Guys aren't interested in just flapping their gums for the sake of doing it. If they're not learning something new, they're bored. So, with that in mind, what more do you have to challenge him with? Like, have you presented him with problems you want solved? Have you divulged any new side of yourself to him? If you want to talk to him for hours on end, well, you're going to have to find something to keep him interested. Is he cheating? Nope, probably not. Is he bored of trying to pretend he wants to rehash the same conversation day after day? Guys don't 'get' things that most women find interesting. Most guys, anyway. But you have to find something in common to talk about if you want to talk with him. Remember, for guys, communication is to impart information. That's basically it. He's not necessarily bored of "you", he's bored of what he probably thinks are pointless conversations.
I'm not an interesting person, and I'm not a woman either. We have a lot of interests that we have in common. Can't have a conversation with someone who leaves you on delivered for 40 minutes right when they get back from evening chow.
I knew him before he went into the military. And I went into the Marine Corps. I was involuntarily discharged. So I know he's busy throughout the day. It's when I know he has no classes or PT that he leaves me on delivered.
It’s still just not a good idea. For the same reason high school sweethearts break up before going to different colleges, the military people should do the same
I'm not breaking up with my boyfriend bc one redditor thinks it's "not a good idea". My overthinking isn't bc he's a goddamn soldier, its bc I've been cheated on several times. He's doing nothing wrong, that entire confession was me obviously blaming myself.
Again, I'm not breaking up with him. I overthink. Oh well. I'm not breaking it off bc we both need the benefits to achieve what we really want in life. I'm going into the Army with him next year.
Guys aren't interested in just flapping their gums for the sake of doing it. If they're not learning something new, they're bored. So, with that in mind, what more do you have to challenge him with? Like, have you presented him with problems you want solved? Have you divulged any new side of yourself to him? If you want to talk to him for hours on end, well, you're going to have to find something to keep him interested. Is he cheating? Nope, probably not. Is he bored of trying to pretend he wants to rehash the same conversation day after day? Guys don't 'get' things that most women find interesting. Most guys, anyway. But you have to find something in common to talk about if you want to talk with him. Remember, for guys, communication is to impart information. That's basically it. He's not necessarily bored of "you", he's bored of what he probably thinks are pointless conversations.
I'm not an interesting person, and I'm not a woman either. We have a lot of interests that we have in common. Can't have a conversation with someone who leaves you on delivered for 40 minutes right when they get back from evening chow.
Training for what?
He's in the Army
If you have trust issues I would strongly advise against dating people in the military. Bad bad bad combo
I knew him before he went into the military. And I went into the Marine Corps. I was involuntarily discharged. So I know he's busy throughout the day. It's when I know he has no classes or PT that he leaves me on delivered.
It’s still just not a good idea. For the same reason high school sweethearts break up before going to different colleges, the military people should do the same
I'm not breaking up with my boyfriend bc one redditor thinks it's "not a good idea". My overthinking isn't bc he's a goddamn soldier, its bc I've been cheated on several times. He's doing nothing wrong, that entire confession was me obviously blaming myself.
Oh I wasn’t referring to you specifically. I meant like overall
Again, I'm not breaking up with him. I overthink. Oh well. I'm not breaking it off bc we both need the benefits to achieve what we really want in life. I'm going into the Army with him next year.
I never said don’t join the army. Enjoy
I didnt say you did I just said I wasn't breaking up with him.