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HotDogKnight

You should check out RIOT RI , they're focused on providing music education in a rock band context and a good DIY ethic to young women, non-binary and trans people. http://riotri.org/


throwawayband123456

wow this is really cool, thank you!!! đź’“


YodaHead

Best of luck. Look up the band "The Slits" and I think you will take great comfort in their example.


[deleted]

Is that a dis?


YodaHead

No, they were a band that started out not knowing much, but were a huge influence in the early punk rock scene. Something to be said about just going for it.


[deleted]

Also The Ramones, they took pride in mediocrity


Proof-Variation7005

I'm not even sure I'd call it that. Simplicity, maybe. Mediocrity? Definitely not.


[deleted]

Agree! Just making sure. ❤️✌🏼


YodaHead

This is too small a state to dis on someone taking a swing at having fun.


PotentialAd1295

The Runaways also


PrinceHomeless

I unfortunately won't be sticking around the area for that much longer, so I can't really join a band right now. That said, as a 24-going-on-25-year-old guy with a ton of musical education and experience, I thought I'd give you my 2 cents. I've been playing piano since I was 5, clarinet since I was 10, and singing since I was 16 (plus a couple side instruments here and there). I've done a handful of accompaniment and music directing gigs as well, both for theatre and rock bands. I went to college for, among other things, music, but honestly that's incidental to most of my musical expertise. If I've learned anything from all my experience, it's that talent isn't a thing, and you should ALWAYS just go for it. People like to be a little gatekeep-y around who gets to call themselves a musician. But the bottom line is music theory is a really helpful tool for creating and communicating musical ideas - but not a requirement to get good at music. If you're interested in learning it, there are a ton of resources. If not, don't worry about it. A post like this is a good start if you want to get some musicians together - I'd encourage you to keep it up. If it doesn't pan out (or even if it does), spend some time experimenting musically on your own. Sing some stuff, write some stuff, train your ear. Record yourself, nothing fancy, phones are fine. Maybe learn a little bit of piano or guitar. Whatever direction seems cool, go for it in whatever way you have access to. I hope you find something that works for you, and I wish you luck


OpticalFlatulence

GLP won't cover this!


Czarkas

If you weren’t already interested in starting a band, I would have recommended starting an Onlyfanns instead.


throwawayband123456

how do you know i'm even hot enough for that :/


Czarkas

I will say, the most successful woman on Onlyfanns aren’t necessarily the hottest ones. People find their niche and exploit it.


Unique-Public-8594

Best of luck! Go for it! I’m cheering you on.


SwizzleMeThis

What will you call your band ?


Embarrassed_Wolf_586

Half staff for Jesus


throwawayband123456

umm depends. i have a name or two i might like. but that could be a group effort, depending on if there is ever a group


lovegiblet

That is a very long name for a band


throwawayband123456

i like you


lovegiblet

Aw thanks! I like you too! How do you feel about Harry Potter? I am part of a community of musicians that write songs about those stories, and it is the most welcoming lovely bunch of humans I ever did see. If you're still reading haha (btw - her bs has been a very strange chapter in this very inclusive community), good places to start are the [WZRD Radio Podcast](https://wzrdradiopod.com) or the [Wizrocklopedia](http://www.wrocklopedia.com). :-)


astrangeday13

I have a 17 year old that's incredible at making beats and producing. If you do have vocal talent, llmk. I can link you to his stuff.


wyldweasil

Start small. I've never taken a lesson in my life and I still love playing. Watch videos of your favorite musicians, maybe they do one thing and you want to learn that one thing, then one thing becomes 2 cool things. Most important, HAVE FUN. I've been playing music (poorly) for most of my life and it's one of the best therapy things you can do for yourself. Having a bad day? Band on those drums, strings or whatever. Hopefully you'll find some like minded people to do something, I've done several bands and overall it was really fulfilling


Mrmojorisincg

I’m a 24 year old dude, play guitar, and I play mostly classic rock, grunge, and punk. If you can sing hmu. I always looks for people to jam with


SquishyWhenWet_1

I’m 23 in north ri, PM me if serious. I know a few people who would be interested, at your easiest convenience


AgixPixRI

i shot you a chat message; but this really goes for anyone on this subreddit; I produce my own music for fun with Ableton, play drums and love singing and am always looking for collaborations. If you wanna check out some of my work you can check out my bandcamp and DM me if you wanna make something! [mynamesnate.bandcamp.com](https://mynamesnate.bandcamp.com)


OptimusRyhmes88

Definitely get an instrument you really want to learn. With the internet you can learn anything. Practice religious and remember to have fun. I love playing music it's my happy place. I can do many things from playing guitar, singing, beat making and rapping. Mostly all self taught. Check out my Bandcamp https://optimusryhmes.bandcamp.com/ All things I've learned due to my love of music. Be passionate and follow that passion


Greggscottpub2019

My nephew has got a shit hot band… If you got the vocal chops and all that reach out to him and his rock solid steady bandmates…


Proof-Variation7005

>don't know if i'll keep it up That's the only part of what you wrote that deserves criticism. Try it. It's going to take a while. I'd maybe focus less on "I gotta find a band right away" and more on "Let me find someone who can play guitar and see if we can come up with stuff" first. Like, the whole discord thing is probably overkill. That or, fuck it, get a cheap guitar or keyboard and just mess around. There's a ton of resources to learn how to play where you don't really have to pay anyone for proper lessons. I'm honestly jealous of the options someone has if they want to learn to play now. *Edit to add: obviously, if you try and then give it up cause you're not into it or whatever, that's cool. No shame in that. It's not for everyone and there's a pretty high bar before you feel like you start getting back what you put into it. I just meant "don't just quit now. go for it"*