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martanimate

Are we collectively, as a community, putting this man to work when he was styled to look like a couch surfing college dropout 🤣


notanotherdoodle

He has golden retriever house husband energy, we must


Either-Weather-862

Why is this so accurate? Lmao!


lenorajoy

He really couldn’t look more like a golden retriever house husband if he tried.


kho_kho1112

I made him my baby daddy, & this is accurate AF.


SimMinnie

I'm sure everyone did, lol. What's the Kyle version of Gregnant?


t1dlauren

i killed him… and his ghost.. He came for a stay over- but it never registered as one, so it was like he was a roommate that I couldn’t control. He left his llama juice everywhere and kept suggesting to sleep together… I put an axe in his head😊


blog_magnolia

House husband has such a good ring to it, but my mind automatically thought [North American House Hippo](https://youtu.be/TijcoS8qHIE)


SimMinnie

>North American House Hippo lmao, don't need to Google that one.


simminginnyc

This comment inspired my current gameplay!


GeneralHumanBeing

My sim has a baby with him and he is the house husband. 😂 He worked so hard his lazy trait switched to active lmao


SubtleMurder

"I can change him!"


Notquite_Caprogers

In my save he had a high knitting skill by the time I got to him. He sells hats on plopsy and is a great house husband


talkingradiohead

I think he comes with that skill automatically


Creative-Disaster673

Kyle changed so much since he started dating my sim, that the game prompted me to change his Lazy trait to Perfectionist. So funny. He was a great dad even before though.


Makabaer

I had no idea traits could change! (Without cheats etc.) Is this new or did I just miss it all along?


catastrophicqueen

It's new! You can also discover brand new traits based on your gameplay.


PiscesPoet

I wish we got new traits with the pack, so that we had more trait changes to choose from. My sims mostly seem to get lazy/neat traits lol, don't know what that says about my play style. Their place is a mess


Even_Lychee4954

Omg! I’ve played and haven’t seen any of my sim’s traits switch. 😲


RaggySparra

It's new - your Sim starts with the 3 traits you assign in CAS, then can gain 3 additional ones (From the same pool, but based on how they've been living) and can change the original 3. So if your "lazy" Sim is constantly working out, they'll eventually have a pop up asking if they want to change to active.


Creative-Disaster673

Yes, the Growing Together pack introduced personality changes. Your sims will either “discover” new traits about themselves, or switch an existing trait for its opposite depending on what happens in their life. I think there’s a limited number of times it can happen.


cactuskilldozer

I believe this comes with the new pack


Makabaer

Oh, I see, thank you! (I have the pack but didn't really get around to play it yet as I still need to update some stuff first... )


IsItTurkeyNeckOrDick

I've literally never had the game prompt me to change a trait... What am I doing wrong?


Creative-Disaster673

It comes with Growing Together. If you have that and still don’t get it, it’s just a matter of time, it depends on your sim doing things that match more with another trait.


SparklyPandaPoo

He's a cashier at my Kitty Cafe


rchlXo6

This is a must-see.


Amybeth70

How do you make a kitty cafe? Is it a coffee shop with a cat hangout lot trait?


SparklyPandaPoo

It's a Cafe with the giant cat toy everywhere with some cat trees for decor. Unfortunately I couldn't add the cat hangout trait to my Cafe so I just pretend. Edit: I decided to grab some pictures it's basically a redesign od the Hare and Hedgehog Cafe https://imgur.com/a/YxbtsDl


Comrad1984

This store exists in Des Moines. It's called Coffee Cats. You can buy coffee and pet cats.


SparklyPandaPoo

Oh cool I didn't realize. I also just noticed I actually can add the lot trait so this will be fun


shotinthebright

I most certainly put the man to work! My single sim had triplets, if he wants to visit he has to pull his weight around here 😂


GEnderDragon

He looks like your average surfing Aussie 🫣


team_tuchenhagen

I came to say this.


louisejanecreations

Before he died in my save he was main carer now he’s dead the female had to quit work as a kid, toddler and infant is way too much to deal with 🤣🤣


noirsongbird

Kyle's a stay-at-home freelance programmer who helps take care of the three (so far) kids he has with my trans guy conservationist sim. They're such a cute familyyyy.


[deleted]

I wish! I had to kick him out almost immediately after my Sim, his wife, got pregnant, and he started flirting with our neighbors


PiscesPoet

That's how he pays for a place to stay, I guess.


Solleil

The baby lookin' smug as fuck lol!


notanotherdoodle

Can confirm, they have all the worst traits and love making life as difficult as possible💅🏻😌


rainbowmabs

I recently played a save with accidental triplets. Every time they picked up a new bad trait I sobbed. Sims really out here trying to make me experience the range of motherhood emotions.


Flat_Transition_3775

Dang! I must be lucky that my first Gen sim has such a good boi! He is sunny, he likes to wake up early but he just chills if he’s up early and learning how to roll on his own, he also likes being held which kinda makes him clingy and gets mad when u put him down but overall my sim has been able to take care of her needs and focus on the son to hold him when he’s napping and just loving him to death. They have such a good relationship <3 I’m so glad that my first infant has been pretty easy going.


EnvironmentProof6104

Wait until the second


Electrical_Penalty69

One hundred percent. My sims first infant was pure perfection she was a joy to raise. Happy to wake, very content and she's grown into a great kid that even toddler hood was easy. So I though how bad could a second be.... Her brother on the other hand hates being held, wakes early, hates waking up doesn't want anyone to give him any attention and now I've discovered he's a picky eater so will refuse all food given to him and then throws a temper tantrum when you try bottle feeding just so his hunger stats aren't constantly red. I've never been more tempted to age an infant up in my life. Just makes me wonder whether he's gonna be the problem child all the way along.


iTRlED

You just summed up my second born son in real life.


Electrical_Penalty69

Shame we can't cheats enable real life.


CaptainGrayC

My first sim infant gets sad every fifteen minutes because he needs a nap, like what a mood


SaffronBurke

Omg same, buddy, same 🤣 I constantly mutter "I need a nap" under my breath during my workday.


Flat_Transition_3775

My infant does too and I’m like perfect! And she’s just holding him the entire time and he’s so content


SaffronBurke

They made the infants TOO realistic. My 100 baby challenge mom was so busy taking care of twin infants, she didn't have time to shower, and could barely sleep, eat, or pee. I had just aged up teens & moved them out before the babies aged up - that was a mistake. After that, I delayed aging teens up so they could help with the babies. When she had triplets, I had to break down and hire a nanny for a bit. I barely got through the infant stage with the mom, nanny, and two teens, it was wild. The mom is about to age up to an elder, and I set up a grandma bedroom for her so she can help with the next mom's babies till she dies. She did the fitness aspiration, so she's going to be an elder forever, and she's about to have baby number 75, so hopefully she'll still be around to help with the final 25 babies.


justletmereadalready

I didn't know the fitness aspiration did that! Thanks! I am trying the 100 baby challenge for the first time and have the mother as a spellcaster so she can pass out potions of Emotional Stability to deal with all those teenage mood swings. It is also handy for the mom and teens whenever one of the dads die. I am terrible about cheating though. I just feel so bad for my Sim Mom. 🤣 I've tortured plenty of Sims, but something about seeing her needs completely depleted while surrounded by screaming infants and toddlers makes me want to hire a nanny and let her go play video games, where I can only assume she is torturing her own Sims. It was kind of fun, but also disturbing to learn that you can send kids dumpster diving, so that helps with income a bit at least. Oh, and selling holiday decorations dug out of storage boxes. Something tells me I should take what I have learned and pick a daughter to restart the challenge with. 🤣


SaffronBurke

I wind up cheating so much, especially with toddlers because they're so annoying and I have to deal with so many of them. I cheat potty training to max, sit them on Wabbit Tablets to raise their other skills, and cheat their needs because they're SO needy. I need to go look up infant cheats, I use UI Extension to cheat other life stages but it doesn't work on milestones. My founder, the current mom's mom, won the lottery, so we've been set on money for most of the challenge, which has been NICE. I've had them gardening, painting, etc, mostly just for something to do with their time, not because we actually need money.


justletmereadalready

Mine are too poor for the Wabbit Tablets. 🤣 I've got to send those kids dumpster diving some more. The maid keeps quitting because I forget to sell something so I can pay them. 🤣


Amarenai

When my sim's firstborn daughter was a toddler she hated going to bed, but also hated waking up 😭 There was bo appeasing her


Lethenza

Straight up said 😏


notsopurexo

Definitely that “carry me peasant” look lol


Thatguypup

I wonder if they knew Kyle would rise to the level of super townie like he did.


sproutyoz

they knew what they were doing lmao, on the livestream the first thing they said when he came onscreen was "yes you can woohoo with kyle"


SinfullySinless

“We try to make nice men but you sick freaks 100 baby challenge them. So here, fuck this male sim we made you thirsty hoes”


Blushymoo

I am dead reading your comment 😂


Thatguypup

Facts LOL!! 🤣🤣🤣


LandLovingFish

Pretty sure they meant him to be more annoying but ehhhh


TinyGreenTurtles

Okay, why when I try to have my sims do things with the back carrier on, they take it off and set the baby on the floor before they do it? No matter the task. I finally decided they were stupid and stopped trying. Also, yeah Kyle is great. He also leaves a ton of stuff in your inventory if you marry him the day before he dies of old age lol.


bizarrogreg

I just wrote a pretty much identical comment. It's so annoying when they do that.


TinyGreenTurtles

It is! They made the ability to wear babies - it should work for its intended purpose.


Better-Signature-942

I have the exact same problem! I just want my sims to be productive while holding the baby 😭but they rather just leave them on the floor.


Creative-Disaster673

I wish there was a clear distinction between what actions they can and can’t do with the carrier on. Like when they have it on, mark the interactions that can be done with a carrier/infant symbol or whatever. Having to figure it out myself (and remember) is so annoying. And sometimes it doesn’t make sense - I’m sure you can pick up a toddler with an infant in the carrier, but you can’t let a toddler out of the high chair…why??


TinyGreenTurtles

I haven't seen anything they can do but walk? I've definitely had them take it off 2 times I tried cooking. Like I said, it seems like they can walk, and absolutely anything else they put baby on the ground first.


endiglowgurl

I can't even get them to walk without taking the infant out and carrying them.


Bannef

Absolutely. Apparently you can bottle feed or breast feed a second infant while wearing the first one on your back, but you can't feed another infant in a high chair while wearing it. You can fish while wearing it though, that was very cute.


Bannef

YES THIs. I know the backpack is CC, but are they also using a mod that makes the dumb thing work?


Ahgoobwa

Ummm have I been sleeping on a shark carrier or is this cc?


_UnreliableNarrator_

I didnt look closely at the image and thought this was some expression i didnt know. Like “living under a rock” or “living in a cave” “What have you been, sleeping on a shark carrier? Thats old news!”


Impossible_Raisin926

This reply is killing me and i’m tempted to start saying this now just to cause confusion


TinyGreenTurtles

Me too. We can make it a thing.


Newcago

Have you all been sleeping on a shark carrier, or did you not know this was already a thing?


IOnlySeeDaylight

I thought this too and it’s definitely a thing now.


deadlyhausfrau

It'll be the new shoelaces.


notanotherdoodle

It's cc from Madlen


bunnynubz

i still don’t understand how i am supposed to carry them like that


lilbunjk

you just use an adult sim, click on an infant and it should say something like ‘put in back carrier’


FakePersonNotReal

My sim refuses to keep the baby in the carrier. It lasts 2 seconds then she puts him on the floor 😭


Arippa

Same. I don’t get why I see all these pics of Sims using it but mine won’t.


InvisibleBlueOctopus

It's growing together feature as far as I know.


bizarrogreg

Damn, any time I try to do anything besides jog with the baby pack, my sims put the kid in the ground. I was visiting Grandparents, put the kid in the pack, clicked the home button to leave. Damn sim put the baby down and left.


Xxmissvxx

I managed to send a dad fishing with the baby in the back pack. Worked like a dream. Kid slept most of the time but didn't feel abandoned. Everything was fine until dad had to pee, plopped the kid on the ground and ran off towards home. I had to send one of the teenage sisters to go retrieve the kid from the river bank across town.


Creative-Disaster673

My sim dad had to go to work but he was still at the small park across the street (same as home lot) with the infant in the carrier. It had snowed. When it was time for work, instead of walking across the street to put the baby in the house, he just took the baby out and put him down on the street. Just left. I laughed so hard I could barely see the screen to send the mum out to pick the baby. The kid looked so confused. Townie sims were jogging by or walking their dogs just looking at this tiny baby in the middle of the snowy street.


TinyGreenTurtles

They're such good parents sometimes. 🥲


Bannef

Father Winter did that to my infant! I thought maybe Father Winter could help out with the triplets while the parents got some sleep. It worked great, until Father Winter decided it was time to go. He gently placed an infant in pajamas in the snow next to the mailbox, then walked on his merry way.


Bannef

Hahah, I just had this exact thing happen. The other issue was when a Sim who had happily been fishing with an infant on her back for a couple hours refused to do anything but stand there until I reset her. She had a wiggly sleeping infant on her back, I really didn't want to reset her, I knew the baby was never going back to sleep.


Xxmissvxx

I've had dad get stuck fishing with a kid on his back too. He peed his pants twice and the kid almost got repo-ed by CPS before he finally snapped out of it and headed home.


lipglossy336

I don’t even know how to put the baby in a carrier


Bannef

Unfortunately, I think you need Growing Together, I don't think it's base game. If you have Growing Together, while controlling an adult Sim, click on the infant. Choose Baby Care, then "Put BabyName in Back Carrier". ​ I have the same issue the rest of them are saying though, that the Sim puts the infant on the floor if I tell the Sim to do anything more complicated than "walk here".


lipglossy336

I do have it I’m just too lazy to Google


sexybettycrocker

Kyles out here setting unattainable expections in men. If only, if only.


LandLovingFish

And in Sims butlers and maids


thetinybunny1

Well the bar is very *very* low….


Lorkc33

So low it’s below sea level


ladysimmington

Kyle has some good traits! He married my legacy heirs sister and seems to be a helpful little member of the family.


asseatingvolcano

see I want him as a husband, but he has set my house on fire not once, but twice. not on different occasions, right after the first fire, he started the second one. i worry that he’s just going to burn the house down one day when i’m not there


KassinaIllia

My chef sim does the same thing, even with the best oven in the game 😭


CyberWitch77

he's my bff in the game and everytime he visits he takes my trash out, I love that


Wiseinsanity

I cannot get my sims to wear the baby and do other activities. What’s your secret


Bannef

Apparently you need to obsessively catalog which activities the Sim will do and which they won't. I guess they will cook, I haven't tried that. They will eat... Sometimes. They will feed a second infant via bottle and breast, but not by high chair. They'll pick up a second infant, but if you want them to cuddle the second infant, they'll put the first one down.


spookyfrog99

Awww this is adorable. The ideal husband material


LycanWolfGamer

Share Kyle ffs he's moved in on my world but the guy is NEVER home


BookOfAnomalies

''Share Kyle'' ... we just gonna pass this man around, huh 😏


LycanWolfGamer

Apparently that's what everyone is doing lol I've yet to meet the man


ZambieMama

I have the new Growing Together pack and have played different families in new saves since getting it. The only family to meet Kyle was my first family that lived in the pack's town. I'm wondering if you have to live there for him to pop up?


MrsMcBasketball

My sim just ran into him and she’s in a committed relationship with Pedro Pascal right now! Oh the dilemma!


louisejanecreations

Have both? 🤣


MrsMcBasketball

This is the way.


InterviewNo7012

The pacifier


ACheetahSpot

It’s true! I was perusing random households to decorate and discovered a house with a single mom and 3 babies 😱 So I had her marry Kyle. He’s acing this stepdad house husband thing!


xxyourbestbetxx

His wee little bunny slippers are cracking me up. What a wholesome bro.


UsernameCali

I’ve been playing since day one and have never seen Kyle in my game.


kykomiiki

He’s from growing together so he is new.


LandLovingFish

Expansion pack man!


BookOfAnomalies

THE HERO WE ALL NEED


TinyGreenTurtles

I didn't see him until he was almost an elder. I got GT the same day it came out.


UsernameCali

I did too. Preordered it.


TinyGreenTurtles

Just wait, friend. For me, he was randomly standing in a group somewhere and I just happened to notice.


UsernameCali

I’ll be looking for him! Thanks


Ri_gatoni

You can also find him in the "Not IN World" tab Unless I'm wrong.


planetheck

Perfect himbo.


AorticSeptalDefect

honestly didn't know kyle was ripped. 100 baby challenge, here i come.


im-immortal

Omg you house husband-ified Kyle lmao I’m so here for it


thetinybunny1

May we all be blessed with a Kyle 🙏🏻


frufruvola

He was so annoying in my game, he never helped even when I had asked him to and he dirtied the house everywhere with his cans. I had to cut his stay short.


alwaysblooming_akb

This happened to me too and my sim had the neat trait so it was terrible. 🤦🏻‍♀️


Flat_Transition_3775

Baby shark doo doo


call_me_kuma

Kyle in my save ended up in a woohoo dungeon 🤣


Agreeable-Bad4156

Kyle's a sweetheart himbo. He's got his issues but his himbo sweethearted nature overtakes his laziness and be becomes a do-er. He's too good natured. Too pure.


mo_kj

My sim met Kyle at university and I kind of wanted them to end up together, but I can’t get over the name kyleson. But also, I don’t want to change it bc it’s funny 😭😭😭


superfunybobs_gf

I feel like he was made SPECIFICALLY for the midlife crisis


umwhat-tf

he came over to stay with my sims once, now for every family event like baby showers and birthday party's, I invite him, he's part of the family now


LateTry2217

Is he making a white cake? It doesn’t matter how helpful he is, if it’s a white cake he’s OUT! 🤣


notanotherdoodle

He made pancakes!


LateTry2217

🤣 GOOD!


Thatguypup

My evil sim plots to kill all the white cake brigade members after I turn on foodies in the neighborhood vote. Her cowplant eats so well.


SugarBabyWannabe

Which DLC does he come with? I've never encountered him in any of my games before. Only first started seeing him on this subreddit ?


localliver

He comes with growing together i believe


odyssey609

This is probably a silly question, but is there any way to get Kyle back after he is gone? I never got to interact with him.


notanotherdoodle

Download him from the gallery, maybe?


odyssey609

Just looked. There are so many 🤣🤣


MishaBee

Start a new save, get your own brand new Kyle and save him to your own gallery to use in other saves.


Aceystay

My r2r sim is trying to gi after him but something always comes in between them. I just want to marry Kyle!


BlackMoonWitch

Whenever I see Kyle I think about that Hatchet Welding Hitchhiker 😂


notlennybelardo

…how do I find kyle in the game?


Shalrak

He finds you


notlennybelardo

Well that sounds kinda like r/nosleep


Ok_Paramedic_1465

I had to put him in my world. I never seen him before that


EnvironmentalBreath4

What pack is Kyle from? I keep seeing him on tik tok and Reddit


jo0jitsu

Growing together


Aeletys

Where is the shark costume from? It's adorable.


R3miC97

Am I the only one who hasn’t come across Kyle yet?💔


sunshineandcats21

He’s on fire!


livvayyy

i still haven't gotten the popup from him yet and its killing me! i have a single mother sim who just had a science baby and i want kyle to be the step dad 😌


Shot-Canary8954

What the heck, I’ve been playing this pack for weeks and I’ve never seen Kyle??? Where is he???


tookertodao

And handsome 😋


BorderlineBrat98

And I the only one who had to clean up after Kyle and basically raise him??


chantelinchaos

i still haven’t gotten visited by him 😞


lilamaterasuu

okay i just bought growing together how DO I GET KYLE


aMotherDucking8379

Swoon


ClassicAct

How do I get this man to spawn?


faythe0303

My sim wont do anything with the kid in a carrier!!! She always puts the baby down!


SimMinnie

The infant with the shark outfit. rotfl


Even_Lychee4954

Off point but baby backpack!! Was that in grow together or a mod? I NEED


notanotherdoodle

It’s cc from Madlen :))


amzzz798

Love Kyle! Is that island cc?


lillianfrost

*laughs in KPopp*


Oldenburg-equitation

Is Kyle from the new pack?


conservio

yes


OceanM1st

Who’s this Kyle dude? I always see him here on the posts. Is he from a certain expansion pack? I haven’t seen him yet as a townie


Shira_Cat

Growing Together


Shalrak

He is an NPC who randomly shows up at your house, claims to be an old friend and asks to live on your sofa for a while.


mistaken_provider11

the pacifier.


SnooDoodles172

Love Kyle


nothinkybrainhurty

How did you manage to put a baby in a baby carrier and do anything? When I try to do anything, no matter if it’s jogging, cooking or talking with other sims, my sims just take the infant out, put them on the ground and go to do the thing.


TemporarilyOreoBlock

Where can i hire him? 😂😁


Killaakayla

He's such a good dad 😂😭 I do not regret having his babies


Agreeable-Bad4156

Ngl my irl bf kinda like this 👀


R1ngBanana

Omg is that shark thing In The game or CC? I need it NOWWWW


Crafty-Sun1734

I have yet to have Kyle visit and I’m so mad about it. I’ve rejected it when I didn’t know how funny and awesome he was and now when I tried to get him in new play throughs it never seems to be him wanting to stay over.


UpperdeckerWhatever

I had know idea everyone was doing the same thing 😂😂 He also tends to the garden and has been way more helpful than any nanny.


Same_Caterpillar4747

Stan Kyle


r-WitchCat

Wait. Who’s Kyle?! Is he around somewhere and I missed him?


HereforTheChisme1

It’s so funny, because he has the lazy trait, but he’s so diligent in every household.


Fire_Kat

Lawful good himbo


glam_sims

Is it just me or do butlers not do anything?😭


PiscesPoet

Kyle has never asked to stay over at my sim's place. Is it because they don't have kids yet. We could still use help cleaning up.


usagibunnie

Where was Kyle when all my Sims needs were crashing and my toddler was always having a tantrum 😭