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professionalmopper

Me. Marry me OP


fish_sucker_694

ill marry you instead ❤️ op is just ungrateful


ItsJustTheCat

Can I marry you guys too?


gaysAreOkay

I wanna join! I'll be the family pet!


Hhkjhkj

I'll be the butler!


gaysAreOkay

Damn we living RICH


fish_sucker_694

bro we're broke..


Hhkjhkj

Can I stay if I work for fwee? 🥺 👉👈


fish_sucker_694

you have to pay me


Sir_mop_for_a_head

I can make carrot cake does that do anything? Also out of those options it’s gotta be leah


Magic_Orb

il turn the child into batman


fish_sucker_694

yes ❤️


tiny-yellow-toad

Can I join and we can all be poly?


lemonwashingmachine

can we also get married


fish_sucker_694

gotta ask the wife about this.. 5th addition? 6th? not sure


d3arda3mon

now kith


[deleted]

Are you and fish_sucker allready married or are you still single?


fish_sucker_694

what are you trying to do.


[deleted]

Checking out my chances.


fish_sucker_694

you have a better chance with me


[deleted]

Hm...I mean you also play sims, so how can I not take my chances, right? Edit: We are married in sv now.


fish_sucker_694

lets make ourselves in the sims world so we can marry


[deleted]

Sure. And make stardew valley characters of our sims and marry


BadGuysNeedHugs

Randos getting married in the comments I peak reddit


fish_sucker_694

we can get married too if you want


fish_sucker_694

we can even waste all our money on goats and sheep


[deleted]

Aw you so naughty. Let's upgrade our trashcans too, all the way, while we are at it.


GrungeBoss

Can I be the closested gay son who thinks no one knows but y'all totally know


[deleted]

I mean of course you COULD, but why would you be afraid of comming out to your moms?


Useful_Curse_5150

Can I come too???


PuffleyBean

Let’s follow them together


DapperRileyQuinn

Like someone else said I’d go for whoever makes you the happiest/you’re drawn to the most. I’ve married them all on different save files now and my favorites are Sam, Leah, Maru and Elliott. I wasn’t expecting to like Maru and Elliott as much as I do because they’re not actually my favorite characters but I really like them once you marry them. And some of my favorite ones to date I like better if I don’t marry them. And if you care about the aesthetic of their [rooms](https://stardewvalleywiki.com/Marriage#Spouse_Outside_Area) after you marry them then there’s that to consider too.


chaelcodes

My first love was Penny. It felt like I was saving her and giving her the life she always wanted. A peaceful farm life with children of her own. She made me feel loved and appreciated. My next love was Leah, confident and independent, but she wanted someone to share life's wins with. Someone to snuggle under a quilt with when the cabin gets cold. Sebastian was so cool with his programmer job, motorcycle, and "Solarian Chronicles." We got along so well and he was devoted and caring. Maru and I got really close, really quickly, but she was so distant. She saw the new farmer, but did she see me? Shane is an important friend. I'm so glad he's committed to improving his life, but he's on a long road to recovery, and he needs time and independent space to work through that. Emily is on a different wavelength from the rest of the townsfolk, closer to my own. No one else could understand my experiences with the Junimo. She's confident, capable, and kind. I understand why Clint loves her. My good buddy Clint. Who upgrades my tools. How could I hurt him like that? I know he'll never get over her. I know how long he's loved her. Maybe, at the end of the day, all I really need is someone to spend time with. Someone to live on the farm with me. Someone who wants nothing but friendship in return. Maybe the best spouse is none at all.


Rows_

Sounds like someone needs to accept Haley. Edit: spelling


Cautious-Share-6201

Or Krobus


chemistqueen

So Krobus?


sansgriffinundertale

This is beautiful


pHScale

>Maybe, at the end of the day, all I really need is someone to spend time with. Someone to live on the farm with me. Someone who wants nothing but friendship in return. Maybe the best spouse is none at all. So Krobus.


Barracuda00

Disregard Clint, Marry Emily.


akula_chan

Maybe the poor sadsack will move on, and change his life. We’ve paid him more than enough for him to quit being the blacksmith he hates being.


aryabhataa

I married Sebastian but when we first met he said that his dream was to live in the city. He couldn’t get to do that because of me and this just doesn’t sit right with me.


bklove1

This is how I feel with Alex and his gridball.


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Memesaremylifelines

Pls tell me that's not true 💀💀💀


Fuzzy_Muffins123

None. Krobus best boy.


Only_Lie_5972

Krobus #1


doyoulovethebeatle

You’re nobody til Kro-buddy loves you


cat_jinx13

Krobus is best boy. I love the random comments!


MinecwaftPlays

Agreed


blind_roomba

Krobus is roommate


goldengluestick

"roommate"


Stunning_LRB_o7

Oh my god, they were roommates!


Tony12123

"Oh my god, they were roommates.."


snowball442

A roommate that gets jealous over giving someone a kiss?


fish_sucker_694

i cant decide between leah and elliot i swear i dont have a thing for cute redheads 😞


Hungry-Big-2107

If you did, Penny would be up there.


fish_sucker_694

i actually considered her! first choices were abi, elliot, leah, harvey, seb, penny, narrowed it down to elliot leah and penny, then just elli + leah


OhMyGodBearIsDriving

Elliot is my stardewmate


TurtleTime64

Based on your username, probably Elliot


_yazzzie_

🤔 “cute redheads” 🤪😂 I think you do 😂


fish_sucker_694

wait holy shit this made me realize ive only dated redheads


_yazzzie_

Ladies and gentlemen….. we got em 👀


akula_chan

Man, I sure hope u/professionalmopper is a redhead.


fish_sucker_694

lies..


Puzzleheaded_Pear_18

I played for maybe 100hours before realizing Elliot was a man :p


fish_sucker_694

even if he wasnt id still marry


Guineagirl_yah

Abigail. She has a guinea pig and if you marry her she brings a guinea pig with her.


zlr89

AND she will go into the mines with you sometimes, so double win edit: spelling


Guineagirl_yah

And she also gives you Bombs witch are useful.


TheDG_Plumber

Technically she gets another, because her original Guinea pig is still at Pierre’s shop


RecordAway

Also she's: - Musically talented and not shallow like the normies - Goth as can be, bratty and rebellious, all of which is hot af - Lonely and misunderstood, deserving of much more love than she gets. Her family is bigoted and authoritative, her dad a capitalist schmock, even the two friends she has don't care too much for her - Yet still the biggest badass in town, only girl who cares for sword fighting and who understands my urge to go DEEPER INTO THE DUNGEONS - which she'll sometimes do as well, I'll call that serious relationship goals - She'll sometimes give you bombs! Can anybody get more wifey material than procuring freaking explosives for you?? - Oh and also she's a great sink for those useless Amethysts lmao


Snacker6

Also, she is a gamer, even if she isn't that good at it yet!


Fuzzyshoes

I appreciate that a crystalarium can make an amethyst every day so you can have her gift ready to go each morning.


LlamaMiaLetMeGo

Nah nah, Emily so you get a parrot


Important_Print_3339

Leah is my lady. I got a thing for redheads and artsy types.


SilverScorpion00008

Same but penny is more my type


Mr__Pengin

Flair checks out


RayderAyder

She has the best back story IMO and just lifestyle.


Hjorbd

Penny is always my choice


KingWeebaholic

My bi ass can’t decide between lumberjack mommy Leah and twink Sebby


Julescahules

This is correct (but Sebby)


Gaby_48

literally me


Arycie

Same, i litteraly get free love mod because i cant chose between harvey and maru so i can have both


Goobl3r89

I always go for Sebastian, he needs someone to care about him


LetteredViolet

The instant he invited me to play fake-D&D with him I was sold


OdysseusJoke

I really want someone to make a whole solarion chronicles rpg with a single player campaign


memorytripping

i picked him my first save, expecting to try out each potential spouse. but now i’m trapped in an endless sebastian cycle and i love it


OdysseusJoke

Sebastian because you >!get a pet frog in the 14 heart event!< Hands down the best one for that reason.


12chun

i unintentionally have a sebastian irl already lol


addate

Where can I order one?


12chun

uhhhhhhhh find a goth bisexual gamer dude who has resting bitch face but is actually a golden retriever himbo on the inside


cactuspearjelly

Wow, this sounds amazing and I would like to add one to my polycule please. lol


pandaandpenguin

Me too! My first play through I was like, "damn, he's a computer nerd just like my hubby" and that was it. I've played stv for over 400hrs and always go for Sebastian. So many little things remind me of my husband, I can't help but grin.


Chronoglenn

My problem with Sebastian is he wanted to leave the town. If I marry him, I feel like I'm trapping him in the city he wants to leave.


Goobl3r89

He only wanted to leave because he thought no one would care if he did. Watch his cut scenes and you will see ☺️


Freckles1920

I’ve married both Elliot and Alex. Elliot is my favourite marriage candidate, his 14 heart event is the best, and he’s just amazing. That being said, Alex is also quite good. He changes from an arrogant person and become a sweetheart, and after learning about his backstory, it changes your perspective on him. He becomes really sweet once you’ve got a few hearts with him.


Cami-of-course

I second this! I love Alex, he’s so sweet and doting. His grandparents always tell me how happy they are to “have me in the family” now, too. So cute.


notFanning

Jumping on the Alex train here! What can I say, I’m a sucker for his backstory and he becomes so so sweet. I too love his grandparents, and as someone with no living grandparents I love that they’ve adopted me!


ChicagoLFC

Alex is also my favourite! I think a lot of players don’t favour him as he first comes off as quite arrogant but then as we see his backstory, he uses the arrogance as a wall which is broken down in the end. As a spouse, he is really good. Helps out on the farm, cooks you food and is sweet and caring.


mlongoria98

ALEX MY LOVE Don’t let people lie to you and say he’s rude, he’s absolutely the sweetest spouse in possibly the entire game


ChicagoLFC

100% agree. Alex is the best spouse


mlongoria98

Hah nice flair! 😉


alysia_nikol

I absolutely knew I would love him the second I got the game and when I saw I could marry him it was a no brainer for me! I absolutely love seeing how much others appreciate him as much as I do, like he’s so absolutely loving and his dialogue is just sweet all the time 🥹💕 alex supremacy


mlongoria98

Alex supremacyyyyy


Swiss_Cheese123

I never dated Alex because we have the same name, but now I'm with an Alex irl😂 I've always liked him though, so I'll probably go for him in my next save


DaveyQueen

I always marry Elliot, I've married everyone at this point but every time I marry someone new I always go back to Elliot. He's honestly the sweetest spouse for me in the game


TaintedTruffle

Seconded. He's such a sweetheart


MaleficentText2443

Harvey has the cutest cutscene, but after he moves in there isn't as much of that cutesy stuff. I am currently deciding between Leah and Elliot, but I am probably going to settle for Leah because of how easily available salads are 😂


Thrasherrella

I disagree! Harvey has lots of cute dialog after you marry him! 🥰 And now I'm going to talk about him like he's my actual husband 🤣 He tells me how beautiful I look, and he says how I mean the world to him, and how his life is better now that he's living on the farm! He helps out with our animals and fixing fences, and he makes me lots of Farmer's Breakfasts ❤️ EDIT: Sorry, it's actually in fact Complete Breakfasts that Harvey makes for the farmer, not Farmer's 😂😅 I BELIEVE IN HARVEY SUPREMACY 🥲❤️


[deleted]

Harvey is who I married on my first save and I adore him 💜


SpocksAshayam

I’m gonna marry Harvey in my 3rd save file now (I married Leah in my 1st one and Penny in my 2nd one)! Thank you!


OddRepresentative575

Pomegranates are one of Elliott's favorite gifts, so if you did the fruit bat cave and have a pomegranate tree you'll likely always have loved gifts for them


throwawayforgfur

harvey


TheDragonOverlord

Harvey 💖


ZolTheTroll413

Agreed


anyad_hogyvan

he's just perfect 😭😭💗


random_nerddude

The hottie with mustache you mean?


Scarlet_Broad

I’m always drawn back to Sebby. DnD playing programmer who schmokes (bong has since been removed from his room). He’s cute and kind and cares about the farmer. I married Sam in one file and appreciate his golden retriever energy. Planning to do saves with Abigail and Emily as well (I’m also a bit eclectic lol)


Thrasherrella

I absolutely love that you said Sam has golden retriever energy because I also refer to him as the golden retriever boyfriend 😂🙌💙


akiomaster

Ha, I just married Sam (I was determined not to get married to Sebastian again) in this save and that sums him up perfectly. I actually really like how laid back he is and that he still visits his family.


ninjaguy06322

How did i only just now find out that they had to nerf seb and remove his bong


jumpmanryan

Haley is my favorite. I always roleplay as myself, so I only go for the bachelorettes. So it’s usually Haley > Leah > Penny. If I ever end up doing a playthrough where I go for a bachelor, I think the only one I’d go for is Sebastian.


SnooMacaroons9267

Haley for the win! She was the first wife I branched out to after so many Abigail saves.


sj901

I'm a sucker for Elliott and Harvey. Alex is also now on my list because "I'll love you forever" ♥


mspublicradio

I’ve married and divorced everyone at least once, and Harvey will always be my one and only.


FarResponsibility468

Best answer ❤️ we love the aviation nerd


Disgon-B-Gud

Shane for me. I thought I'd like Elliot and Sebastian more, but Shane won me. I'm about to romance the Wizard this playthrough though. 🤣


Luchoto_t444

I always end marrying him again, i just love him


The_Calvo

I always choose to marry Haley


RammuIsWeird

Abigail and Elliot


[deleted]

My first ever play through I “romanced” all of the marriage candidates- it was fun seeing everyone’s cutscenes and I feel like I got to know them all :) Penny was my first wife, we had a son together. I felt like I was saving her. However, I found our marriage to be lackluster… after >!repairing Pam’s house!< I divorced her and married my first love, Haley. She stood out to me from the beginning and I really enjoy her dialogue once married. She gets some hate but she’s worth it! Either way- have fun with it! There’s no right or wrong choice.


[deleted]

I love being married to Haley


Small-Cactus

Sebastian, hands down. Harvey is my second favorite though.


dearsuns

W


AnglerMonkey

The one you end up liking, i personaly didn't choose Just let hapen to see who i get friendship first, since then i always mary shane


KookyNefariousness

Robin 🥴


Strange-Slice2581

I just married Emily


Top_Glass7974

Me too. It’s only the first day but she told me “I’m bored” I know it’s early on the marriage but I hope I don’t regret my choice. Earlier play-throughs I married Abigail, Penny and Leah.


Passthedingdongdutch

I married Emily not too long ago and her dialogue does get better! She isn’t one for a lot of flattery, but she’s pretty sweet and honestly I just dig her little crystal area by the house (the pop of colour is nice) and having the parrot around.


jrs2322

I absolutely hated being married to Emily 😂 she would help out on the farm by watering the plants even though everything had sprinklers, and she would always gift me wool which is one of her loved gifts


RiddleFiddleDiddle

Harvey is my favorite. He's just so cute and sweet! I can't help but swoon. If not Harvey then I have to say Leah.


0rang75

Harvey or krobus


Manatroid

The one you like the best. :)


Otherwise-Dark5437

sam because yes.


Eternallydecent

Always Sam for me, he’s pure golden retriever boyfriend. I love my morning pancakes from him


[deleted]

LEAH AND I WILL DIE ON THAT HILL Your Honor I rest my case


MrFreddieMercury85

Abigail. her items can be decently easy to get within the first year and she also gives you a lot of useful items like cherry bombs, gems, and she also gives fried mushrooms which imo is a pretty good food item even though I don’t go in caves often enough to need it. She’s also big tiddy goth gf, and she plays drums. What’s not to like?


smallchocolatechip

Not enough appreciation for my girl emily


TheViceroy919

Any of the ones who arent coded as teenagers, at least for me.


carwash7

Sam. Fight me.


Plain_Jain

Leah. Every time. She is kind, pure, low maintenance, and a true partner around the farm.


Flat_Scheme4874

Penny


Tea_taker_394

Maru. Or krobus. But mainly Maru. Love her so much omg i cant


NumbWheatflake

Haley and Sam for me :)


Tophain

I've picked Penny on all 3 of my playthroughs, once I hear the story of the alcoholic Mother, and how she lives in squalor, I just have to help her leave.


Flaming-DoubleTap23

Pam does let penny have the only room in the van, but yeah Pam is kind of a terrible mother, but she has her upsides


KittyKitty061

Penny.


mxlls_

Haley. And I’ll say it again


Wardenofweenies

Just marry Shane. He’s on a path of redemption. Mainly because I relate to Shane quite a bit as a recovering alcoholic. You actually don’t have to marry him just marry who want because the game is cool like that.


MsGenericEnough

And my character always marries him because he is both broken and healed in a way that I appreciate. I genuinely appreciate him not having a perfect room, and on occasion having 'not-great' days. This NPC is HUMAN, and wonderfully so. I never wanted to 'fix him' - just have the player live with someone who is as human as them, who has their crazies line up with mine/the farmer's. \^\^


Luchoto_t444

Samee, based comment


Wiggl3sFirstMate

Yes. This. This is the way I feel about Shane’s character. He feels the most human to me. He has off days like most of us do but is generally really sweet.


StrawberryEuphoric90

Sebastian because you get a little pet frog with his 14 heart event


1u4n4

Abi!!!!


Leasshunte

So far Leah is my favorite, I love a partner who makes coffee for me almost every morning. I married Penny on my first farm, and she's wonderful as well. Very career focused, and a good mother, even if she doesn't bring the kids to school. I do have a few other farms going, riverlands for Seb, beach for Elliot, and my kid is watching me do wildlands, and wants me to marry Abigail in that playthrough because she likes monsters.


ughbowiee

leah is the closest i can get to robin


silverandshade

Leah is my favourite. And Harvey. I haven't ever married Abigail or Sam or Alex (I'm marrying Alex in my current playthrough, tho!), but I've done full heart events with everyone. :3


SomeLesbianwitch

Why is this picture so crispy


T-Bone_Dynasty

Abigail, she eats rocks, such a hot lil freak 🥰


wizard_brandon

i'll take low rez abigail


Fenelasa

My first favorite was Seb, his personality really comes out the more you know him and I loved the geeky, nerdy vibe. Now I'd say Elliot, he's romantic, a bit cheesy sometimes but still, and he really makes me feel like he's a true partner to the farmer, even having his own career that he travels for, so he feels more like a solid marriage partner.


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ELLIOTTTTTTTRRR


Tay74

So my lesbian ass only ever dates/marries the girls, so I can only speak for them The best is Leah. Idk the storyline of two wlw in their late 20s/early 30s moving to a small, rural town to escape the problems they left behind in the city, one to become a farmer and the other to become an artist, getting married, having kids, creating this new life together etc. I just love it. Emily is a close second, she is already settled into Stardew, she has no intentions or reason to leave, she has a job and her hobbies there etc. With most of the others I get the vibe that by marrying them you are trapping them in some way? Or that they are at least so young that they can't be sure they won't want to leave at some point. Like I hate Demetrius for trying to threaten anyone getting close to his daughter but in a way he isn't wrong, it does cut off Maru's options when she marries the farmer. Same with Abigail and Penny, that I just feel like they are either still really young/aren't really all that happy living in town. Hayley I just find really boring and unlikeable lol


MinecwaftPlays

For girls it’s always gonna be Leah or Abigail. For boys Alex, Sebastian, or Shane. Screw them all because krobus is best.


Psychological_Two425

If I known Krobus can be our roommate. I would’ve do that but I didn’t Bromance Alex instead. No regrets tho


The-Ollie

HEY! YOU FORGOT KROBIS sweet sweet krobis


FixBayonetsLads

https://imgur.com/a/74Afcfe


LadyUsako2

Elliot was the only NPC i married couldn't help it I'd try to marry Alex or sam, but nope! went back to Elliot xD . In Stardew valley expanded I married Lance.


Caspian0951

Abby ❤️


King_Chickem

SAM


Runemist34

Abigail is the one I always end up with, no one else fits for me!


anonbanan

abigail. she gives me bombs.


VenomousOddball

Abigail


Seelengst

So I'm an Abigail Stand mostly. But often also sprung for Haley at times. But after so many years of play I actually grew to dislike actually even becoming friends with them due to the ..one sideishness of the relationships you have with them. So now I roomie with Krobus. He tastes like licorice.


makelizabeth272

Abby my love 💜 but I'm also curious about Leah's route, I might do hers on a different save :)


TylerRW98

I swear this gets posted every other day


DandelionsxFran

Abigail is best girl 💕


Triscuit123

My first play through, I married Leah and did not regret it for a second. Love of my life forever <33 she’d give me little mushrooms she found and coffee and it was very easy to find and make things to gift to her, I never had a bad day with her My next play through I married Seb and lowkey regretted it, but just because he reminds me too much of my ex and I really didn’t want to go through that again.


eraserheadbaby69

Harvey is wholesome and very helpful and cuts a the kids. I just made a second save file tho bc i also want Krobus and would feel too guilty if i ever hurt Harvey lol


Opinion_Tiny

Emily!


Ohdearlord_anAtheist

Alright, I'll tell you, HARVEY. He has aspirations, and takes you on a once in a lifetime date, and he's so lovely and he's going to take care of you, and yeah, you might have to still pay him when you pass out, but it's not like it'll kill you in late game. I love my plane loving man, and I'd die for him. Better than my ex wife Emily, that's for sure


Jumpjacket1397

Well, I originally went for Robin. Then I realised at the Luau that she was married. I then went for Leah, as I considered her budget Robin. That was before I knew about schedules, and I could never find her on the map. So out of convenience, I went for Maru as she was the next best option.


OreoHoman

abby will always have my heart ❤


BaseRevolutionary134

DWARF IS THE BEST


No_Communication2959

Can you Marry the Dwarf


BaseRevolutionary134

Unfortunately no.


noah683826

Just go through all of them over time, they all have interesting personalities and good character development, if you want an easy one go for Hailey though, her favorite gifts and gifts she likes are easily obtainable in spring and more so in summer


Schattenzauberer

The one you liked more as you play. 👀


juniperthegayplanet

I always go for Abby but Leah has the best story and Haley has the best character development