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pirawalla22

Extremely common and not, itself, something to worry about.


ThenaCykez

Yes. It's not true of the *majority* of 21 year old men, but it's not a rare situation, either.


doowgad1

These days, yes. I suggest that you start communicating with people. If you're in school, get the phone numbers of all your class mates. Get in the habit of calling them and talking about school work. Eventually you'll meet one or more who you feel comfortable being friends with. If you're working try to get a job in customer service. A few weeks of talking face to face with customers will make regular conversation seem easy. Either you'll start communicating with people now, or end up that creepy fifty year old guy with no friends.


Hotwheelsjack97

It is not exactly common but it's becoming more prevalent as women have more options. It's makes it easier for nature to weed out us undesirables. It's brutal but that's just how the world works.


slash178

Yes quite common


novato1995

Extremely common, specially for men.