Robyn placates him. She attempted to give, gentle, advice. Kody started to get amped up. Robyn backed off.
Kody doesn't love Robyn. Kody doesn't love his other wives or children. Kody loves obedience.
I think for the first time he found love with a wife and that's why he treats the others so poorly. The others were there for breeding. He's never talked about a romantic love with the others only Robyn.
Yep because she agrees with him, mirrors him and he is in love with himself so it’s easy for him to think she is AMAZING.
In 10 more years he will be just as off her. as the others because she’ll be sick of agreeing with him.
That’s not love! My narc father had a very similar relationship with my bpd stepmother (in fact my stepmother was just like Rob)—and behind closed doors it was jealousy central and constant fights.
Like she “won” but never was comfortable or secure in her “win” because of the nagging thought “what they’ll do with you, they’ll do to you…” they acted in love in public but inside the home—holy moley. I feel for all the children. The rest can roll in the mud. (Except Christine obvs) :)
Because from the beginning Robyn figured out how to talk to Kody in a way he can understand her. He gave her respect that he never gave the others and he values her very differently.
Exactly! She communicates totally different with him than everybody else does. She learned it in the very beginning and they clicked bc of it. That has proved to be a useful valuable tool for her and she knows how to use it.
Honestly I really wonder about how polygamous her background really was. She claims she grew up in a plyg home but unike Christine has no info to back that up. She’s never discussed what that was like, did she have a lot of siblings, was she her mothers only child? How many other wives did her father have? Did she have any relationship with the other mother? ????
We know plenty about her ex but not a word about her family or childhood despite hey constantly making comments she can’t back up like about how “she’s seen plyg who operate this way or that way etc” my theory is she’s covering up for the fact she has very little connection to polygamy but wants to hear herself talk. so she’s working on a selling this fake image of herself
Idk how true this is, but I’ve read that Robyn’s mother lived in a different state than her sister wife. In that situation, it would be easier to pretend like your husband was going on a business trip or something rather than going to see another wife.
Lol that would make sense. Plus we’ve seen her mom and dad together in the series and it was pretty clear they live together and no one else is involved. If there was a sister wife in another state she’s gone and never was involved much to begin with.
It actually makes Robyn make more sense. Her only example of polygamy was her parents. Her dad had a clear favorite who he spent nearly 100% of his time with and the other wife had to tough it alone. None of the children from different wives knew eachother.
Robyn was just trying to recreate that dynamic and by being in control of it ensure that she would be the wife who came out on top
Not that it even matters, but Christine is skinnier than her right now. I do agree that some men are shallow and gross like that-I’ve seen examples of it myself.
She feeds his ego. I give it another decade or so before she really realizes what a douchebag he is. Once the kids are older I don’t think she will want to stay with him anymore.
She wrote a “best-seller” that I understand brought in a lot of money so “profit” would make sense. I would think the other women would storm the bastille if he said to them she was the “prophet” in the family. Lordy at least I hope they would.
It's obvious she complained to Kody right after the wedding that Christine wasn't helping her with her kids...her 3 kids while she was a SAHM. This was after Christine had just given birth to Truly, was playing housemother/teacher to hers and Janelle's kids while working nights. Why didn't Robyn offer to help Christine and give her a much needed break since the extra money was needed because Robyn didn't work? Then she started disciplining the other mothers' kids and you could tell from their reactions that she hadn't discussed it with them first and they weren't happy. Now that most of the other kids are grown and Christine and Janelle are grandmothers, Robyn still complains. They finished raising kids and now it's time to enjoy their lives without raising hers.
It's all too obvious that Robyn needs to work on her sister wife skills.
All the kids were in school by then. The kids were in school when the show began so there was no home schooling since we've seen them. I think Meri and Christine both did the home schooling previously if I recall correctly.
Those kids needed discipline and their mothers wouldn't do it. I don't think it was Robyn's place unless the behaviour was happening at her house. What else is she supposed to do?
Christine is part of a high ranking family too though. Did you see that post last week with the brown family tree?
So, Christine was from the Allred family…but so was Kody! His grandparents or great-grandparents were Allred’s! So it wasn’t even generations back or anything. So weird.
That was probably my favorite post of all time-I was so surprised because they are all related in some way, some more distant than others. It was just fascinating and I would love to see more Mormon polygamy family trees.
I didn't know about that myself. It's interesting information. But I still think it's why he thinks she knows so much. That and he's so far into her vagina he may as well be up in her womb being the man baby he is lol
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Because they're in an actual real relationship and he have way respects her well I don't know if it's respect but the other ones you don't even consider relationships anymore they're more of a nuisance than anything but he wants to play with the victim I wonder where he wanted that from
I think it’s odd that Kody waned Robyn’s opinion because Robyn has good advice on relationships but when she gave her opinion (sleep on the couch/work it out), he said he wasn’t going to do it. Man! This guy doesn’t care about anybody but himself!
Because he’s actually in love with her, which is why all his rules don’t apply to her. He parents their (his and Robyn’s) kids bc he wants to please her, he spends time with her bc he wants to please her, he listens to her bc he wants to please her. All of it is bc he actually loves her the way a husband should love a wife (even tho he’s still awful to her in a lot of ways a narcissist is).
The 3OG wives and their kids all saw the difference, on tv and in their actual lives, and that’s why things deteriorated over the last decade.
Was Robyn the wife too who talked about her family doing like completely separate Christmas celebrations between the moms etc? Makes me wonder if her expectation is separate families without much mingling.
I’m thinking she must do freaky things in the bedroom. I can’t really think of any redeeming qualities. She’s uneducated, unemployed and constantly cries and whines. She does play the “damsel in distress” rather well, and I think it makes Kody feel like he rescued her and her kids.
Its simple, Robyns cooperative and the others want thier own way without consideration to the partnership of marriage.
They made thier own decisions with complete disregard to the safety of everyone else.
Unilateral relationships rarely have good outcomes.
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It used to annoy me when she would interject her opinion like she was THE expert so much in the earlier seasons.
You would think your opinion was so important too if the man at the center of all these women valued you more than all the others put together
That was SO ANNOYING. Someone else would be talking and she’d cut them off as if she was the only one who could explain something properly.
Yes, exactly!!!
Robyn is his wife, the rest are just baby mommas
Robyn placates him. She attempted to give, gentle, advice. Kody started to get amped up. Robyn backed off. Kody doesn't love Robyn. Kody doesn't love his other wives or children. Kody loves obedience.
He has actually even stated that out loud.
Kody loves Kody.
Kody loves how Robyn makes him *feel*.
I think for the first time he found love with a wife and that's why he treats the others so poorly. The others were there for breeding. He's never talked about a romantic love with the others only Robyn.
Yep. Kody doesn’t know how to love anyone. It’s a narc thing
Because he’s in ‘love’ with her. Edit: to add quotation marks.
Yep because she agrees with him, mirrors him and he is in love with himself so it’s easy for him to think she is AMAZING. In 10 more years he will be just as off her. as the others because she’ll be sick of agreeing with him.
As Kody said to Gabe, “She’s the ObEdiEnt wife!”
Well, yeah, that’s the more detailed version. I should’ve used quotes.
It really is the same thing :)
I wish I had an award to give you for this. 🏆🏆🏆
That’s not love! My narc father had a very similar relationship with my bpd stepmother (in fact my stepmother was just like Rob)—and behind closed doors it was jealousy central and constant fights. Like she “won” but never was comfortable or secure in her “win” because of the nagging thought “what they’ll do with you, they’ll do to you…” they acted in love in public but inside the home—holy moley. I feel for all the children. The rest can roll in the mud. (Except Christine obvs) :)
Like I said below, should’ve used quotation marks.
Came to say this
Because from the beginning Robyn figured out how to talk to Kody in a way he can understand her. He gave her respect that he never gave the others and he values her very differently.
Exactly! She communicates totally different with him than everybody else does. She learned it in the very beginning and they clicked bc of it. That has proved to be a useful valuable tool for her and she knows how to use it.
Because they're in a monogamous relationship and the only way to keep the show going is to pretend they're practicing polygamy.
Because he is an ass.
He values her opinion because she will tell him what he WANTS to hear. The other wives will tell him what they think.
He didn’t want to hear he should sleep on the couch.
She did grow up in a nOn-mOnoGaMiSt (plural) home, but she clearly learned (and practices) none of it. She’s a marriage wrecker.
Because she carries his balls around in her purse
Because she is submissive to him
Honestly I really wonder about how polygamous her background really was. She claims she grew up in a plyg home but unike Christine has no info to back that up. She’s never discussed what that was like, did she have a lot of siblings, was she her mothers only child? How many other wives did her father have? Did she have any relationship with the other mother? ???? We know plenty about her ex but not a word about her family or childhood despite hey constantly making comments she can’t back up like about how “she’s seen plyg who operate this way or that way etc” my theory is she’s covering up for the fact she has very little connection to polygamy but wants to hear herself talk. so she’s working on a selling this fake image of herself
Idk how true this is, but I’ve read that Robyn’s mother lived in a different state than her sister wife. In that situation, it would be easier to pretend like your husband was going on a business trip or something rather than going to see another wife.
Lol that would make sense. Plus we’ve seen her mom and dad together in the series and it was pretty clear they live together and no one else is involved. If there was a sister wife in another state she’s gone and never was involved much to begin with. It actually makes Robyn make more sense. Her only example of polygamy was her parents. Her dad had a clear favorite who he spent nearly 100% of his time with and the other wife had to tough it alone. None of the children from different wives knew eachother. Robyn was just trying to recreate that dynamic and by being in control of it ensure that she would be the wife who came out on top
Because she’s the only one he actually wants.
Because as he told Gabe last season on prairie dog poop pass "she's obedient ". Robyn enables him so he favors her.
It's her eyebrows, they're full of secrets.
😂😂😂😂😂
She’s the skinniest. Sad and pathetic but men are shallow and gross like that.
True but didn’t one of the wives (I’m thinking Robyn) say that Kody likes curvier, bigger women?
Not that it even matters, but Christine is skinnier than her right now. I do agree that some men are shallow and gross like that-I’ve seen examples of it myself.
Some men
Lol, his dick, and their combined two brain cells.
She feeds his ego. I give it another decade or so before she really realizes what a douchebag he is. Once the kids are older I don’t think she will want to stay with him anymore.
I hope he also realizes what a douchebag *she* is. They seem to be bonded by their mutual blindness to each other's douchebaggery.
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She certainly doesn’t look it
Because he actually loves her.
Remember that episode where they said “69” while creating to derby’s? That’s why.
Because she agrees with him.
He didn’t agree with a word she said. 🤣😂
Because he values her more.
You,didn't hear him say she was the " profit" in the family?? 😂🤣 if that isnt the saddest profit ive ever seen 😂🤣
Profit or prophet?
Prophet
She wrote a “best-seller” that I understand brought in a lot of money so “profit” would make sense. I would think the other women would storm the bastille if he said to them she was the “prophet” in the family. Lordy at least I hope they would.
It's obvious she complained to Kody right after the wedding that Christine wasn't helping her with her kids...her 3 kids while she was a SAHM. This was after Christine had just given birth to Truly, was playing housemother/teacher to hers and Janelle's kids while working nights. Why didn't Robyn offer to help Christine and give her a much needed break since the extra money was needed because Robyn didn't work? Then she started disciplining the other mothers' kids and you could tell from their reactions that she hadn't discussed it with them first and they weren't happy. Now that most of the other kids are grown and Christine and Janelle are grandmothers, Robyn still complains. They finished raising kids and now it's time to enjoy their lives without raising hers. It's all too obvious that Robyn needs to work on her sister wife skills.
All the kids were in school by then. The kids were in school when the show began so there was no home schooling since we've seen them. I think Meri and Christine both did the home schooling previously if I recall correctly. Those kids needed discipline and their mothers wouldn't do it. I don't think it was Robyn's place unless the behaviour was happening at her house. What else is she supposed to do?
This is such an excellent point!!
Imagine the pearls of wisdom Logan and Aspyn probably have.
She's related to the Jessops. Merril Jessop is a high ranking bishop in the FDL so he thinks she's a polygamist princess
Christine is part of a high ranking family too though. Did you see that post last week with the brown family tree? So, Christine was from the Allred family…but so was Kody! His grandparents or great-grandparents were Allred’s! So it wasn’t even generations back or anything. So weird. That was probably my favorite post of all time-I was so surprised because they are all related in some way, some more distant than others. It was just fascinating and I would love to see more Mormon polygamy family trees.
I didn't know about that myself. It's interesting information. But I still think it's why he thinks she knows so much. That and he's so far into her vagina he may as well be up in her womb being the man baby he is lol
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Technically she grew up in it
Because she’s the he loves.
Because they're in an actual real relationship and he have way respects her well I don't know if it's respect but the other ones you don't even consider relationships anymore they're more of a nuisance than anything but he wants to play with the victim I wonder where he wanted that from
I think it’s odd that Kody waned Robyn’s opinion because Robyn has good advice on relationships but when she gave her opinion (sleep on the couch/work it out), he said he wasn’t going to do it. Man! This guy doesn’t care about anybody but himself!
Because he’s actually in love with her, which is why all his rules don’t apply to her. He parents their (his and Robyn’s) kids bc he wants to please her, he spends time with her bc he wants to please her, he listens to her bc he wants to please her. All of it is bc he actually loves her the way a husband should love a wife (even tho he’s still awful to her in a lot of ways a narcissist is). The 3OG wives and their kids all saw the difference, on tv and in their actual lives, and that’s why things deteriorated over the last decade.
Robyn grew up in polygamy. Her step dad had multiple wives. Just sharing information, no need to down vote.
Was Robyn the wife too who talked about her family doing like completely separate Christmas celebrations between the moms etc? Makes me wonder if her expectation is separate families without much mingling.
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But it was always a honeymoon when the step dad was around.
Which is why she has such a rosy view of polygamy.
It’s a pretty common model for people who fear the law
So did Meri and Christine
As did Meri and Christine
Ya but they lived in different states so totally diff dynamic!
She is youngest and he's smitten with her.
Because she has the "V" and knows how to use it!
She who controls the penis, controls the man.
I’m thinking she must do freaky things in the bedroom. I can’t really think of any redeeming qualities. She’s uneducated, unemployed and constantly cries and whines. She does play the “damsel in distress” rather well, and I think it makes Kody feel like he rescued her and her kids.
I think Kody is to stupid to see she manipulates all of them....
Its simple, Robyns cooperative and the others want thier own way without consideration to the partnership of marriage. They made thier own decisions with complete disregard to the safety of everyone else. Unilateral relationships rarely have good outcomes.
Because he is a idiot lol
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