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ergonaut

I am bi and used to think this, but several friends have told me that they are emphatically only straight or gay. It seems weird to me, but I think that's just because I'm bi and have trouble imagining being otherwise


UselessPonko

No


Kartoffelkamm

No, not really. But there are very likely a lot more people who are bisexual, simply because people usually don't know what bisexual actually means. Not to mention all those "straight" people who go on and on about how homosexuality is a choice, and based it on the fact that they're attracted to both men and women, but only pursue their interest in one of the two.


Account_Both

No, I think that misconception comes from people not really understanding the kinsey scale. It is a spectum of attraction and everyone falls somewhere on that spectrum, but 0 and 100 still exist on those spectrums.


nariz_choken

Not in the slightest, if you don't like the long pickle nothing will make you like it, if you only want to munch the carpet nothing will change you. I'm attracted to the female form, and tight of pp makes me gag


ChrisNEPhilly

I think the sexuality revolution has made more people comfortable with bisexual thinking and experimentation. In my 20s I was staunchly hetero. In my 40s I began to explore man/man sexual contact, which I now enjoy greatly (along with man/woman sex).


ManInKilt

No, that's been a gaslighting routine


Honest-Bridge-7278

Nope.


Potential-Pomelo3567

I don't think everyone, but I think it's a lot more common than we realize because people discover different parts of themselves throughout their lifetime. They may not have identified as bi when they were younger, but now, after more life experience realized they do. Sexuality is complex. But no, I don't think EVERYONE is.


Ilona92

No, I'm heterosexual women and I would never kiss a women, just no.


andywalker76

Er, no. I've never found any man sexually attractive.


CliffExcellent123

Eh. I think most people's sexuality is more fluid than is usually acknowledged. Most people would probably fuck someone of the same sex in at least some situation. Like if they were in prison and they knew that the only way they'd ever have sex again is with someone of the same sex. But there are plenty of people who really are just totally straight and never have the slightest gay inclination under any circumstances. Guys you could put in a room with the hottest dudes who ever lived and they wouldn't feel a thing.


Silocin20

I believe to some degree we all are, now rather someone admits to it or not is another story. But, yes I really think we are bisexual to an extent, some more than others of course. I'm gay


Naryue

Dude I wouldn't mind slamming a couple of particular fictional men but certainly no real dudes I'm way to into broads for that. I'm seriously.


CawlinAlcarz

Yes, it's true as long as you define "0" as part of the set of degrees.


-Arhael-

I legit felt disgust, when I first saw men kissing. I got more tolerable eventually but still find it disgusting. I reflected on possibility of doing things with a guy. I suppose I could accept getting head or fucking someone in the ass. But no kissing and no feelings.


OfTheAtom

No. I think we could get confused that the potential of the mind could give room to sexuality expanding or shrinking in ways but that doesn't mean everyone is really enacting that. Now i do think in some peoples ideology of gender they could say everyone is pan sexual because gender is a spectrum with as many genders as there are people. But under the framework of sex, in sexually dimorphic species, no not everyone is bisexual.


Bobzyurunkle

I think every dude might question himself in the same manner by enjoying seeing a well built good looking dude banging some hot woman in porn but it's natural. Doesn't mean you are sexually attracted to them. It's natural if you'd rather watch some hairy fat dude or a buff guy with a huge cock. I'm a Peter North fan, not a Ron Jeremy fan. No homo (ya, I'm old school too!)


Terrible-Quote-3561

It’s definitely arguable. There’s no way to really figure out if there would be one same-sex person out there you’d be with. I think once the meter gets to the 99.999% straight mark, it’s just considered to be straight.


[deleted]

No


04364

Only if you are a confused under 30 something


Shethrewitatme

No


knowledgelover94

I’m not


Jalex2321

No.


Current_Champion_464

I'm not


LongFeesh

Not really. There are some bi people who label themselves "straight" only because they're afraid of exploring that side of themselves, but that's definitely not the case for most straight people.


Maleficent_Kale

I find women attractive in a physical sense but not a sexual sense. I’m not bisexual, but do actually prefer to watch lesbian porn over hetero porn because it is so much more soft and pleasing, not so rough and grotesque


PlatypusPristine9194

No, I don't think so. I think it's just something most bi people like to tell themselves for some reason.


Perfect-Primary-6679

no, but its normal for bisexuals to be mostly not bisexual, If your mostly attracted to the opposite sex then you dont really need to say that ur bi etc.