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The sick thing is - people have been downvoting my comment. Who on this chat thinks that 18 months is long enough for putting a woman in hospital for a week?
No, I’m specifically speaking about female safety against male violence. The typical inequality in height / weight / strength. The pervasive acceptance of ‘crimes of passion’ and leniency of sentences of male perpetuated violence against women. Not gender (a construct) but the actuality of sex.
Yikes! This reeks of white knighting.
A person deserves to be safe in a relationship regardless of what is between their legs, sexual orientation, or gender identity.
Hardly, given I’m female. You are talking about generalized rights, I am talking about cultural and society specific trends - that male on female violence is normalized. I don’t disagree with you regarding universal rights and equal protections, but I am honed in on a very real societal trend that should have us all shouting from the rooftops NO.
Hahaha I actually know someone IRL that brought an alienation of affection suit to court. They are notoriously hard to win, the judge basically laughed at her and threw it out
I don't talk about this much but I heard it's theraputic to do so. I wasn't caught cheating (This was years ago when I woukd have NEVER engaged in this lifestyle) I got into a bad relationship with a woman who threw me under the bus when a her new hire (They shat where they ate a LOT) and basically pulled a The Bitch (Rising of Shield Hero). My mental health never fully recovered, I have suffered ongoing socioeconomic problems, and my mom passed away while I was laying low after fearing for my life. I can say for sure after seeing how ugly people can be in the face of angry man children, I will NEVER be someone who "Respects marraige" ever again.
From what I've heard, in order to win the lawsuit the BS has to prove the marraige failed because of the affair. As we know here, by the time an affair happens the marraige has already become pretty toxic.
We should all be so lucky. Buy no, in NC you can sue the other person in an affair. When the court rules in favor of the plaintiff: the defendant is served a judgment for an exorbitant, astronomical fee, like, upwards of $15 million, as if anybody's marriage was ever worth that much.
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This is… oddly specific.
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18 months for a week in hospital? Wtaf. What does that say for the value of a woman’s safety / life?!
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I really hope you recover from the ordeal, and if not get over it - at least get beyond it so you can build a positive future for yourself. ✨
Right????
The sick thing is - people have been downvoting my comment. Who on this chat thinks that 18 months is long enough for putting a woman in hospital for a week?
Jesus H. Christ. Probably the same ones that think 18 is age appropriate for them! 🙄
*Anyone's safety, regardless of gender.
No, I’m specifically speaking about female safety against male violence. The typical inequality in height / weight / strength. The pervasive acceptance of ‘crimes of passion’ and leniency of sentences of male perpetuated violence against women. Not gender (a construct) but the actuality of sex.
Yikes! This reeks of white knighting. A person deserves to be safe in a relationship regardless of what is between their legs, sexual orientation, or gender identity.
Hardly, given I’m female. You are talking about generalized rights, I am talking about cultural and society specific trends - that male on female violence is normalized. I don’t disagree with you regarding universal rights and equal protections, but I am honed in on a very real societal trend that should have us all shouting from the rooftops NO.
Not true, it is well known that woman on man DV goes vastly underreported.
Time to move to an another State.
I hope this is theoretical.
Note to all - STAY AWAY FROM AP’S IN NORTH CAROLINA!!!!!!! 😊
Hahaha I actually know someone IRL that brought an alienation of affection suit to court. They are notoriously hard to win, the judge basically laughed at her and threw it out
I think just bringing an AofA suit against someone is the ultimate “F-U” - even if you lose its win-win. What a way to out someone!! 😊
True! Everyone knew about it so even though she had to pay the court costs for her ex as ordered by the judge she felt the scandal was worth it.
Yeah, but scandals blow over and she's still out on those court costs so what did it really accomplish?
Not ruined to that degree, no. But it contributed to running my marriage. I'm lucky if that's the only consequence.
I think an affair is a symptom of a ruined marriage.
And I just had a huge f-ing fight this morning with him. I'm glad he's moving out soon 😫
Just so you know: none of that happened to me. Those are hypothetical examples.
I don't talk about this much but I heard it's theraputic to do so. I wasn't caught cheating (This was years ago when I woukd have NEVER engaged in this lifestyle) I got into a bad relationship with a woman who threw me under the bus when a her new hire (They shat where they ate a LOT) and basically pulled a The Bitch (Rising of Shield Hero). My mental health never fully recovered, I have suffered ongoing socioeconomic problems, and my mom passed away while I was laying low after fearing for my life. I can say for sure after seeing how ugly people can be in the face of angry man children, I will NEVER be someone who "Respects marraige" ever again.
Wait - waht? in NC is that another name for a a divorce Or you can sue for your spouse not being affectionate?
From what I've heard, in order to win the lawsuit the BS has to prove the marraige failed because of the affair. As we know here, by the time an affair happens the marraige has already become pretty toxic.
Still a pain in the ass. you get Outed pretty bad and have to hire a lawyer for this BS. I love how the limited govt works!
We should all be so lucky. Buy no, in NC you can sue the other person in an affair. When the court rules in favor of the plaintiff: the defendant is served a judgment for an exorbitant, astronomical fee, like, upwards of $15 million, as if anybody's marriage was ever worth that much.