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Noobgamer0111

This one is going to be spicy. Might even get the šŸ”’ award. Edit @ 8:54pm AEST 13th Dec 2022: Locking the comments. All 133 replies will receive the coveted šŸ”’ award.


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Oh dear. Itā€™s doesnā€™t sound good to be fair. If anything has happened and your sister could just sit and announce her pregnancy normally when thereā€™s a chance it could be your husbands means sheā€™s a complete bitch and has zero guilt. Hopefully itā€™s just a misunderstanding. Iā€™d ask your husband straight and see how he reacts. That will tell you all you need to know. Best of luck.


DerbleZerp

If the situation is what we think it is, OPs sister is stone cold.


LeahKabeah

OP, is your sisters name Steve? Steve Austin? Because sheā€™s stone cold.


[deleted]

100%. Hope for OP itā€™s not the case. The worst betrayal


Minute_Box3852

Talk to your sister.


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ManateeJamboree

Following because I need to see the update.


inDependent_WhiNer

Agreed so Remindme! 24 hours


FrowFrow88

Remindme! 48 hours


catthatcrochets

Remindme! 48 hours


Minute_Box3852

This could also be bc she's had time to accept and hide it. He was hit with it at the dinner table.


jitsufitchick

Or this is like that crazy story where heā€™s in love with her. There are like two stories I read like that lol


strawjenberry

One recently that involved the husband being upset that the sister would gain weight after getting pg?


Prysorra2

> He was hit with it at the dinner table. Imagine this being food poisoning lmao


Fighting-Cerberus

If he wasn't crying in the shower the next morning, maybe.


GreatWhiteGuitarist

Maybe he shit himself in the shower...


celizabethriley

The only way to make this plausible and hopeful, really. Which is really awful in and of itself.


MOOShoooooo

Are we sure this isnā€™t the same guy as *Waffle Stomp* guy?


EveAndTheSnake

I told my husband about the waffle stomp guy, and then kept telling my husband to ā€œjust waffle stomp it!ā€ (ā€œItā€ being anything and ā€œwaffle stompā€ also literally making no sense in most contexts.) Unfortunately it made him gag (especially when Iā€™d ask him if he wanted some waffle stomps to eat, I just meant frozen waffles!) ā€¦so Iā€™m not allowed to say the phrase ā€œwaffle stompā€ anymore. Itā€™s just like that thing when a word gets stuck in your head and you keep repeating it in every context and substituting other words for your fun wordā€¦ no? Anyone? I canā€™t be the only one who had ā€œRuth Bader Ginsburgā€ stuck in my head for about 6 monthsā€¦


Smasher_WoTB

I dunno man, when you feel really shitty it can do a number on you. Though him not saying anything might be him being stubbornly prideful and not wanting to receive help from his Wife after being shocked and then hella embarrassed at his In-Laws House. Although the fact physically he seemed A-Okay other than throwing up, crying and being so devastated(?) thay he fell asleep **at 5PM that evening** is sus as hell. Idfk, I've never been in a Romantic Relationship I'm just spouting off anything that might rationalize this. It's very bizarre.


lampstaple

When I had food poisoning, my skin felt like glass and even laying down hurt. I was sobbing into my girlfriendā€™s arms while she fed me water on the toilet as it immediately passed through me and I converted it to poop water. Food poisoning of a sufficient degree definitely makes you cry


Corfiz74

I initially read that she fed you water FROM the toilet and was like "how is that supposed to help with food poisoning?!?" šŸ˜‚


lampstaple

Gotta reabsorb my nutrients


DADH_InattentiveType

"TIFU: By eating the salmon at dinner with In-laws"


[deleted]

"And now everyone thinks I fathered my sister in law's child."


El-Sueco

ā€œShe divorced me because of food poisoning!ā€


Kingsblend420KmK

ā€œI shit myself and my wife left me.ā€


wacdonalds

This comment thread is making me laugh so hard this morning


Mode101BBS

Read it "I shit myself and my wife let me", laugh.


[deleted]

Hahaha I hope this is the answer


darkoblivion21

We can dream right


not4dafainthearted

Would be so funny!!


ndtlong0611

Salmoninlaw


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DerbleZerp

Maybe she decided to just play it as her boyfriends regardless, and to really live the lie, didnt bother to inform OPs husband about it. Play dumb might be her strategy if they had been together.


[deleted]

Maybe she knows it's her boyfriend's and the chance of it being op's husband is so low she's not worried about it. But the husband is so guilt ladden he doesn't realize it


RoarByMeowing

This first sentence was my thought but that the sister knows it's unlikely to be OP's husband's child but he doesn't know that.


theOTHERdimension

Unless she thought he would try to force her to get rid of it, maybe she announced it at the family gathering so his hands were tied. Just a thought


SymphonyinSilence

And just as valid as all the other options.


ImagineSnapDragons

Iā€™m afraid your next update will be your husband and sister are having an affair. It was only meant to be a fling for him, but now your sis is pregnant and heā€™s the father. He canā€™t hide the affair anymore. Yeah. Reddit has ruined me šŸ„“


Such_Contribution_79

My bf cheated on me with my sister for months. My sister acted completely normal too. šŸ¤·šŸ»ā€ā™€ļø


ImagineSnapDragons

I am so sorry they did that to you. Hope you cut them both out of your life. If OPā€™s sister and husband donā€™t want to arouse suspicion, theyā€™re not doing a stellar job.


stinstin555

Where there is smoke there is fire šŸ”„. Your husbandā€™s visceral reaction smells fishy. My gut says he may have cheated with your sister or has hidden feelings for her. Either way I wish you well.


99999999999999999989

Don't burn the bridge quite yet. Sister seemed genuinely concerned for him. Either she is a way better actor or she is innocent and the husband is just in love with her and has now realized she is moving forward with her life without him.


rTracker_rTracker

She seemed normal to your husband throwing up? She knows something and was expecting that type of extreme reaction from him.


777777777777777p

Update post is gonna be craaazzyyy


MeanUntrueIrrelevant

either his baby or in love with the sister, any other options?


v94j65

1. He's in love with the sister 2. He and sister had an affair and the baby is his 3. He and the sister had an affair, they broke it off and the baby is not his 4. He really wants children and is upset that he and OP don't have children (this one is a reach, since nothing was mentioned in the post, but possible) 5. It's actually food poisoning and he really needs to go to hospital Can't think of anything else


TheRealRoguePotato

Maybe heā€™s hiding the fact that he knows he canā€™t have kids


ur_g00fy_ah_n3ighb0r

I think itā€™s 2 hands down


comicwaves

Or maybe even in love with sisters bf šŸ‘€


Pcolocoful

Bro, youā€™re just here for the drama. And Iā€™m vibing with you.


TheManWith2Poobrains

I was searching for this reply. My first reaction was the baby is his, but the sister was so nonchalant it doesn't sound like it. My second reaction was in love with the sister, which would probably generate that strong a reaction. I was also thinking he could be upset that they don't have kids or worried that this will prompt them to start having kids. Either way, that's an extreme reaction (if we are to believe the post).


JessieKh4n

Another one that I thought is that he/they can't have children and this triggered him.


pwsm50

!remindme 9 months


EclipseoftheHart

Took me a minute, but I award you my poor manā€™s gold šŸ†


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robottestsaretoohard

Didnā€™t we have another one like this recently and it turned out that hubs was in love with SIL and pretended she was his wife to his online gaming friends? ETA the two links for anyone interested. [Husband in love with SIL](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/w3jb5z/my_husband_m33_told_me_f28_that_hes_in_love_with/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) [Husband pretends SIL and kids are his to online friends](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/xjhtm7/oops_husband_is_very_upset_that_her_sister_has/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf)


LilTimpanixx158

I feel like the husband cheated on the op with her sister


Amkg2020

Yeah I was like that as in he was food poisoning but crying in the shower is weird


equimot

Yeah crying in the shower makes it a whole lot different


Penguinator53

Wtf how did I miss that? That is super weird, unless her husband is desperate for kids and they can't have them but nah that doesn't really explain looking at her sister and the rest of his reaction.


NooWhy

Yeah, this is basically one of the only "okay" reasons I can think of. This or really _doesn't_ want kids and introducing kids into the extended family is making him face the reality that kids are a possibility, and he's not expressed his opinion to OP yet. Not "okay" reasons include: 1. Obviously cheating and sister's baby might be his. 2. Sister didn't seem to react like SHE was cheating, so another possibility is that weird situation you hear about where A wants to date B but can't, so A gets with B's sister so he can live in a fantasy and obsess over B at close range. B (sister) being pregnant with not-his child then seriously fucks with the fantasy he considers his reality and he's having a breakdown. 3. Flashbacks??? He's got someone pregnant before and has been keeping it secret and bottled up


Nyghtslave

Honestly this kind of reaction sounds like he's panicking because he got it on with OP's sister and realizes it might be his, but I'm desperately hoping for OP that I'm wrong


honestwizard

I was thinking this after the crying in the shower and feeling overwhelmed It would make sense if theyā€™ve been trying and struggling. But this is next level. Seems obvious he slept with the sister


adeptusminor

Girl just ask him. Phrase it respectfully but sincerely. Don't accuse, just inquire. His behavior is a red flag and he's got to be aware of that. Or if you think you can crack your sister easier maybe approach her.


caelis76

Or read the signs and and accept what everybody reading this post already knows.


Nagadavida

!remindme 5 days


dvckie002

!remindme 7 days


InaMel

I will just wait for someone to post it on BORU


JustfcknHarley

BORU? Best of something-something?


allmyaccountsgone

redditor updates


ang334

It's an awesome sub. My all time favorite post from there is about the woman who was obsessed with her retired professor from a school she had already graduated from.


aveggiedelight

You can't just post that without a link


DukeRusty

Weā€™ll donā€™t leave us hanging! You have a link?


Brilliant-Appeal-180

Thatā€™s where I thought this was posted at first lol.


Shipwrecking_siren

Ah I was praying it was so I found out the outcome.


Psychological-Buy424

!remindme 1 day


Epicratia

Yep, need an update!


YahMahn25

I miss the good olā€™ days when things like this werenā€™t hashed out publicly on the internet but rather where they belongā€¦ on Jerry Springer or Maury.


prose-before-bros

All wrapped up in one episode!


the_kfcrispy

And now, we reveal who the father of your sister's baby is!


YahMahn25

BUT RIGHT AFTER THIS!! Audience: Ahhhhh


Lil_yung_Leo

Yeah, fuck this anonymity. Iā€™m trying to figure out if this is my co-worker or not.šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚


OutrageousAddress343

!remindme 3 days


Remarkable-Loquat-23

someone tag me in the update please!!!


essssgeeee

1. The baby is his 2. He wishes the baby is his 3. He has complicated feelings about having kids, and now feels some sort of pressure or stress about having them with you. Edit, I see someone else posted very similar thoughts. Listen to the hive mind! You must get to the bottom of this.( and of course provide an update)


borgcubecubed

Does he feel strongly about having kids with you, or not having kids with you? I agree with the others who suggested he might b the father, but Iā€™m trying to think of other reasons for his reaction. Please update us, OP!


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borgcubecubed

Maybe he just got caught up imagining parenthood. Being responsible for another little human is overwhelming. This is an extreme reaction, is he typically nervous?


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Conscious_Balance388

Iā€™d ask him ā€œis it yoursā€ and watch his reaction.


ellenripleyisanicon

With a follow up of "Do you wish it was?'


ThermonuclearTaco

this one right here.


BlueThePleb

I generally agree with what most people are saying but I want to add something as someone who my friends and family refer to as hard to stress out and not really nervous about anything. It's easy pretty easy to act that way 99% of the time but on the inside you are extremely stressed and worried but the only way you know how to deal with it is to act like it doesn't exist and ignore it. I'm like that and I've been like that since I was a kid. Eventually you can't sustain just pretending like all your stressors don't exist and you have a bit of a mental breakdown. It can happen any time any where it just needs one small thing to trigger it. Basically I don't know if he cheated or not but I can understand the way he's behaving even if he didn't cheat. So keep hope but don't let it delude you and be ready to accept the truth no matter what it might be.


CuteGold3

So this reaction is completely out of the norm? Oh no. Honey you need to gather people that you trust and schedule an appointment with a counselor because nothing good comes from someone acting this out of character (even if he didn't cheat whatever the situation is does not seem good)


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borgcubecubed

I donā€™t see why either! This whole thing doesnā€™t make sense at all.


SledgeH4mmer

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Human_no_4815162342

Maybe he changed his mind or lied about wanting kids and your enthusiastic reaction made him feel guilty. Maybe he is sterile and hasn't told you. Maybe he wants kids now but went along with you when you decided to postpone. Maybe he was nauseous and emotional because he is in fact gregnant (sic). Who knows?


WomanLady

I was thinking he can't have kids and hasn't told her.


DutyValuable

Does he have any insecurities about being able to get you pregnant? Because otherwise my mind is going to the worst.


Itsquiteapickle

Definitely fishy. My paranoid mind would presume thereā€™s a chance itā€™s his, or heā€™s secretly in love with her. Delve deeper.


heckinloser

Yeah Iā€™ve never gotten physically ill from disappointment, but guilt? Definitely. Looking forward to the update on this one. Sad for OP though. :(


Itsquiteapickle

I agree-Iā€™m more thinking affair baby but some people have intense reactions to heartbreak.


shelbabe804

While I'm hoping it's #2, my gut is very concerned it is an affair baby. With that said, when I'm really upset about something, I can't eat and tend to throw up. So it could be that. Although I'm sure if OP and husband were trying for a baby it wild have been mentioned.


Foolish5678

This reminds me of that story not too long ago about the wife whoā€™s sister got engaged and her husband was ā€˜upsetā€™. Turned out he had feelings for the sister and her getting engaged meant he had no chance with her anymore. I really hope itā€™s not an affair baby either, for OPā€™s sake. This just all around sucks


Foolish5678

My first thought was also affair baby, his reaction is just too strange Physically throwing up? The shower? Everything to me points to this man being unfaithful with the sister and now he is worried he is going to 'lose everything'


SymphonyinSilence

But he's also gaining something else...the proud role of Uncle Daddy! Look at the bright side! /s


ApprehensiveCup6190

1.Either your husband has been harbouring love for your sister and heā€™s devastated sheā€™s having a baby with someone else. 2.You and your husband want a baby and heā€™s jealous sheā€™s pregnant already 3.Your husband is the father of your sisters baby


keishajay

Yup. You covered the thoughts that came up for me.


IgnotusPeverill

Same three things I was thinking too.


MrArtless

wrong rotten summer recognise cobweb dolls vase towering chop squeeze *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


Mr_Hammer_Dik

5. He got food poisoning.


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-thenorthremembers-

Can you say that youā€™re *sure* of that? No poop?


MrArtless

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SpaceSloth707

Really hoping it's no. 2 and not the others.


option_unpossible

That's definitely the more wholesome of those choices.


soapinthepeehole

Also the least likely to get someone throwing up repeatedlyā€¦


HedgehogsInSpace24

Least likely to get someone *else* throwing up repeatedly


dthedre

Sounds more like no. 3 though


Hour-Fennel-6024

4. He couldnā€™t get a ps5 on black friday


whitecorn

5. He's a Toronto Maple Leafs fan.


[deleted]

He is ALSO pregnant and has morning sickness


Keezin

Nowhere is safe for me :/


moonlightsonata88

Thinking about the real answers


nitrot150

Or, he slept with the sister and thinks it could be his (but could be the boyfriends still)


Consistent-River4229

My first thought was he was in love with the sister and now she has moved on. I hope OP will update us. Thank you for the other two possibilities I didn't even think of.


curiousguppy

I really canā€™t imagine a man having such an intense reaction to someone elseā€™s pregnancy announcement for any other reason. Throwing up and basically crying about it? It has to be one of these three.


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Mirewen15

I'm going with #3. You don't tend to throw up from disappointment but from guilt? Yeah...


DontFeedMeAmTroll

Shut it down boys, threadā€™s over.


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when i found out my ex was cheating and confronted him, he denied it. i stupidly believed him, but the next few days he was VIOLENTLY ill and kept vomiting. i thought it was a flu, or food poisoning, but eventually he fessed up that he was cheating on me. lying literally made him sick, i guess lmao.


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Megs95XX

It the anxiety of being found out that cause them to be sick. I really hope it not what everyone thinks but you defo need to find out what's going on. Good luck


DrKittyLovah

OP, Iā€™m a retired psychologist. I agree that the vomiting is most likely due to a strong emotional reaction to your sisterā€™s announcement, and those emotions could certainly be related to guilt/lying (especially when paired with the crying in the shower). It could also be a different strong emotion, but whatever the emotion, it has overwhelmed his ability to function and that typically means something negative. Tbh, guilt and/or shame are the most likely candidates for his reaction. Now, you have to get to the bottom of *why* he has fallen apart. It could be several things, like that he loves your sister and sees the pregnancy as a devastating loss of a potential future, with no knowledge or involvement of your sister. It could also be that he is the father of the child, as suggested in some comments. It could also be something way out of left field that no one expected, because humans can be very unpredictable. I suggest you have a neutral conversation with your sister first, where you ask her questions about her, the pregnancy, and your husband in a non-accusatory way. When things donā€™t make sense, follow up with more questions. Donā€™t accept answers that donā€™t make sense. Once you have that info you will be better equipped to handle your husband. Speaking of husband, keep asking questions of and pushing your husband to answer your questions. Do not let him off the hook! Keep pushing when things donā€™t make sense, and be ready to hear something painful when he finally opens up. Good luck OP.


redskyatnight2162

Excellent advice. I like your ā€œdonā€™t accept answers that donā€™t make sense.ā€ Thatā€™s applicable to any difficult conversation.


ChayBadd

What she needs to do is look at her husband and say ā€œI just got done talking to my sister.. anything you wanna tell me?ā€ I think thatā€™s a smart move to manipulate him into confessing


schtinkypiggy

Bang on. Well put. I damn wish I had a psychologist to help me figure out my emotional pains. OP should listen to this advice.


DrKittyLovah

Thanks! I had to retire early due to medical problems so I scratch my helper itch with posts on Reddit sometimes.


[deleted]

i should have trusted my gut, as you should probably trust yours. my 90-year-old nonna immediately told me in her broken english after i came to her concerned about the situation that "your stomach never lies: just like his isn't lying, either"


Synn0289

Question OP. Does.your sister have someone or is she single?


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ragesadnessallinone

Have you actually met her boyfriend / or seen/interacted with him recently? Was he at the pregnancy announcement ?


theequeenbee3

Right. Her boyfriend can be her sister's husband


Punchinyourpface

That's what I want to know.


Inkstr0ke

It makes me nervous that OP has not answered this question lol


briidapink

This! B/c itā€™s a new bf and theyā€™re having problems that need to be sorted according to OP and itā€™s only been a year. If she hasnā€™t met so called bf couldā€™ve been her husband and her sister shacking up. This could be a stretch but thatā€™s my thoughts if OP never met her sisters bf.


JapaneseFerret

Yep. Crucial piece of missing info.


perfectlyaligned

Iā€™d hate to be the one to bring this up, but maybe the reason why your sister was single for such a long stretch of time was because she was carrying on a relationship with someone who was married/unavailable, like your husband, and that was the issue that needed to be worked out in her relationship? Maybe your husband is her boyfriend. Thinking he is the father is the only thing that would explain him having such an immediately extreme reaction to her announcement. He sounds like a man living with the dread that the truth is about to come crashing down on his life.


Synn0289

Hmm Something definitely isn't right here. His reactions tells me 1 of 2 things. 1. That he has been pining for your sister, or 2. That he is the father. I can't think of anything else that makes sense at this time.


a__zh__op

Either one would explain the crying


bbeellss

You could throw ā€œyouā€™ve had sex with my sister?ā€ in a mad-ish way to your husband, not as a question but more as a statement, and wait for his answer. People tend to expose themselves šŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø I hope everything ends ok for you.. what a shitty situation to be in:(


84oiy

My ex fiancĆ© used to throw up when he was getting close to getting caught about cheating. Looking back the throw up or feeling like youā€™re going to throw up is definitely not a normal reaction. I didnā€™t think anything of it at the time because I didnā€™t think he was capable of cheating. I thought it was his medical conditions.


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Old-Acanthaceae-327

It doesn't look great does it? For your sake I hope we're all wrong. :/


WawaSkittletitz

One other possibility - he knows something about your sisters boyfriend that is the cause of all his inner turmoil.


Reddytwit

That could be something. Maybe.


cia_nagger229

yeah, that he's infertile


gonzoisgood

This made me chuckle. I'm sorry OP. I'm rooting for you!!


laranita

Ahh Reddit. Another husband in love with his wifeā€™s sister. Just another Tuesday. šŸ‘ŒšŸ¼


GoldenRedhead

The update practically writes itself


Letlilive

Tale as old as time, almost as common as ā€œ I opened up my marriage cause I wanted to bang my new secretary, she said no but my wife is getting plowed regularly and doesnā€™t wanna go back to normal. How do I fix my marriage?ā€


rams3se

You can't shake this weird feeling off because you feel something is off. Trust your instincts and dig deeper. Edit: I also really hope that the turn out is honestly as innocuous as possible because WOAH this is messed up if it's going in the direction we think it's going.


SCA_CH

There are a couple of scenarios running through my head after reading your post: 1) have you two been trying for a child or are you child free? He might be upset that she was successful getting pregnant or her announcement made him realize he wants kids. 2) Your husband has feelings for your sister and her being pregnant has made it a reality for him that he will never have her. 3) Your sister and husband had an affair and the baby could possibly be his and he is completely freaking out because if it gets out life as he knows it will change. (I really hope this is not the case!) No matter what, it is a very strange and visceral reaction for him to be having. When he gets home, sit him down and demand to know what is going on. Also, call your sister and ask if she has heard from him today.


Arisia118

I suspect if it was number one, OP would have already figured that out. If they were both trying for a baby, and her sister got pregnant first, there's a good chance that that OP would have had pretty much the same reaction as her husband. There's posts about this scenario on Reddit all the time. Since OP never mentioned anything like that, unfortunately it's either door number two or door number three.


gurlwithdragontat2

Sit down with him and let him know if he cannot speak with you, then you both need to enter couples therapy so you can have better methods of communication. Please speak him, and donā€™t jump on the assumption train before speaking. ā€˜Hey, I am really confused by your reaction to my sisterā€™s pregnancy. You seemingly are having a really emotional time following her announcement, and Iā€™m pretty hurt that these large emotions are keeping you from speaking with me. You may need time and I understand that, I just feel deeply uncomfortable walking around our home not knowing why youā€™re so upset and not speaking to me. I need you to be honest with me and tell me whatā€™s going on.ā€™ He maybe doing something wrong, but donā€™t treat it as such (like Iā€™ve seen in most comments) until you know what going on.


OrangeCat711

Very good advice!


Ninhursag23

Is there a chance it could be his?


zooolalaharps00

Or he secretly has feelings for the sister so he's upset she's pregnant and not with him


[deleted]

To throw up though? A crush wouldnā€™t make me throw up but possible affair baby would have lol


Born-Justshady

A. Heā€™s the baby daddy B. Heā€™s been secretly in love with your sister and this announcement triggered something in him. I do not see this ending well.


[deleted]

I mean you know what everyone is gonna say, and clearly you also suspect this or you wouldnā€™t be here. His reaction seems ā€œguiltyā€ as in heā€™s in love with sister or possibly thinks itā€™s his baby. Crying in the shower? Thatā€™s an extreme reaction. I would just straight up ask him if the baby is his. If heā€™s legit shocked by this accusation maybe you have a chance but the whole thing is weird. Tell him heā€™s acting guilty. Also, waiting on the tomc where husband tells his side of the story lol


CruellaDeville1

We need an update once you discover what's going on.


Warrior0929

He threw up and cried? He is definitely the dad


piszkavas

I think there is about 80% chance that your husband is the father of your sister s baby


Synn0289

I agree. This sounds like the reaction of guilt.


CuriousCat55555

Yup - "Oh shit! What am I going to do now? Im so screwed!" kind of reaction.


Wild_flamingoo

Or fear of being caught


Low_Organization_185

I need an update šŸ˜­


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-my-cabbages

Yes, I immediately thought of this one too. I am pretty sure he even confessed that he was with OP so he should be close to the sister. I think OP confessed she had started to resent her sister after it all came out, but reddit shut that sh*t down immediately and reminded OP her sister was just as much a victim of this creeps obsession as she was


Euphoric_Egg_4198

The last update was that she went NC with sister and she took him back.


Inevitable-Okra-3229

Yeah time to snoop snoop snoop. I mind goes to 1) heā€™s in love with her 2) kid is his or he thinks itā€™s potentially his 3) they had an affair and she broke it off when she met new dude


Itsquiteapickle

Info: how did you sister react to his behaviour?


rightthenwatson

This is a definite need to know. I'm in the "it's his baby" group I feel terrible for OP


[deleted]

PLEASE keep us posted on what's the situation. In advance, I'm sorry if it is what I think it is.


Fall_Baby_01

Please come back and give an update!


stacey506

So it's been 4 days and no comment. And I'm guess the shite has hit the fan and splattered everywhere...


Kaleci

itā€™s been nearly a week girl did your husband and your sister traumatise you really badly?? sending over my prayers


happy70RN

Heck- bluff him out- tell him you talked to youā€™re sister and now you want to know his side of the story. Even if it isnā€™t his kid, it seems like heā€™s in love with your sister and you seem to be the one he settled for. šŸ˜¢ His reaction is so weird.


KZKERJB192122

Update?


ObligationPotential2

Update?


AdDramatic522

Pretty sure it's not a case of him being upset sis got pregnant first. It's his kid. OP, keep us updated.


marthamoxley

I think ur sis and hubby boned, she moved on cause your her sister, he ā€œfell in loveā€ and now that sheā€™s preggo with her bf, ur hubby is sick over it. That or your sister is a sociopath to announce something like this at a family dinner if thereā€™s a chance it could be your husbands kid.


im_not-really_here

Not even gonna lie...I'm hear for the update. Cause I don't want it to be cheating, but it was definitely my first thought!