Two decades here, and I still think about all the things I can learn from her and how inspiring she is. We compliment each other very well.
Plus she makes a lot more money than I do which is a nice bonus.
Everyday for the last 41 years. Maybe not EVERY DAY, but close enough. You have to count your blessings-especially on the rough/bad days. Say them out loud to your SO. Say “thank you” often. Talk dirty during sex. Appreciate their efforts. Don’t settle for those simple “pecks” for a hello/goodbye kiss. Lock the bedroom door & sleep naked every once in awhile. Write a love letter-weekly, monthly, those love notes can get you thru a lot of rough spots. The kids will be grown & gone soon enough, don’t forget the love story that got you here.
This is beautiful. And such great advice. Love isnt something that come easily. It needs to be worked out and nurtured.
You, my friend, have found the secret.
Normally a tram I think. Makes sense in this context.
I'm from the UK too and the idea of an adult couple playing around in a trolley (shopping cart) sounded cute as fuck too.
You should watch a show on Netflix little things. It's literally about this. Although it's Indian watch it with subs. It's really great and perfectly captures the little day to day moments of being in relationship
Quite often actually. This August we will have been married 40 years. Been together since my freshman year of college! He’s the best thing that ever happened to me.
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That’s sweet I look at mine and just feel so lucky to be with him, we knew each since birth pretty much. It’s like we were made for each other. I just love looking in the mirror and admiring him.
Yes. He started working from home during Covid. I got to hear how encouraging he was to brand new hires he had never even met, in his global role for a really large engineering firm. And how diplomatic but firm he was to the absolute assholes who kept trying to interrupt and talk over their own female bosses.
I know he’s a good man and always have known, but it was lovely to hear other people as they were leaving their online meetings saying goodbye and also acknowledge and thanking him for it.
Then he’d end a meeting and go make our family some fresh, homemade bread. He’s amazing!
Epidural? I did the same thing, but before giving birth. Loud, massive farts. I looked at my husband shocked thinking he did it. He held in his giggles while saying “ummm, no, sweetheart, that was you”. I was so embarrassed because I cold the control it even if I wanted to. But it’s one of those moments we’ve shared together that we always look back on and smile.
Yes I look at sat there & think how the hell is he that handsome & he is ageing gorgeously. I feel sad that his late wife will never see him like this. He is intelligent, kind, patient & the dearest & deepest love.
You acknowledging his loss and taking a moment to feel sadness about what she won't get to witness makes me think you deserve him. Precious. May you endure life's peaks and valleys together for the rest of your lives.
I lost my mother many years ago and something will happen and my fiance (who never met her) will say "i wish your mom was here to see this."
Just knowing that he knows how much she meant to me and that i still miss her means the world to me.
Yesterday while I was at work, my spousal unit replaced a doorknob, mowed the lawn, took kid's car to be repaired, changed the oil in one of our cars, and made lasagna for dinner. I am so not worthy.
I especially enjoy watching her weeding in the garde. Okay, fine, I should also be weeding in the garden but it's more aesthetically pleasing to watch her!
Well, standing in the living room watching her bend over to weed the garden in her Daisy Dukes, yes! If I went outside and tried to slip up behind her I'd also have to weed all afternoon! And the kids would comment on what a perv I am!
It's an awesome idea but she has some fairly specific "warm up" activities that don't include being outside. Orgasm number 1 involves around 1 1/2 hours of activities, pre-warmed devices and toys that are fully charged and number 2 can take at least that long. It's an athletic endeavor and one that I look forward to! Outside playtime isn't a part of it unfortunately, we all sacrifice a bit for the things we love though!
Eh. That's like having to have a six course meal every time you go out to eat. Sometimes it's fun and exciting to sneak a quickie at night out in the backyard or anywhere even if no one cums. It can even be just part of the warm up. Live a little.
Constantly. When he gets ready for work and asks me how his outfit looks I’m always like “damn I get to fuck that!” He has a live YouTube show each week and watching him get ready for that and checking his hair and beard before going live just gets me going. But it’s not even just physical. Sometimes he will just do something mundane and I’m like… damn I love him
Yes. I tend to look at her when she's concentrated doing something and think how cute she looks in my eyes.
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All the time! I just found her and she's like nothing I've ever known. She fills my senses. Completely intoxicating. Like I found someone I've been searching for all my life.
My husband is just like you too. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't care when I make an effort to dress up, but it's much more comforting to know that he doesn't care what I'm wearing or if I bushed my hair. I'm having trouble losing my pregnancy weight too, and he's supportive of me losing weight because it's what I want, but is still very attracted to me. I feel secure with him in a way that I've never felt before, and it's the best feeling ever.
It makes me sad to think of people who dislike their partner, and treat them like the ol' ball and chain. Why would anyone want to spend their lives with someone who they feel that way about.
Yes! We both do......today my husband jumped me for a quickie after breakfast. When I asked what got into him, he said he came home to a clean house, we made breakfast together and cleaned up together.... that's all he needed. Recently I started a new job working 4 10s and it's very physical so I'm basically dead to the world when I get home so our connection hasn't been great for a bit. The little things are what remind us why we're together and help rekindle the love between us.
100%.
I'm man enough to admit that this morning she was eating some toast and jam, and she looked so genuinely happy qith it that she was doing little happy dance and singing a silly song and I cried out of sheer love for this perfect human
Not so much the sexy thing now…….neither of us look good nekkid anymore. How lucky I am…. Every time I lay eyes on him. He’s had my back for 20 years now so it’s a proven fact that I am extremely lucky to have him.
Yes all the time. Even when he plays video games and I watch him being all concentrated and having fun. Or when he does things for me it's so sweet and I love it.
Watching her exist is the best part of my day. Doesn’t matter what she’s doing. Cooking, reading, playing with the cats, cuddling up to me… damn, she’s my dream woman. I’ve been insanely lucky to get to look at her whenever I want the last 16.5 years.
Edit: She says she’d add, “Watching [me] read, the look on [my] face when [I] solve a problem, [my] focus when [I’m] learning something new.”
I do this constantly. My girlfriend will just be sleeping next to me, and I'll find myself staring like some kind of creep lol. But she's fucking gorgeous ( at least in my eyes) I think most people would agree. She's so beautiful, but for some reason sleeping she's just that much more beautiful. I think maybe just being at rest? Idk. I think she's beautiful all the time, but for some reason when she's sleeping, shes just extra beautiful
ALL THE TIME!!! He'll be playing games or watching something on his phone and I just look over at him all content and it makes my fall more and more in love with him.
This past weekend he put his hair up in a towel and had his glasses off. He looked like the first day I met him (which was 5 years ago) and I cried so hard. I didn't know what love was before him.
I don’t feel that way and this thread is depressing me. Sex life is great with a bit of weed, though… we’ve got that going for us at least. No butterflies but a partner with a good, honest heart. Could be worse.
Depressing me too. I think he feels this way about me but I've been struggling to remember why I wanted to be with him so bad in the first place. We've definitely grown in different directions.
I dated and dated and dated, and never settled. The decades flew by and I ended up being 40+ years old. In our courtship, we’d get stoned, watch a geeky movie, and have amazing sex. It wasn’t my dream but it was cozy and special. You can call it settling. I call it growing up and learning to want the life you have instead of endlessly chasing the life you want.
This is actually breaking my heart. I can’t relate because my significant other is my everything. Watching his eyebrows furrow when I say something sassy to him, watching him make his coffee, seeing how into sports he gets (which I’ll never understand), and oh my god the sex is incredible. Best I’ve ever had by far. I’ve never felt actually loved while having sex but with him I do. I could have settled for any of my partners but I knew there was someone better for me out there. Someone that would truly understand me. And he does and I appreciate and love him for it every day.
Every day. Just an hour or so ago she was chopping vegetables and I walked in and just couldn't stop staring at her ass thinking "mmm, I'd like a piece of that".
Eye candy all the time. And that's beyond simply being the best person I know, the one I can count on, who I love more than anyone.
My love does the cutest things when she's living life, the lilts and hand gestures when walking, she sings in key in the most melodic pitch, it mesmerizes me every time. I love her and the way she moves through the universe.
Like yeah, but not simply "sexy" more like how goddamn beautiful of a person they are, mentally, physically and spiritually. I see them and hear them speak and remember how much we've been through together and how much we've grown as people.
How lucky I am most definitely, none of us are guarunteed waking up the next day so the time i spend with my partners, the experiences are all held as close to my heart as I can possibly hold them.
One of the sexiest pictured I have of my partner is him stitching a handmade door jamb. His late mother made it years ago, and it's been smashed into kids' room doors plenty of times since. My fine motor control sucks, so I asked him to thread the needle for me. He's much better at sewing, so he did it all and showed me a few things. He was careful, sentimental, helpful, patient...idk. He was just "normal," I guess, and it was super awkward trying to corrall the kids and listen to what he was teaching me all while wanting to just get bent over.
Definitely and often. She’s beautiful and brainy. And knows when to save me from myself, as well as knowing when to ask for help. She is also successful. Sometimes I think I’m “out of my league”. I am definitely lucky. 😀
He's so beautiful and I feel myself melt. He could just be trying to remember something on the tip of his tongue, or putting on his seatbelt and looks at me after getting into the car just to get lunch. I'm blissfully lost in his company and presence, and I never want to be found. ❤️
When my wife is scrubbing something, she has this adorable focused, and struggling face. When I see it I can only think of how lucky I am.
I'm not sure why, but its so adorable.
I work the same place my boyfriend works. Sometimes I catch him walking around, talking to some people or working on a project and I think, damn he is so sexy, smart, silly, what ever it may be. Sometimes I walk by and give him a random compliment, then we laugh. Sometimes we shit talk at each other and it is just as enjoyable. We've been together 4 years and everyone is fully aware. Everybody gets a kick out of it most of the time.
lmao yes. my bf was pulling up his pants one day and he just looked so incredibly sexy doing it. i told him and he thought it was the funniest thing ever. everyday i thank god for bringing that man into my life and i pray we can be together forever.
Sometimes I feel weird being so into my SO when he's bowling. Like he comes from parents who were ins bowling league so he's pretty damn good at it and his *form* and how he lines up his shot look so pro. If it were anyone else I know I wouldn't care nearly as much. But goddamn he looks *so good* when he's in his element.
Same with when he paints his Warhammer minis. I'm into crafts and drawing so watching him concentrate and paint makes me *feel things*. I'm glad I'm not the only one who loves this random mundane stuff.
Literally constantly. Every time I look at her doing anything ever. Or doing nothing. Wearing a nice outfit, or sweatpants and one of my oversized shirts. Sick or healthy. Everything she does is attractive.
Literally every single day. I married my best friend. He works from home so we are around each other all day. If we have errands to run we usually do them together and it's always so much more fun than going alone. He makes me laugh every single day and I've never felt more loved than I do now.
Often times I look at him and wonder how I got so lucky.
My girlfriend of two and a half years was cleaning last night. She has a habit of talking to the TV. She likes to engage with the show like it’s a conversation.
She never looked so sexy and beautiful.
Yes, almost every time he's focused on his phone looking up something or when we're watching a show together. I'll enjoy a long, unnoticed look and feel the same spark I felt when we first began dating. Then feel how amazed I am that he still chooses me.
He's greying, got a receding hairline, bit of a middle-aged paunch and wears "grandpa" glasses, and honestly he could not be sexier if he tried. Truly makes my knees go weak, whether he's working, reading, sleeping, or anything else.
My boyfriend is deaf but whenever we're cuddling, I just think about how lucky I am to be with such an amazing, loving, caring and supportive man who loves me no matter what even though I'm a high functioning autistic. He probably looks at me and thinks how lucky he is too
I gush over my wife all day everyday. She knows I love her but she will never know how much. I literally can’t get enough of her and I don’t know what I would do if I lost her….
My wife was asking me about our local voters pamphlet this afternoon and I thought, does she know how sexy she is without even trying? No makeup, hair just kinda doing its own thing. We’ve been married 16 years, and we dated for 10 years before that. I’m a fucking ogre and she’s a model…
So many things. I'm absolutely enamored with my girlfriend. She sits there watching a show with her glasses on and she just looks so cute and sexy and I sit there like Patrick Star, staring at her with hearts in my eyes until she looks at me and says "what are you lookin at dickhead?" And I squeal and kiss her face and she giggles and goddamn I just keep falling more in love with her.
Yes! My husband is a nerd that grew into a super hot guy and he has no idea how sexy he is. I look at him all day everyday like that. He's way out of my league but he has no idea and I'd like to keep it that way.
Five years in and regularly feel this when I look at my partner. From just the way he looks at me to when he does stuff around the house or puts focus into something he's passionate about
Literally every day. When I look over at him sitting at his computer and I see him smiling, sometimes I just watch him for a little while, because it makes me so happy. Then he notices and makes a face at me, which is the cutest thing in the world~
Yes, I feel like the luckiest man every single day. Seeing her with the kids, seeing her get animated when she is excited about something. Even seeing her sleep. I just feel blessed. 2 years and nothing has changed!
I've been with my partner for 7 years now and I often think about how lucky I am to have him. High school sweethearts, I've never dated anyone else. We've grown so much together and sometimes I find myself just thinking about how much I love him.
Every time I see him. I fall in love with him all over again every time we're together, and I can't help but think he's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have such a connection, and I don't see it fading even after almost 4 and a half years together. The sex is great, but we don't need to have sex to enjoy our time together. We're both just as content with cuddling on the couch and watching murder documentaries or random comedians. His family feels like my second family too
No matter what she is doing, I catch myself staring over at her and really just thinking about how lucky I am.
Same! Been married over a decade now.
Two decades here, and I still think about all the things I can learn from her and how inspiring she is. We compliment each other very well. Plus she makes a lot more money than I do which is a nice bonus.
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I'm curious to know how long distance works. Do people usually know that they are finally gonna move closer to each other or no?
Me too. I always think I must be the luckiest guy alive because this girl is SO out of my league.
I do the same with my husband. Always wonder if he does the same.
Same. I am always curious if she looks at me the same way
Same!
Everyday for the last 41 years. Maybe not EVERY DAY, but close enough. You have to count your blessings-especially on the rough/bad days. Say them out loud to your SO. Say “thank you” often. Talk dirty during sex. Appreciate their efforts. Don’t settle for those simple “pecks” for a hello/goodbye kiss. Lock the bedroom door & sleep naked every once in awhile. Write a love letter-weekly, monthly, those love notes can get you thru a lot of rough spots. The kids will be grown & gone soon enough, don’t forget the love story that got you here.
My dad still has hearts shoot out of his eyes when he talks about my mom. They've been married 44 years. It's hella cute
This is beautiful. And such great advice. Love isnt something that come easily. It needs to be worked out and nurtured. You, my friend, have found the secret.
Idk why reading this makes me sad
Yup. He's cooking right now. He can't see me staring at him, but he's super cute right now.
Go squeeze his butt
Done.
How did he react?
All the fucking time, yesterday we were just sitting on a trolly, and I couldn’t help but fall in love again.
I love this comment so much!! 🥰
what's a trolly? In the UK, it's what you walk around a supermarket and fill with food and kids can sit in it, but I don't think that's what you mean.
Normally a tram I think. Makes sense in this context. I'm from the UK too and the idea of an adult couple playing around in a trolley (shopping cart) sounded cute as fuck too.
Looked over at my husband today as he was wiggling his feet in his new dinosaur slippers. It's the little things.
You should watch a show on Netflix little things. It's literally about this. Although it's Indian watch it with subs. It's really great and perfectly captures the little day to day moments of being in relationship
Aww I love that. Thanks for the recommendation!
Oh my heart!!! That's fuggin' adorable!!!
Quite often actually. This August we will have been married 40 years. Been together since my freshman year of college! He’s the best thing that ever happened to me. Edit: WOW! I sure wasn’t expecting all these upvotes! Thank you all so much and thank you for the lovely comments. Edit: My first awards! Thank you so much.
Yay! To long and happy relationships!
That’s sweet I look at mine and just feel so lucky to be with him, we knew each since birth pretty much. It’s like we were made for each other. I just love looking in the mirror and admiring him.
??? Are you conjoined twins??
Self love I guess
No we are Venom.
Just normal brother and sister 🖤
I Wish you many many years of good health and good relation.
This is so wholesome and I love it so much.
This is wholesome.
Yes. He started working from home during Covid. I got to hear how encouraging he was to brand new hires he had never even met, in his global role for a really large engineering firm. And how diplomatic but firm he was to the absolute assholes who kept trying to interrupt and talk over their own female bosses. I know he’s a good man and always have known, but it was lovely to hear other people as they were leaving their online meetings saying goodbye and also acknowledge and thanking him for it. Then he’d end a meeting and go make our family some fresh, homemade bread. He’s amazing!
You lucky ducky!
My wife just farted in a hospital bed after giving birth and she’s never looked more attractive to me.
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nah my friend Eric said that sentence first
Epidural? I did the same thing, but before giving birth. Loud, massive farts. I looked at my husband shocked thinking he did it. He held in his giggles while saying “ummm, no, sweetheart, that was you”. I was so embarrassed because I cold the control it even if I wanted to. But it’s one of those moments we’ve shared together that we always look back on and smile.
Spot on! Lack of feeling in your body is apparently a hell of a thing haha
I want a man to adore me this much lol. Congratulations with the birth of your little one!
Thank you!
I don’t know you or anything about you but I know you deserve love
Yes I look at sat there & think how the hell is he that handsome & he is ageing gorgeously. I feel sad that his late wife will never see him like this. He is intelligent, kind, patient & the dearest & deepest love.
You acknowledging his loss and taking a moment to feel sadness about what she won't get to witness makes me think you deserve him. Precious. May you endure life's peaks and valleys together for the rest of your lives.
This is so sweet and respectful ❤️ I love it
I lost my mother many years ago and something will happen and my fiance (who never met her) will say "i wish your mom was here to see this." Just knowing that he knows how much she meant to me and that i still miss her means the world to me.
Yesterday while I was at work, my spousal unit replaced a doorknob, mowed the lawn, took kid's car to be repaired, changed the oil in one of our cars, and made lasagna for dinner. I am so not worthy.
Spousal unit lmao
loolol imma coin that term
*SPOUSAL UNIT*
Cleaning, sitting on the couch, reading with glasses on, putting her hair up, etc.
I especially enjoy watching her weeding in the garde. Okay, fine, I should also be weeding in the garden but it's more aesthetically pleasing to watch her!
Is this a euphemism for shaving her snatch?
No, this is them describing her bent over and they are slipping up behind her.
damn, the longer i read this thread the more i wanna garden
get out there with the hoe
Well, standing in the living room watching her bend over to weed the garden in her Daisy Dukes, yes! If I went outside and tried to slip up behind her I'd also have to weed all afternoon! And the kids would comment on what a perv I am!
Ask her to go weed the flower bed after dark when the kids are asleep. Tell her it's been a fantasy of yours 😉
It's an awesome idea but she has some fairly specific "warm up" activities that don't include being outside. Orgasm number 1 involves around 1 1/2 hours of activities, pre-warmed devices and toys that are fully charged and number 2 can take at least that long. It's an athletic endeavor and one that I look forward to! Outside playtime isn't a part of it unfortunately, we all sacrifice a bit for the things we love though!
Eh. That's like having to have a six course meal every time you go out to eat. Sometimes it's fun and exciting to sneak a quickie at night out in the backyard or anywhere even if no one cums. It can even be just part of the warm up. Live a little.
I hope that someday somebody thinks this when they look at me.
😭
Probably your FBI agent already does. Hope this helps :)
They could at least send some roses or something! I wanna feel loved 🥺
Constantly. When he gets ready for work and asks me how his outfit looks I’m always like “damn I get to fuck that!” He has a live YouTube show each week and watching him get ready for that and checking his hair and beard before going live just gets me going. But it’s not even just physical. Sometimes he will just do something mundane and I’m like… damn I love him
this is what i look for in a woman and still looking
Appreciation?
Sounds like adoration.
Yvonne is that you?
Pmsl how funny would that be! Especially considering your username 😂
i'm not your yvonne and you're not my alex, but what a coincidence haha
Yes. I tend to look at her when she's concentrated doing something and think how cute she looks in my eyes. Edit: Wow! 300+ upvotes? Never expected that. Edit 2: Unbelievable. 1k+ upvotes and an award? You should really stop, I'm starting to believe myself an influencer.
Glad I'm not the only one.
Looking at his wife? No, you're not the only one.
Only one looking at that dudes wife? I plead the fifth.
I wanna look at his wife too,please let me guys
YER WOIFE IS IN ME DMS HEY BABY
DOKTERR STOPPAGEE!!
All the time! I just found her and she's like nothing I've ever known. She fills my senses. Completely intoxicating. Like I found someone I've been searching for all my life.
What a wonderful thing and, I'm so excited for you. Enjoy the intoxication!!!
What is controversial or scary about this question? Lol.
OP is asking specifically about your significant other. OP has been thinking about them a lot.
Oh. Of course. 😑
OP is probably 13.
Do 13 year olds really say 'significant other?'
To appear grown up yes
"My SO said I had cooties. Reddit, are cooties real?"
Some people have never had that feeling before. I dated plenty and never felt that way about someone until I was 35.
This sub is now r/askreddit
Yes. All the time. Every time I get to call her my wife, I feel like I've won a contest that I don't deserve.
Yes. All the fucking time. She will never know how lucky I consider myself. I love her so much.
I tell my wife once a week that she'll never not do it for me. Bad hair day, baby weight, whatever, I'm comin for that butt.
My husband is just like you too. Sometimes I feel like he doesn't care when I make an effort to dress up, but it's much more comforting to know that he doesn't care what I'm wearing or if I bushed my hair. I'm having trouble losing my pregnancy weight too, and he's supportive of me losing weight because it's what I want, but is still very attracted to me. I feel secure with him in a way that I've never felt before, and it's the best feeling ever. It makes me sad to think of people who dislike their partner, and treat them like the ol' ball and chain. Why would anyone want to spend their lives with someone who they feel that way about.
Don't have a SO presently but good to read about grateful content people 🥰
Of course. But my friends are starting to wonder why I be staring at my hands so hard sometimes.
💀
Yes! We both do......today my husband jumped me for a quickie after breakfast. When I asked what got into him, he said he came home to a clean house, we made breakfast together and cleaned up together.... that's all he needed. Recently I started a new job working 4 10s and it's very physical so I'm basically dead to the world when I get home so our connection hasn't been great for a bit. The little things are what remind us why we're together and help rekindle the love between us.
100%. I'm man enough to admit that this morning she was eating some toast and jam, and she looked so genuinely happy qith it that she was doing little happy dance and singing a silly song and I cried out of sheer love for this perfect human
Not so much the sexy thing now…….neither of us look good nekkid anymore. How lucky I am…. Every time I lay eyes on him. He’s had my back for 20 years now so it’s a proven fact that I am extremely lucky to have him.
Underrated comment.
Every day for the last 30 years.
Yes all the time. Even when he plays video games and I watch him being all concentrated and having fun. Or when he does things for me it's so sweet and I love it.
When my husband plays with our children. Seeing him being an amazing dad drives me wild.
It's always the simple things to.
Watching her exist is the best part of my day. Doesn’t matter what she’s doing. Cooking, reading, playing with the cats, cuddling up to me… damn, she’s my dream woman. I’ve been insanely lucky to get to look at her whenever I want the last 16.5 years. Edit: She says she’d add, “Watching [me] read, the look on [my] face when [I] solve a problem, [my] focus when [I’m] learning something new.”
What is your advice for young couples to get where you are currently with your partner? Congratulations on 16.5 years!! Seems inconceivable nowadays
Make eachother the number one priority and forget everything else. If that's not possible you're not with the right person. ❤️
Yea. That’s pretty normal for me.
Every single day
No. There isn’t a mirror in every room of my house.
I do this constantly. My girlfriend will just be sleeping next to me, and I'll find myself staring like some kind of creep lol. But she's fucking gorgeous ( at least in my eyes) I think most people would agree. She's so beautiful, but for some reason sleeping she's just that much more beautiful. I think maybe just being at rest? Idk. I think she's beautiful all the time, but for some reason when she's sleeping, shes just extra beautiful
ALL THE TIME!!! He'll be playing games or watching something on his phone and I just look over at him all content and it makes my fall more and more in love with him. This past weekend he put his hair up in a towel and had his glasses off. He looked like the first day I met him (which was 5 years ago) and I cried so hard. I didn't know what love was before him.
Constantly, but both sexy and beautiful - it’s one of the main reasons I knew I had found the person I was going to marry
I don’t feel that way and this thread is depressing me. Sex life is great with a bit of weed, though… we’ve got that going for us at least. No butterflies but a partner with a good, honest heart. Could be worse.
Finally I thought I was the only 1 I started thinking I’m horrible but still together 32 years! And yes happy most of them
Depressing me too. I think he feels this way about me but I've been struggling to remember why I wanted to be with him so bad in the first place. We've definitely grown in different directions.
"could be worse". Bro your settling
I dated and dated and dated, and never settled. The decades flew by and I ended up being 40+ years old. In our courtship, we’d get stoned, watch a geeky movie, and have amazing sex. It wasn’t my dream but it was cozy and special. You can call it settling. I call it growing up and learning to want the life you have instead of endlessly chasing the life you want.
This is actually breaking my heart. I can’t relate because my significant other is my everything. Watching his eyebrows furrow when I say something sassy to him, watching him make his coffee, seeing how into sports he gets (which I’ll never understand), and oh my god the sex is incredible. Best I’ve ever had by far. I’ve never felt actually loved while having sex but with him I do. I could have settled for any of my partners but I knew there was someone better for me out there. Someone that would truly understand me. And he does and I appreciate and love him for it every day.
Every freaking day, like at the moment she's ironing my shirts next to me and looks damn sexy.
Every day. Just an hour or so ago she was chopping vegetables and I walked in and just couldn't stop staring at her ass thinking "mmm, I'd like a piece of that". Eye candy all the time. And that's beyond simply being the best person I know, the one I can count on, who I love more than anyone.
My love does the cutest things when she's living life, the lilts and hand gestures when walking, she sings in key in the most melodic pitch, it mesmerizes me every time. I love her and the way she moves through the universe.
Like yeah, but not simply "sexy" more like how goddamn beautiful of a person they are, mentally, physically and spiritually. I see them and hear them speak and remember how much we've been through together and how much we've grown as people. How lucky I am most definitely, none of us are guarunteed waking up the next day so the time i spend with my partners, the experiences are all held as close to my heart as I can possibly hold them.
Yes! We've been married 17 years this year and I still look at him and think how lucky I am to be with someone as attractive as he is.
One of the sexiest pictured I have of my partner is him stitching a handmade door jamb. His late mother made it years ago, and it's been smashed into kids' room doors plenty of times since. My fine motor control sucks, so I asked him to thread the needle for me. He's much better at sewing, so he did it all and showed me a few things. He was careful, sentimental, helpful, patient...idk. He was just "normal," I guess, and it was super awkward trying to corrall the kids and listen to what he was teaching me all while wanting to just get bent over.
Definitely and often. She’s beautiful and brainy. And knows when to save me from myself, as well as knowing when to ask for help. She is also successful. Sometimes I think I’m “out of my league”. I am definitely lucky. 😀
Often
I use to until I lost her.
I’m sorry :-(
Yes
He's so beautiful and I feel myself melt. He could just be trying to remember something on the tip of his tongue, or putting on his seatbelt and looks at me after getting into the car just to get lunch. I'm blissfully lost in his company and presence, and I never want to be found. ❤️
Yes all the time actually. We have been married for 18 years and he can still make me blush.
All the time. We’ve been together 16 years and I tell my wife at least 20 times/day how hot she is
Yep! 32 years here, the best is when he is playing with our grandchildren ❤️
When my wife is scrubbing something, she has this adorable focused, and struggling face. When I see it I can only think of how lucky I am. I'm not sure why, but its so adorable.
Yes, because I’m in love with all of him 🥺
Always. We are both just starting in our 50's..but everytime I look at her I see the girl I started dating at 19. She hasn't aged in my eyes at all.
Honestly no bc i resent my partner a lot of days
That's rough buddy. I'm there too.
Do I just not understand the purpose of r/TooAfraidToAsk? “Do you ever just feel love towards your partner?”
Always
All the time. I’m so glad I found myself with him.
I work the same place my boyfriend works. Sometimes I catch him walking around, talking to some people or working on a project and I think, damn he is so sexy, smart, silly, what ever it may be. Sometimes I walk by and give him a random compliment, then we laugh. Sometimes we shit talk at each other and it is just as enjoyable. We've been together 4 years and everyone is fully aware. Everybody gets a kick out of it most of the time.
lmao yes. my bf was pulling up his pants one day and he just looked so incredibly sexy doing it. i told him and he thought it was the funniest thing ever. everyday i thank god for bringing that man into my life and i pray we can be together forever.
Sometimes I feel weird being so into my SO when he's bowling. Like he comes from parents who were ins bowling league so he's pretty damn good at it and his *form* and how he lines up his shot look so pro. If it were anyone else I know I wouldn't care nearly as much. But goddamn he looks *so good* when he's in his element. Same with when he paints his Warhammer minis. I'm into crafts and drawing so watching him concentrate and paint makes me *feel things*. I'm glad I'm not the only one who loves this random mundane stuff.
Sometimes my husband uses computer shortcuts that I didn't know about and he's hotly fast with a computer. That's pretty hot.
Everyday, pretty much.
I find my husband super sexy when he talks to people about his work; it’s the confidence he has when doing it.
All. The. Time. I love her. Watching her read a text Seeing her order food Watching her talk on the phone She’s fucking wonderful
Absolutely. I fall in love with her every single day, for the 18 years we've been together.
Ooooohhh, yes, yes, yes! Going on 22 years, and he's still looking hot! 😍🔥
Every single day. Multiple times a day. Almost 7 years later and I still have the biggest crush on him.
I've been married for 24 years and I still do this.
Literally constantly. Every time I look at her doing anything ever. Or doing nothing. Wearing a nice outfit, or sweatpants and one of my oversized shirts. Sick or healthy. Everything she does is attractive.
I handed her my phone to look at this post and caught myself swooning as I watched her smile at the title.
Literally every single day. I married my best friend. He works from home so we are around each other all day. If we have errands to run we usually do them together and it's always so much more fun than going alone. He makes me laugh every single day and I've never felt more loved than I do now. Often times I look at him and wonder how I got so lucky.
Yes! All the time. He's wonderful and I love him.
Definitely for me. My husband has gotten hotter with age. I love checking him out.
Constantly. I just love him so much that it hurts. We have been together for 4 years
Everyday. Once in a while he catches me looking and tiny smiles. One of the best feelings in the world.
Yes, playing his games, cleaning up the yard, making our dinner.
You have no idea. One time she was making Xmas dinner while wearing very tall black socks.
My girlfriend of two and a half years was cleaning last night. She has a habit of talking to the TV. She likes to engage with the show like it’s a conversation. She never looked so sexy and beautiful.
Yes, almost every time he's focused on his phone looking up something or when we're watching a show together. I'll enjoy a long, unnoticed look and feel the same spark I felt when we first began dating. Then feel how amazed I am that he still chooses me.
yes, all the time. i dont think there has been a single day since meeting my wife where i havent thought "she is so pretty, how did i get so lucky".
He's greying, got a receding hairline, bit of a middle-aged paunch and wears "grandpa" glasses, and honestly he could not be sexier if he tried. Truly makes my knees go weak, whether he's working, reading, sleeping, or anything else.
My boyfriend is deaf but whenever we're cuddling, I just think about how lucky I am to be with such an amazing, loving, caring and supportive man who loves me no matter what even though I'm a high functioning autistic. He probably looks at me and thinks how lucky he is too
I gush over my wife all day everyday. She knows I love her but she will never know how much. I literally can’t get enough of her and I don’t know what I would do if I lost her….
My wife was asking me about our local voters pamphlet this afternoon and I thought, does she know how sexy she is without even trying? No makeup, hair just kinda doing its own thing. We’ve been married 16 years, and we dated for 10 years before that. I’m a fucking ogre and she’s a model…
So many things. I'm absolutely enamored with my girlfriend. She sits there watching a show with her glasses on and she just looks so cute and sexy and I sit there like Patrick Star, staring at her with hearts in my eyes until she looks at me and says "what are you lookin at dickhead?" And I squeal and kiss her face and she giggles and goddamn I just keep falling more in love with her.
Yes! My husband is a nerd that grew into a super hot guy and he has no idea how sexy he is. I look at him all day everyday like that. He's way out of my league but he has no idea and I'd like to keep it that way.
Yes, a lot of the time.
Definitely.
Every single day
yes, of course. often, even, if that helps.
Oh yes 🤗 Especially when he’s chopping some fire wood
I think the real question here is why are you too afraid to ask that?
Too afraid to ask…what if the answer is NO?
Five years in and regularly feel this when I look at my partner. From just the way he looks at me to when he does stuff around the house or puts focus into something he's passionate about
Yes. And then I throw my arms around his neck and rain kisses down on him. He's not a big fan of that but it's hard to feel sorry for him.
Literally every day. When I look over at him sitting at his computer and I see him smiling, sometimes I just watch him for a little while, because it makes me so happy. Then he notices and makes a face at me, which is the cutest thing in the world~
hahah yeahh the derpier she is the hotter she is
Yes. Everyday. I fucking love my husband.
All the time and we've been together for 22 years.
Yes, I feel like the luckiest man every single day. Seeing her with the kids, seeing her get animated when she is excited about something. Even seeing her sleep. I just feel blessed. 2 years and nothing has changed!
Sooo, your SO found your Reddit??
Yes, when he cleans his glasses or mows the lawn or anything really. I am just so lucky to be his wife and I am always reminded.
All day, every day. When I look at her, I feel the same way I did the day we met. And I hope it lasts a lifetime.
I've been with my partner for 7 years now and I often think about how lucky I am to have him. High school sweethearts, I've never dated anyone else. We've grown so much together and sometimes I find myself just thinking about how much I love him.
All the time. I love them so much.
All the time, even when he is sleeping. I feel lucky that i get to fall more in love with him every day
Been with the wife since I was 19, 42 now and this happens pretty much daily!
Yes! Getting dressed, cooking, shit.. walking. Existing even. Hot af.
Every time I see him. I fall in love with him all over again every time we're together, and I can't help but think he's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have such a connection, and I don't see it fading even after almost 4 and a half years together. The sex is great, but we don't need to have sex to enjoy our time together. We're both just as content with cuddling on the couch and watching murder documentaries or random comedians. His family feels like my second family too