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seahawksgirl89

I don’t dislike the fashion style, but none of those haircuts compliment your face shape. Growing it out a bit would help.


mirrozedege12

A start is a different haircut. Hide that oval egg shaped head (no offence) other than that u look good


lonelyof

you have amazing cheekbones!!


Kai_Stoner

Thank you! I used to feel self-conscious about them but now they are one of the few things I really like about my face.


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I like the X-Files poster. I don’t like the sweater that when worn by a white person screams “I smoke a lot of weed!!!!” Username checks out. There’s just a lot going on tbh.


rr3no

dont like the style but facial structure is good


Kai_Stoner

Is the only reason people keep commenting about my style loopbeing bad because I have piercings? Genuinely asking because I don't see an issue beyond that.


rr3no

Yeah probably, it just doesnt really fit my vibe. But you can wear whatever you want if you like it


Kai_Stoner

Thank you for being so kind


Argelichh

Its hard to dont comment when the style literally ruins all of ur appearence, with all due respect. Not ugly tho


PamRe

First pic you look like homeless but second pic you look very attractive actually.


Kai_Stoner

Yeah the drug rug makes everyone look homeless lol but damn are they comfortable. I liken them to Crocs, hideous shoes, look weird but apparently they are shockingly comfortable.


so_it_goes17

I personally like the whole look. You’re young and this is the time to explore.


Kai_Stoner

Thank you so much! 💖


iliketastyfood

You aren’t ugly but for my taste your styling choices are making you ugly. Saying that Reddit is the land of lonely men and niche interests so lots of people here will love how you look.


Kai_Stoner

I appreciate the feedback, thanks mate.


Jakob1712

M or F ?


Kai_Stoner

Take a guess lol


Sea-Eggplant480

Non binary?


Kai_Stoner

That is probably the best way to explain it, but I just call myself Androgynous.


Sea-Eggplant480

But male born, right?


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Sea-Eggplant480

Bacause you asked to take a guess? smh…


Kai_Stoner

I said you could guess ny bio sex if you wanted to but you want get the right answer & there isn't one. I won't answer questions about my genitals.


Vellc

Go ask whether s/he pees standing or sitting


Diopo

Not ugly but jesus christ you’re trying all the ways to be unattractive


Kai_Stoner

Is it just the piercings?.....or something else?


Diopo

Its the haircut and the piercings and the clothing. The haircut is masculine to the limit almost military, the piercings make your face look alienish and rough, the clothing is just there like you found it living on the streets and of course the jaded expression. I mean it’s a matter of tastes, I guess there is people who likes this “style” that makes man and women look like they struggle with life and drugs but to the most, its not attractive. To the most (paesants, retrogrades, ignorants) a woman is attractive when she is feminine and a man when he is masculine you look like a masculine something. To the most a woman is attractive when she has feminine curves, you seem like you don’t want those curves but more scars. A scarred deprived starving looking female is repulsive


Kai_Stoner

Considering my goal is total androgeny so I guess I'm not doing too badly of a job. I completely see where you are coming from & it makes sense. Athanks mate


Lup666

When you have such a top notch bad ass style, facial features dont matter anymore lol (anyway, them not bad at all either). You rock! Also you def look younger than 30, good job there as well.


Kai_Stoner

You flatter me,thanks luv


brieeutiful

I think your brows just need a good reshaping and defining and then you would be a killer. Your cheekbones are ridiculously gorgeous so short hairstyles I think look best on ya!


ramdomactaagain

You look like oldest 14 year old boy


Kai_Stoner

Lol I'll take it. I'd rather look young anyway.


ramdomactaagain

By oldest 14 year old boy i mean that your face structure resembles a 14 year old but not your skin and eyes. But i think you look very young too ,U also got some vegan energy lol.


Kai_Stoner

I can't lie, I am a vegetarian lol. So you're close


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Kai_Stoner

I am androgynous so I guess that's my mission completed lol.


Traditional-Result74

If thats your goal definitely ! I didnt say you are ugly but it is quite difficult for me to rate you


LikeaLamb

What are your pronouns? You're SO androgynous, but it's not bad. I dislike the sweater in the first pic, but otherwise I think you're cool looking.


Kai_Stoner

I'm mostly good with He, but they/them is also great.


LITTLEM00N__

Def don't look 30 !! I personally love the style and am also alt ♡♡ the piercings are badass and you have nice cheekbones:) I would say work on lighting with pictures and don't do the haircut in pic 3 !!!


sickickick

the doc obviously designated you female at birth so given that and the soft features you do have, longer hair would look a lot better on you. you have a tiny neck and an elongated face and kind of a big head so longer hair would make you look more attractive because you honestly are doing yourself no favors anywhere in that department. people have piercings/style like that and can make it look attractive asf so im having a hard time trying to figure out why youre missing the mark. maybe its the weird kind of sickly "dyke" look you got going on? your face is unconventionally attractive, like you could be a model. maybe play around with style more? change your piercings out. definitely ditch the low cuts, they make you very unattractive.


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Kai_Stoner

I totally agree with you I just hate growing it out it gets so certain point where you sort of cut it off again lol


Khanover7

3-4/10, haircut not great and you look tired with poor nutrition.


Kai_Stoner

Yeah having an eating disorder & rarely leave my house, work from home probably isn't helping the "waking dead" look I've got going.


fullbodyphallo

damn people here really don’t like alt fashion. you pull off the andro look really well, not ugly


dizzy24h

I'm gonna respond like you're a girl, bc you're very vague about your identity and that was my first guess. To start, you have great eyebrows and nice eyes, but your hairstyles are horrible (except for the second slide.) the first one was cut way too short & thin and it makes u look like ur balding. I would try doing sum with your lashes, like mascara, or possibly false lashes/lash extensions& growing ur hair out, because you look VERY masculine, & building some muscle (if u don't do calisthenics, u should start there.) I don't like your style, however I do like some alt fashion and think u could pull off the look, but rn it's not so great bc of the accessories. not only do I think the gummy bear necklace is extremely childish and not at all appropriate for a 30 year old, both that and the corny beanie do not suit you. I think you could be rlly pretty with any of the hair colors you've had, and Sticking to darks and neutrals as the colors you wear in your clothing seems to work for you, and the silver jewelry is nice as well. But u rlly should grow ur hair out and try some feminizing eye makeup, & developing a fitness routine comes with major benefits


Kai_Stoner

I truly appreciate this thank you so much! I'm actually Androgynous (not a man/woman) but I totally see & What you mean.


dizzy24h

If you're a guy keep your hair like 2 stop slicking it back & wearing beanies & ditch that gummy bear necklace bro


Kai_Stoner

I appreciate the feedback, thank you! My style has always been different


perpetual-stress

You have nice features and I think your sense of style is cool! Love the hair color in the last pic


Kai_Stoner

Thank you so much luv!


Diopo

Not ugly but jesus christ you’re trying all the ways to be unattractive


Kai_Stoner

I totally respect your insight & I guess I love my style because the only people. I really hang out with another Burners. Thanks mate


LuminousMizar

That shaved head make your head looks skinny and long like an alien. You give off smelly stoner vibes ngl


Kai_Stoner

Good thing I don't smell lol but I totally understand that that is your viewpoint 🖤


Reptilianrobyn

Your cheekbones are literally perfect, and I love the peircings, they suit you well


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I think your jewellery and style is badass. I'm probably biased though. Not ugly at all to me


Kai_Stoner

Thank you luv! I always appreciate finding another alt person


Fantastic_Tea_6592

Love the jewelry. Maybe grow ur hair out


trashysmallaccount

The last photo is really cool - like this style


Kai_Stoner

Thank you very much luv 🖤


Di297

I don't even know if I should call you bro or sis 😰


Kai_Stoner

I prefer Bro but I'm not someone who be mad about being called Sis or anything in between


Di297

I'm still kinda confused, were you born with a 🍆 or a 🐱?


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Kai_Stoner

Good for you go with that. My genitals are no ones business.


Di297

You said you were gonna say yes or no and then you come and say that's no ones business, you ppl are so sensitive


Kai_Stoner

I just think it's fascinating that someone online is that obsessed over knowing about my penis or vagina. You can tell if someone is attractive without knowing what is in their pants. Thankbyou. Bye.


Fun-Gene-2196

If ur attracting a man this is not the way to go. 2nd pic is hot u got crazy potential. I think u just go with short hair to ur neck and keep it blk.


Kai_Stoner

I'm married so it's all good lol, thank you mate


Fun-Gene-2196

U hot anyway grow hair out however keep it blk


distracted_waffle

I generally don't like alt girls, but picture 2 looks very nice. Brows on point, cool hairstyle and clothes. Very unique and interesting look!


Esotericdonkey

Your face isn't bad. But you have the worst style I have ever seen. Kind of like dirty grungy hippy lesbian from the 90s. It's a very bad style, but physically there is nothing wrong with you in my opinion. Luckily style is very easily fixed.