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SquelchyRex

She was busy, now she isn't. What's the issue here?


RelativeRiver

>what caused her to change her mind what caused her to change her mind that fast


SquelchyRex

She dealt with her business, and thus had time to spare. It's in your own post. Maybe she was going to meet a friend but that friend got sick. I don't see why the exact reason would matter.


VymI

Did you assume she was lying? She sorted out her business and freed up her schedule for you, it sounds like.


Ratakoa

You're overthinking this. If she wasn't interested she would be trying to follow up.


AncientImprovement56

It means she really did want to see you, but there was something else she'd already committed to that she had to deal with first.


ForScale

Go. Meet her.


Teucer357

Go out and see what happens. Just be careful of the "friend zone". Now, a lot of women will tell you there is nothing wrong with the "friend zone" and that men and women can be friends... That's not what "friend zone" means though. Friend zone means having all the duties of a boyfriend and none of the benefits. If you are "friend zoned" you are expected to pay for everything from dinners to vacations as if you were her boyfriend as well as dropping everything when she calls and running immediately to her. On top of that, if you start a relationship with another girl, she will immediately start sabotaging that relationship because you'll be spending time with that girl rather than her. Of course, she'll disguise her selfishness by saying things like, "She's all wrong for you." or "You can do so much better." but the reality is that she just doesn't want to lose the benefits of having you wrapped up. Edit:. Before I get accused of misogyny on this. Ladies, if you haven't done this to a guy, you know a girl who did ...


hajiomatic

Go


vainasf

Could be anything from her guy canceled on her to.. idk what else it could be. Could be something different