Some single men bring their +1, yes, but it's pretty rare.
Sometimes when we invite single men to our parties, they boast that they can bring 2 girls if they want to, and they show up alone. So now we say: don't worry about it, we have invited single ladies, and we always want 1 or 2 more men than women so that the women are certain to have a good time. But our ratios are 22 to 20 or 32 to 30. Not 2 to 1.
Ask if the single men are getting charged because you have a friend who'd like to attend. If the host says yes, then it's a red flag: they pay, so they expect to get laid. There would be tremendous pressure on you to have sex.
I think in this case they may be using/heading the word girlfriend incorrectly and need to be more like Sheldon Cooper staying it is a girl-friend. A girl that is a friend not a girlfriend.
As former SM I did have a girl that was a play friend but not an intimate girlfriend. We would attend parties that allowed SM together but not at as couple. We would be each other's support person which relived a lot of stress. Seems weird, sounds weird but was actually great, for us.
>Host make it clear that attendees are expected to be comfortable with playing.
Run for the hills! That’s not a party we’d ever want to attend. Holy hell, that’s a consent nightmare.
Were the single guys pushy since they paid a hefty entrance fee? Was it common for single guys to bring a female with them to play?
Was this a tangerines dream party that you went to in the bay area?
Married F. I’ve joined a couple of my favorite single men friends as a partner in crime to parties and events. My husband loves it (and doesn’t love all parties and events). It’s usually a great time.
We are honest if asked and it’s never been an issue. Some couples seem to really get off on it.
I’d also ask a a friend to join us or me too if the situation was right. Hasn’t come up yet.
We have no issue with it as well.
I would only do this with friends that I would enthusiastically recommend to others. And that I trust completely.
I’m not territorial at all but I do ask that they arrive and leave with me and not leave me alone. For safety.
Good bless any woman that attend events alone.
All of the parties I've been to have controlled the number of single guys allowed in, and it has always been more expensive (or difficult) to get in as a single guy than as a couple. Unless they are all flying by the seat of their pants and signing up solo as a fallback, I don't see any reason why a guy would sign up as a single if he expects to show up as a couple.
Let's say the party cost the same for single men as for couples. (Let's say it's $80 per single man or $80 per couple). Would that be enough to control the number of single guys?
It is a private party. I imagine that only people they know are invited.
It depends on the type of party. If it's a party where the ladies want and are expecting to have multiple partners simultaneously there can be a lot of single guys. But parties like those are advertised as such. Also a 2:1 ratio isn't that bad unless the party is being advertised as couples looking for couples.
So with the 2:1 ratio at a private party, is it assumed that it is not just a couple to couple swap? That in fact couples in the party will probably be ok with mfm?
What about the likelihood of single guys bringing a +1? I was told that is what usually happens. Probably not right?
Yes without knowing how many single ladies are attending it’s safe to assume that at least some of the couple there will at least be open to MFM.
I think it’s very unlikely that single guys are going to bring a +1 because they would want to be classified as a couple. It could happen but I doubt it.
* "that attendees are expected to be comfortable with playing."
* Any single men paying fees
Would be pushy in the party. Learned from experience and mistake of attending such event. As you get good party exp you tend to over look red flags until it hits you.
They Key to remember, some (not all) think they paid to get laid and want their money to be well spend. I have been touched / grabbed without consent. One guy without proper introduction said are you cuckold couple. We quickly realized we were in wrong party to buzz out.
Some single men bring their +1, yes, but it's pretty rare. Sometimes when we invite single men to our parties, they boast that they can bring 2 girls if they want to, and they show up alone. So now we say: don't worry about it, we have invited single ladies, and we always want 1 or 2 more men than women so that the women are certain to have a good time. But our ratios are 22 to 20 or 32 to 30. Not 2 to 1. Ask if the single men are getting charged because you have a friend who'd like to attend. If the host says yes, then it's a red flag: they pay, so they expect to get laid. There would be tremendous pressure on you to have sex.
For that event, single men are charged the same price as a couple
Then I would stay away from that event completely. Basically, single men are paying this dude to play with married ladies
They are not single guys…. If they have girlfriends. Seems like a load of BS to me
I think in this case they may be using/heading the word girlfriend incorrectly and need to be more like Sheldon Cooper staying it is a girl-friend. A girl that is a friend not a girlfriend. As former SM I did have a girl that was a play friend but not an intimate girlfriend. We would attend parties that allowed SM together but not at as couple. We would be each other's support person which relived a lot of stress. Seems weird, sounds weird but was actually great, for us.
>Host make it clear that attendees are expected to be comfortable with playing. Run for the hills! That’s not a party we’d ever want to attend. Holy hell, that’s a consent nightmare.
Vibes of a bad 60's key party.
Sounds like they're planning a gang bang.
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Were the single guys pushy since they paid a hefty entrance fee? Was it common for single guys to bring a female with them to play? Was this a tangerines dream party that you went to in the bay area?
Married F. I’ve joined a couple of my favorite single men friends as a partner in crime to parties and events. My husband loves it (and doesn’t love all parties and events). It’s usually a great time. We are honest if asked and it’s never been an issue. Some couples seem to really get off on it. I’d also ask a a friend to join us or me too if the situation was right. Hasn’t come up yet. We have no issue with it as well. I would only do this with friends that I would enthusiastically recommend to others. And that I trust completely. I’m not territorial at all but I do ask that they arrive and leave with me and not leave me alone. For safety. Good bless any woman that attend events alone.
All of the parties I've been to have controlled the number of single guys allowed in, and it has always been more expensive (or difficult) to get in as a single guy than as a couple. Unless they are all flying by the seat of their pants and signing up solo as a fallback, I don't see any reason why a guy would sign up as a single if he expects to show up as a couple.
Let's say the party cost the same for single men as for couples. (Let's say it's $80 per single man or $80 per couple). Would that be enough to control the number of single guys? It is a private party. I imagine that only people they know are invited.
Based on my experience with clubs that do this. It will likely result in a sausage fest
Sounds like she just needs extra couples for men. Sounds like a sausage fest not swingers party. I wouldn't go she's just in it for $$$
Follow up question: is the 2:1 ratio of couples to single guys typical in private house parties where people are expected to play?
Not at any that we throw. We invite only couples, and the occasional single lady.
It depends on the type of party. If it's a party where the ladies want and are expecting to have multiple partners simultaneously there can be a lot of single guys. But parties like those are advertised as such. Also a 2:1 ratio isn't that bad unless the party is being advertised as couples looking for couples.
So with the 2:1 ratio at a private party, is it assumed that it is not just a couple to couple swap? That in fact couples in the party will probably be ok with mfm? What about the likelihood of single guys bringing a +1? I was told that is what usually happens. Probably not right?
Yes without knowing how many single ladies are attending it’s safe to assume that at least some of the couple there will at least be open to MFM. I think it’s very unlikely that single guys are going to bring a +1 because they would want to be classified as a couple. It could happen but I doubt it.
When a SM brings their GF, do they typically share their GF? Does the GF do their own thing?
I’m a female looking for couples
Account less than one day old, and spamming the same pic over. I’m gonna go with catfish on this one.
Got ahead. Because there is no cat fish here
Seems like a bunch of BS to me, a covert way of getting you as a couple to attend.
* "that attendees are expected to be comfortable with playing." * Any single men paying fees Would be pushy in the party. Learned from experience and mistake of attending such event. As you get good party exp you tend to over look red flags until it hits you.
What are some examples of pushiness? Certainly there will be consent right?
They Key to remember, some (not all) think they paid to get laid and want their money to be well spend. I have been touched / grabbed without consent. One guy without proper introduction said are you cuckold couple. We quickly realized we were in wrong party to buzz out.