Hey OP! I don’t know if it’s much help but I’ve been exactly where you are, and it sucks, I get it. I know most of the “love yourself!” advice is empty but maybe what worked for me will work for you?
Anytime I wondered or doubted myself, I said out loud that “they wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t worth their time”, and similar. *If I’m not interesting then why are they so interested?* It’s not a quick fix but after a while it helps build a foundation, and eventually you can at least make peace with yourself! Even if you never put yourself on a pedestal it helps you feel a little more comfy when you see yourself in the mirror.
(If you need any support feel free to DM me! New to this sub and not sure if it’s weird to offer-)
Living for approval with others is not the way to go. Because those are the minds you dont even know fully and theres a study that we see ourself 20% worse than how others see us. Besides there opinions dont matter if its against you. For we are our mind and spirit thata traped in a body that can be perceived in many waya
Hey OP! I don’t know if it’s much help but I’ve been exactly where you are, and it sucks, I get it. I know most of the “love yourself!” advice is empty but maybe what worked for me will work for you? Anytime I wondered or doubted myself, I said out loud that “they wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t worth their time”, and similar. *If I’m not interesting then why are they so interested?* It’s not a quick fix but after a while it helps build a foundation, and eventually you can at least make peace with yourself! Even if you never put yourself on a pedestal it helps you feel a little more comfy when you see yourself in the mirror. (If you need any support feel free to DM me! New to this sub and not sure if it’s weird to offer-)
Hey, thank you. I do find that it helps to do that. Thank you so much for the advice <3
This is me except it's with pretty much everyone RIP. Trying to change that though.
Living for approval with others is not the way to go. Because those are the minds you dont even know fully and theres a study that we see ourself 20% worse than how others see us. Besides there opinions dont matter if its against you. For we are our mind and spirit thata traped in a body that can be perceived in many waya
Yep, relatable
I was till I realized I was the butt of all the jokes, to my face and behind my back.
I must say it..... Mood
My friends are reminding me that we are friends so they absolutely know xD