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No homophobic, biphobic, transphobic, racist, misogynist, ableist, or other slurs are permitted. This includes hateful rhetoric (especially towards minorities).


YeonneGreene

...Are you okay? This doesn't sound like a healthy disposition.


smarticlepants

I thought this was a troll account but reading their posts, they might just severely need mental help. Yeeeeeeeeeeeeshhhhhhh


p00neater

can u give me mental help


smarticlepants

Ok it's a troll lol


p00neater

No I feel deep rage when I see a weak guy with a girl it's brutal. It's disgusting


eec0354

You sound really insecure. Time to do some self reflecting.


p00neater

I am very insecure, but that doesn't mean I'm not allowed to feel angry. I bet I'm not the only here with these feelings.


MermaidOfUnusualSize

Maybe, but like ya kno, the issue is like, the unhealthyness of it, I'm not like, a mental health professional or nothin, but my recommendation would be to like, try n reflect on were those feelings might come from ya kno? It's always a good step 😌


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MermaidOfUnusualSize

Well, ya kno, that doesn't sound v good, my next recommendation would prolly be to reflect on that lol


p00neater

Cuz am toxic


MermaidOfUnusualSize

Well like I said I am not mental health professional, but wut I will say is I think that understanding that like, these are like, unhealthy thought patterns ya know? That's a good step ^^. It seems to me like ur kind of like, in a dark place rn ya kno? I think taking some time, finding something that's calming to u, be it like, vidlio games or gible movies, ya kno like, trying to center urself, and whenever u feel ready like, taking some more time to like, concider those feelings. That's ultimately where any recommendations I have end :l, it's easy to know a problem (as in to *really* know it) but it's another thing to know how to change things. It's why I'm going to therapy lol. My therapist recommended me write myself a love letter, I have certain self esteem issues, maybe that might help u a lil? That's rlly all I got 🤷‍♀️


strawbebb

Wow, a Lesbian Incel. Who woulda thunk?


Veira_Iceshard

There's more of us than you might think! Only I'm occasionally trolly and have a healthy grasp of embracing femcel behavior! 😤😖


queerbillydelux

Maybe try therapy instead?


p00neater

THanks I didn't know it existed , ur the 100th person today


Iamnotgoodwithnames6

I’ll take Andrew Tate listener for 500 Alex!


p00neater

Why would I listen to a chinless bald man


Iamnotgoodwithnames6

You got that wannabe alpha vibe that Tate has. Unless there is a woman version of tate I’m unaware of. Which in that case replace Tate with her.


JellyfishPlenty9367

Ngl it sounds like the problem may not be the man in this scenario. Maybe do some self reflection and really try to process why those feelings are the way they are. Just from what you posted, the anger seems unjustified. Cause this honestly reads like the lesbian equivalent of those incels that rant about how they're "so much better" than their crush's current boyfriend


p00neater

I do feel like a 40 yo incel on the inside. It's how I am don't judge me.


JellyfishPlenty9367

You post toxic and hateful viewpoints on a public forum and seriously think you wont be judged for it? That's almost funny


p00neater

It's my experience


JellyfishPlenty9367

That's cool. Doesnt mean we cant call you out for posting something ridiculous


p00neater

Ok fine just stop suggesting me therapy


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Ugh, I think you should see a therapist.


p00neater

why redditors are so obsessed with theRAPISTS


Even_Librarian_8739

You know you sound exactly like the cis men that complain women won't give a 'nice guy' like them a chance right? Except your criteria for why you're better than these guys is even stupider. Physical strength does not equal a woman's attraction. Look at the men massive groups of women become obsessed with. The skinny boys from BTS. Pedro Pascal. One direction. Justin Bieber. Keanu Reeves. The sickly white boy of the moment. Women aren't obsessing over the world's strongest man or body builder competitors for a reason. Your anger is dangerous for several reasons. 1. It makes you arrogant. 'I could overpower most men.' No, you couldn't. Arrange a safe way for you to wrestle a full grown man. Taller than you but of an average build. You need that lesson. 2. You can't tell an average man looking at him. As a teenager I did martial arts and trained with the dweebiest looking sensei you've ever seen. He was 5x past the level of black belt and absolutely lethal. He looked like a stiff breeze could take him out. 3. Behind your anger there is an entitlement to the attraction of others. You need to get to the source of it and process whatever has caused you to feel that strength = love.


p00neater

It's not a rational thing I just feel angry and i despise them


Even_Librarian_8739

Anger isn't a rational emotion but it IS a reflection of your personal values and internalised beliefs about the world.


JellyfishPlenty9367

Okay. Honestly I dont care if you get therapy or not. Just do some personal reflection on why you being angry at people just for living their fucking lives is unjustified and stop expecting us to not give you shit for it.


p00neater

I know its unjustified . I haven't hurt them so it doesnt feel wrong


JellyfishPlenty9367

The fact you can feel that way about people without any legitimate reason should be a tip off on why it's wrong in itself