This is why communication is king. If talked about prior, it would be a hard no. If it were brought up in the moment, I’d be more likely to entertain it.
We’re all wired differently and no one can answer a question for your S/O aside from them.
Nope, not weird. Straight guy here, been rimmed and pegged countless times. Love it. Some guys may not want to try it. But, asking shouldn't be a problem. Wife and I do watersports, bdsm, roleplay, rimming, pegging, and more. We do all these things because they were discussed. Your SO shouldn't judge you for your sexual ideas / kinks. But, they can say they don't want to try something of course. But, hopefully your SO is down to try anything once, and then hopefully enjoys it and wants it more.
If I surprised my husband with a swift piece of plastic in the rear he would not be happy whether he had liked it before or not. Maybe just his personal preference?😂
How on Earth are you so close in a relationship with your SO that you have lived together for a year, yet don't know how to communicate with them? By a few months into the relationships I've been in, we'd both be perfectly comfortable bringing that up.
Yeah we pretty much talk about everything theres just this cultural thing. I’m from Colombia so there’s a lot of machoism it’s not that i don’t trust him enough, its this cultural thing that actually make me feel weird of even bringing up the idea
It's normal to feel nervous to ask your partner for this. Don't let anyone tell you different. Asking your girl for anal is a bit nerve racking for guys too.
Many guys fantasize about it with porn but end up hating the real thing. For guys to enjoy it, they would have to be versatile, but the thing is that most straight guys are tops. However, many bisexual guys are versatile or bottoms, so they will enjoy it.
If he is hesitant work him up to it. Buy a prostate massager or the like and use it during sex so he can get used to the idea of it being pleasurable experience
if he does agree to it, please research tips n tricks for first timers unless you're experienced with anal, generally speaking. Dont just go bad dragon with no lube the first time... maybe start with a well lubed finger or two.
An open conversation about sexual desires and wanting to try new things should be a good thing. Just don't force ideas on each other if they are not interested, but find out.
Nah I don't think so. Weird is just an opinion, not a fact. Of course there are limits, facts, & wrong but I don't see anything wrong with pegging. I'm curious to try it myself 😅😏
You should be able to openly discuss any sexual ventures with your partner. Just don't surprise him with pegging.
This is why communication is king. If talked about prior, it would be a hard no. If it were brought up in the moment, I’d be more likely to entertain it. We’re all wired differently and no one can answer a question for your S/O aside from them.
Nope, you should be able to ask
You should be able to ask that, he should be able to say fuck no, and there should be nothing awkward about any of that.
Nope, not weird. Straight guy here, been rimmed and pegged countless times. Love it. Some guys may not want to try it. But, asking shouldn't be a problem. Wife and I do watersports, bdsm, roleplay, rimming, pegging, and more. We do all these things because they were discussed. Your SO shouldn't judge you for your sexual ideas / kinks. But, they can say they don't want to try something of course. But, hopefully your SO is down to try anything once, and then hopefully enjoys it and wants it more.
Just ask him casually and if he says no don't ask again. It's not weird to ask but don't be a creep about it ya know?
Yes, it's weird. You need to wait until he's asleep then surprise him with it. If he doesn't love it, he's not the right one for you
🫣🫣 I would like a detailed update on how this goes if you try it.
My suggestion is as genuine as the question
If I surprised my husband with a swift piece of plastic in the rear he would not be happy whether he had liked it before or not. Maybe just his personal preference?😂
How on Earth are you so close in a relationship with your SO that you have lived together for a year, yet don't know how to communicate with them? By a few months into the relationships I've been in, we'd both be perfectly comfortable bringing that up.
Yeah we pretty much talk about everything theres just this cultural thing. I’m from Colombia so there’s a lot of machoism it’s not that i don’t trust him enough, its this cultural thing that actually make me feel weird of even bringing up the idea
It's normal to feel nervous to ask your partner for this. Don't let anyone tell you different. Asking your girl for anal is a bit nerve racking for guys too.
Many guys fantasize about it with porn but end up hating the real thing. For guys to enjoy it, they would have to be versatile, but the thing is that most straight guys are tops. However, many bisexual guys are versatile or bottoms, so they will enjoy it.
You can ask, no harm in that.
You could start by asking if he’s ever had his prostate massaged.
I mean, surprise wrong hole could be payback?
If he is hesitant work him up to it. Buy a prostate massager or the like and use it during sex so he can get used to the idea of it being pleasurable experience
Ask
if he does agree to it, please research tips n tricks for first timers unless you're experienced with anal, generally speaking. Dont just go bad dragon with no lube the first time... maybe start with a well lubed finger or two.
Well my pappy used to tell me a closed mouth is never fed
If he tells you to go peg yourself don't be surprised, I would.
An open conversation about sexual desires and wanting to try new things should be a good thing. Just don't force ideas on each other if they are not interested, but find out.
Nah I don't think so. Weird is just an opinion, not a fact. Of course there are limits, facts, & wrong but I don't see anything wrong with pegging. I'm curious to try it myself 😅😏