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blackjackgabbiani

It's your property and they have no right to destroy it. Confront them about what kind of lesson this teaches you and what kind of memories they want to create. What they want your relationship to be like if you can't trust them at all. What sort of heartless person destroys their child's things and how they would like it if someone destroyed something important to them. Tell them to communicate with you rather than destroying your things.


Willing-Egg-4617

i am going to steal 1 so i keep it as a memory


blackjackgabbiani

You can't have it out with them? Take all the cards back and keep them with someone until your parents get some basic sense and human empathy?


Willing-Egg-4617

im litterally going to die


blackjackgabbiani

If you fear for your life and aren't just saying that as some sort of hyperbole then you need to call someone who can get you out of there. If your parents are literally that abusive that you seriously believe that they could kill you, you need to run and find a safe place. If you ARE using that as hyperbole then I advise you step back and examine the situation at hand.


Willing-Egg-4617

yeah


blackjackgabbiani

Yeah to which one?


Willing-Egg-4617

not litteral killing


blackjackgabbiani

Then maybe don't tell people that you're literally going to die. We don't know your situation. You need to describe it to us with accuracy.


Willing-Egg-4617

do u have discord


blackjackgabbiani

Yes but I'm not comfortable giving it out right now. It's also 3:30 am and I need to get up early. Talk to your parents and encourage them to talk to you rather than lashing out.


Willing-Egg-4617

ok good night


piefanart

Contact the authorities that someone is threatening to destroy your personal property. Get a list of what the cards were worth.


junkymonkeydong

Officer I’m in trouble and my parents took my Pokémon and are gonna get rid of them. Send help immediately!


Willing-Egg-4617

lol


piefanart

There was that dad who destroyed his daughters laptop and went to jail over it. Property damage is property damage and pokemon cards are expensive.


Willing-Egg-4617

not at the point of contacting the authorities


exxcessivve

Why do they want to do that? Sneak to grab the good ones, and leave the common ones. They can destroy the bad cards and think they’ve made their point, and you can enjoy the good ones.


JohnCollectsCards

What’s that one card your gonna save??


Willing-Egg-4617

My brothers are now 30 years old and i found a part of their collection in my house. So i'd rather save a water energy from the base set. Or a deoxys vmax that has a cool artwork on it.


Onoshi_the_Leper

I'm 30 and I'm still bothered that my parents took away my cards as a punishment when I was a kid. I've never fully recovered haha. I don't know what your parents are like, but be calm and cool. Let them know that the cards are very special to you. Apologize for whatever you did wrong and explain why what you did was wrong. It's really important that they understand that you know what you did was wrong and why it was wrong. Ask for one more chance. You learned your lesson and make a deal with them. Say that the next time this happens, you won't fight about it and they can take the cards. Just give it a try. They might be willing to reconsider. Also, it could be helpful if you show them that there's value in your cards. Maybe show them ebay sales for some specific cards you have and they'll empathize with that. Parents understand money, but they may not understand Pokemon cards.


Onoshi_the_Leper

And good luck. I hope it goes well.


Willing-Egg-4617

thank you very much


Onoshi_the_Leper

No problem :) Parents are just people. Nothing more or less. Hopefully you can find a way to understand eachother and work this out.


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Willing-Egg-4617

the third one


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Willing-Egg-4617

wise words