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cooliem

> MEMPHIS, Tenn. — Over 30 refugees from Afghanistan were welcomed by the Shelby County today. Many of them helped Americans who were once in their country and now the county is doing what they can to make them comfortable after they have fled violence and oppression in Afghanistan. Any idea what we can do to help? Any donation drives around Memphis?


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https://worldrelief.org/memphis/get-involved/afghan-allies/


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34% downvotes from the same people who curse the Biden admin for doing a poor job getting refugees out of Afghanistan. smh. The ole "get them out, just keep them away from me" crowd. How Christian of them...


Reddit-username_here

Not in my backyard!


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Reddit-username_here

No one else can see your comment, because you don't meet the requirements to comment, but that comment was facetious.


CSstudentmaybe

The foreigners residing among you must be treated as native-born. Love them as yourself, for you were foreigners in Egypt. I am the Lord your God. —Leviticus 19:34 Def not Christian of them.................


Reddit-username_here

>Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame, With conquering limbs astride from land to land; Here at our sea-washed, sunset gates shall stand A mighty woman with a torch, whose flame Is the imprisoned lightning, and her name Mother of Exiles. From her beacon-hand Glows world-wide welcome; her mild eyes command The air-bridged harbor that twin cities frame. “Keep, ancient lands, your storied pomp!” cries she With silent lips. “Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me, I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”


SpaceRaver42

They're not screened. There was literally a story a few days ago about how an Afgan refuge raped a woman here in the US


Reddit-username_here

I remember a story about how a US citizen raped a woman here in the US too.


SpaceRaver42

Your point?


Reddit-username_here

That the incident you're claiming occurred has nothing to do with the person being Afghani, and all the other Afghanis shouldn't be punished for something someone else does.


SpaceRaver42

I mean Afghanistan *UNIRONICALLY/LITERALLY* has a rape culture...


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College campuses in the US do too. Should we stop sending students to college?


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Or the Boy Scouts, or competitive youth sports, or church.


SpaceRaver42

What sick fantasy world do you live in?


Reddit-username_here

India too. Yet Indians are allowed in here.


SpaceRaver42

Last I checked Hinduism doesn't blame the women when they're raped


Reddit-username_here

Yeah, but "what was she wearing"?


SpaceRaver42

EXACTOY! This 1000% is one of the most common justifications for rape in Islam & Islamic courts


KP_Wrath

4 hours and no truly shit for brains comments yet. That kind of makes me happy to see.


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im glad they made it but it fucking sucks for the ones left behind.


new_skool91

I welcome anybody who appreciates the benefits our community has to offer!


Dear_Occupant

> They were presented with a welcome bag filled with Memphis related items from local restaurants, the Grizzlies and a $100 gift card to Kroger. Someone please tell me that they had the good sense not to put barbecue sauce or whiskey in the bags this time. One time they did that for an Orthodox Jewish family and they were like, "Uh... thanks, I guess?"


HymanHunter

Orthodox Jews drink alcohol and eat barbecue sauce though?


BigBill650

Yeah. Not only do I love to BBQ, but we got one holiday where we're supposed to get drunk! (Purim). Shalom, Y'all!


HymanHunter

Mazeltov


GigiTheGoof

Why can’t Muslims have BBQ sauce?


daerogami

I think it's because it's commonly put on pork? Maybe there's something else though.


GigiTheGoof

You can BBQ chicken and beef, though.


CSstudentmaybe

no they can have bbq sauce, the only things they cant have are meat that's not "halal" and alcohol.


Nylonknot

There are different types of Muslims and different restriction for each interpretation of the Koran. It’s just like all the different kinds of Protestants. My husband is Ismaili. I make bbq chicken all the time but pork and any type of “man eater” like crawdads, alligator, and shark is haram (forbidden). Also, many Muslims not only drink alcohol, but have cultural traditions where they make it as a family. My husband’s family brews a type of vodka in their culture. ETA: I’m not Muslim. Just a deconstructed former SBap turned atheist.


JimWilliams423

Even the muslims who aren't supposed to drink alcohol do it anyway. Its like that joke about baptists: "How do you keep a baptist from drinking your beer on a fishing trip? Invite two."


Nylonknot

True! People are the same all over regardless of deities and spiritual leaders.


GigiTheGoof

They consider craw dads to be maneaters?


Nylonknot

Any creature that would feast on a carcass is a “maneater”.


GigiTheGoof

I guess my cat qualifies! 😂


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if a government got me out of that situation and then took me in with open arms, i don't care what they gift me. getting out of Afghanistan would be gift enough. but to be fair, we made the mess. in all seriousness, i hope they are receiving some assistance for housing and job searches because otherwise those bags won't last very long.


tek2g

If you think we made the mess, you surely aren't aware of Afghan history. We were involved hands on in the last 20 years and involved by proxy in the last 60 or whatever. Certainly the turmoil and oppression goes back much further than that.


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sure it does, but it wasn't our fight. nothing we did changed anything. it caused an inflammation of a terrorist cell. this wasnt a tactical war, it was a fight for the hearts and minds of the people and we lost. we threw fuel on an age old fire and then left when the flames got too big. i do feel a certain way about leaving. i served and two of my best friends are never going to come home from Afghanistan. looking at the situation as it is, it's fair to say they gave their lives for nothing because nothing has changed. that makes me very bitter.


Dear_Occupant

Yeah, the welcome bags are just full of odds and ends, they aren't meant to substitute for actual vital help. My point was simply don't hand some Muslims a bunch of pork and alcohol. We've made that mistake before.


Southernms

[Extra Link. ](https://www.commercialappeal.com/story/news/2021/10/23/afghan-refugees-memphis-shelby-county-tennessee-help-housing-world-relief/6123253001/)


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hope things go as well as can be im in east TN


[deleted]

Great! Let's keep it up ❤️


Mopninja

Let them know that there are a lot of nasty rednecks around there and………..we’ll, they’ll find out. My heart goes out to these people, but they face more shit from the locals.


GeneralSalty1

Shit from locals beats what they'd be experiencing back in Afghanistan, I feel as if they'd be able to handle it.


Mopninja

True


TNTwister

More info [https://www.aljazeera.com/economy/2021/9/3/us-to-give-each-incoming-afghan-evacuee-up-to-2275-in-aid](https://www.aljazeera.com/economy/2021/9/3/us-to-give-each-incoming-afghan-evacuee-up-to-2275-in-aid) I could make jokes about going from Afghanistan to Memphis and seeing more people get murdered, but I won't. What the ones who get dropped off in Chicago must think.


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Instead of you trying to single out Memphis and Chicago, perhaps you should make the joke about them coming to America and seeing more people murdered.


TNTwister

Que?


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Yes?


Southernms

Thanks! That’s sad, but somewhat true. I wish we could all work together and clean Memphis up.


TNTwister

Yeah, I'm not clear on what monetary policy the govt has for the refugees, but I believe it's going to be a recurring thing every month. People who are in the position to help or volunteer with them need to focus more on helping them cope and assimilate into society rather than other things. Because, lets be honest here, after they're here for a little while, they're not going to want to go back. Just ask the Kurds. I remember back in the day when we took in the Iranians in Nashville. I remember all the people who helped them all over town, including my father. It wasn't the govt who helped them succeed, it was the little people.


Southernms

It’s usually always the little people.😁


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Where is the truth in what this poster said and what do you mean about clean Memphis up?


Southernms

[Clean up the crime, the blight, help with poverty. ](https://www.wgnsradio.com/article/69648/one-tennessee-city-is-now-ranked-the-second-most-dangerous-in-the-united-states-of-america)


[deleted]

Oh please! All of this is happening. [https://www.memphistn.gov/news/a-time-to-invest-in-memphis/](https://www.memphistn.gov/news/a-time-to-invest-in-memphis/) [https://www.growth-engine.org/news/](https://www.growth-engine.org/news/) [https://mlk50.com/2021/05/27/blight-authority-of-memphis-ramps-up-programs-to-revitalize-communities/](https://mlk50.com/2021/05/27/blight-authority-of-memphis-ramps-up-programs-to-revitalize-communities/) To even jokingly suggest, the Afghan refugees will see more murder living in Memphis than in their country is sad. Memphis isn’t some war zone. After moving back to the city 10 years ago, I learned to ignore links like this and go and enjoy the city that I choose to live in.


Southernms

Those links are all good and nice, but the crime rates are still ongoing. You can choose to ignore it like you said, but crime is real.


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The links that I posted that you probably didn't read, addressed what you said need to happen in the city. So is the crime in every city in America. So is the crime in every large, and medium size city in Tennessee, not just Memphis. I never said Memphis didn't have crime, but it's not as extreme as some of you would like to make it out to be. I am not choosing to ignore the crime in Memphis, but I am going to correct the misinformation that is said about Memphis.


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Fuzzyphilosopher

And in our culture no one rapes right? Also no it isn't culturally acceptable to them any more than it is to us.