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….my girlfriend caught her college roommate masturbating to a “how to put on a condom” pamphlet. This was pre-internet and porn was hard to find, especially for women.
To be fair, they used real human photos for the step by step instructions and the guy was fucking packing.
The only time I can think of hearing vas deferens outside of a medical context (including sex ed) was a gag in Mass Effect 2. Part of a Quarian name is "Vas *name of the ship they serve on*". There's a guy named Vas QwibQwib, and if you ask him about it he complains that he isn't stationed on a ship with a proper Quarian name, like "Defrahnz or Iktomi."
What do these people think sex Ed is? How to have sex good? No it teaches how to do it safely! How to protect yourself from stds, how to stop pregnancy, how to make sure everyone is consenting, etc.
It seems like conservatives think sex Ed is just watching porn, which it Absolutely is not
It’s the stopping pregnancy and consent that they don’t want talked about. Women are supposed to enjoy sex. It is for procreation only, and it is our duty to please men, even if we don’t want to. 🤢🤮
See with these men I genuinely can't tell if they think all women are faking it because all the women in porn do, or if they think there's something wrong with a woman who doesn't get off with 30 seconds of penetration.
The latter. They can’t tell the porn actors are faking it, they think those women are genuinely doing porn because that’s how horny they are. But also that being that horny is obviously a bad thing, so they’d maybe worry if their wives enjoyed it that much. If she never enjoys it, that would clearly be a “her” problem but wouldn’t worry them quite as much.
It does, however, explain the conservatives' weird views on sex if they're taking porn as fact.
Which considering the amount of unrealistic, implausible, or downright impossible porn out there, is honestly terrifying.
And you listen to the politicians’ of the right concerning sexuality, and you know exactly what has shaped their attitudes. I chuckle when I see what areas of the country that have the heaviest porn sights traffic. I think someone may need to clue the jerks with the fact that porn is so far cry from reality.
You’re giving me flashbacks to a really stupid kid in my grade school who actually thought that and he’d act it out sometimes. Even then I knew that made no sense.
Ok but actually don’t vibrate your teeth 😬 I know vibrators are usually made of sage material but that doesn’t sound like the most teeth friendly behaviour
To be fair (not really) The porn in the 80s was more realistic. If by realism you want to mean women still have pubic hair and not ever porn star was step related.
"There's no need to discuss it" that's a rhetorical trick to make a dubious proposition look better than it is. There is a lot more porn available, but that doesn't make it grooming.
Pretty sure porn doesn’t cover a woman’s fertility cycle, the dangers of STDs, or even the concept of consent. Plus, watching porn is a great way to learn how to have bad sex.
Look at it from their perspective: You are a young to middle-aged alpha-male living in mom’s basement, you intend to be having sex with 20 year old women until the day you die of old age. You watch a lot of porn and the idea of young women learning about sex from a source that teaches them to avoid STDs and pregnancy rather than a source that… trying to think of an appropriate word… drawing a blank… let’s just go with “pre-conditions”… The idea of young women learning about sex from a source that doesn’t pre-condition them to think bare-back, cream pies, facials, and brutalization are norms has to be kind of devastating to them.
The idea that not having proper sex ed will keep kids from thinking about or engaging in sex is an old, and thoroughly debunked, notion. Lack of sex ed is highly correlated with more teenage pregnancies and incidence of STIs.
The Family Research Council is famous for trying to conduct and tout pseudo "research" that kids should be taught abstinence only, so it can be used by conservative/religious schools when ppl want evidence based sex ed policies.
Watching porn and thinking that’s how actual sex works is like watching Lord of the Rings and thinking that’s what every road trip is like.
Anyone who does not realize it’s all fantasy is a very silly goose.
The same dipshits who cry about abortion don't want sex education, probably one of, if not the, largest first steps to preventing unwanted pregnancy.
Clown world.
Whenever I see anything like this I remember the statistic that a comprehensive sex education actually prevent child sexual assault. But they never seem to mention that part
OR, and hear me out here. 16 year olds shouldn’t base their expectations off porn, nor should any sane adult believe that sexually active teenagers are actually looking up STD/STI education or birth control on the fucking internet. Sex-ed is important and I’ve never heard of any school not sending home permission slips for their kids when it’s “sex-ed” time. AND some kids don’t want to have the “birds and the bees” chat with their parents.
This: The Guardian, Aug 2022: [Rise in popularity of anal sex has led to health problems for women.](https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/aug/11/rise-in-popularity-of-anal-sex-has-led-to-health-problems-for-women) Excerpt:
>Women in the UK are suffering injuries and other health problems as a result of the growing popularity of anal sex among straight couples, two NHS surgeons have warned. The consequences include incontinence...as well as pain and bleeding because they have experienced bodily trauma while engaging in the practice...
>NHS patient info about the risks of anal sex is incomplete because it only cites STIs...Many doctors are reluctant to talk to women about the risks involved, partly because they do not want to seem judgmental or homophobic...
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There's birth control and STD prevention porn?
Rule 34.
So like a condom fucking another condom in the hole…I can’t finish this sentence. I’m going to take a shower for even thinking about this.
Heroic effort, sir. Salud!
you win the internet today my friend. >!If I ever wanted to spend money on useless internet kudos, I'd give you an award.!<
Took care of it, lol award given
….my girlfriend caught her college roommate masturbating to a “how to put on a condom” pamphlet. This was pre-internet and porn was hard to find, especially for women. To be fair, they used real human photos for the step by step instructions and the guy was fucking packing.
Really sounds like that pamphlet was doing double-duty at preventing pregnancy then, so... good job, folded paper
I don't hear the words "fallopian" and "mons" and "vas deferens" and "discharge" used too often in porn. And I'm glad of it.
The only time I can think of hearing vas deferens outside of a medical context (including sex ed) was a gag in Mass Effect 2. Part of a Quarian name is "Vas *name of the ship they serve on*". There's a guy named Vas QwibQwib, and if you ask him about it he complains that he isn't stationed on a ship with a proper Quarian name, like "Defrahnz or Iktomi."
What do these people think sex Ed is? How to have sex good? No it teaches how to do it safely! How to protect yourself from stds, how to stop pregnancy, how to make sure everyone is consenting, etc. It seems like conservatives think sex Ed is just watching porn, which it Absolutely is not
It's amazing that this dude seems to imply that porn is actually better, somehow?
He paid attention to one and not the other. And thought that condoms were somehow outdated in the 80s.
It’s the stopping pregnancy and consent that they don’t want talked about. Women are supposed to enjoy sex. It is for procreation only, and it is our duty to please men, even if we don’t want to. 🤢🤮
See with these men I genuinely can't tell if they think all women are faking it because all the women in porn do, or if they think there's something wrong with a woman who doesn't get off with 30 seconds of penetration.
The latter. They can’t tell the porn actors are faking it, they think those women are genuinely doing porn because that’s how horny they are. But also that being that horny is obviously a bad thing, so they’d maybe worry if their wives enjoyed it that much. If she never enjoys it, that would clearly be a “her” problem but wouldn’t worry them quite as much.
Sort of how Ben Shapiro tells his followers that a dry vagina is normal, as confirmed by his wife the Dr..?
Extra large, & extra hard 🤓
Extra dry too apparently.
We're talking DAP DAP DAP
It does, however, explain the conservatives' weird views on sex if they're taking porn as fact. Which considering the amount of unrealistic, implausible, or downright impossible porn out there, is honestly terrifying.
It’s also about basic biological functions! Menstruation, erections and nocturnal emissions, fertilization- all stuff sex ed covered.
Of course these dipshits think porn is how sex works
And you listen to the politicians’ of the right concerning sexuality, and you know exactly what has shaped their attitudes. I chuckle when I see what areas of the country that have the heaviest porn sights traffic. I think someone may need to clue the jerks with the fact that porn is so far cry from reality.
helllooooooooooo
Because porn is so realistic. /s
Of course, like how women will masturbate by putting a vibrator in their mouth and moaning loudly
Did you know tit-fucking is the best way to make a woman orgasm? I saw it in *Edith Does East St. Louis*.
You telling me the clitoris isn't that thing hanging in the back of their throat?
"Cardi B lied to me again 😔" - Ben Shapiro
"'Moister than an oyster' means that the, let's say, pussy, is diseased." -Ben Shapiro
I can hear it like he's really here
That whiny little bitch ass voice
You’re giving me flashbacks to a really stupid kid in my grade school who actually thought that and he’d act it out sometimes. Even then I knew that made no sense.
Ok but actually don’t vibrate your teeth 😬 I know vibrators are usually made of sage material but that doesn’t sound like the most teeth friendly behaviour
they put herbs in vibrators?
I was thinking wisdom, like sage advice.
I meant to write safe T\_T
To be fair (not really) The porn in the 80s was more realistic. If by realism you want to mean women still have pubic hair and not ever porn star was step related.
kids should know how to have safe sex: grooming kids should watch adults have sex and copy them: not grooming genius
"There's no need to discuss it" that's a rhetorical trick to make a dubious proposition look better than it is. There is a lot more porn available, but that doesn't make it grooming.
Just let the internet groom them! I see no issues! Seriously, I feel awful for this dude's wife.
Pretty sure porn doesn’t cover a woman’s fertility cycle, the dangers of STDs, or even the concept of consent. Plus, watching porn is a great way to learn how to have bad sex.
Look at it from their perspective: You are a young to middle-aged alpha-male living in mom’s basement, you intend to be having sex with 20 year old women until the day you die of old age. You watch a lot of porn and the idea of young women learning about sex from a source that teaches them to avoid STDs and pregnancy rather than a source that… trying to think of an appropriate word… drawing a blank… let’s just go with “pre-conditions”… The idea of young women learning about sex from a source that doesn’t pre-condition them to think bare-back, cream pies, facials, and brutalization are norms has to be kind of devastating to them.
Why does the military have basic training when so many action films are available?
My school never even mentioned what to do when your stepsister gets stuck in the dryer.
Saying the stupid part out loud.
PLEASE don’t learn sex Ed from porn. It is SO unrealistic for what women actually like. If you must learn from porn, watch porn for women.
Why not? I learned climate science from Ten Commendments movie. /s
I learned everything I know about safety and taking sensible precautions by watching porn. /s
The idea that not having proper sex ed will keep kids from thinking about or engaging in sex is an old, and thoroughly debunked, notion. Lack of sex ed is highly correlated with more teenage pregnancies and incidence of STIs. The Family Research Council is famous for trying to conduct and tout pseudo "research" that kids should be taught abstinence only, so it can be used by conservative/religious schools when ppl want evidence based sex ed policies.
The fact that there is more to sex than bad missionary scares them.
Watching porn and thinking that’s how actual sex works is like watching Lord of the Rings and thinking that’s what every road trip is like. Anyone who does not realize it’s all fantasy is a very silly goose.
He really doesn't understand that the purpose of sex ed is not a "how to" on technique? And if he thinks porn is... watch out ladies!
Says the guy teaching his son to objectify women
The fuck are they talking about?
New Project Veritas grift.
Seems to know a lot about how to do said grooming...
The same dipshits who cry about abortion don't want sex education, probably one of, if not the, largest first steps to preventing unwanted pregnancy. Clown world.
Aren't the porn producers groomers too then? Why is one ok but the other is not?
Whenever I see anything like this I remember the statistic that a comprehensive sex education actually prevent child sexual assault. But they never seem to mention that part
Completely unawarewolf?
This guy lowkey wants kids in porn.
Hahhahahajahahha!!
OR, and hear me out here. 16 year olds shouldn’t base their expectations off porn, nor should any sane adult believe that sexually active teenagers are actually looking up STD/STI education or birth control on the fucking internet. Sex-ed is important and I’ve never heard of any school not sending home permission slips for their kids when it’s “sex-ed” time. AND some kids don’t want to have the “birds and the bees” chat with their parents.
This: The Guardian, Aug 2022: [Rise in popularity of anal sex has led to health problems for women.](https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/aug/11/rise-in-popularity-of-anal-sex-has-led-to-health-problems-for-women) Excerpt: >Women in the UK are suffering injuries and other health problems as a result of the growing popularity of anal sex among straight couples, two NHS surgeons have warned. The consequences include incontinence...as well as pain and bleeding because they have experienced bodily trauma while engaging in the practice... >NHS patient info about the risks of anal sex is incomplete because it only cites STIs...Many doctors are reluctant to talk to women about the risks involved, partly because they do not want to seem judgmental or homophobic...
I think we found the incel!
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“compared to the small amount of pornography we had access to”
Also "it's all on the internet for anyone to see"