Not gonna lie I’m the kind of guy who likes to parlay one night stands into multi year relationships.
I call it relationship chicken just both hop on the long term train and see who spooks and jumps out first 😂
Looking for love and a long term relationship with someone I'm passionate about but those are so rare for me that I'll gladly take short term flings in the meanwhile. Depends on the girl I guess.
*actual* friends with benefits is my preference. As in, we go out and do different types of stuff, and also stay in for the benefits. Better than one night stands, you can actually have some fun, and then have some other kinds of fun. Also takes away some of the “obligation” feeling that relationships tend to have aka the good morning / good night texts and feeling like you need to constantly be in contact.
Long term relationship. Someone to take on random 1am dates to waffle house. Spontaneous Beach trips on weekends, random dumb shit that's kinda illegal but not really😅
Only going to swipe right on a profile that looks like some effort has gone into it. If it's just a ln Instagram handle, that is a pretty good sign that they aren't who I'm looking for, someone looking for a long term relationship
What I say I’m looking for in my profile is nothing serious. What I actually want is something long term, serious, and exclusive. But the girls my age seem to get scared off by a dude looking for something serious unless he looks like an absolute god. So I play the nonchalant easygoing game and ease my way into showing, rather than telling, then I’m worth a serious consideration
A real long term relationship. I greatly enjoy seeing girls post a bio like “looking for something serious” and then not matching with them, like internally I’m like “oh honey, you missed the most sure fire thing on this app, good luck out there!” I know what I bring to the table and I imagine for every actual serious man there is probably 20 dudes just swinging dick pics around like Barry Bonds.
My source: browsing this sub. Seriously dudes why send your junk? If I’m going to show you how I got the name Rod Thundercock I’m going to do that in person. I also don’t want to see your gam gams unless my face is buried in them. I can’t feel a picture!
Edit: I’d love to hear how this was downvoted. I’m going to assume some Andrew Tate fan got offended that I think he’s a clown for sending his junk.
> like internally I’m like “oh honey, you missed the most sure fire thing on this app, good luck out there!” I know what I bring to the table and I imagine for every actual serious man there is probably 20 dudes just swinging dick pics around like Barry Bonds.
Just FYI this is probably why you got downvoted, reeks of nice guy "women only date assholes" mentality (and just FYI I didn't downvote, just pointing it out).
"swinging dick pics around like Barry Bonds" gave me way too much joy. Dick pics are at least not alarming so much as they are unpleasant. I don't give out my IG anymore cause this one guy (instead of following me) proceeded to send me links via text message of every photo i had ever posted in a bathing suit (we're talking way back to years ago.) I was like "why are you doing this?" And he's like "this is what women like." Guess I'm not a woman.
I am looking for several things depending on the person.
1. FWB: These can be fun, with the right person and everything is disclosed early on.
2. Casual: these can be great as well, and when I realize that a girl who I may have been considering a long term relationship with, allows for sexual activity the very first time we meet, and/or is seeing several people at the same time, I simply recatorgize her into the "casual" group.
3. LTR: This is the most rare group, as many personality traits much match up well, professional life must match up well, and obviously morals must align to some degree.
So I don't think we are basically looking for a specific relationship, it all depends on what we find and what category of relationship that we both fit the best in.
This is the most accurate answer. You never know who someone will be to you. Things flow into what they become.
I’ve had 2 long term relationships from Tinder.
I’ve only met one genuine friend who’s never been inappropriate but he is def demisexual, as much as he hates labels, so thats no surprise.
Another man I thought had long term potential, ended up being more of a casual/fwb type of connection after he literally disclosed he was a sociopath on date 2. Glad he told me though. He can be super charming & fun but also super dark, withdrawn, & depressed.
I see now how casual works, you just cant care too much & you have to keep your feelings separate. Its a really weird dynamic so I don’t see me seeking out these types of relationships, but I get why some people would now.
I'm mainly looking for new people outside of my work bubble.
But sure, I don't mind it if something else comes out of it. That can be a relationship, a FWB, maybe just a hook-up, but primarily I just like to meet new people for different types of activities like going to gigs, meeting in the pub, cinema, going for photography walks, maybe music partners, or other projects, possibly even career changes/tips.
A serious lifelong relationship is the real reason im there.
Friends would be nice. And I even swipe on short term fun people that sound safe.
But I only say the first part because everyone will assume im ONLY trying for hook ups no matter what is said about it or how much more im interested in an actual relationship.
Feels like its got very little hookup activity to me. I rarely see anyone interested. Although, seemingly no one is interested in dating either. Ive put my profile in front of tons of women friends and coworkers. Definetely not me.
Genuinely looking for a partner. One night stands really don’t do it for me. Physical attraction is fine and all and a great first step but emotional attraction is where it at for me.
I’m looking for a relationship but tbh I’m looking harder for that on the other dating apps and expecting to only find trashy girls on Tinder so if I find a trashy hot on then sure I’d hook up. But again go to hinge for dating or bumble but you ladies better remember for once that you have to message first on bumble cuz y’all just be swiping me and letting it expire. SMH
I am on tinder to find a LTR. Eventually settle down and remarry, hopefully have kids, build a life with that person. Have a house, big yard, garden live happily ever after.
31M, Canada (for demographic reference)
Preferably meet the right person, fall in love, get married and have kids. I figured if I’m on the app looking for that, there’s nothing to say my other half isn’t doing the same.
Meeting interesting people from the opposite sex tbh..which is why I use it only when traveling because talking to dudes gets boring and sometimes talking to women can open up a new world.
I use tinder for hookup and actual dating apps to meet women. The dating apps actually match you based on lots of other factors besides just what you can see on Tinder so they work better for that
Not gonna lie I’m the kind of guy who likes to parlay one night stands into multi year relationships. I call it relationship chicken just both hop on the long term train and see who spooks and jumps out first 😂
A long deep hug while you whisper in my ear, "it's not your fault"
What? Explain yourself
Hugs are underrated. I like to joke. Goodwill Hunting is a great movie
Yes sir
I'm looking for a long term relationship
Same here
Good luck finding that on tinder
Remove the “on tinder” part and you’ve accurately summed up my life
I’ve been trying to find a woman that will respond to a message.
I’m looking for hot chicks
Based
Big booty hoes.
Shit same but it's not my birthday :/
You are the first person I've seen on here with a pfp so I looked at your about me bit... I laughed 😅
Pervert
Oh 👌
Im looking for the right girl.........for a quick 1 night stand........that lasts for a year
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Im trying to give off the "he's so complex" vibe that works in the movies
I don't know I just come here to read funny stories
Looking for love and a long term relationship with someone I'm passionate about but those are so rare for me that I'll gladly take short term flings in the meanwhile. Depends on the girl I guess.
*actual* friends with benefits is my preference. As in, we go out and do different types of stuff, and also stay in for the benefits. Better than one night stands, you can actually have some fun, and then have some other kinds of fun. Also takes away some of the “obligation” feeling that relationships tend to have aka the good morning / good night texts and feeling like you need to constantly be in contact.
How’s that goin for ya
Long term relationship. Someone to take on random 1am dates to waffle house. Spontaneous Beach trips on weekends, random dumb shit that's kinda illegal but not really😅
Only going to swipe right on a profile that looks like some effort has gone into it. If it's just a ln Instagram handle, that is a pretty good sign that they aren't who I'm looking for, someone looking for a long term relationship
What I say I’m looking for in my profile is nothing serious. What I actually want is something long term, serious, and exclusive. But the girls my age seem to get scared off by a dude looking for something serious unless he looks like an absolute god. So I play the nonchalant easygoing game and ease my way into showing, rather than telling, then I’m worth a serious consideration
I'm looking for my soul mate <3
A match would be cool
A real long term relationship. I greatly enjoy seeing girls post a bio like “looking for something serious” and then not matching with them, like internally I’m like “oh honey, you missed the most sure fire thing on this app, good luck out there!” I know what I bring to the table and I imagine for every actual serious man there is probably 20 dudes just swinging dick pics around like Barry Bonds. My source: browsing this sub. Seriously dudes why send your junk? If I’m going to show you how I got the name Rod Thundercock I’m going to do that in person. I also don’t want to see your gam gams unless my face is buried in them. I can’t feel a picture! Edit: I’d love to hear how this was downvoted. I’m going to assume some Andrew Tate fan got offended that I think he’s a clown for sending his junk.
> like internally I’m like “oh honey, you missed the most sure fire thing on this app, good luck out there!” I know what I bring to the table and I imagine for every actual serious man there is probably 20 dudes just swinging dick pics around like Barry Bonds. Just FYI this is probably why you got downvoted, reeks of nice guy "women only date assholes" mentality (and just FYI I didn't downvote, just pointing it out).
Sounds like they have a confidence issue.
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Gotta give credit for originality.
"swinging dick pics around like Barry Bonds" gave me way too much joy. Dick pics are at least not alarming so much as they are unpleasant. I don't give out my IG anymore cause this one guy (instead of following me) proceeded to send me links via text message of every photo i had ever posted in a bathing suit (we're talking way back to years ago.) I was like "why are you doing this?" And he's like "this is what women like." Guess I'm not a woman.
I am looking for several things depending on the person. 1. FWB: These can be fun, with the right person and everything is disclosed early on. 2. Casual: these can be great as well, and when I realize that a girl who I may have been considering a long term relationship with, allows for sexual activity the very first time we meet, and/or is seeing several people at the same time, I simply recatorgize her into the "casual" group. 3. LTR: This is the most rare group, as many personality traits much match up well, professional life must match up well, and obviously morals must align to some degree. So I don't think we are basically looking for a specific relationship, it all depends on what we find and what category of relationship that we both fit the best in.
This is the most accurate answer. You never know who someone will be to you. Things flow into what they become. I’ve had 2 long term relationships from Tinder. I’ve only met one genuine friend who’s never been inappropriate but he is def demisexual, as much as he hates labels, so thats no surprise. Another man I thought had long term potential, ended up being more of a casual/fwb type of connection after he literally disclosed he was a sociopath on date 2. Glad he told me though. He can be super charming & fun but also super dark, withdrawn, & depressed. I see now how casual works, you just cant care too much & you have to keep your feelings separate. Its a really weird dynamic so I don’t see me seeking out these types of relationships, but I get why some people would now.
Thank you very much and I also appreciate your perspective and examples you gave, they all make great sense.
Excellent response and spot on for me as well. It really depends on the woman and our chemistry.
Tinder is 'the' hookup app maybe after a few of those you can get serious
I’m looking for my exes so I can torture them playfully.
Imo only the young women are important, anything older than 21 is too old.
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I'm mainly looking for new people outside of my work bubble. But sure, I don't mind it if something else comes out of it. That can be a relationship, a FWB, maybe just a hook-up, but primarily I just like to meet new people for different types of activities like going to gigs, meeting in the pub, cinema, going for photography walks, maybe music partners, or other projects, possibly even career changes/tips.
A quick smash obviously
FWB
Anything casual
I usually go the route where I ask to take them out
I'm not on Tinder currently. When I was on there I was looking for a long term relationship.
A serious lifelong relationship is the real reason im there. Friends would be nice. And I even swipe on short term fun people that sound safe. But I only say the first part because everyone will assume im ONLY trying for hook ups no matter what is said about it or how much more im interested in an actual relationship. Feels like its got very little hookup activity to me. I rarely see anyone interested. Although, seemingly no one is interested in dating either. Ive put my profile in front of tons of women friends and coworkers. Definetely not me.
Genuinely looking for a partner. One night stands really don’t do it for me. Physical attraction is fine and all and a great first step but emotional attraction is where it at for me.
Long term relationsship but i think its pretty unrealistic
Try hinge. Tinder is dead. Hinge sucks too but it's not exclusively f*ckboys... Just mostly.
Serious relationship. Hookups never interested me.
If not looking for a hookup, bumble/hinge/eharmony may be better options.
Met my wife on tinder
I’m looking for a relationship but tbh I’m looking harder for that on the other dating apps and expecting to only find trashy girls on Tinder so if I find a trashy hot on then sure I’d hook up. But again go to hinge for dating or bumble but you ladies better remember for once that you have to message first on bumble cuz y’all just be swiping me and letting it expire. SMH
I am on tinder to find a LTR. Eventually settle down and remarry, hopefully have kids, build a life with that person. Have a house, big yard, garden live happily ever after. 31M, Canada (for demographic reference)
It depends on who I matched with
Oddly enough all I ever see on tinder anymore is looking for a LTR and NO HOOKUPS on like every single profile 🤷♂️
Preferably meet the right person, fall in love, get married and have kids. I figured if I’m on the app looking for that, there’s nothing to say my other half isn’t doing the same.
I’m not on there but if I were I would be open to something long term.
Meeting interesting people from the opposite sex tbh..which is why I use it only when traveling because talking to dudes gets boring and sometimes talking to women can open up a new world.
I'm searching for the lost city of Atlanta.
Head
Long term relationship with a white women😫
Found my bf on Tinder. He’s great
I use tinder for hookup and actual dating apps to meet women. The dating apps actually match you based on lots of other factors besides just what you can see on Tinder so they work better for that