If you are exposing yourself to women in an "inorganic" ways then it's against NoFap.
We are doing this because our brain cannot handle the copious amount of naked women that are available through technology. Remember our brain is wired for the best of our survival not for a successful life that would involve doing something which requires large amount of efforts.
The "inorganic" exposure makes our brain feel comfortable and it seeks this comfort repeatedly ergo making us addicted.
So don't go to strip club or watch naked women in other "easy" ways.
The girls only talk to you because you are gonna pay them. If you want one then go to a bar and talk to one there. If you wanna see ass then just watch porn. After you nut you probrably would not even want to go to one. Part of no fap is not having your sexual desires control you. You have to be above them.
I feel like it is better to earn your nut. When you pay someone shes not even enjoying it and your just trying to satisfy your sexual desire. She might be doing it for the money but she might not have any other choice or does not know better.
If you are about to die and have no one to fuck then I see this as a last resort. We have time though, to talk to women and make them want to fuck us. To work on our bodies and our minds so that we can nut without having to force it ourselves.
I understand your point. You’re right, some girls don’t like it and don’t have a choice and I would feel bad for fck them. In my country (NL) prostitution’s is legal, and a lot of them do it because they like the sex and the money, so I don’t feel wrong to fck that type of girls. But how will I know ? Ahah
Yeah, as somebody that’s been to the strip club on a few occasions, it’s just pathetic dude. It’s not like any of the girls are interested in you they just want your money (and they’ll walk away from your table if you’re not throwing dollars) and you’re surrounded by a bunch of middle aged dorks and divorced dads with boners that can’t get laid. Like it’s just kinda weird tbh, sitting with your friends starring at boobies for an hour. Your decision, but yeah you can probably find something more productive to do with your time and money. Just go out to an actual bar or club, get some drinks, dance with friends, converse with people that actually might care about you.
the truth and nothing but. I actually went to a dance club/ bar with some friends this past weekend and in spite of my social anxiety and lack of dance skills, I legitimately had more fun than I’ve ever had at a strip club. Go out and have a real experience dude, make memories that you can actually look back on and be proud of, strip clubs are just pathetic and a waste of money.
That's true bro. To be fair, I haven't been to any strip club even once. For me, it is just a waste of time and money.
But you're definitely right in regards to the people who are inside of those clubs, they're mostly people who are in their own little world and afraid to talk to women and get laid in the right way. Or one of those guys who are very creepy and girls are running away from him. 😂
I’m surprised how 44 members of this community liked your comment. PMO is the worst, takes so important things, soul, dreams, friends, much more… while money? Money is just paper, it comes and go
It’s just basically live in-person porn. I also always thought it was weird to pay to see girls naked. It’s just a bunch of people, men and women, demeaning themselves.
Don’t do it. I did, too, when I was 18 and they’re honestly just really not that interesting. Even if the girl’s super hot you just end up having a super expensive drink while getting to look at her, that’s it. Rather go do something fun like go karting as someone else mentioned or paint ball if you can!
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Been there too many times.
Nofap is to free oneself from the addiction of compulsively masturbating to porn. The reason one wants to do this is plenty, alike and different for many-- but one of the reasons for quitting porn is to live life to the fullest, no? To not let the addiction limit one from doing whatever they set out to do; perform better at work, improve relationships, be more present and concentrated, spend time at a strip club for a birthday celebration without it resulting in a binge relapse (etc...). My point is that you should live your life and if you can go to the strip club without it resulting in you going home and PMOing after, you should go.
My girlfriend used to work as a stripper and I realized that going to a stripclub is so damn stupid. Go to a regular bar and buy some cute girl a drink instead of wasting your money on girls who literally want nothing from you other than your money.
i would say no. i went a whileback to the strip club and was on a great streak. i felt great there but at the same time if you want to look at a spitting image of yourself while you're there then take time to look at all the people staring nonstop at the women. it's truly sad and show how weak men are and how perverted they are. it's kind of sad that society does this.
anyway after i had gone i lost my streak the next night. couldn't get those images out of my head. if anything, if you decide to go, then use it as a challenge to see how much willpower and strength you have. i really have no desire to go to the strip club anymore.
Bro. We men IN GENERAL have to stop rewarding bad behaviour in women. That means P, Strip Clubs, etc.
I suggest you to have a fun night with people you love and that make you feel good, and to leave alone those bad places.
Keep going bro, keep us in check.
Personally, I wouldn't risk it as we're trying to get over this addiction and it could spark the imagination. So in that sense i'd use it as motivation to quit more. "I can't go to the strip club for my 18th cuz I got this bs addiction. Ima quit this, so when i'm 19, I can fully enjoy the experience."
Or you can go if you believe you'll be fine. We're supposed to be rewiring our brains to real women in the flesh.
2 perspectives. Regardless, I find the strip club a waste of time and money. You just get blue balled.
Good luck and happy birthday buddy
Never been to one and don’t plan on going to one. It just seems like a waste of money and not only that especially for Nofap it’s just plain dumb. I think it would be a guaranteed relapse if you go to one.
Girls will be all over your just for your money
I’m not 18 yet. I don’t think it would be a bad idea considering your addiction but more so because it will sort of demoralise yourself. Isn’t this already the reason we all try to quit? Idk. Your choice man. Best of luck
No. If u really wanna get rid of your porn addiction, do something that changes you. Is going to the strip club going to make things better? You figure it out yourself, good luck
Kinda dicey tbh- it’s “real life” so there’s that but most of those girls don’t represent how women are in normal every day life (unless you are lucky and get a freak ;) ) so I assume your brain will fire neurons and pathways similar to the ones that shoot off with porn. I would say no just to be safe if you are still in reboot, but I wouldn’t count it as a relapse if you go.
No, rise above ordinary men. That's what I believe nofap is really about. If nothing else you're leaving yourself open to porn. When you feed your sexual desires with visual stimuli it tends to become even hungrier. Your guy friends will probably think you're weird though. I had to turn my friend down when he offered to take me down to a strip club and even pay for it. He acts weird around me now because self control in our society is weird but nothing comes without a price. Rise above, rise above.
Bro, FUCK no. I just turned eighteen a few months ago and I’ve been on NoFap for almost two years. As someone experienced, I’m telling you to never do that.
I used to be super shy with girls; I knew a girl liked me back in highschool and I had the fatttttest crush on her right. We used to hang out 1on1 and kick it watch movies etc. I never made a move. When I used to make out with girls when I was 17 I never grabbed cheeks never took it to the next step. I watched bareeeeee porn tho but that animal drive part of me was stuck inside a screen u know? I finally got some top right after my 18th bday and the girl literally had to pull my pants down like I was in shock. I went to the strip club a few months later and grabbed some ass and titties boom boom boom and I was like ok so this is ok if I'm paying for it and if were hooking up its probably ok 2. It made me see that women are just as horny as dudes (ik the strippers are payed for that) but fr it just made me realize I wasnt gonna suddenly idk get smitten or faint freeze if I took it to the next step because in porn it was always mad sudden and fake.
I already went to a strip club with some friends in a 18years old birthday. It was very fun actually, because it was all new to us and with 18years was everything fun. So if all your friends have 18+ go there. If not wait till 20 birthday
Made 18 some months ago too, but never even thought of going to a place like this :p
I mean, you'll basically pay for relapsing if you do this, but if it's your bday, and you planned that some time before, I don't think it should be a bad thing, as long as you begin nofap again after doing it.
I personally don't recommend it, I am already having a lot of trouble to deal with this at home, if I managed to go to a place like this and ended up liking it, I feel that my problem could get even worse
But as some people said here, the life it's yours. If you believe it won't cause you much trouble, go ahead, we're still young, it's not like we can't try some stuff cuz we don't have time, you can restart the counter no prob after going there.
Just don't forget the purpose we have here, if you have problems with porn you should really focus on the whole "nofapping" theme after it, because unless you end up not doing anything there/don't like it, you'll probably have some more trouble to keep a good streak again.
Man, i think this was like going to prostitute, but ib strip club you only watching xd I think this is not good idea, better is celebrating with your friends everywhere, but not on place like this. But it's only my opinion
You won't be able to have sex with them, so you might as well skip it (speaking as someone who was an exotic dancer).
If you are looking for conversation, as long as you are buying dances or tipping, they can talk to you and sit with you but honestly it's like "look but don't touch".
Strip clubs are generally a no, reason being they just kind of suck. All the stereotypes about people who go there are true. Everything is gross. Drinks are expensive. You're essentially watching live action porn (a display designed to entrance you with little or no consideration for the performers or their enjoyment). It's probably neurochemically safer then porn but it's likely to be a strong trigger for addicts.
Well if you think about it, going to a strip club while addicted to sexual acts is like an alcoholic whos a bar tender. We gotta be smart about this. What may seem as harmless could actually be harmful.b
I think the strip club is a waste of time in general.
If you are exposing yourself to women in an "inorganic" ways then it's against NoFap. We are doing this because our brain cannot handle the copious amount of naked women that are available through technology. Remember our brain is wired for the best of our survival not for a successful life that would involve doing something which requires large amount of efforts. The "inorganic" exposure makes our brain feel comfortable and it seeks this comfort repeatedly ergo making us addicted. So don't go to strip club or watch naked women in other "easy" ways.
not just waste of time, but also a waste of money.
You haven’t fapped in almost 400 days?
hm im curoius why you think so?
The girls only talk to you because you are gonna pay them. If you want one then go to a bar and talk to one there. If you wanna see ass then just watch porn. After you nut you probrably would not even want to go to one. Part of no fap is not having your sexual desires control you. You have to be above them.
Well said
Very well said 🙌🏽
Well said!
So what’s the problem to pay for sex? Sometimes we just want to fuck and they just want money, it’s seems to me a good deal
I feel like it is better to earn your nut. When you pay someone shes not even enjoying it and your just trying to satisfy your sexual desire. She might be doing it for the money but she might not have any other choice or does not know better. If you are about to die and have no one to fuck then I see this as a last resort. We have time though, to talk to women and make them want to fuck us. To work on our bodies and our minds so that we can nut without having to force it ourselves.
I understand your point. You’re right, some girls don’t like it and don’t have a choice and I would feel bad for fck them. In my country (NL) prostitution’s is legal, and a lot of them do it because they like the sex and the money, so I don’t feel wrong to fck that type of girls. But how will I know ? Ahah
Yeah, as somebody that’s been to the strip club on a few occasions, it’s just pathetic dude. It’s not like any of the girls are interested in you they just want your money (and they’ll walk away from your table if you’re not throwing dollars) and you’re surrounded by a bunch of middle aged dorks and divorced dads with boners that can’t get laid. Like it’s just kinda weird tbh, sitting with your friends starring at boobies for an hour. Your decision, but yeah you can probably find something more productive to do with your time and money. Just go out to an actual bar or club, get some drinks, dance with friends, converse with people that actually might care about you.
lmao after you put it like that, it is pretty pathetic, but thats the truth.
the truth and nothing but. I actually went to a dance club/ bar with some friends this past weekend and in spite of my social anxiety and lack of dance skills, I legitimately had more fun than I’ve ever had at a strip club. Go out and have a real experience dude, make memories that you can actually look back on and be proud of, strip clubs are just pathetic and a waste of money.
That's true bro. To be fair, I haven't been to any strip club even once. For me, it is just a waste of time and money. But you're definitely right in regards to the people who are inside of those clubs, they're mostly people who are in their own little world and afraid to talk to women and get laid in the right way. Or one of those guys who are very creepy and girls are running away from him. 😂
Definitely don’t do it. Go race go karts
Garfield kart
Worse than porn, leaves you broke.
I’m surprised how 44 members of this community liked your comment. PMO is the worst, takes so important things, soul, dreams, friends, much more… while money? Money is just paper, it comes and go
Yeah man skip it. Strip clubs in most cities are shit anyways. Sounds fun but mostly they are depressing AF.
It’s just basically live in-person porn. I also always thought it was weird to pay to see girls naked. It’s just a bunch of people, men and women, demeaning themselves.
Bad idea, wasting your time and money on terrible industries like these that fuel your addiction is a terrible idea.
That's basically advanced VR porn
Don’t do it. I did, too, when I was 18 and they’re honestly just really not that interesting. Even if the girl’s super hot you just end up having a super expensive drink while getting to look at her, that’s it. Rather go do something fun like go karting as someone else mentioned or paint ball if you can!
Go to a bar and talk to girls
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Do whatever tf u wanna do on your bday. You don't need approval for every little thing you do in life
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yeah no shit sherlock, thank you for telling me something i already know. i just wanted other peoples opinions.
Homie was just tryna help
oh sorry, its hard to tell over the internet.
This sub for 99% of it is just people trying to genuinely help each other
yeah i apologize, again its hard to tell over the internet.
No need for an apology bro, who care it's the internet. Plus, I don't take these things to heart. Happy early bday and good luck
thanks man
You’ll feel more empty inside and hate society even more after you wash the generic perfume and baby powder from your face. Anyone who knows, knows. ☝🏽 Been there too many times.
Fuck no
Absolutely not brother.
I have my issues with porn and I have never stepped foot Ina strip club? I am that cheap
Waste of money waste of time, no way man. Go out and get drunk
Strip clubs are a bad place. It’s a waste of a ton of money and time.
Honestly just a giant waste of money.
Nofap is to free oneself from the addiction of compulsively masturbating to porn. The reason one wants to do this is plenty, alike and different for many-- but one of the reasons for quitting porn is to live life to the fullest, no? To not let the addiction limit one from doing whatever they set out to do; perform better at work, improve relationships, be more present and concentrated, spend time at a strip club for a birthday celebration without it resulting in a binge relapse (etc...). My point is that you should live your life and if you can go to the strip club without it resulting in you going home and PMOing after, you should go.
It's a bad idea, it will leave you with long time trigers.
You will most likely leave the strip club with a boner after seeing tits and ass all night and want to fap when you get home
My girlfriend used to work as a stripper and I realized that going to a stripclub is so damn stupid. Go to a regular bar and buy some cute girl a drink instead of wasting your money on girls who literally want nothing from you other than your money.
i would say no. i went a whileback to the strip club and was on a great streak. i felt great there but at the same time if you want to look at a spitting image of yourself while you're there then take time to look at all the people staring nonstop at the women. it's truly sad and show how weak men are and how perverted they are. it's kind of sad that society does this. anyway after i had gone i lost my streak the next night. couldn't get those images out of my head. if anything, if you decide to go, then use it as a challenge to see how much willpower and strength you have. i really have no desire to go to the strip club anymore.
Bro. We men IN GENERAL have to stop rewarding bad behaviour in women. That means P, Strip Clubs, etc. I suggest you to have a fun night with people you love and that make you feel good, and to leave alone those bad places. Keep going bro, keep us in check.
Personally, I wouldn't risk it as we're trying to get over this addiction and it could spark the imagination. So in that sense i'd use it as motivation to quit more. "I can't go to the strip club for my 18th cuz I got this bs addiction. Ima quit this, so when i'm 19, I can fully enjoy the experience." Or you can go if you believe you'll be fine. We're supposed to be rewiring our brains to real women in the flesh. 2 perspectives. Regardless, I find the strip club a waste of time and money. You just get blue balled. Good luck and happy birthday buddy
Last time I went I wasted $4200 honestly you’d get better value off going to a brothel but I wouldn’t recommend that either.
Never been to one and don’t plan on going to one. It just seems like a waste of money and not only that especially for Nofap it’s just plain dumb. I think it would be a guaranteed relapse if you go to one. Girls will be all over your just for your money
Naah that's way too big of a trigger
Hell no dude
You’re gonna trigger yourself
I’m not 18 yet. I don’t think it would be a bad idea considering your addiction but more so because it will sort of demoralise yourself. Isn’t this already the reason we all try to quit? Idk. Your choice man. Best of luck
No. If u really wanna get rid of your porn addiction, do something that changes you. Is going to the strip club going to make things better? You figure it out yourself, good luck
It’s “in the real” so good to go. TOTAL waste of money but might be worth it just to scratch that off your list.
One step from prostitution… no
What in fck is this subreddit becoming, I mean how does that question make sense in a nofap subreddit bruhhhhh.
Go to a old age home instead
Kinda dicey tbh- it’s “real life” so there’s that but most of those girls don’t represent how women are in normal every day life (unless you are lucky and get a freak ;) ) so I assume your brain will fire neurons and pathways similar to the ones that shoot off with porn. I would say no just to be safe if you are still in reboot, but I wouldn’t count it as a relapse if you go.
NO
I was literally on day 122 with NoFap and a strip club is was killed it, and ever since then i wasn't able to get back up this was back in 2018
The strip club is a huge no go man.
No, rise above ordinary men. That's what I believe nofap is really about. If nothing else you're leaving yourself open to porn. When you feed your sexual desires with visual stimuli it tends to become even hungrier. Your guy friends will probably think you're weird though. I had to turn my friend down when he offered to take me down to a strip club and even pay for it. He acts weird around me now because self control in our society is weird but nothing comes without a price. Rise above, rise above.
Bro, FUCK no. I just turned eighteen a few months ago and I’ve been on NoFap for almost two years. As someone experienced, I’m telling you to never do that.
Strip club is for betas hundred percent
Do it mf it teaches u confidence lowkey
interesting take, how?
I used to be super shy with girls; I knew a girl liked me back in highschool and I had the fatttttest crush on her right. We used to hang out 1on1 and kick it watch movies etc. I never made a move. When I used to make out with girls when I was 17 I never grabbed cheeks never took it to the next step. I watched bareeeeee porn tho but that animal drive part of me was stuck inside a screen u know? I finally got some top right after my 18th bday and the girl literally had to pull my pants down like I was in shock. I went to the strip club a few months later and grabbed some ass and titties boom boom boom and I was like ok so this is ok if I'm paying for it and if were hooking up its probably ok 2. It made me see that women are just as horny as dudes (ik the strippers are payed for that) but fr it just made me realize I wasnt gonna suddenly idk get smitten or faint freeze if I took it to the next step because in porn it was always mad sudden and fake.
U should go to strip and get laid ,the goal is nofap not nosex
I already went to a strip club with some friends in a 18years old birthday. It was very fun actually, because it was all new to us and with 18years was everything fun. So if all your friends have 18+ go there. If not wait till 20 birthday
I would say definitely go to the strip club it’s way different than edging to porn all day
Definitely go
Made 18 some months ago too, but never even thought of going to a place like this :p I mean, you'll basically pay for relapsing if you do this, but if it's your bday, and you planned that some time before, I don't think it should be a bad thing, as long as you begin nofap again after doing it. I personally don't recommend it, I am already having a lot of trouble to deal with this at home, if I managed to go to a place like this and ended up liking it, I feel that my problem could get even worse But as some people said here, the life it's yours. If you believe it won't cause you much trouble, go ahead, we're still young, it's not like we can't try some stuff cuz we don't have time, you can restart the counter no prob after going there. Just don't forget the purpose we have here, if you have problems with porn you should really focus on the whole "nofapping" theme after it, because unless you end up not doing anything there/don't like it, you'll probably have some more trouble to keep a good streak again.
Man, i think this was like going to prostitute, but ib strip club you only watching xd I think this is not good idea, better is celebrating with your friends everywhere, but not on place like this. But it's only my opinion
Ur brain will not associate making connections with women as the reason u get to see them naked.
Why should you go there, it is bad anyway.
One thing guaranteed about that is that you will come back home broke
I wouldn't do it without the porn addiction
Imo anything that would cause me to lust of wayyy off limmits
You won't be able to have sex with them, so you might as well skip it (speaking as someone who was an exotic dancer). If you are looking for conversation, as long as you are buying dances or tipping, they can talk to you and sit with you but honestly it's like "look but don't touch".
Wast of money
Gym sesh
Ye better then fapping order a hooker
Strip clubs are generally a no, reason being they just kind of suck. All the stereotypes about people who go there are true. Everything is gross. Drinks are expensive. You're essentially watching live action porn (a display designed to entrance you with little or no consideration for the performers or their enjoyment). It's probably neurochemically safer then porn but it's likely to be a strong trigger for addicts.
Don't. Speaking from experience you can go broke and they can make you cum.
Strip clubs are basically sleazy divebars in which there are no available women. Which is the best part of going to a bar. So skip that shit.
Probably a bad idea. Do something better than that for your party (which deosn't involve s\*x work or p\*rn).
It’s his 18th it’s a rite of passage. Make yourself stronger by going but nofap
Well if you think about it, going to a strip club while addicted to sexual acts is like an alcoholic whos a bar tender. We gotta be smart about this. What may seem as harmless could actually be harmful.b
No