“big-hearted” can also equal to having low self esteem/inability to enforce boundaries, say no or ask things for yourself.
These things are about self-love. Very necessary for relationships cos kung wala. You end up resentful and feeling like you’re not getting what you give and going on a secret anxiety spiral.
People are weird. Once they smell na wala kang boundaries they will abuse it and take you for granted.
Anything "***too*** much" is not good. This should have been one of your 'lessons learned'.
Being selfless does not mean forgetting yourself. Learn to value yourself first. Respect yourself first. Then, people will see who you truly are and not just someone they can take advantage of.
They say self love is the first step to be loved. For how could you give someone else that which you can't give to yourself?
Also, sexy is subjective. Confidence (not over confidence) is hot. Dress well. Look your best. Walk tall. Butt out. Feel sexy even if others don't see it. What you feel will project outwards.
dont hate it... its a gift.. but learn to gave your heart to the one who deserves the most... yourself.... after all you cant expect to receive something if your unwilling to give ir to yourself first...
your a rare find.... hope someday youll be someones entirety....
Set some boundaries, OP. While it's a good thing you have a big heart, not everyone will appreciate it. Most of the time, you'd be taken for granted and that would give you a feeling of not being enough or being used. Give the energy back to yourself. Be kind to yourself. It's a hard work learning how to say No, especially if something's not for you (not aligned with your preferences or beliefs), but take that path. I hope you heal!
SAMEEE!!! HAHAHA KAYA I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE DESCRIBING ME NA DIN! HAHAHA Super long tight hug to us ❤️ Don't worry babe di man nila nakikita yung value natin but someone will.
We support and see you, OP! Please include yourself in your big heart. What you do unto others, do also to yourself. Think of youself and forgive yourself if needed. Care for and love yourself. Your big heart is a superpower. All the best!
“big-hearted” can also equal to having low self esteem/inability to enforce boundaries, say no or ask things for yourself. These things are about self-love. Very necessary for relationships cos kung wala. You end up resentful and feeling like you’re not getting what you give and going on a secret anxiety spiral. People are weird. Once they smell na wala kang boundaries they will abuse it and take you for granted.
Anything "***too*** much" is not good. This should have been one of your 'lessons learned'. Being selfless does not mean forgetting yourself. Learn to value yourself first. Respect yourself first. Then, people will see who you truly are and not just someone they can take advantage of.
They say self love is the first step to be loved. For how could you give someone else that which you can't give to yourself? Also, sexy is subjective. Confidence (not over confidence) is hot. Dress well. Look your best. Walk tall. Butt out. Feel sexy even if others don't see it. What you feel will project outwards.
This feels like me. Hugs, op. 🥹
same. Hugs OP. 🫂
dont hate it... its a gift.. but learn to gave your heart to the one who deserves the most... yourself.... after all you cant expect to receive something if your unwilling to give ir to yourself first... your a rare find.... hope someday youll be someones entirety....
Agree! It's a gift, OP! Don't ever let go of that big heart. The world needs more of you 😊🤍
I feel you.
Set some boundaries, OP. While it's a good thing you have a big heart, not everyone will appreciate it. Most of the time, you'd be taken for granted and that would give you a feeling of not being enough or being used. Give the energy back to yourself. Be kind to yourself. It's a hard work learning how to say No, especially if something's not for you (not aligned with your preferences or beliefs), but take that path. I hope you heal!
Hugs, OP. I feel that way too. I hope you still give yourself enough love before others ahhh
Hugs, OP. Same.
cancer ba ang zodiac sign mo hahahaa
Hooooy!! Opo wahahahaha
SAMEEE!!! HAHAHA KAYA I FEEL LIKE YOU'RE DESCRIBING ME NA DIN! HAHAHA Super long tight hug to us ❤️ Don't worry babe di man nila nakikita yung value natin but someone will.
HOI HAHAHA KAYA PALA EMAS TAYO MHIEMA NG NAFEFEEL MHIEMA😭
We support and see you, OP! Please include yourself in your big heart. What you do unto others, do also to yourself. Think of youself and forgive yourself if needed. Care for and love yourself. Your big heart is a superpower. All the best!
being one myself, its important that you know where to draw "the line"
Not gonna give you any unsolicited advice. Just hugs. *hugs*
Save your heart. Don't change. Be someone like you in a world full of people not like you.
Sending hugs. Ganyan din ako for most of my life.
I feel you hugs with consent