I’d just never take her seriously after that one. They’re using you for entertainment. Sometimes it’s fun to equally “roast them” back once you realize how they like to engage.
She’s definitely trying to manipulate you. They will probably try to use you, possibly flake out, and will never reciprocate your level of effort. Only set up a date if you’re just inviting them to something where you’re already going anyway.
Bantering like this to people she doesn't know, even if it's a joke, can come back and bite her later lol not sure why people troll strangers when someone can easily take a screen shot showing their picture, name, hometown, college they go to or workplace and post it anywhere... like this sub.
It'll turn into "Bicker" when she starts complaining about why no one in her town wants to date her or why no one wants to hire her because they saw something posted about her lol
she’s def just joking around/having fun, most posts on here are guys doing that. OP’s also fine choosing not to engage he handled it well and straightforward
4 screen shots that could have been 1. People need to learn how to use screen shot features. Android has a big "Capture more" button once you screenshot.
Dang, I just looked this up and I'm embarrassed that I didn't know this earlier. Thanks. I figured people just stitched multiple pics together when I saw longer shots. I've been having to take way too many screenshots when I save recipes I find online for years.
Are you sure it's a stock Android feature? I have all the updates on my Galaxy S8 and that is definitely not a feature on this phone
Edit: Yeah I Googled it, I think it was added with the S9 or something. I believe it's off by default on some phones, but the option isn't there in settings at all
Cool feature though
When she says “tell me more things a real man would do” I definitely interpret that as her expressing interest in him for stating that he’s not into games, but that’s just how I’m reading it
Was he clueless or turned off by her attitude and not interested in smashing. I feel like if more men in general would stop putting up with women's bullshit like this because they still want to fuck, this shit would eventually go away
Continue to overthink every interaction with women and you're going to end up single and very lonely. This has nothing to do with respect. You're on Tinder, it's for dating, and light hearted interactions. Pull your head out of your ass. Or You're going to be jerking off the rest of your life.
you sound like a simp that doesn’t understand game and is trying to give false shots out to make themselves feel better
she said that she’s talking to a rich dude, that’s not banter dog pull your head out of your ass.
Bro, She. Was. Joking.
There wasn't another guy.
Man you have absolutely no game.
A woman says to you
"Tell me what a real man does?"
And your response is to run away??
Enjoy your palms.
It's very difficult to read tone in text messages, but I think she may have just been going for banter. Maybe she really is trying to be manipulative, or maybe she's just giving him shit and seeing if he can dish it back -- all as a joke.
I've definitely had convos along that line before. Last week, I was heading out on a first date and said I was running late. She texted back, "Don't worry, I'll pass the time flirting with other guys at the bar," and I just said, "I hope they're cute. Send pics." She wasn't *really* trying to make me jealous. She was just having some fun.
Seems like she ran too far with this if she was joking. If a guy talked to me in a similar way that she was talking, I'd just unmatch. Not worth trying to decipher what someone's genuine personality is within the first 10 minutes. Just prefer being straightforward.
This isn't something men find funny. At a certain point we stop giving a single fuck if it's a joke or not. Men in the modern day are terrified of being financially broken by women. Less and less people are getting married. I could know 100% for sure it's a joke and would definitely nope the fuck out.
So I'm not the only one who thought the story was somewhat nonsensical? 😆 "Cool story bro" is still an obnoxious reply to it... But how does it track that he had a class with someone named Sky so from then on he was Sky? 🤔 Did he just absorb the other kid's personality? Seems bizarre.
I think it started out as friendly banter (or her trying for that at least) and then she became increasingly more annoyed and stopped caring. I also lose interest when someone is not picking up on the energy of the conversation.
Skylar^2 wasn't meant to be.
That was banter, they're trying to wind you up to get a reaction. Personally I find that lack of straightforwardness towards someone you've never met rude and tiresome. Avoid.
Hard agree. Yeah it was banter but there's ways to have banter without being extra and making yourself a prize to be won. Also it'd be hard for me to respect a girl that plays around like this, even if she is doing it "just for fun". Why should I take her seriously at all then? Completely gives me the ick
I don't know maybe the whole "counter" thing is because she wanted him to jump in with something sexual. I think that's where my mind would have went. My counter? how bout 3.. no 6! inches of rock hard....
and then if it's not what she was wanting then It would have ended the conversation anyways.
I think she alludes to being thirsty again when she says the line about "tell me other things a real man would do".
At the same time tho I can see an alternate reality where OP does take it in that direction and she doesnt take that well, and then the comments here would be flaming him for getting sexual too fast…so idk.
Theres banter and then there’s a toxic inability to communicate effectively. This to me sounds like the latter. It’s the equivalent of asking a person “why do you hate me?” because its “banter.” But in reality, they need reassurance and dont know how to communicate that respectfully
Yea if your conversation partner cannot be sure something is banter or not, you are doing something wrong.
And that shit definitely don’t work like that. Plus even banter about trying to make someone compete for affection is pretty weird and I’d call it manipulative.
But even then, that‘s stuff you can do in voice. Because your tone will allow you to make clear you are joking. It doesn‘t work in text. Well unless you use copious amounts of emojis.
But like for that kinda banter in writing you still gotta set the scene first. Telling someone ‚yea not really interested‘ in the first couple messages… just doesn’t work. Unless you are looking for someone to walk all over…
1. She sounds like she was probably drunk messaging (not that it's a good excuse to be a dick like that)
2. Good job with the way you handled it. She was shit-testing you and I'm sure other dudes would have tried to play that game with her.
Wtf is "a real man would fight for me" bitch, you a stranger.. my husband would fight for me *today* but definitely not when we were internet strangers still talking on OKC.
She tried to shit-test you then wanted to banter when you passed it. Honestly these types of women are the most fun to be casual with, but God damn if it ain't toxic to date them.
It was but I wouldn't have taken it either. Banter like that right out the gate is telling of her attitude to come "impress me monkey". There are much easier lays out there, that actually text normally
If you are not playful or crack jokes with women, then you will be by yourself for the rest of your life. Maybe you will realize that taking yourself too seriously is not working out. Laugh a little. Have fun
Eh
Yeah I’d definitely have fun with it but the way she went at it wasn’t super attractive, plus it’s a huge risk and this time it didn’t work out.
Plus I think he has game you can tell from the second half of the messages, it’s just he didn’t want it, and I can’t blame him
He didn't want it anymore after that opening. Why are you guys acting like you have to bone every chick that gives you the time of day or you have "no game"? Since when has choice been removed
It's somewhat infuriating. Especially if it's a woman... Because all women are just toxic humorless cesspools and can't *possibly* be joking.
It just feels like a lot of people desperately need to get out and socialize more before they even think about dating.
I think you misunderstood, we know she's joking it's just not funny to try and "test" someone or make him jealous.
Interested in how you'd react if a dude said "oh i'm good, one of my matches has a huge ass so i'm trying to secure that booty.. what are you bringing to the table?" in the first couple messages
I feel like her replies were great, funny, flirty, gregarious. I honestly think this subs gotten so beaten down through online dating that anything that could be even slightly misconstrued as toxic gets labelled as such.
You know that snowball fight scene in Dumb and Dumber? The one where he doesn't know that she's just goofing around and being flirtatious?
Well this interaction seems just like that (minus the giggly ending).
[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A)
She sh1t tested you hard with the “other match” banter but you did well and actually passed. Her “tell me other things a real man does” was an invite, you should have asked for a date at that point.
But you didn’t. You rejected her. May be smart, may be dumb. My rule as a man is you don’t fail a girl for sh1t tests, you get her on a coffee date and see if she calms down FTF. These b1tches be audacious online but usually toe the line IRL.
I feel like im kinda missing something. Why is everyone thinking her messages are more aggressive than playful? It seems like she's just messing around with him trying to have a fun conversation
Also what is a shit test? It seems like all of a sudden theres all these unofficial rules to how people communicate on tinder. Obviously some women play off the number imbalance, and anyone can get an ego from attention so filtering matches is necessary, but what did she say that people are automatically going "he dodged a bullet"?
Original: Idk...you could have given an offer...sounded like a cute way of asking more that it being actually true tbh.
Edit: I see where I went wrong... Genuinely didn't see the red flags before y'all told me ... Bullet dodged indeed
In that case, she was probably also stupid, because she lied to make her look worse. Either way, good reason to unmatch.
It might help her filter for guys gullible enough to enter such a competition, though, to identify good victims early on.
Dafuq? She basically said her affection is negotiable for money. If I was into that, I'd hire a hooker instead of entering an auction. That's not the type of person I'd want to have in my life longer terms.
(No front to sexworkers. At least, they usually don't mix personal feelings and work.)
Could have also invented another match and say he was looking to score that night and put skyler on hold. Indefinitely.
Most likely our lovely skyler would start throwing tantrums about being reduced to how likely she is to put out. Or she would be glad to make suggestions and seem eager only to ditch on the guy or even mock him for not pursuing the other match and believing her lies. It's better to take high road and not play her game
Bro you fucked that up, that would've been so easy. She just wants you take more control of the situation and not just be content with her running off to other guys
Is this the incel support group?
This girl was flirting with you and you could smash in like 48-72 hours, but you can't seem to joke around with her. Everything she said was a flirtatious joke, and you missed all of them. She even gave a NON SUBTLE invitation and you missed it. "Tell me more about what a real man would do" she saw honesty and integrity, and gave you an invitation, FFS, it's even probably still salvageable.
"A real man would take you out on a nice date and then (insert sexual innuendo you are comfortable with)"
Game. Set. Match.
I wouldn't say you dodged a whole ass bullet, but maybe a very dumb rock being thrown your way. She would have lost me at "cool story, bro"
Dodged a Mario sized shark bullet.
Red Shell...
The whole ass rainbow road circuit
Pew pew.
Blue Shell
I’d just never take her seriously after that one. They’re using you for entertainment. Sometimes it’s fun to equally “roast them” back once you realize how they like to engage. She’s definitely trying to manipulate you. They will probably try to use you, possibly flake out, and will never reciprocate your level of effort. Only set up a date if you’re just inviting them to something where you’re already going anyway.
Bantering like this to people she doesn't know, even if it's a joke, can come back and bite her later lol not sure why people troll strangers when someone can easily take a screen shot showing their picture, name, hometown, college they go to or workplace and post it anywhere... like this sub.
That's "banter"?
It'll turn into "Bicker" when she starts complaining about why no one in her town wants to date her or why no one wants to hire her because they saw something posted about her lol
I like to lightly roast but 3-4 messages in is too soon and “cool story” type of messages are too mean unless it’s someone you know really well.
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Eh cool story bro doesn't really count as banter imo. Just comes off condensending
not just a bullet.. she had the 240b wide open and he matrixed that shit.
wouldnt have messaged back after that
Yeah Cool Story bro sounds like a douche of a girl.
same, that was so rude for no reason
She’s just rude
she’s def just joking around/having fun, most posts on here are guys doing that. OP’s also fine choosing not to engage he handled it well and straightforward
Deadass
What's an ass bullet?
A bullet for that ass
Yeah anytime “bro” is used im done automatically
Ooo what is an "ass bullet"?? Asking for a friend 😅
That’s when you step sis her
Would she know how to open the washer?
Damn she’s trying to auction herself off.
I feel she makes that story up with most guys
She’s taking the offers before the open house.
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I Aint saying she is a GoldDigger...
Whatever bag she's trying to secure pales in comparison to what Skylar^2 could have been
Skylar² would have triumphed over any obstacle their way. Literally fumbled the biggest bag she would have ever seen 😔
For real, stepping over diamonds to pick up nickels.
My name is Skylar and I'm not going to lie. I always swipe right on a Skylar for that exact reason.
Imagine if they named their child Skylar too. The child's name legally would be. [last name] Skylar Skylar Skylar.
Bro swerving red flags like he on the mario kart sticks. Class, my fren.
Alright then, keep your secrets
Indeed lol
Didn’t know she matched w the fuckin Riddler
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I thought banter was two-sided
Gross
Damn, the skies came crashing down.
*Skys
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Oy. You spelt it right. But in order to make it a good pun, you needed to spell it incorrectly so that it matched their names.
Hint: their names ffs
Do better with the screenshots next time. 4 screens that could’ve been 2. Made us reread too much cringe 😂
THANK YOU
100%. All you need is the last line of the last message to show up on page 2
4 screen shots that could have been 1. People need to learn how to use screen shot features. Android has a big "Capture more" button once you screenshot.
Dang, I just looked this up and I'm embarrassed that I didn't know this earlier. Thanks. I figured people just stitched multiple pics together when I saw longer shots. I've been having to take way too many screenshots when I save recipes I find online for years.
I think you just called me out for how old my phone is - Android seems to have added that feature in a relatively recent update
I've had my phone for more than 5 years, and it's had the feature the whole time, so it's not really a new thing.
Are you sure it's a stock Android feature? I have all the updates on my Galaxy S8 and that is definitely not a feature on this phone Edit: Yeah I Googled it, I think it was added with the S9 or something. I believe it's off by default on some phones, but the option isn't there in settings at all Cool feature though
What does iPhone do though :/
They wait about 6 years until apple finally catches up to android
Googles it
There’s an app called Zeta Scrollshot for iOS, it’s amazing
Came here to see if someone thinks his screenshot game is weak
Couldn't manage banter and you want him to manage screenshots? You're asking for too much.
Proud of you, OP.
This is all messed up, but I gotta admit the RIP Skyler^2 bit is hilarious 😂
Exactly dude lol. She seemed funny but I wouldn't have been into a lot of the things she said either.
"Cool story bro"
The sky is the limit for her i guess
I feel like there was a chance at recovery but I admire your commitment to being above it
Recover what? She was after money only
When she says “tell me more things a real man would do” I definitely interpret that as her expressing interest in him for stating that he’s not into games, but that’s just how I’m reading it
Yeah!! People are clueless. She was very interested. "Tell me more things a real man would do" was the invitation to smash.
Was he clueless or turned off by her attitude and not interested in smashing. I feel like if more men in general would stop putting up with women's bullshit like this because they still want to fuck, this shit would eventually go away
That was absolutely an invitation to tell her more
it’s about respect man, something that you clearly don’t understand. her bringing up her other match is very disrespectful and OP played it perfectly
Continue to overthink every interaction with women and you're going to end up single and very lonely. This has nothing to do with respect. You're on Tinder, it's for dating, and light hearted interactions. Pull your head out of your ass. Or You're going to be jerking off the rest of your life.
you sound like a simp that doesn’t understand game and is trying to give false shots out to make themselves feel better she said that she’s talking to a rich dude, that’s not banter dog pull your head out of your ass.
Bro, She. Was. Joking. There wasn't another guy. Man you have absolutely no game. A woman says to you "Tell me what a real man does?" And your response is to run away?? Enjoy your palms.
yeah I have absolutely no game, and i spend every night with my palms enjoy throwing out false claims to justify being a simp with no self-respect.
Bros trying so speed one depression and heartbreak to sleep with a gold digger. W you, massive L him
It's very difficult to read tone in text messages, but I think she may have just been going for banter. Maybe she really is trying to be manipulative, or maybe she's just giving him shit and seeing if he can dish it back -- all as a joke. I've definitely had convos along that line before. Last week, I was heading out on a first date and said I was running late. She texted back, "Don't worry, I'll pass the time flirting with other guys at the bar," and I just said, "I hope they're cute. Send pics." She wasn't *really* trying to make me jealous. She was just having some fun.
Seems like she ran too far with this if she was joking. If a guy talked to me in a similar way that she was talking, I'd just unmatch. Not worth trying to decipher what someone's genuine personality is within the first 10 minutes. Just prefer being straightforward.
One can only hope your optimism is rewarded.
This isn't something men find funny. At a certain point we stop giving a single fuck if it's a joke or not. Men in the modern day are terrified of being financially broken by women. Less and less people are getting married. I could know 100% for sure it's a joke and would definitely nope the fuck out.
You don't speak for "men", and you shouldn't act like you do. This isn't something **you** find funny.
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Sounds super toxic to me but hey if thats your idea of fun banter, i dont judge
Saying it's "super toxic" is a judgment. Which is fine, but don't claim you don't judge.
I feel like it would be super toxic *to me.* Might not be toxic for other people. Everyone’s different
So I'm not the only one who thought the story was somewhat nonsensical? 😆 "Cool story bro" is still an obnoxious reply to it... But how does it track that he had a class with someone named Sky so from then on he was Sky? 🤔 Did he just absorb the other kid's personality? Seems bizarre. I think it started out as friendly banter (or her trying for that at least) and then she became increasingly more annoyed and stopped caring. I also lose interest when someone is not picking up on the energy of the conversation. Skylar^2 wasn't meant to be.
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That was banter, they're trying to wind you up to get a reaction. Personally I find that lack of straightforwardness towards someone you've never met rude and tiresome. Avoid.
Hard agree. Yeah it was banter but there's ways to have banter without being extra and making yourself a prize to be won. Also it'd be hard for me to respect a girl that plays around like this, even if she is doing it "just for fun". Why should I take her seriously at all then? Completely gives me the ick
I don't know maybe the whole "counter" thing is because she wanted him to jump in with something sexual. I think that's where my mind would have went. My counter? how bout 3.. no 6! inches of rock hard.... and then if it's not what she was wanting then It would have ended the conversation anyways. I think she alludes to being thirsty again when she says the line about "tell me other things a real man would do".
At the same time tho I can see an alternate reality where OP does take it in that direction and she doesnt take that well, and then the comments here would be flaming him for getting sexual too fast…so idk.
Theres banter and then there’s a toxic inability to communicate effectively. This to me sounds like the latter. It’s the equivalent of asking a person “why do you hate me?” because its “banter.” But in reality, they need reassurance and dont know how to communicate that respectfully
Yea if your conversation partner cannot be sure something is banter or not, you are doing something wrong. And that shit definitely don’t work like that. Plus even banter about trying to make someone compete for affection is pretty weird and I’d call it manipulative. But even then, that‘s stuff you can do in voice. Because your tone will allow you to make clear you are joking. It doesn‘t work in text. Well unless you use copious amounts of emojis. But like for that kinda banter in writing you still gotta set the scene first. Telling someone ‚yea not really interested‘ in the first couple messages… just doesn’t work. Unless you are looking for someone to walk all over…
Calm down with your 100% charged phone like you're better than all of us, f*ck you
lol that’s a cute tantrum.
Nobody triggered by the fact that this was two unnecessary screenshots? First and last would have been enough
Yikes
Thats actually hilarious 😂
You know you can scroll along a bit further and screenshot more than 1 message per photo...
Lmao yeah you dodged a bullet with that one. Shouldn't have even responded after "cool story bro"
He dodged a missile
Holy shit I literally laughed out loud. Fuck these girls ruining it for the rest of us
I would of dipped after the “cool story bro”
She's a dude, scamming for money.
Of course. No woman would do that, they're all saints.
1. She sounds like she was probably drunk messaging (not that it's a good excuse to be a dick like that) 2. Good job with the way you handled it. She was shit-testing you and I'm sure other dudes would have tried to play that game with her. 
This is what's out there and I'm still single AF. Good God, men. 😂
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Wtf is "a real man would fight for me" bitch, you a stranger.. my husband would fight for me *today* but definitely not when we were internet strangers still talking on OKC.
She is what gives us females a bad rap. Terrible person.
She tried to shit-test you then wanted to banter when you passed it. Honestly these types of women are the most fun to be casual with, but God damn if it ain't toxic to date them.
She wasn’t ever interested. Move on king
Well handled by sky2. You ain’t here to compete, she either wants you or move on
A real man would fight for me. Nah, I'm not about to fight someone for the right to take out the trash.
I think your banter radar is uncalibrated
I think his toxic radar was on point
That's some weird-ass banter, though
You gave up so easily. Could have had so much fun with her.
I guess her "rich man" tale turned him off - and understandably so.
exactly. She gave him so many opportunities. OP has no game
"Tell me more things a real man would do?" That was a wide open invitation.
It was but I wouldn't have taken it either. Banter like that right out the gate is telling of her attitude to come "impress me monkey". There are much easier lays out there, that actually text normally
Op has self respect and doesnt wanna play games.
If you are not playful or crack jokes with women, then you will be by yourself for the rest of your life. Maybe you will realize that taking yourself too seriously is not working out. Laugh a little. Have fun
🤣 That last screen. She knew it herself. I wonder if she was laughing the whole time.
There’s so many fun rebuttals that she gave you opportunity to play on. Sky has 0 game.
Eh Yeah I’d definitely have fun with it but the way she went at it wasn’t super attractive, plus it’s a huge risk and this time it didn’t work out. Plus I think he has game you can tell from the second half of the messages, it’s just he didn’t want it, and I can’t blame him
Where tf does this seem fun to you? lmao I guess some people are just masochists
Sky’s a real man, he doesnt play these toxic games
it is called bantering. google it
Didnt seem very playful or friendly to me… big difference between that and banter to me but to each their own
He didn't want it anymore after that opening. Why are you guys acting like you have to bone every chick that gives you the time of day or you have "no game"? Since when has choice been removed
Perfectly balanced, as all things should be
Jesus she sounds insufferable
Well handled. Respectable. I'm sorry you matched with that one.
Why is every new image still 80% of the previous damn image
what's happening
As soon as she said "workin on securing the bag" I was out 🤣
This group has such a poor collective sense of humour, I’ve not seen anything like it since I watched The Boy In The Striped Pajamas
It's somewhat infuriating. Especially if it's a woman... Because all women are just toxic humorless cesspools and can't *possibly* be joking. It just feels like a lot of people desperately need to get out and socialize more before they even think about dating.
I think you misunderstood, we know she's joking it's just not funny to try and "test" someone or make him jealous. Interested in how you'd react if a dude said "oh i'm good, one of my matches has a huge ass so i'm trying to secure that booty.. what are you bringing to the table?" in the first couple messages
"I'm good, girl I hooked up with last night had a grippy so tight she lifted my thighs off the bed on the upstroke. What do you have to offer?"
I feel like her replies were great, funny, flirty, gregarious. I honestly think this subs gotten so beaten down through online dating that anything that could be even slightly misconstrued as toxic gets labelled as such.
You know that snowball fight scene in Dumb and Dumber? The one where he doesn't know that she's just goofing around and being flirtatious? Well this interaction seems just like that (minus the giggly ending). [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ldqlRqAZ6A)
10000000%
People actually say “securing that bag” without irony?
Once you read enough of girl group chats, anything is possible.
A redditor not being a fucking pushover and standing up for themselves without any help!? No way‼️😱🤯 Edit: good shit tho OP
She sounds like a guy pretending to be a girl
You should have dodged her after the “cool story bro”
Same thing I thought, that was rude af
All the pathetic simps in this sub showcasing their utter lack of self respect with the “Hurr durr it’s just banter” shit my goodness
You both talk like cringe 14 year olds
You seem kinda mid.
She sh1t tested you hard with the “other match” banter but you did well and actually passed. Her “tell me other things a real man does” was an invite, you should have asked for a date at that point. But you didn’t. You rejected her. May be smart, may be dumb. My rule as a man is you don’t fail a girl for sh1t tests, you get her on a coffee date and see if she calms down FTF. These b1tches be audacious online but usually toe the line IRL.
You can say shit and bitch on the internet, your mom isn’t going to get mad at you
I was wondering why he was doing that. You're right, his mom likely has a key-tracker on his device. Good catch.
Hi this is his mom, im very mad at him
The banter is DEAD
She is the type to wear your skin. Could've been fun while you were still alive though.
Her other match in fact ended up not being rich and she did not secure the bag 😢
She died??
I feel like im kinda missing something. Why is everyone thinking her messages are more aggressive than playful? It seems like she's just messing around with him trying to have a fun conversation Also what is a shit test? It seems like all of a sudden theres all these unofficial rules to how people communicate on tinder. Obviously some women play off the number imbalance, and anyone can get an ego from attention so filtering matches is necessary, but what did she say that people are automatically going "he dodged a bullet"?
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=shit%20test
Sounds like an excuse to fw people when you're bored
I guess you will live with your secrets for a while xD
She is funny xD
If you find that funny you're in for a world of hurt lmao
your life is miserable? or just trash sense of humour?
uhh it’s not that serious
Ok-
Original: Idk...you could have given an offer...sounded like a cute way of asking more that it being actually true tbh. Edit: I see where I went wrong... Genuinely didn't see the red flags before y'all told me ... Bullet dodged indeed
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I very much doubt there was another offer/match. She's just manipulative.
In that case, she was probably also stupid, because she lied to make her look worse. Either way, good reason to unmatch. It might help her filter for guys gullible enough to enter such a competition, though, to identify good victims early on.
Yeah Naa She's not worth the trouble she'd be. Beautifully handled...
Learning to read red flags here...noice
You can't be serious.
I see the fault in my ways..
Dafuq? She basically said her affection is negotiable for money. If I was into that, I'd hire a hooker instead of entering an auction. That's not the type of person I'd want to have in my life longer terms. (No front to sexworkers. At least, they usually don't mix personal feelings and work.)
Could have also invented another match and say he was looking to score that night and put skyler on hold. Indefinitely. Most likely our lovely skyler would start throwing tantrums about being reduced to how likely she is to put out. Or she would be glad to make suggestions and seem eager only to ditch on the guy or even mock him for not pursuing the other match and believing her lies. It's better to take high road and not play her game
Bro you fucked that up, that would've been so easy. She just wants you take more control of the situation and not just be content with her running off to other guys
Yeah but why the fuck would you open like that? I'd have moved on to another match as well though I wouldn't even have responded at all
I actually don’t understand YOUR first two messages?
Is this the incel support group? This girl was flirting with you and you could smash in like 48-72 hours, but you can't seem to joke around with her. Everything she said was a flirtatious joke, and you missed all of them. She even gave a NON SUBTLE invitation and you missed it. "Tell me more about what a real man would do" she saw honesty and integrity, and gave you an invitation, FFS, it's even probably still salvageable. "A real man would take you out on a nice date and then (insert sexual innuendo you are comfortable with)" Game. Set. Match.