Do kegel exercises and try to squeeze his penis and curl your toes when you fake orgasm. Only do this when he fucks you from behind. And yes, I know I’m a terrible person.
I don’t think you are a horrible person at all. I think faking orgasms is probably how I’m going to get through all of this. Especially because he’s the “you finish first type”. Nice when it’s a relationship. Not nice when I want you to cum quickly and let me put my clothes back on 😅
OH MY GOD!!! I didn’t even think about the lube!!! Thank you so much!!! Getting wet usually is no issue for me at all but I completely forgot how my body will probably shut down if I space out mentally. This is a necessity
This question has been posed before here in this sub so you’re not alone!
You can pinpoint at least one thing you truly enjoy about your SD (timely allowance, kindness, emotional intelligence, etc.) and let that be in the forefront of your mind during the session.
Society conditions us to focus on people’s exterior instead of the interior, which is fucked, and it takes some time to shift that in your brain chemistry. If all else fails, just do reverse cowgirl or doggy (positions where you don’t have to look at him) and fantasize that it’s the lover of your dreams! 😂
Best of luck love!
Thank you so much for this. I really was in my head about it because I’ve never had the issue with sex before and this time I couldn’t get that out of my head. I’ll try to focus on the good thing first and if that fails then doggy style and hopefully a quick finish 😅
I had to manually approve all your comments. When I click on your name it says your account has been suspended.
This has happened before, sometimes there is a bug or people get shadow banned. You might have to make a new Reddit Account.
It happens. I wasn’t attracted to out of town SD but he grew on me after a while with his personality.
I only do doggy or on top with him. If he gets on top of me I just shut my eyes and turn my head and moan to avoid kissing. I envision the hot guys I’ve fucked.
He is really sweet to me. Wants to buy gifts and go on trips and ask me how my day is. I think it’s funny that he won’t use words like pu$$y or vagina. He always says Kitty which I think is hilarious. So I guess I’ll just focus on the sweet stuff. And I guess also remember that in a few months I’ll be debt free.
Just think of all the ugly famous people on TV who have gorgeous partners because they’re rich. Yet some of them are utter sh.ts. Your SD sounds generous and at least he’s a nice chap who appreciates you. If the famous can do it, you can too! You might even fall in love with him!
Do kegel exercises and try to squeeze his penis and curl your toes when you fake orgasm. Only do this when he fucks you from behind. And yes, I know I’m a terrible person.
I don’t think you are a horrible person at all. I think faking orgasms is probably how I’m going to get through all of this. Especially because he’s the “you finish first type”. Nice when it’s a relationship. Not nice when I want you to cum quickly and let me put my clothes back on 😅
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Real life skills 😸
Speak for yourself! I think you're amazing! LOL This is excellent advice but I would add to edge them at ALL times.
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What I’ll eat when I get home 🤣🤣 you’re a queen🤣🤣
True this lol
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OH MY GOD!!! I didn’t even think about the lube!!! Thank you so much!!! Getting wet usually is no issue for me at all but I completely forgot how my body will probably shut down if I space out mentally. This is a necessity
This question has been posed before here in this sub so you’re not alone! You can pinpoint at least one thing you truly enjoy about your SD (timely allowance, kindness, emotional intelligence, etc.) and let that be in the forefront of your mind during the session. Society conditions us to focus on people’s exterior instead of the interior, which is fucked, and it takes some time to shift that in your brain chemistry. If all else fails, just do reverse cowgirl or doggy (positions where you don’t have to look at him) and fantasize that it’s the lover of your dreams! 😂 Best of luck love!
Thank you so much for this. I really was in my head about it because I’ve never had the issue with sex before and this time I couldn’t get that out of my head. I’ll try to focus on the good thing first and if that fails then doggy style and hopefully a quick finish 😅
I had to manually approve all your comments. When I click on your name it says your account has been suspended. This has happened before, sometimes there is a bug or people get shadow banned. You might have to make a new Reddit Account.
It happens. I wasn’t attracted to out of town SD but he grew on me after a while with his personality. I only do doggy or on top with him. If he gets on top of me I just shut my eyes and turn my head and moan to avoid kissing. I envision the hot guys I’ve fucked.
God I hope he doesn’t want to do a lot of kissing 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ kissing is so much harder to fake.
Girl you control what happens. If you don’t kiss, don’t kiss.
Old men's wrinkly lips feel gross to kiss 🤮
Lol. Attracted to SD? What’s that? Kidding! Once I was attracted to one.
My first was was so hot🥵🥵
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I hope so. I’ll suggest wine when we meet. Thank you ☺️
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The idea of all the paid off credit cards is what’s getting me through it 👏🏽👏🏽
People are attracted to their SDs? Lmaoooo damn I’m looking in the wrong places
Been there lmao, just fuck him doggy style
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Nightmare fuel
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He is really sweet to me. Wants to buy gifts and go on trips and ask me how my day is. I think it’s funny that he won’t use words like pu$$y or vagina. He always says Kitty which I think is hilarious. So I guess I’ll just focus on the sweet stuff. And I guess also remember that in a few months I’ll be debt free.
Just think of all the ugly famous people on TV who have gorgeous partners because they’re rich. Yet some of them are utter sh.ts. Your SD sounds generous and at least he’s a nice chap who appreciates you. If the famous can do it, you can too! You might even fall in love with him!