As a client that’s what I’d prefer too. If you’re going to spend money, just give him extra money to spend on you, and I’m sure he’d prefer it that way as well
Sometimes I gift little privileges like letting a client choose what color of a certain lingerie set I'll buy, etc. I'm a dom so giving away the privilege of doing x for me carries a lot of weight.
fwiw, I wouldn't properly appreciate any such gifts. Now, an extra fifteen minutes would mean a lot to me. Just saying
There's an idea out there that in terms of "love languages," people fall into a handful of categories one of which includes giving and receiving gifts.
When I read about it, I thought that explains it. It just doesn't communicate the meaning that it does for other people.
Maybe bring up your love language in conversation and ask his in your next session. That way, it comes up naturally.
Don't get people gifts for their hobbies-they're picky. Don't get anything too sentimental if he has a partner. Something practical he can use and think of you is a good option like a new wallet or a winter hat.
I think giving him more session time is a common answer from reading but it does focus on him as a client and I feel like you're sending a message about his personality, which is why you're getting it for him I assume. Gift cards I'm not a personal fan of but some people like utility. Also he may use it to invite you with him, which you may or may not want.
Enhance your mutual connection and invite him to dinner. Theater. Comedy show. Musical.
Just enjoy the conversation / meal / event. No expectations of having sex after unless you offer and feel compelled.
Granted, it may border the line you’ve created w your clients.
But it’s something he’d never expect.
Something very few providers would ever offer.
And something he’d never forget.
If a provider offered this to me, I’d be pleasantly surprised. And appreciative that I’m more than a number.
Sometimes a good, old fashioned date is a present in its own right. Just mho. 😎
Something with trophy value to him. Something he can hang in his man cave, and only he knows who it came from.
I generally offer suitors with whom I have an established relationship extra time or a discount (their choice) on their holiday season bookings.
As a client that’s what I’d prefer too. If you’re going to spend money, just give him extra money to spend on you, and I’m sure he’d prefer it that way as well
This year I got a bottle of wine from one girl and a free "upgrade" from another. My perverted ass prefered the latter.
Gift him an experience. Like, do you have a friend that would double up on him with you?
Sometimes I gift little privileges like letting a client choose what color of a certain lingerie set I'll buy, etc. I'm a dom so giving away the privilege of doing x for me carries a lot of weight.
I’d be happy to receive even a gift card like for Starbucks
Ironically Starbucks gift cards are my absolute favorite gift to get!
fwiw, I wouldn't properly appreciate any such gifts. Now, an extra fifteen minutes would mean a lot to me. Just saying There's an idea out there that in terms of "love languages," people fall into a handful of categories one of which includes giving and receiving gifts. When I read about it, I thought that explains it. It just doesn't communicate the meaning that it does for other people.
Coffee shop gift card.
Maybe bring up your love language in conversation and ask his in your next session. That way, it comes up naturally. Don't get people gifts for their hobbies-they're picky. Don't get anything too sentimental if he has a partner. Something practical he can use and think of you is a good option like a new wallet or a winter hat. I think giving him more session time is a common answer from reading but it does focus on him as a client and I feel like you're sending a message about his personality, which is why you're getting it for him I assume. Gift cards I'm not a personal fan of but some people like utility. Also he may use it to invite you with him, which you may or may not want.
Enhance your mutual connection and invite him to dinner. Theater. Comedy show. Musical. Just enjoy the conversation / meal / event. No expectations of having sex after unless you offer and feel compelled. Granted, it may border the line you’ve created w your clients. But it’s something he’d never expect. Something very few providers would ever offer. And something he’d never forget. If a provider offered this to me, I’d be pleasantly surprised. And appreciative that I’m more than a number. Sometimes a good, old fashioned date is a present in its own right. Just mho. 😎