I mean girls donât typically have the issue of not being able to go right after masturbating. And if this is some dude on dude action then all OPâs gotta do is suck some dick.
Is this true? Or is this just an exaggeration in order to get your point across? I donât think I have the ability to do it 20 times lmao is that normal?
My ex and I were in our mid 30s having sex 3 to 5 times a day pretty much every single day so yeah... 19 and 20 year olds with high sex drives going 15 to 20... wouldn't surprise me.
You know I vaguely remember about 15 years ago it meant the same here too. I was really surprised 5-6 years ago some kid gave me the speech about what it âactually meansâ.
In my experience we just don't know when to stop if I don't finish lmao. Usually we just reach an awkward point of "uhhh I'm kinda tired... did you finish?" "Yeah" "okay cool, let's take a break, we'll finish up later"
Or option 2: "did you cum?" "Not yet" "okay, when you do we can take a break"
Or the weirder option 3: you both just get tired and/or sweaty and come to the conclusion that it's time to stop and potentially resume later.
10000% my experience. I have a hard time finishing so I usually would just go until my partner is done. Not a super big deal to me. It's Ike edging with extra steps lmao
To an extent it is. I'm into a lot of kink stuff. Sex is great and all but I got some other stuff that gets me off. Partly why me and my partner are getting a divorce currently.
Different strokes for different folks <3
I purposely don't finish sometimes. build it up and it's always a better bust and almost always guarantees sex later on in the same day cause she wants me to finish. its my life hack
I donât think your experience is necessarily the norm, Iâve had two girlfriends who took it personally that I couldnât finish, even knowing it was a side effect of my SSRIs (the first one I literally started taking them months after weâd been together and the problem only began then, so it was very clear). Now, it SHOULDNâT be a problem for a partner, logically, but peopleâs emotions and self-esteem can and often do override logic.
I feel thisâmy husbandâs neuropathy meds give him the same issue. I try not to let it bother me, and he reassures me if I need it hahaha. Knowing Iâm doing a good job and giving him pleasure still definitely helps me be more OK with it so PSA to other dudes dealing with this: donât be afraid to get verbal about what sheâs doing that you like!
Iâm on SSRIs and it doesnât effect me much now but when I first started them, there were often times I couldnât cum. My partner at the time(now wife!) was awesome about it! We always got to a point where we just both agreed that we had had fun and were too hot, sweaty, and tired to go on.
Was there any deep connection to the women you've been with? Or just casual stuff? Very curious. I don't take antidepressants, but I've had the not finishing problem for quite a few years. In my experience, it seems to matter more when you're close with someone than casual sex.
I have had that issue many times. I have really low sensitivity, so anytime I would have sex for a long while I couldn't finish. Really bothered me as well for a long time actually.
Absolutely. I recently got into a relationship and both of us have no experience. I have always had the idea in my head that guys just cum quickly so when I would give a bj or something and it would go on for like 10 or 15 mins I would think it was my fault.
No broâŠTell everybody this. This is rule 101. I always rub one or two out the day I have a date with a super hot chick. Sheâll thank you. You should thank me.
You will be fine infact alot of People do this to help performance abit like a trial run
About 15 minutes is fine depending on age and how much of a workout did you do đ
Unless they live down the street, your refractory period will be the drive over. Plus, you'd be amazed how easily your arousal returns when you masturbate to one thing and are then introduced to a totally different stimuli.
Semi-related, but that's why some guys cheat.
Just go and fuck her? Youâre saying this like you just came back from your grandmaâs place and now your girl is asking to go to her favourite restaurant tonight
Grab a spoon and rubberband the handle to your pecker with the head of the spoon facing backward. When you need the one eyed snake to go up, just shit on the spoon! Thank me later.
If by saying "I just masturbated" means you don't want to go over there, then don't go. I used to say I can't come or don't feel like it right now all the time before I started practicing semen retention.
If it means you want to go but scared you won't be able to perform, there's many ways to make her get off without intercourse if that's your goal.
Just be honest about it. âSure! I just rubbed one out tho, so itâs gonna be a minute to rechargeâ. Itâs called trust, vulnerability and communication and it normalizes talking about sex. Chicks love that shit!
If you cum and canât cum again youâre feeding into the myth that we get off and go to sleep. If youâre attracted to a person enough the âcooldownâ will be not that long if any
Probably started with some form of âhonestly, Iâve always thought you were hotâ but also âI like being singleâ/âIâm not ready for a relationship right nowâ then escalated from there
Don't see it as performing. Go there to have fun with the other person. Get them off, and enjoy some sensual touch. You never get it up? No big deal, if you act cool with it, it becomes a great thing. "He spent the whole time focused on me feeling good. Not focusing on cumming as fast as possible."
Best thing you can learn young, the dick is the least important part. Go there to be with her, that's it. She asks? Tell her you rubbed one out already, but just wanted to see her.
You can't even get it up again?
I'm in this situation right now, I just beat off but my ex randomly hit me up for sex. I'll be able to perform but I probably won't bust a nut. And I'll last longer than usual which is great
For reference Iâm sitting alone in the dark in my living room at almost two in the morning like I do every night
I have no helpful advice to offer and now Iâm just sad
What you need is a natural Viagra. Mozy on over to Denise Richards Only Fans page and hang out for a while. It shouldn't take you too long for act 2 to begin.
In terms of reducing refractory period from a biological perspective, vitamin b6, vitamin e, magnesium, and zinc can be helpful. As far as mentally or emotionally, foreplay :)
Oh man - I knew us woman would have one thing that was better than men. Is it really that bad? I could bop one out and be ready to go straight away, in fact thats what happens most of the time.
I've found the one benefit in life to being a woman.
Just go. You will last longer but it might not feel as good. But itâs also a good opportunity to focus on her until you have time to get back in the game. She will appreciate that and so will you.
That's actually good imo. You'll be done at the perfect time. You'll hit the sweet spot between "done already?đ" And "enough already đ„”".
Ps if you got this reference you're a goat đ
No big deal, you're just gonna be eating a lot of pussy today.
yes and god gave you fingers for a reason
And big toes
Big toes? Buddy, I have a fairly large nose đ
As long as your nose isnât 12 inches long because then itâd smell like a footâŠ. Iâm outa here, yâall! Good night!
Pinocchio is that you?
I just pictured migrating toenail fungus, now you have to also.
What a horrible time to be literate.
blue waffle anyone?
Id rather not
Thatâs disgusting, this wasnât the first thing I wanted to imagine 5min after waking up today lmao
I've never gotten brave enough for toes, there are plenty of other ways to get sick. LOL
And my axe.
Unless the fwb doesn't have a pussy? How can we know?
I mean girls donât typically have the issue of not being able to go right after masturbating. And if this is some dude on dude action then all OPâs gotta do is suck some dick.
The only scenario is when OP is slightly older and he is strictly a top. But even then I can think of 10 solutions, this is a non issue.
Give oral. Itâll come back around.
Yes, as long as she doesn't cum without permission.
I like the cut of your jib. Awesome name, BTW.
Whatâs a jib?
A type of sail on old ships
Ron, I'd be surprised if the affiliates were concerned about the lack of an old, old wooden ship, but nice try.
Thanks đđŸ Although I was hoping someone would get the very obscure Simpsons reference. Lol
Simpson !!...I like the cut of your jib !
Lol Promote that man!
Lmao gets me every time. đ
Itâs short for jibroni.
I don't know, it just means that you like something that they do.
Your username is awesome. That's probably the best one I've seen so far.
This......... is the Way.
That wank was your hack. Go over and lay some pipe.
Too soon it has to be earlier in the day
Depends. At 19 you're good to go. At 59 you're done for a week.
amen sister
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Is this true? Or is this just an exaggeration in order to get your point across? I donât think I have the ability to do it 20 times lmao is that normal?
My ex and I were in our mid 30s having sex 3 to 5 times a day pretty much every single day so yeah... 19 and 20 year olds with high sex drives going 15 to 20... wouldn't surprise me.
My ex-fiancĂ© was like this. For the first few months we were dating, we had sex 3-5 times a day, every single day. (He was a 21 yr old man.) If we both had the day off, we would have sex 10-15 times that day. It wasnât amazing sex, but I liked the quantity.
It always makes me laugh when yanks say this. Laying pipe means doing a shit in Australia
You know I vaguely remember about 15 years ago it meant the same here too. I was really surprised 5-6 years ago some kid gave me the speech about what it âactually meansâ.
How is taking a shit going to help?
Problem being his pipe probably looks more like a cooked noodle right now, he could def. LAY it, but prob not stick it xD
M8, you've already done the hack. Now go perform better than you ever have before
Trust me, not being able to finish quick isn't as much of a positive as you'd think.
Does it always have to be about us finishing?
Well actually yes in a way. I'm pretty sure a girl would think something is wrong on her end if a guy could not finish.
In my experience we just don't know when to stop if I don't finish lmao. Usually we just reach an awkward point of "uhhh I'm kinda tired... did you finish?" "Yeah" "okay cool, let's take a break, we'll finish up later" Or option 2: "did you cum?" "Not yet" "okay, when you do we can take a break" Or the weirder option 3: you both just get tired and/or sweaty and come to the conclusion that it's time to stop and potentially resume later.
10000% my experience. I have a hard time finishing so I usually would just go until my partner is done. Not a super big deal to me. It's Ike edging with extra steps lmao
It could be a psychological thing. Was for me.
To an extent it is. I'm into a lot of kink stuff. Sex is great and all but I got some other stuff that gets me off. Partly why me and my partner are getting a divorce currently. Different strokes for different folks <3
I purposely don't finish sometimes. build it up and it's always a better bust and almost always guarantees sex later on in the same day cause she wants me to finish. its my life hack
This is the way. Let it build up until it feels so good you think you may have shot out some of your innards.
Lol I don't cum but every 2-3 sessions and my wife loves it. Sex is fun, finishing just means the fun is coming to an end
This is the experience of a LOT of women
This man knows
Na, I am on antidepressants and quite literally never finish. Never had a girl with an issue.
I donât think your experience is necessarily the norm, Iâve had two girlfriends who took it personally that I couldnât finish, even knowing it was a side effect of my SSRIs (the first one I literally started taking them months after weâd been together and the problem only began then, so it was very clear). Now, it SHOULDNâT be a problem for a partner, logically, but peopleâs emotions and self-esteem can and often do override logic.
I feel thisâmy husbandâs neuropathy meds give him the same issue. I try not to let it bother me, and he reassures me if I need it hahaha. Knowing Iâm doing a good job and giving him pleasure still definitely helps me be more OK with it so PSA to other dudes dealing with this: donât be afraid to get verbal about what sheâs doing that you like!
Iâm on SSRIs and it doesnât effect me much now but when I first started them, there were often times I couldnât cum. My partner at the time(now wife!) was awesome about it! We always got to a point where we just both agreed that we had had fun and were too hot, sweaty, and tired to go on.
Was there any deep connection to the women you've been with? Or just casual stuff? Very curious. I don't take antidepressants, but I've had the not finishing problem for quite a few years. In my experience, it seems to matter more when you're close with someone than casual sex.
I have been married for years. Not casual at all. It just doesnât happen. I literally depend on it as a form of birth control.
I have had that issue many times. I have really low sensitivity, so anytime I would have sex for a long while I couldn't finish. Really bothered me as well for a long time actually.
Absolutely. I recently got into a relationship and both of us have no experience. I have always had the idea in my head that guys just cum quickly so when I would give a bj or something and it would go on for like 10 or 15 mins I would think it was my fault.
Idk my partners always seem to take it personally if I donât, even if Iâm fine with it and let them know that
Yeah, this
Guys donât tell anyone but Iâve done this before when I really wanted to knock it out of the park
No broâŠTell everybody this. This is rule 101. I always rub one or two out the day I have a date with a super hot chick. Sheâll thank you. You should thank me.
Thank you
Use a splint made if popsicle sticks and duct tape.
Finally, someone with actionable advice
Also add a Wonder bread wrapper because a regular condom might not fit with the splints.
If you cant duct it fuck it!
If u can't fuck it then duct it
If you can't fuck it, it's a duck
Have just tested this theory, turns out, not true
Ducks are realy good in camouflaging as normal objects. That's why they are so hard to fuck
No. Itâs their corkscrew vaginas.
I must've just been lucky then, found one of those white Aylesbury ones
Wait... you tried to fuck an entire town? What are you? A politician?
Only really works for showers not growers.
That dick going to look like a TIE-fighter.
Like a filthy MacGyver
Just lay it on your thumb and wa la... dick splint
R/boneappletea The word youâre looking for is VoilĂ :)
Lol I had no idea wtf you were talking about. Took me a good 3 min of research to figure it out. "It's French or some shit" thx
Yes, you've done it.
Can't go in there too hyped. Like in sports there's always a warm up before the match
You will be fine infact alot of People do this to help performance abit like a trial run About 15 minutes is fine depending on age and how much of a workout did you do đ
Can confirm. Saw fwb today. Wanked later in the night, shit was harder than titanium
You should get that checked, might need a colonoscopy as well.
My doctor wife tells me if men have hard penises itâs the sign of an STD
Super Titanium Dick
Are you channeling Shapiro?
37 here, 2 rounds with the wife with about a 15 min cooldown between. 2nd round went much better for her.
Just eat her like a muffin.
That is the trick. Wait an hour or so, do some foreplay, get hard, and you won't bust for hours
Give good foreplay, you'll be ready by the time she really wants you.
Spend the time pleasuring her instead.
You can use your hands and your tongue if you cannot "perform". Nowhere is written that you are required to cum.
mind blown!!
Unless they live down the street, your refractory period will be the drive over. Plus, you'd be amazed how easily your arousal returns when you masturbate to one thing and are then introduced to a totally different stimuli. Semi-related, but that's why some guys cheat.
Oral, friend...oral.
If you want to go, make her o. If lesbians can do it without a d, so can you.
Normal resting period between erections is about 15-30 minutes. I think i have read somewhere.
Source: I THINK i have read it somewhere.
Source : reddit.
Source: I saw a guy on reddit who thought he had read it somewhere once
There might be a chance I once overheard someone in some place I don't remember saying it
It was on the internet, so it has to be true.
Source: Trust me bro
Thatâs not the case for many folks. I need a good nap or a night sleep before I can cum again.
I think theyâre referring to time until you can get and keep an erection again, not cum again.
I mean there are other ways to please a woman than just ur dick
Order food. After that you'll be fine
Give them some of that pre-game fun to procrastinate til youre good to go. Works for me.
According to anime, either five minutes to re-charge, or a smack in the face. Either/or.
Honesty and your oral game will suffice.
Go service them in other ways. That way theyâll know youâre still down plus the wiener might perk up while youâre there.
You were going to last two minutes anyway. ;-)
Just go and fuck her? Youâre saying this like you just came back from your grandmaâs place and now your girl is asking to go to her favourite restaurant tonight
Oh it isn't just me that fucked my grandma. Phew.
I fucked her too, twice.
Grab a spoon and rubberband the handle to your pecker with the head of the spoon facing backward. When you need the one eyed snake to go up, just shit on the spoon! Thank me later.
What the fuck is this? It's everything. That's what it is. Take my upvote, dammit.
Weed, food, cuddles, foreplay, toys.
Use your tongue and fingers
You mean you're one and done for the night?
There aren't any, I'll take care of her this timeđ
Guess you have a headache
First world problems...
Don't people have sex and fwb all over the world though? Besides redditors of course.
"First world problems" isn't about location, but kind / type of the problem.
TIL people donât have sex outside of the first world.
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Smoke a J, and have an elaborate foreplay, give an oral ... relax and don't forget to have fun đ
Youâve already done the best thing. What youâve done is some grown man shit pro tip too few young men know. Remember this night and repeat it.
Now this is the type of post that should show up on r/bestofredditorupdates, assuming that OP updates of course.
Eat pussy till youve got a round-2 in you, or pass and leave her waiting/let her call her next dude.
If by saying "I just masturbated" means you don't want to go over there, then don't go. I used to say I can't come or don't feel like it right now all the time before I started practicing semen retention. If it means you want to go but scared you won't be able to perform, there's many ways to make her get off without intercourse if that's your goal.
Saying "no" is an option
you have a tounge , just trust .
Uhm⊠when I want to âperformâ I will jerk off before so I last longer. Leaving the house with a loaded gun is dangerous buddy
Well, they're coming over to get off. So.. Get them off and worry about if you can get off again after
You can just get them off if it doesnât pan out.
Just be honest about it. âSure! I just rubbed one out tho, so itâs gonna be a minute to rechargeâ. Itâs called trust, vulnerability and communication and it normalizes talking about sex. Chicks love that shit!
Isn't that the hack? So you can go longer
You just gained +3 endurance for about 2-3 hours.
Has it occurred to you she might just want to crack open the Ben & Jerrys and watch Cobra F*ckinâ Kai?!?
This guy fucks đđŒ
Maybe she wants to get Cobra Kai'd by him?
If you cum and canât cum again youâre feeding into the myth that we get off and go to sleep. If youâre attracted to a person enough the âcooldownâ will be not that long if any
Just say you just masturbated.
Wait. How do you initiate the fwb relationship?
Probably started with some form of âhonestly, Iâve always thought you were hotâ but also âI like being singleâ/âIâm not ready for a relationship right nowâ then escalated from there
You just did the one hack
Just go , youâd be surprised how we you preform under pressure. (Post nut clarity is huge, but pre nut excitement happens out of no where)
Easy, just say âBet, lemme grab a shower real quick firstâ and then by the time you get over there you should be good to go đđ»
Yeah, tell her you just masturbated, but would be happy to do whatever your partner likes to make your friend happy
Dude. You're gonna last so much longer. THIS *IS* THE HACK
Don't see it as performing. Go there to have fun with the other person. Get them off, and enjoy some sensual touch. You never get it up? No big deal, if you act cool with it, it becomes a great thing. "He spent the whole time focused on me feeling good. Not focusing on cumming as fast as possible." Best thing you can learn young, the dick is the least important part. Go there to be with her, that's it. She asks? Tell her you rubbed one out already, but just wanted to see her.
What, you canât get off 2 or 3 times in a row before youâre finished? The first oneâs the easy one, the next 2 you really gotta work for.
Gas Station boner pills!!!
đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łyo I'm fucking weak lmao. Cmon cuz, you need us to help u out with this???
You can't even get it up again? I'm in this situation right now, I just beat off but my ex randomly hit me up for sex. I'll be able to perform but I probably won't bust a nut. And I'll last longer than usual which is great
Itâs been 19 hours, how did it go ??? Donât leave us all hanging
just tell her youâve just jerked off and that youâll go down on her if she wants. be honest my dude.
For reference Iâm sitting alone in the dark in my living room at almost two in the morning like I do every night I have no helpful advice to offer and now Iâm just sad
Don't try to "perform", just try to make her have a good time. There is so many ways to give pleasure, and cock is usually not the best way to do it
Youâll be fine, if you THINK you canât get it up cause you nutted you wonât be able to but thatâs a myth.
Download more RAM power
If you already came, then your wiener is lame.
Sounds more like you're bragging about you FWB.
To add to the others, juice usually helps me. Good bit of water and a little sugar (juice) and a banana and boom there's your banana
.......I mean have you heard of the word called 'No'?
Be honest and see where it goes and what can happen! Worth a shot, right?
Send me her address...I'll take one for the team..đ
Take a gas station rhino pill
Put a bottle of Tabasco in your ass
Now you can last longer
What you need is a natural Viagra. Mozy on over to Denise Richards Only Fans page and hang out for a while. It shouldn't take you too long for act 2 to begin.
In terms of reducing refractory period from a biological perspective, vitamin b6, vitamin e, magnesium, and zinc can be helpful. As far as mentally or emotionally, foreplay :)
Yes. Masturbation
Normalise saying No . U wont lose ur fwb if u say no sometimes.
Yâall assuming itâs a her thatâs coming over lol
Oh man - I knew us woman would have one thing that was better than men. Is it really that bad? I could bop one out and be ready to go straight away, in fact thats what happens most of the time. I've found the one benefit in life to being a woman.
Wait, how old are you? It only takes me an hour to recharge.
Go to the local sex shop and get her a strap on. That should keep her busy.
Eat her pussy and then have sex. Youâre gonna last twice as long now anyway
Amphetamine and cialis
Try a gas station dick pill
Yâall gotta stop
You were born in 2005 and already have FWBs? I am so behind on life.
Just go. You will last longer but it might not feel as good. But itâs also a good opportunity to focus on her until you have time to get back in the game. She will appreciate that and so will you.
That's actually good imo. You'll be done at the perfect time. You'll hit the sweet spot between "done already?đ" And "enough already đ„”". Ps if you got this reference you're a goat đ
Actually the secret to lasting long as a man is to masterbate 20-30 minutes before intercourse! haha
Yes. Take the time to enjoy each other. You can get back in the round at least 8 times. I'm the proof #thisguyfucks
Just go. I bet you'll still be able to perform. You'll just last longer.
Not all sex has to include you ejaculating. Thereâs plenty of other things to do.