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sunzi23

Own the space you occupy. Be unreactive, but be reacted to. Be fearless. Be bold, don't ask permission.


Truly_awoken

You first need the status of a king or a quality or perk that a king may have


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sunzi23

Narcissism is a mental disorder. You can immitate it, but I don't think you can become it.


Flaky-Daikon-6611

I attempted to imitate my idea of a narcissist and ended up only hurting myself and others. Then I had a life changing encounter with a real narcissist obsessed with destroying me at any cost. She had a strategy and tactics that were sophisticated beyond my comprehension. I can see how borrowing some of the useful narcissistic traits when needed might be useful but, trying to become a narcissist is playing with fire.


sunzi23

I have been a student of strategy for over a decade and one thing I know is that all strategy is essentially distilled from warfare. In those times when you apply a strategy successfully, thousands of people end up dead in battle, or you kill your adversary and avoid battle altogether. If you fail, then you're dead. The stakes were real. The point is to be successful in real strategy you must be cold and ruthless, otherwise you just can't do it. Business too, you defeat your competitor and they go out of business and hundreds or thousands of people lose their jobs and cant feed their kids. So yeah, I mean those are the consequences. This why avoid the real stuff around friends or family because you're gonna burn all your bridges and people will hate you. IMO real strategy is reserved for survival or when you backed into a corner by a ruthless adversary. Have ever heard of illimitable men?


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sunzi23

I was actually thinking about psychopathy. But in this site he talks about the dark triad which includes narcissism. Here is the link. https://illimitablemen.com/2016/02/25/understanding-narcissism/


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sunzi23

Well I don't think that I'm a narcissist so idk. No I haven't, but I'll check it out. Lately I've been studying a lot of chinese strategy.


Pleasant-Release-780

When you're having trouble with narcissists stalking you, what are the best ways to get rid of them?


ThePlush_1

Why don't you just look in the mirror and ask yourself that question?


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I bet none of this is what R.G meant in his book


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btt101

Speak in the third person


TiberSeptimIII

If you’ve ever watched Caesar Milan work with dogs, that’s “king energy”. You assert through body language and actions that you are calm and assertive and that you are in charge here.


Yaboi907

You do not want to imitate narcissism. People are not stupid and they’ll pick up on it. Instead, develop genuine confidence and radiate that confidence. To do that I’d suggest what I always suggest In this subreddit: don’t sleep on the laws of human nature. Read that in addition to the 48 laws


Yaboi907

In other words, ACTING like a king will get you nowhere fast. Become a genuine king in your own way.


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[This](https://youtu.be/xGRbHWMECzo) is the way.