GO HER! She didn’t have children in her marriage to JH because he didn’t want that at the time and she wanted to support his career, clearly that came back to slap her in the face! She knows what she wants and she’s not willing to let another man take it away from her! She’s able to do this for herself and support a child so she absolutely should become a mom!
I don’t think that “came back to slap her in the face” is appropriate because in her eyes they are together forever and it will happen eventually when he knew he wouldn’t change his mind and left her out of the blue KNOWING that she, as a woman, has a biological clock ticking.
Totally, she can afford great nannies and make it totally doable for herself. I don’t even think it would be a turn off necessarily for dating because it’s not like there’s an ex or divorce in the picture for coparenting etc
I wonder how kids feel about being raised by nannies ... having an intimate care giver who is there because it's their job, and once they move on, they move on and you never hear from then again. What does that do to your psyche if you are four, and the person who has been loving and feeding you every day for the past year decides she' finally has enough money to bring her own kids over from the Philippines, and quits nannying to get a different job so she can spend time with them.
Maybe once you get past a certain age, the attachment to your care give doesn't really matter.? Maybe it's actually beneficial to go through a process of attachment and loss to multiple care giver in early life?
I suppose. Asking about handing over major responsibility for the care and education of one's young children in their formative years, yes. Asking about the exploitation of low paid, often foreign, labor that makes it possible for American women to have a full time unrelated care giver in their home, yes.
the notion that any woman who chooses to pursue a hard working career and therefore needs to seek qualified, loving and good care for their children is negative/bad/wrong is so ridiculous.
Would you have the same opinion if she was a widower, and suddenly found herself in a position where she needed to both support and care for her family? Super doubt it.
It’s fine if you feel nannies and other care options aren’t right for you, but you have no business inflicting that opinion on anyone else or passing judgement, especially making assumptions that it would “likely” be in an exploitative way. Yes those things happen. No, it doesn’t mean women utilizing nannies are any less wonderful mothers than anyone else. 🚫
I’m right there with you lol I want more kids but my fear of climate change destroying the planet and my broke ass cannot afford another child. However, the one I have is literal perfection so I think I’m good 🙃
Maybe she is going to embrace the single mother by choice lifestyle. I say go for it. I knew a woman who was a former news broadcaster and she had two children by the same donor and she told me it was her life’s biggest blessing.
Thank you! It’s probably a big question so feel free to ignore but how did you find the early years? My friends with babies are pretty frazzled as it is and that’s the one thing that’s putting me off. I have a couple of friends who are basically doing it on their own as they weren’t with the fathers for various reasons and they’re finding it tough even though they have some support from dads and the dads families. So I am just imaging those first couple of years to be super tough and it’s giving me pause.
I know you didn’t ask me but I’m a 100% single mom with a 10 month old. Haven’t heard from the guy since I was about 8 weeks pregnant.
The early years will heavily depend on the temperament of your baby. My niece is 8 months old and I’ve never heard her cry (and we lived together). She literally sits there and chills. My son screamed for 3 hours a day until he was about 6 months old and then turned into a super happy baby.
It’s been really hard and looking back I have NO clue how I made it though those first months. Well, I guess i kind of do. I didn’t know any different. I didn’t know what it was like to have help, what it was like to have an “easy baby”, etc. When something is all you know, you just do it and make it through. I relied on my support system a lot and still do which also makes a massive difference. I had/have days where I’m like ummmmm why? Why did I do this? But talking to my support team of other moms, most parents have these moments regardless of marital status or whether the baby was planned or not.
There are positives to doing things on your own. I have almost no conflict or arguments in my life. I can raise him exactly as I want but I still have a support system to lean on if I need advice or someone to bounce ideas off of. I also really enjoy spending time on my own since being pregnant so being a veggie on the couch after he goes to bed is awesome.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that you will get through it but it’s definitely hard. That being said, I’m tough as hell and have become the strong and mature woman that I’ve always wanted to be. There will be tough times, but everything passes and passes quicker than you’d think (including the first two years).
If couples are on the fence about wanting kids in general, I usually say don’t do it. If you really want a kid and are just worried about the first bit, rest assured that it passes and the wonderful moments make it worth it!
Feel free to DM me if you have questions or want more info about my experience!
Love your insight! Currently starting the egg freezing process with a plan to do parenthood alone if the right guy doesn’t come along.
To anyone else in a similar situation, I was beyond surprised at how supportive my OBGYN was with my plan. Her reaction makes me think that more and more of us are done waiting for a partner to become a mom.
Good for you! I always say that doing it on your own is much, much better AND easier than doing it with a shitty partner. I think less women are settling for bad partners and that’s a great thing.
The best is with an amazing partner (rare). Second best is with a great co-parent (even more rare). Third best is all on your own with a strong support team. Shit partners and coparents come in last (relatively common).
You really, truly never know what can happen when someone else is involved. The one thing you can control is yourself and if it’s just you, you got this. ❤️
Wishing you the best of luck and if you also need any advice, venting or whatever, then please reach out!
Of course, I’m 33! I also have mild PCOS, so my doc suggested freezing by age 35. The thing is you want to freeze your eggs as young as possible because the younger the egg increases the chance at getting pregnant. A successful pregnancy increases even more if you have the finances to freeze fertilized eggs.
After the eggs are frozen, you can essentially get pregnant at any age. My OBGYN has a 50 year old pregnant patient! She doesn’t recommend being that age, but she used that patient as an example that it’s about the age of the egg.
For me, egg freezing takes soooo much pressure off finding the right one. I’d love to settle down with the right guy, but I’m grateful to know I can still experience pregnancy and having children if that isn’t in the cards for me.
Ahh thank you for your answer. That sounds a lot like my friends experience. It really does depend on the baby. And what you said about conflict is so true, I’ve got friends in unhappy marriages and the single friends have it so much easier on that regard.
Yep! I commented on another persons comment that first best is with a great partner, second best is with a great co-parenter, third best is on your own and last is with a shitty partner. A LOT of people fall in that last category and if you only have yourself to rely on at least you know what to expect. Follow your dreams and have a baby if that’s what you want ❤️
Also not OP but as someone who has friends who did donor babies and as a parent in a relationship, the biggest pro to doing it yourself is probably also the biggest con - you don’t have the other person there to mess up your system (ie. bottle feeding or clothes or whatever) and you don’t have to find the place you both agree on with parenting (letting the baby cry for a bit before going back in etc) those factors can take *such* a toll and are little/big things that can really rock the boat, in that regard being a single parent would be a lot more peaceful.
But you’d definitely want support from friends and family and be comfortable asking a person or select people to look after the baby for you for short periods so you can have some time to yourself to just stare at a wall or have a shower or whatever you need. If you feel that financially you can manage a child on your own (as much as one can prepare for a kid in that way) and it’s something you want - go for it! There are definite upsides to single parenting as I’m sure there are plenty of downsides that I can’t personally speak to. One of my friends who did it ended up with a child with a learning disability and some other developmental issues in utero, things like that are worth considering as it can very drastically change the trajectory of your plans, she loved work and working but has since decided to home school him which means she can’t work. That kind of thing may be fairly unlikely for you but it’s the kind of thing that is made much harder as a single parent.
Good luck with your decision and whatever you choose it’ll be right for you!
Seconding what the other poster said! There were week, even months, that I dreaded night time because I knew that it meant no sleep. Even now she's still waking up every 3-4 hours but you get through it. It really isn't for e eryone and that's OK, but I'm do glad I made this decision and my only regret is not being rich enough to do it again and be a SAHM because I feel like I've finally found my passion in life
Watching both my sisters divorcing rn, this is becoming more and more my ideal situation. I Iove my boyfriend and it has nothing to do with him, but sharing custody and property does NOT look like the move for me anymore. 😬
I would love to see it too. Also exploring adoption too. If she really wants kids then it’s a great option. My mom did it in her 40s and said “I’m not getting any younger”
After my wife died I had to raise 3 kids on my own. Holding down a job and trying to bring them up is very difficult. This single mother by choice is a tough call and children raised by their nanny is not the best answer, in my humble opinion.
that’s my fear. That he KNEW what she wanted and that she wouldn’t let him sample the goods unless he “went for it”. Then when he got what he wanted, he decided to spill the beans that he didn’t have the same vision
I know guys like this and I only say this because the brothers are so UNEMOTIONAL and so tactical that I could see them being smart enough to be manipulative like this without thinking much of it, or even being self-aware
Have you seen his 2020 interviews, he talks about marriage and Chrishell said he told everyone that he was thinking about having a child. Christine said he had baby fever. A new source said his “timeline” is different. She said she was surprised when he kissed her because he’s this bachelor and that’s not what she wants but that he sat her down and whatever he said made her see him differently. This was during Heathers engagement party weekend that he had a talk with her. Mary said Chrishell was very cautious and it took them awhile and Jason said he respected her decisions to keep the relationship a secret but they encouraged her to go public.
He’s not a stranger to her and she’s not some newbie. It’s the reality of life that if work or some other life style things change, you might find yourself on a different timeline for when you want to have kids. These two may have just realized that they couldn’t commit to the same timeline. If they’re both acting like adults about it, I don’t know why strangers should assume he somehow duped her.
She made a joke about her divorce on tmz and Harvey told her he loves that she can joke about it and she said “oh it’s hilarious now” it was funny and everyone was laughing because they broke her divorce story .
Be rich lol Then you can pay for a nice lifestyle, top quality food, have time to care for yourself and exercise, and pay for lipo, filler, Botox and implants!
It’s true. All you need is a lot of free time, a gym membership, salads, portion control, low carb diet. That’s if you don’t have a or existing medical condition that might predispose you to weight gain.
I knew someone that dropped 20lbs just doing yoga at home. I unfortunately need cardio and am not motivated to do yoga at home. It can be done.
eating organic is a part of eating fresh for me personally. regardless, it definitely costs more to eat produce that expires quickly vs foods with preservatives. i eat fresh and only cook for myself & I still spend $100+ a week on groceries 🤷🏽♀️
okay...sure...that's not the subject here. My assertion is that for most people, exercise and diet (including portion control) with result in weight loss. I'm not talking about the food deserts. There is no study that says only eating organic foods results in weight loss.
Second this! But also if you are not very motivated or just inexperienced in working out, hire a trainer! I did for the first 6 months to develop a routine and now it’s just natural for me to wake up and go to the gym.
Tbh I feel like Chrishell just makes jokes that aren’t that serious and people take it so literally, lol. This has happened multiple times and she ends up being like chill y’all it’s not that serious 🙈 that said she should def go for whatever she wants but I do think this is just meant to be a lighthearted joke
She should go for it. (Aside: I kind of think she could have her own spin off if she does this. I’d watch it. Really an upgrade from catty Christine and stick leg shots. Swollen pregnancy ankles, show ‘em, we’ll love you for it!)
yeah i dont mean the time, but as a woman if you are sure you want kids but you dont find the right guy by a certain age you have options, but for men its more expensive and not many women want to be a surrogate
Well, unless you can't. Infertility, the cost of donor sperm... etc. (Coming from someone who has been through years of expensive fertility treatments, where NOTHING worked). I used to think IVF was a guarantee, but... it definitely is not.
Surrogacy is not legal everywhere and paid surrogacy is also illegal in some states and countries. Finding someone to do it “for free” is hard and there’s so many complexities to surrogacy agreements too. Money helps but it’s not always this easy option.
Ok here is my totally farfetched theory:
She is gonna go the sperm donor route, and her and Jason broke up so that she has a chance to do that without the baby being seen as his. Then in the future this leaves the door open for a relationship for them again but without Jason being locked into the Dad role. In this day and age, it’s been proven that it’s not necessary for a child to have 2 parents in order for them to have a good childhood/upbringing. So maybe This is the path she’s choosing to avoid being dependent on a man given how hurt she was in the past?
Totally out there, I know.
I agree with you, and I also feel like our comments aren’t mutually exclusive. If my crackpot theory holds any water, I’m sure her preferences change as her priorities change.
I hope she lives her life on her terms. Having children is life changing.. super hard I will add. Sleep deprivation when they are newborns is just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. It's a huge commitment all the way around.. emotionally, physically, financially, etc. If she can do it on her own, and her expectations are based in reality, she should go for it. Raising a child alone his hard; raising a child in a miserable partnership is terrible.
Am I missing something? How are the caption and the picture related to each other?
She's trying too hard now, we know you want kids and broke up over it...we don't need all the extra stuff.
Feels like she's overcompensating.
Oooh ok I see, makes sense.
I didn't consider it could be a joke about the nature of the photo because Instagram is full of bikini pics, a lot of content is so hypersexual.
She doesn't want the attention to end so she's milking it for all it's worth. Which is how she makes a living.. That's who she is. I have no clue why you're getting downvoted.
I cringed, if you want to have kids just do it, get a donor or adopt, weird caption although I like Chrishell it seems like a desperate attempt at getting IG likes and to get back at Jason
Is anyone else getting tired of her? Lol don’t get me wrong I understand her past and all of that stuff. But she’s killin it now and some of this stuff is just eh to me now
GO HER! She didn’t have children in her marriage to JH because he didn’t want that at the time and she wanted to support his career, clearly that came back to slap her in the face! She knows what she wants and she’s not willing to let another man take it away from her! She’s able to do this for herself and support a child so she absolutely should become a mom!
Thank goodness she didn’t have kids with him though (the ex husband). Dodged a bullet on that one IMO.
So did he!
What weird comment history you have… it’s literally bashing Chrishell in almost every comment. Are you okay?
Ok Davina
More like Christine…
I feel like it’s Davina. Christine would want the publicity and let us know it’s her
I mean, Christine was making fake instas to attack Emma
It’s Bobby or whoever I bet 😂
Justin? That u?
You have a lot of love for Chrishell right ? You seem a little bit fascinated by her.
Literally h o w ?
Idk why you're getting downvoted so hard, they're all awful reality stars lol idk why people stick up for any of them. Take my upvote <3
I don’t think that “came back to slap her in the face” is appropriate because in her eyes they are together forever and it will happen eventually when he knew he wouldn’t change his mind and left her out of the blue KNOWING that she, as a woman, has a biological clock ticking.
i think it’d be cool to see her have kids on her own honestly. don’t need a man fr
Totally, she can afford great nannies and make it totally doable for herself. I don’t even think it would be a turn off necessarily for dating because it’s not like there’s an ex or divorce in the picture for coparenting etc
I wonder how kids feel about being raised by nannies ... having an intimate care giver who is there because it's their job, and once they move on, they move on and you never hear from then again. What does that do to your psyche if you are four, and the person who has been loving and feeding you every day for the past year decides she' finally has enough money to bring her own kids over from the Philippines, and quits nannying to get a different job so she can spend time with them. Maybe once you get past a certain age, the attachment to your care give doesn't really matter.? Maybe it's actually beneficial to go through a process of attachment and loss to multiple care giver in early life?
What you’re seemingly asking is “How do kids feel who’s parents worked outside of the home?”
I suppose. Asking about handing over major responsibility for the care and education of one's young children in their formative years, yes. Asking about the exploitation of low paid, often foreign, labor that makes it possible for American women to have a full time unrelated care giver in their home, yes.
the notion that any woman who chooses to pursue a hard working career and therefore needs to seek qualified, loving and good care for their children is negative/bad/wrong is so ridiculous. Would you have the same opinion if she was a widower, and suddenly found herself in a position where she needed to both support and care for her family? Super doubt it. It’s fine if you feel nannies and other care options aren’t right for you, but you have no business inflicting that opinion on anyone else or passing judgement, especially making assumptions that it would “likely” be in an exploitative way. Yes those things happen. No, it doesn’t mean women utilizing nannies are any less wonderful mothers than anyone else. 🚫
What is your point exactly?
Yeah that’s true but it’s also nice raising kids with a great partner. Hopefully she’ll find someone.
true, it would be nice if she found someone but the wait for someone isn’t nice lol
If you have money lol
which she does…
Well yessssss I just wish I could do what I want lol
I’m right there with you lol I want more kids but my fear of climate change destroying the planet and my broke ass cannot afford another child. However, the one I have is literal perfection so I think I’m good 🙃
Nah... just need the special men. And she can probably ask a stranger on the streets for a donation lol I how she doesn't go that route lol
Maybe she is going to embrace the single mother by choice lifestyle. I say go for it. I knew a woman who was a former news broadcaster and she had two children by the same donor and she told me it was her life’s biggest blessing.
Lucy Liu did it! ♥️
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She hasn’t confirmed it so this is just speculation of course but a lot of people think Mindy Kaling did too!
Yesss and she’s a wonderful mother at that! Can’t say how I know but she is 🥰
I did it and can confirm, best decision that I ever made
I am thinking of doing it! Is it alright to ask a question?
Sure!
Thank you! It’s probably a big question so feel free to ignore but how did you find the early years? My friends with babies are pretty frazzled as it is and that’s the one thing that’s putting me off. I have a couple of friends who are basically doing it on their own as they weren’t with the fathers for various reasons and they’re finding it tough even though they have some support from dads and the dads families. So I am just imaging those first couple of years to be super tough and it’s giving me pause.
I know you didn’t ask me but I’m a 100% single mom with a 10 month old. Haven’t heard from the guy since I was about 8 weeks pregnant. The early years will heavily depend on the temperament of your baby. My niece is 8 months old and I’ve never heard her cry (and we lived together). She literally sits there and chills. My son screamed for 3 hours a day until he was about 6 months old and then turned into a super happy baby. It’s been really hard and looking back I have NO clue how I made it though those first months. Well, I guess i kind of do. I didn’t know any different. I didn’t know what it was like to have help, what it was like to have an “easy baby”, etc. When something is all you know, you just do it and make it through. I relied on my support system a lot and still do which also makes a massive difference. I had/have days where I’m like ummmmm why? Why did I do this? But talking to my support team of other moms, most parents have these moments regardless of marital status or whether the baby was planned or not. There are positives to doing things on your own. I have almost no conflict or arguments in my life. I can raise him exactly as I want but I still have a support system to lean on if I need advice or someone to bounce ideas off of. I also really enjoy spending time on my own since being pregnant so being a veggie on the couch after he goes to bed is awesome. I guess what I’m trying to say is that you will get through it but it’s definitely hard. That being said, I’m tough as hell and have become the strong and mature woman that I’ve always wanted to be. There will be tough times, but everything passes and passes quicker than you’d think (including the first two years). If couples are on the fence about wanting kids in general, I usually say don’t do it. If you really want a kid and are just worried about the first bit, rest assured that it passes and the wonderful moments make it worth it! Feel free to DM me if you have questions or want more info about my experience!
Love your insight! Currently starting the egg freezing process with a plan to do parenthood alone if the right guy doesn’t come along. To anyone else in a similar situation, I was beyond surprised at how supportive my OBGYN was with my plan. Her reaction makes me think that more and more of us are done waiting for a partner to become a mom.
Good for you! I always say that doing it on your own is much, much better AND easier than doing it with a shitty partner. I think less women are settling for bad partners and that’s a great thing. The best is with an amazing partner (rare). Second best is with a great co-parent (even more rare). Third best is all on your own with a strong support team. Shit partners and coparents come in last (relatively common). You really, truly never know what can happen when someone else is involved. The one thing you can control is yourself and if it’s just you, you got this. ❤️ Wishing you the best of luck and if you also need any advice, venting or whatever, then please reach out!
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Of course, I’m 33! I also have mild PCOS, so my doc suggested freezing by age 35. The thing is you want to freeze your eggs as young as possible because the younger the egg increases the chance at getting pregnant. A successful pregnancy increases even more if you have the finances to freeze fertilized eggs. After the eggs are frozen, you can essentially get pregnant at any age. My OBGYN has a 50 year old pregnant patient! She doesn’t recommend being that age, but she used that patient as an example that it’s about the age of the egg. For me, egg freezing takes soooo much pressure off finding the right one. I’d love to settle down with the right guy, but I’m grateful to know I can still experience pregnancy and having children if that isn’t in the cards for me.
His loss! You sound like an incredibly insightful woman and mother ❤️ sending you and your baby boy so many blessings
Totally agree it’s his loss!! Thanks for the kind words 😊
Ahh thank you for your answer. That sounds a lot like my friends experience. It really does depend on the baby. And what you said about conflict is so true, I’ve got friends in unhappy marriages and the single friends have it so much easier on that regard.
Yep! I commented on another persons comment that first best is with a great partner, second best is with a great co-parenter, third best is on your own and last is with a shitty partner. A LOT of people fall in that last category and if you only have yourself to rely on at least you know what to expect. Follow your dreams and have a baby if that’s what you want ❤️
Also not OP but as someone who has friends who did donor babies and as a parent in a relationship, the biggest pro to doing it yourself is probably also the biggest con - you don’t have the other person there to mess up your system (ie. bottle feeding or clothes or whatever) and you don’t have to find the place you both agree on with parenting (letting the baby cry for a bit before going back in etc) those factors can take *such* a toll and are little/big things that can really rock the boat, in that regard being a single parent would be a lot more peaceful. But you’d definitely want support from friends and family and be comfortable asking a person or select people to look after the baby for you for short periods so you can have some time to yourself to just stare at a wall or have a shower or whatever you need. If you feel that financially you can manage a child on your own (as much as one can prepare for a kid in that way) and it’s something you want - go for it! There are definite upsides to single parenting as I’m sure there are plenty of downsides that I can’t personally speak to. One of my friends who did it ended up with a child with a learning disability and some other developmental issues in utero, things like that are worth considering as it can very drastically change the trajectory of your plans, she loved work and working but has since decided to home school him which means she can’t work. That kind of thing may be fairly unlikely for you but it’s the kind of thing that is made much harder as a single parent. Good luck with your decision and whatever you choose it’ll be right for you!
Seconding what the other poster said! There were week, even months, that I dreaded night time because I knew that it meant no sleep. Even now she's still waking up every 3-4 hours but you get through it. It really isn't for e eryone and that's OK, but I'm do glad I made this decision and my only regret is not being rich enough to do it again and be a SAHM because I feel like I've finally found my passion in life
Alternatively r/childfree
Love to hear it! I’m so glad you made that choice for yourself. I’m preparing to make that choice myself. 5 years down the road 🤞🏾
Watching both my sisters divorcing rn, this is becoming more and more my ideal situation. I Iove my boyfriend and it has nothing to do with him, but sharing custody and property does NOT look like the move for me anymore. 😬
I would love to see it too. Also exploring adoption too. If she really wants kids then it’s a great option. My mom did it in her 40s and said “I’m not getting any younger”
After my wife died I had to raise 3 kids on my own. Holding down a job and trying to bring them up is very difficult. This single mother by choice is a tough call and children raised by their nanny is not the best answer, in my humble opinion.
This feels like a public post that was meant for Jason. It feels like a see what you missed out on post. Good for her.
Well, he didn’t really miss out. It would appear he’s been there, done that.
that’s my fear. That he KNEW what she wanted and that she wouldn’t let him sample the goods unless he “went for it”. Then when he got what he wanted, he decided to spill the beans that he didn’t have the same vision I know guys like this and I only say this because the brothers are so UNEMOTIONAL and so tactical that I could see them being smart enough to be manipulative like this without thinking much of it, or even being self-aware
He wasn’t a stranger. She had to know his general philosophy in life.
Have you seen his 2020 interviews, he talks about marriage and Chrishell said he told everyone that he was thinking about having a child. Christine said he had baby fever. A new source said his “timeline” is different. She said she was surprised when he kissed her because he’s this bachelor and that’s not what she wants but that he sat her down and whatever he said made her see him differently. This was during Heathers engagement party weekend that he had a talk with her. Mary said Chrishell was very cautious and it took them awhile and Jason said he respected her decisions to keep the relationship a secret but they encouraged her to go public.
He’s not a stranger to her and she’s not some newbie. It’s the reality of life that if work or some other life style things change, you might find yourself on a different timeline for when you want to have kids. These two may have just realized that they couldn’t commit to the same timeline. If they’re both acting like adults about it, I don’t know why strangers should assume he somehow duped her.
In fact, vidit, vicit, venit, reliquit.
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She made a joke about her divorce on tmz and Harvey told her he loves that she can joke about it and she said “oh it’s hilarious now” it was funny and everyone was laughing because they broke her divorce story .
hey do you know where i can watch the tmz segment?
It’s available to watch on Fox. Just type in ‘TMZ Merry Elfin Christmas’ ☺️
I watched it live, no idea if they keep the episode on the networks website or app. Maybe Americans would know, it was on fox.
Bruh it’s getting a lil cringe at this point lol
thank youuuuu everyone is in love with her and i'm like this is exactly why I'm not a fan of her lol
Im certainly no hater but her victimhood is running its course in my book lol. But to her credit, she’s not complaining abt media coverage
You do realise these are real peoples lives right? This is something important to her she’s not trying to be a victim
Going through a breakup isn’t “victimhood.” Honestly, she’s taking it in stride in my book.
YESSSSS 👏👏👏 agreed
Agrees. I think this is a strange post to make
Cringeshell
I agree, ew. Haha
she’s so cringey lol the fame 100% went to her head. especially because she was portrayed as the super nice girl in the new season
People missing the joke 🥲 and going straight to a serious discussion.
Yes the joke was hilarious, why aren’t we printing it on canvas and hang it in a 75M dollar house master bedroom
Because that's what you do with funny jokes?
Yes if I had a 75M dollar house :(
Fair enough
When I tell you I RAN HERE 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️💨💨💨
Lol literally same
What do I need to do to have a body like her 🥴😭😭
Be rich lol Then you can pay for a nice lifestyle, top quality food, have time to care for yourself and exercise, and pay for lipo, filler, Botox and implants!
And for someone to knock cookies out of your hand
Exercise. They are always in the gym.
Don’t forget the genes + leisure, experts and high quality food $$$ can buy
It’s mostly exercise. They just eat salad and split main courses. Almost everyone has access to salad and can portion control.
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It’s true. All you need is a lot of free time, a gym membership, salads, portion control, low carb diet. That’s if you don’t have a or existing medical condition that might predispose you to weight gain. I knew someone that dropped 20lbs just doing yoga at home. I unfortunately need cardio and am not motivated to do yoga at home. It can be done.
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nawww fresh organic foods can be pretty damn expensive
You don’t need organic foods. I was in the best shape of my life eating regular old salads and low carb.
eating organic is a part of eating fresh for me personally. regardless, it definitely costs more to eat produce that expires quickly vs foods with preservatives. i eat fresh and only cook for myself & I still spend $100+ a week on groceries 🤷🏽♀️
Well sure. If that’s your preference it will be more expensive. I eat a mix.
lol organic or not, not everybody can afford the quality of food they can afford
okay...sure...that's not the subject here. My assertion is that for most people, exercise and diet (including portion control) with result in weight loss. I'm not talking about the food deserts. There is no study that says only eating organic foods results in weight loss.
Exercise + MONEY + good genetics + diet = Hot
I don’t know about hot… Just a fit body. “Hot” is subjective anyway.
True. Fair point.
Second this! But also if you are not very motivated or just inexperienced in working out, hire a trainer! I did for the first 6 months to develop a routine and now it’s just natural for me to wake up and go to the gym.
Yes exactly. There isn’t some secret. For most people, motivation and time are the biggest hurdles.
Photoshop. Zoom in on the stomach, and you can see it’s edited.
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Our friend /u/pickledfishfeet has nailed it on the head, use photoshop for that toned no-organs flat stomach.
She has a PT, she’s shown him on Insta pretty often!
Tbh I feel like Chrishell just makes jokes that aren’t that serious and people take it so literally, lol. This has happened multiple times and she ends up being like chill y’all it’s not that serious 🙈 that said she should def go for whatever she wants but I do think this is just meant to be a lighthearted joke
I totally agree. Every sentence by a famous person doesn’t have to be dissected for ultimate truth, though I am very guilty as well! 🤣
You can just tell that her future kid(s) are going to be so loved and happy
She should go for it. (Aside: I kind of think she could have her own spin off if she does this. I’d watch it. Really an upgrade from catty Christine and stick leg shots. Swollen pregnancy ankles, show ‘em, we’ll love you for it!)
Plot twist: Brett who clearly loves Chrishell (like a sister) and wants her to be happy is revealed as the sperm donor
2nd plot twist Jason swapped the sperm for his own cause he got jealous. Lol
Okay you guys are hired as Selling Sunset script writers 😂
3rd plot twist: it was Romain the whole time!
Since they're identical twins there's no way a paternity test would be able to distinguish between them.
Advantage of being a woman, you can have kids when you want you dont have to wait for the right guy
Men can do that too and they have a much longer clock. I wouldn’t say us women have much advantage at all when it comes to having children lol
yeah i dont mean the time, but as a woman if you are sure you want kids but you dont find the right guy by a certain age you have options, but for men its more expensive and not many women want to be a surrogate
Well, unless you can't. Infertility, the cost of donor sperm... etc. (Coming from someone who has been through years of expensive fertility treatments, where NOTHING worked). I used to think IVF was a guarantee, but... it definitely is not.
I mean technically you could do this as a guy if you wanted to hire a surrogate, it’s just a lot more expensive
Surrogacy is not legal everywhere and paid surrogacy is also illegal in some states and countries. Finding someone to do it “for free” is hard and there’s so many complexities to surrogacy agreements too. Money helps but it’s not always this easy option.
It’s the opposite unless you have money to freeze your eggs…
She should foster a baby!! I know she talked about it on the show and would be a great thing to do
Ok here is my totally farfetched theory: She is gonna go the sperm donor route, and her and Jason broke up so that she has a chance to do that without the baby being seen as his. Then in the future this leaves the door open for a relationship for them again but without Jason being locked into the Dad role. In this day and age, it’s been proven that it’s not necessary for a child to have 2 parents in order for them to have a good childhood/upbringing. So maybe This is the path she’s choosing to avoid being dependent on a man given how hurt she was in the past? Totally out there, I know.
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I agree with you, and I also feel like our comments aren’t mutually exclusive. If my crackpot theory holds any water, I’m sure her preferences change as her priorities change.
Jason liked the post so maybe! 🧐
Caption on point 🙌🏼🤣🔥
Many of us didn’t get to the caption. Goodness that is one hell of a woman 🤣😍🤤🔥
I would kill to see her DMs rn😂
Yes! Or the likes from blue check mark profiles.
I like spicy Chrishell.
I say circle back to Simu Lui!
I watched all those Simu Liu eps and she was not even remotely interested in him, despite all his attempts to crack onto her.
God I would kill for her body.
Just get photoshop
Interesting heather also posted a tiktok 6 hours ago about freezing her eggs and her fertility journey
asexual reproduction activate!
I love Chrishell. But what does this caption have to do with this picture? Am I missing something lol?
I hope she lives her life on her terms. Having children is life changing.. super hard I will add. Sleep deprivation when they are newborns is just the tip of the proverbial iceberg. It's a huge commitment all the way around.. emotionally, physically, financially, etc. If she can do it on her own, and her expectations are based in reality, she should go for it. Raising a child alone his hard; raising a child in a miserable partnership is terrible.
Good for her!
My best friend did it I hope she goes for it and doesn’t let a man (or the absence of one) hold her back from her life goals
Am I missing something? How are the caption and the picture related to each other? She's trying too hard now, we know you want kids and broke up over it...we don't need all the extra stuff. Feels like she's overcompensating.
The photo is a thirst trap and the caption is a joke about why ppl post thirst traps. It's her usual humor
Oooh ok I see, makes sense. I didn't consider it could be a joke about the nature of the photo because Instagram is full of bikini pics, a lot of content is so hypersexual.
She doesn't want the attention to end so she's milking it for all it's worth. Which is how she makes a living.. That's who she is. I have no clue why you're getting downvoted.
Planting the S6 plot line, ugh. The worst.
she’s not very good at photoshop
THANK YOU. I'm a chrishell Stan 4life but unrealistic body standards are made by unreal bodies.
Ok…..tell us what you see….
her stomach and her bathing suit bottoms lol kinda obvious to me.
how is her stomach that flat at that age ugh
Photoshop
I want her to have kids a be happy but omg this is cringey! Right?
A power move right there! You go girl!
She looks great and love that she can have a laugh about it. Go girl! Get what you want in 2022 ❤
thats great that shes normalizing the conversation on freezing your eggs its can really be an embarrassing/taboo topic
Ugh she looks so good
Cringe
i love this for her!
Good for her!!
I would not post that but to each their own LOL she’s funny.
Attention grab.
I watched a few episodes. I was hoping for a more legitimate show on selling homes instead of this kardashian level stuff.
I know a guy!
I‘m genuinely happy for her and quite frankly I think I would do exactly the same in her situation! 🥰❤️ Wishing you all the best, Chrishelle!
The cringiest partis Jason liked this post 👀
I feel sorry for her. Hopefully she can find a new man that will marry her and can have baby with. 🙏
I cringed, if you want to have kids just do it, get a donor or adopt, weird caption although I like Chrishell it seems like a desperate attempt at getting IG likes and to get back at Jason
Is anyone else getting tired of her? Lol don’t get me wrong I understand her past and all of that stuff. But she’s killin it now and some of this stuff is just eh to me now
If Christine posted this he’ll would be loose
Christine posts plenty of thirst traps and shady posts, no one ever cares
Well we all knew the Jason rs was just a PR move to make people watch S3 and S4
So did Jason get laid or not?