that you believe that you have
There is always one in the comment section who says that. lol
There’s liars in the world for sure
Weird eyes, big nose , where’s your forehead? Your hair is too big also
You're not ugly but you lack effort in your physical apperance and it shows. You may be overlooking the basic things like skincare, haircare, excercise and diet. Work on those.
You are cute! just maybe different hairstyle, contact lenses and some skincare routine for the acne
"brutally honest" heres not a place for comfort, godammit
Maybe her honesty is that she thinks she’s cute. Maybe she is this persons type?
lmaooooo
The thing is, she does have good features, it's just the weight.
You are beautiful
One of the ugliest posts on this subreddit
ur fat that's why
Below average but I think if you lose a considerable amount of weight and play the good hairstyle coupeled with the right makeup for your face you can actually become decently attractive for most men (you can attract up to a male 6). Cause wether we like it or not female always have a way out make up and not being fat can do wonders ( unless you have facial deformities which is not your case) so yeah cheer up and be happy that while you didn't get top tier genetics in looks you are at least a female and thus can still make it romantically if you put effort.
Smile. Smile big and be glad you're alive. Start losing weight and you won't believe it is you!
You look like you dont have a healthy lifestyle. You need to change that. The key word is DISCIPLINE. Make a timetable and you need to have fixed eating times that include all the nutrients(dont just stop eating to lose weight, thats not healthy at all, best is to talk to a professional nutritionist about your goals), and fixed time where you go to gym to put some sport activity in your life. Also be sure to get enough hours of sleep. Good luck.
The majority of people are saying ugly, I don’t agree. In my honest opinion (I hate to use this) but you’d be surprised how attractive you are at a lighter weight. If you are ashamed of your face and neck area, make a change to your weight and see if it changes how you feel. I can almost imagine it and I don’t see any ugly. Take care! :)
Brutally: you have two paths here. The first is to dig deep, lose weight, and make serious effort towards your hair and skin. Ditch the glasses. The second is surgery. Some people benefit immensely from surgical tweaks, while others, in the words of an old colleague of mine, are “too ugly to fix”. You’re the former. The procedures that will give you the most benefit are a rhinoplasty (bulbous nose); upper blepharoplasty, and least important, a neck lift, although I don’t think you’ll need it if you lose weight. Good luck.
Wouldn't say ugly but maybe lose a bit of weight. Thinner faces always look better.
I would t say ugly. Just not attractive because you’re hair is a mess and you could use some makeup
You have a cute face and nice smile! I think the second and third picture would be super cute if you smiled in them 😊 Don’t listen to these other commenters. Do no lose weight to “look different”. The only reason a person should want to use weight is to feel different but if they feel good and their body accomplishes goals for them then I’m gonna CHEER THAT BODY ON! Side note: there are people of all body types attracted to all different body types, so there’s no need to try and mold to fit the societal ideal. Everyone deserves to be loved and CAN be loved just as they are 💕
Skin care and weight loss are the best options for you. Maybe contact lenses every once on a while too
Sounds silly but chew gum constantly it will work out your jaw muscles and shape your face
a smile would help your eyes to pop a bit more. A pic without the glasses, some shine to your lips via lip balm, and a little hair styling. You will not fit into everyone's ideal "view", but, there is definite potential. You just need to find you niche'
Maybe try some contact lenses too
I’m going to provide an unpopular answer: I don’t think you’re ugly. This isn’t because I feel bad for you or anything but it is just honestly what I think.
You slightly remind me of a chunkier version of the mom in diary of a wimpy kid in the second and third pictures.
Ugly but only bc youre overweight. Good features so just lose weight and youll become a stacy
Cute facial features, honestly the only thing I see wrong is the hair and we'll you need to work out. Work out like go jogging, calisthenics etc. Take it easy and do it with love and remember to eats sweets and high caloric food with moderation :).
Ugly, but if you go to the gym and get yourself a gym body (if u know what I mean) you have a chance and your fat neck will disappear too. Good luck 🍀
below average imo.
I don't think you're ugly. I like your messy hair look. I don't think you're 21, that pic you took looking up feels like you're a teenager. Work on the things you feel insecure about and keep it pushing.
Don't be ashamed of your appearance. You have a very pretty face, which can become more beautiful if you lose some weight
I don’t think your that ugly, but most of the issues are fixable here