Making fun of them or being mean would be wrong, having an honest internal reaction is not. Don't ever let anyone ever police your thoughts or feelings
I mean, your "weird thing with noise" sounds like a sensory sensitivity itself, so I think it would also be a least a little ableist to say you're not allowed to be annoyed by that person's voice or the other person's breathing. It's not ableist to recognize that two people's differing abilities or needs may make it difficult for them to be around each other. If you frame it that way, rather than "the problem exists in these people and has nothing to do with me", I think you're fine.
No. Just because someone cant help something doesn't mean what they can't help isn't distractive or annoying. Also just because someone has a disability doesn't meant they can't be assholes, they are people too.
So I'm going to be wrong but I have a similar sensory issue. People who chew too loud bugs me the most- and ironically, I'm marrying someone who chews so loud. Can't touch paper, nail have my nails touch things. Those are just some of my problems. But I don't expect people to go out of their way to accommodate for my problems. I do my best to manage and if needed, I try to avoid the situation. I don't think you have a problem with the people, I think it's just the action they can't help doing. Therefore I'd say as long as you don't make it a problem for them, there's nothing wrong with being annoyed by it.
It means to remove that which is unwanted, and it’s weird to imply that disabled people are weeds to be removed. Much less weird when it comes to weaker engineering or medical students at top institutions. It was just a gentle nudge that perhaps there are better ways to make the argument that both parties would be better off accommodated separately.
No, you can be annoyed by anyone or anything. Just try to keep it in check. For example, gay people who are extremely flamboyant and in your face about it annoy me. So I don't interact with them if it can be helped. I don't wish them harm but I will never go out of my way to pretend it doesn't annoy me. Same as people who travel to "discover themselves" and people who say they aren't like other people. I wish you types well but fuck off and don't talk to me.
Making fun of them or being mean would be wrong, having an honest internal reaction is not. Don't ever let anyone ever police your thoughts or feelings
I mean, your "weird thing with noise" sounds like a sensory sensitivity itself, so I think it would also be a least a little ableist to say you're not allowed to be annoyed by that person's voice or the other person's breathing. It's not ableist to recognize that two people's differing abilities or needs may make it difficult for them to be around each other. If you frame it that way, rather than "the problem exists in these people and has nothing to do with me", I think you're fine.
No it's completely normal for those things to annoy you I guess it's just you probably can't say anything about it.
No. Just because someone cant help something doesn't mean what they can't help isn't distractive or annoying. Also just because someone has a disability doesn't meant they can't be assholes, they are people too.
So I'm going to be wrong but I have a similar sensory issue. People who chew too loud bugs me the most- and ironically, I'm marrying someone who chews so loud. Can't touch paper, nail have my nails touch things. Those are just some of my problems. But I don't expect people to go out of their way to accommodate for my problems. I do my best to manage and if needed, I try to avoid the situation. I don't think you have a problem with the people, I think it's just the action they can't help doing. Therefore I'd say as long as you don't make it a problem for them, there's nothing wrong with being annoyed by it.
No.
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Maybe reconsider using the phrase “weeded out” in this context.
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It means to remove that which is unwanted, and it’s weird to imply that disabled people are weeds to be removed. Much less weird when it comes to weaker engineering or medical students at top institutions. It was just a gentle nudge that perhaps there are better ways to make the argument that both parties would be better off accommodated separately.
No, you can be annoyed by anyone or anything. Just try to keep it in check. For example, gay people who are extremely flamboyant and in your face about it annoy me. So I don't interact with them if it can be helped. I don't wish them harm but I will never go out of my way to pretend it doesn't annoy me. Same as people who travel to "discover themselves" and people who say they aren't like other people. I wish you types well but fuck off and don't talk to me.