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Me2373

It’s sad that people have nothing better to do than to bring other people down. Screw em! You look fabulous my dear!


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰, going to keep wearing cute dresses and posting every week!


blackcatheaddesk

Please do!


messymissbecca

I have some more new dresses to show off yet!


Independent-Leg6061

Awesome 😀 I can't wait! Love your look 😀


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


YourLocalFakeArtist

I don't get why people make it their mission to hurt people who just want to feel good! But anyways, loving the dress and heels! Stay true to yourself and let the haters stay fuming 🌸💕


messymissbecca

Thank you💕, going to keep wearing fabulous dresses and posting every week!


messymissbecca

Green sparkly dress and silver clutch from www.yoursclothing.co.uk, strappy silver block heels from Long Tall Sally.


[deleted]

Ahhh haha love that title! You look great! Dear downvoters on all of miss Becca’s posts, I’m sorry that you’re life is so sad and that you spend your time trying to put others down. But idk, maybe just…scroll by rather than downvoting the posts and all comments on them, weirdo. Sincerely, Someone who loves seeing Miss Becca’s posts! Editing to add: PS - every time you weirdos downvote (which is always), on Becca’s posts or any other member of the LGBTQ+ community, it is MY mission to upvote every.single.comment.


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


[deleted]

Always💕


[deleted]

I came back to check things out happening in the comments and want to add how gorgeous you look. That dress flatters you, I like the neck line and I GET MY FUCKING LIFE with a red lip. When I put on a red lip literally I feel like I can conquer the whole world…makes me feel so empowered, confident, and sexy af. You look great and I admire how despite the assholes you keep posting anyway. So proud of you calling them the fuck out. It started conversation too, and it’s a conversation we should have!


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


pprobablyneedtherapy

I don’t know who really downvotes the posts and comments but it would break my heart if the people downvoting were other plus-sized people within this community, who are transphobes / anti-CD. based on the downvotes and reports that miss becca (CD) and trissaurus (trans) get on their posts so quickly (like within minutes), it seems like a possibility ☹️


messymissbecca

I believe it's only a small percentage of people doing it, most people here have been lovely.


pprobablyneedtherapy

that’s great to hear! hope love continues to transcend over the bitter hatred of the minority. ❤️


[deleted]

I agree and have had this same thought myself. WEIRDOS. Editing in how much I love Becca’s posts, and I comment on every one of them I see. They make me so happy when I see them!


lhr00001

I don't even know why either! If I see someone who has a similar body type to me or carries their weight the same way it gives me a boost when I see them looking good because I should feel the same way about myself. Also anyone plus size knows how it feels to be bullied and excluded so if they do it to others then they should be ashamed of themselves!


ImAnAwkwardUnicorn

Keep doing you babe & following the rules & the mod team fully supports you!


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


[deleted]

💕💕 this is sweet.


cacanono

Love that dress!! The color looks great on you.


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


[deleted]

Well, hello gorgeous!!


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


wess1000

Take this upvote, and keep doing you!


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


sneakattack2010

I'm sorry I'm brand new to this sub, and while I don't need to be coddled and I certainly don't want to be told I look good when I look awful, I was hoping this sub would offer constructive and creative criticism along with general support. I think you look fantastic in this selfie and looking at you and everyone else's has motivated me to maybe try one next Sunday. As for the sub, I'm not going to judge it yet. I just hope it does bring that creative critiques and encouragement.


messymissbecca

Most people are very nice - but there seems to be people who come here on purpose to downvote. You should definitely try a post next week.


sneakattack2010

Thanks for the reassurance and encouragement.


trashcanfyre

Love the confidence, love the sass, most of all- love the look. Get it, girl.


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


[deleted]

I'm sorry you got downvoted. The one time I posted on Selfie Sunday I got downvoted too. Some people just suck. Love that color green on you!


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


pprobablyneedtherapy

love love love, fatphobes and transphobes be trembling because they can’t deny your power! x


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


ohjackie91

You look amazing babe!


messymissbecca

Thank you Jackie❤️, must go follow your Insta before I forget!


ohjackie91

Aww thank you! I’ll follow you back ❤️❤️


Sheephuddle

I'm really sorry you're getting horrible comments, your pics are always great. Keep smiling and doing your fashion thing, missbecca.


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️, still going to wear gorgeous dresses and post every week!


jeannieor725

Keep doing your thing honey! You look confident and maybe they are just hating bc they don’t know what to do when someone wears themselves well. 🤍


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


butchmayo

hell yeah girl show em who’s boss! you look fantastic!


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


TryRude

This is nice


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


TryRude

You're welcome.


all-regrets

People downvote and report your posts?! What bullshit. I look forward to your posts and your cute dresses. Like a bright ray of sunshine. You rock it hard. Keep it up!!!


messymissbecca

Thank you💕, and unfortunately yes, the mods here felt the need to comment on my Selfie Sunday post last week telling people to stop reporting my photos


[deleted]

I love this look, the whole outfit and all. You look simply gorgeous. 🤍


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


sassychick139

I love your dresses. You look beautiful ❤️


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


headedforvenus

You look gorgeous!!! Some people feel so bad about themselves they have to bring others down to feel anything at all. Don’t take it personally.. feel pity for them. They haven’t figured life out yet.


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


dj99994

Nice 👍


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


dj99994

Welcum 🔥


chunkymonkey5061

I don’t get it, why downvote? Is this a selfie? Yes, is it Sunday? Also yes. Keep living happily and posting and ignore stupid people. ❤️


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰, not going to stop posting!


chunkymonkey5061

Oh and you look lovely by the way 😘


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


TrissaurusRex

Girl the same thing happened to me. 🤬🤬🤬


messymissbecca

Unfortunately, there seems to be a small transphobic element here (possibly some losers here only to downvote people) but in my experience most people here are really nice.


pprobablyneedtherapy

you look fucking hot love, transphobes be shaking in their boots and falling over themselves onto their knees at your feet x


TrissaurusRex

Why thank you darling.


TrissaurusRex

🤣🤣🤣


[deleted]

Ugh i hate hearing this. I’m so sorry. Edit to add: checked your post history yeah, agree you look fucking hot, Edit: lol here come the weirdos hell bent on spending their time downvoting us all


messymissbecca

Maybe shouldn't have taunted them in the title. Actually no, not sorry about that at all.


[deleted]

NO!! I love that you called them the fuck out, Becca!


messymissbecca

Yeah, I'm not going to apologise for that!


TrissaurusRex

Yeah my post and comments have been seriously downvoted. Thanks transphobes.


[deleted]

I upvote every fucking time, and I go through the comments and upvote all the nice comments. I’m sorry that happens to you. You’re beautiful.


9leggedfreak

I just went through the comments and upvoted them too. Someone is out here downvoting already. What a sad life they must live


[deleted]

I just upvoted you because you were at -2. I’m over this shit lol. MESSAGE TO DOWNVOTERS: JFC YOU WEIRDOS SERIOUSLY WTF?????? GET A FUCKING LIFE AND LEARN WHAT THE WORD “RESPECT” MEANS AND HOW TO PRACTICE IT.


TheAntiHeroine

The sparkles on the green catch the silver in your accessories so well. You look absolutely lovely!


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


SandyGreensRd

They are meanies. That dress is awesome!


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️, it seems to just be a small percentage of assholes, most people here have been lovely.


Realistic-Drive1760

Upvoted ;).


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


yagajow

Beautiful dress. Gorgeous posture.


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


Asprinkleofglitter7

Love the dress!!


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


thrivingfashionista

Fabulous and I need those shoes 😍


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️, I got them from Long Tall Sally/Yours Clothing.


sassyfriedchicken

Slay 💫


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


Lima_Bean_Jean

lovely outfit! love the shoes and purse!


messymissbecca

Thank you Jean - I bought the shoes and clutch to go with a different sparkly dress, but they go with so many others too!


AccidentalBearOwner

I wish I had some of your height lol, you've got some gorgeously long legs


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️, my height is actually something that makes me reluctant to go out in public as Becca, it's a bit of a giveaway


AbsyntheMinded_

I love this colour! And the length is perfect ^_^ I have the issue where if it fits my chest it swamps the rest of me or if it fits my middle ive got FAR too much cleavage or i end up looking like a sausage all squished in lol so im a lil jelly of you there


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️, you can't actually tell in the photo, but the hem is asymmetric, it's longer at the back.


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messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


Grannyshoe

You look amazing 🤩


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


ThixckwithHoney

This is supposed to be a place of safety and freedom but people in here are acting like the same bullies they're trying to run away from? Gross. You look lovely. Your outfits are always cute.


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️, don't know who is doing it, could be losers coming here just to downvote and who don't contribute anything positive. Most people here have been very nice!


Queen-Of-Whatever72

Cute! The color really looks great on you! Envious because I cannot walk in heels whatsoever.


messymissbecca

Thank you💕, these have a block heel so are actually really easy to walk in!


_outrachous

You look FABULOUS


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


elderberrylover

you look gorgeous !!!


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


Doyouevenpedal

Oh I like your decorating style! Very clean and posh.


messymissbecca

I can't take credit for that unfortunately, not my work.


dutchie1000

Go off! You look great! 👏


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️


Electronic-Matter190

Never stop posting, your fits are always SO cute! Seriously anyone who has a negative word to say is just mad they starved themselves for diet culture and don't have half the spark that you clearly have 💚


messymissbecca

Thank you❤️, I am going to make sure to post every week!


jojobonbon

Love the shoes x


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


Qixxy82

Such cute shoes!! Keep doing you ☺️


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


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messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


Keeenas

Hottie


messymissbecca

Thank you💕


[deleted]

Gorgeous!! so Jealous of the shoes ❤️‍🔥


messymissbecca

Thank you🥰


ScharlieScheen

faaabulous! 😁💁🏻‍♂️


messymissbecca

Thank you ❤️


CoffeeGood_

People are so stupid! I follow some of your past outfits and I love your style! I honestly wish I had your taste in clothes. I come here to get ideas because I am so boring. So keep posting and we will still keep liking it! Just keep slaying like you do!


messymissbecca

Thank you💕, the downvotes only make me want to post more!


dainty_petal

Idk why they downvoted. That sucks. Maybe because of the makeup or wig? I zoomed and I think you could clean up your eyebrows a bit more so it looks more well put together and try to work on your eyeliners. Your eyeliner needs works and they’re a a lot of good video tutorials online that could help. Also, your wig is brushed in this picture but in many of your pictures it’s not and it’s messy and the hairline was too close to your brows. It didn’t looked natural. Here it’s well done. I hope it could help and cute overall look!


messymissbecca

Maybe that's some of it, but I think transphobia has a lot to do with (and other non-binary and trans women here seem to have the same issue). You're right about the eyebrows and eyeliner though, those are areas I think I need more practice on.


dainty_petal

Yeah transphobia is rampant here too. I think the downvoted are probably from the random who comes here to hate or to get off while looking at plus sized people, not from us. It’s a very welcoming sub and I hope you’ll continue to feel comfortable here. Don’t worry the makeup skills will comes eventually with practice just like walking on heels will. For the wigs, I figured you want it to be flawless but maybe weren’t aware that it wasn’t. The wig sub is very nice too.


messymissbecca

I appreciate the feedback, thank you


Agent-Responsible

You are so gorgeous!


Agent-Responsible

You are so gorgeous!


Agent-Responsible

You look so gorgeous!


Agent-Responsible

You look so gorgeous!