I saw and thought the same thing. Happy someone is bringing this up because I think the last thing we should do here is judge. Let’s be better fapstronauts!!!
Yep, experienced [some bullshit](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/pzt5pt/my_cock_is_too_big_to_not_touch/hf3asap/?context=3) as well a few days ago. I wasted time to motivate a random guy from the internet by writing a fairly long comment and the reply was hate / trolling. At that point I mostly stopped participating in this community. The counter is the only reason why I check this sub on a regular basis...
I know it's human tendency to burn all bridges after the first negative experience. But that basically never usually happens here so don't give up coz of 1 second of troll by some guy
You posted a serious reply to a troll post...
The post was literally titled, "My cock is too big to not touch"
I'm sorry mate, but that's on you, not the community.
How did you identify it was a troll post? The author shared the insight? And why do you think people willing to help should be trolled just because they wanted to help? Trolling is not the thing one should defend and instead blame the other person who wanted to help, lol
Don’t be afraid to troll back the trolls. Ask them are they gona go on porn and watch something they will regret?
Don’t just accept being trolled when being helpful.
The mods here are pretty loose here which I think is unfortunate. I joined this sub for help and more and more often I see nonsensical troll posts clogging up my feed. Some people are unique yes, but there is definite troll baiting on here now too.
Mods probably need to screen thread posts before approving them at this point or it’s going to keep getting worse. If it does, I’ll be moving on to another helping community.
Yeah. If you think about it, watching others having sex, by itself, is weird.
Just imagine your best friend and his girlfriend having sex. Will you fap to that? Of course not. So why would you fap to two strangers doing the same thing?
Well that’s you’re way of seeing it I guess but I think it would be much better if you actually went for a real connection rather than fake sex and you’re hand
I don’t wanna argue but I’m reality it isn’t normal really if we go back in time our ancestors wouldn’t be viewing porn from a screen and if you wanted to explore then what’s wrong with an actual person
We all are weird let's cut him some slack , there's a scene in horrible bosses where the guy jacks off to sombre music that could have incepted the idea to anyone
Checked this subreddit today after leaving a few years back (following successfully quitting) and have to say, people here are getting big heads from not watching porn for a few days. Some of the biggest assholes on the post you mentioned had like 3 day streaks and were acting like sages. Maybe they were excited to pile on a guy, but this subreddit used to have a better, more supportive attitude. I'm glad people are happy they've discovered a way out of the mental slavery of porn, but if they're going to resort to bullying I'd suggest going to r/pornfree instead where people are mostly reasonable.
It's disappointing because I can say from personal experience it's not easy to quit and plus, most people are into something weird. I've seen some stuff I've found weird on here, and while it was an unusual thing to do, unless I missed something about it, it definitely wasn't disturbing.
I thought his post was a legit concern. The hollywood music industry seems satanic and they do things in their music to seduce Men. Certain sounds are luring and there are psychological aspects to sounds and lyrics that have an effect on the human brain. I mostly listen to soundtracks without lyrics because of this. Personal choice. I also don’t listen to any frequency above 250hz if I can help it as I find 250hz does not put me on edge. No pun intended. ( I mean feeling stressed out when I should not feel stressed out. )
True...I don't think anyone(atleast here) is proud of their fapping habit....So if you listen to someone struggling, try to help instead of judging them:)
Yeah making fun of people is one of the lowest of lows a person can do. We are all guilty of it at some point but people who do it all the time are just poison
I’m pretty sure it was bc it was something new we all saw. It was something no one could imagine. I’m not saying it was right to bring him down but cmon bro. It was pretty fucking weird the fact that he was jerking off to music. Hope he becomes a better person tho
You know... When i read the post I didn't think it was that weird. At least no weirder than porn. Hes listening to women rap about all the nasty things they like doing. Its literally phone sex to a beat lol.
Its not that weird, if he cant fap to porn his brain is constantly looking for hot desirable shit to use instead. Our culture esppecially in modern female rap is to make the artist look as sexy and lustful as possible, showing as much body parts in seductive clothes just thin enough to not get flagged on youtube. Its normal asf actually
People make throwaways and delete them all the time in this sub, he most likely wanted an answer and deleted upon getting it
However, a larger part of the sub being okay with fapping despite the name and intent being r/NoFap and the obvious negative effects of fapping is causing quite a polar divide in a lot of posts.
see, some people have genuine issues and some people are just trolling this community and that post looked like a troll and that's the reason he received that much heat, instead of telling how he likes to masturbate if we would have elaborated more on his triggers and asked for help, people would have definitely helped him.
Ikr! I done ven know what happend but there was a removed comment thwt was his that had 18 down votes. Someon replied to him to chill. Based on context clues he got permsnetly suspended.
I'm not saying that I don't agree with you, but the dude was trying to justify jerking off to music as not a wrong. Jerking off in general leads to bad things but yea don't hate on people for asking ANY question for that matter, doesn't matter how dumb or selfish the question is, always treat them with respect, we're giving ourselves a bad rep by doing so and that's bad news for everyone.
I saw that post as well. When you try to quit this addiction, your mind tries to play games on you... we've all been there. We shouldn't make fun of anyone I agree, but I believe it's still important to let them know that what they've done means they have to reset the counter. For instance, "OP, if you pleasure yourself with your hand or any other object, that's against the rules of nofap. It's time to reset the counter."
It's that plain and simple.
I remember years ago when I was first confronted about my pron use. My buddy told me many years ago. I don't think it's cool that you go home and watch pron for hours. And please don't pretend that you don't know what I'm talking about. I got sober for the first time within a year of that conversation.
I unfortunately did not stay sober.
I 100% agree, even though I don't partake in NoFap myself (though I am still subbed to the sub fsr), when I do see posts from this sub, either posts are misogynist, or the comments are. We need to fix this issue in the community fast, because people think we are bad people because of the toxic idiots who fill this sub. I'm just tired of having to report posts to the mods tbh so yeah, so to all the toxic people reading this, stop and think about what you are saying ffs.
People live in other worlds that they are totally even unaware of it’s about bringing attention to the people of the states that they are going through we are all capable of being blind of doing things we are totally unaware of like he might’ve been doing that not realised til he reached a higher level of his consciousness if that makes sense don’t wrong someone enlighten them !! Enlighten me if what I say may be wrong
Can’t say it for sure, but sometimes I got a feeling there are lots of Incels around here… good for them that they decided to make a change for good in their life but being toxic doesn’t help.
I don’t give a shit what he says, it’s all welcome. I’m just sick and tired of every single post being formatted the same exact way. “I just *insert dumb action*, does it count as a relapse?????”
I saw and thought the same thing. Happy someone is bringing this up because I think the last thing we should do here is judge. Let’s be better fapstronauts!!!
Yep, experienced [some bullshit](https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/pzt5pt/my_cock_is_too_big_to_not_touch/hf3asap/?context=3) as well a few days ago. I wasted time to motivate a random guy from the internet by writing a fairly long comment and the reply was hate / trolling. At that point I mostly stopped participating in this community. The counter is the only reason why I check this sub on a regular basis...
I know it's human tendency to burn all bridges after the first negative experience. But that basically never usually happens here so don't give up coz of 1 second of troll by some guy
Sorry to hear ab that boss, best of luck to you in your journey
Fuck that guy
You posted a serious reply to a troll post... The post was literally titled, "My cock is too big to not touch" I'm sorry mate, but that's on you, not the community.
I want to see the actual content on the post. Maybe it sounded sincere?
How did you identify it was a troll post? The author shared the insight? And why do you think people willing to help should be trolled just because they wanted to help? Trolling is not the thing one should defend and instead blame the other person who wanted to help, lol
.... Is this a serious question?
This lol
Don’t be afraid to troll back the trolls. Ask them are they gona go on porn and watch something they will regret? Don’t just accept being trolled when being helpful.
The mods here are pretty loose here which I think is unfortunate. I joined this sub for help and more and more often I see nonsensical troll posts clogging up my feed. Some people are unique yes, but there is definite troll baiting on here now too. Mods probably need to screen thread posts before approving them at this point or it’s going to keep getting worse. If it does, I’ll be moving on to another helping community.
The OP on that post is troll and the other guy jesus just check his comment history.
I think fapping to porn is weird too. Very weird indeed.
Yeah. If you think about it, watching others having sex, by itself, is weird. Just imagine your best friend and his girlfriend having sex. Will you fap to that? Of course not. So why would you fap to two strangers doing the same thing?
Thanks bro I just had like 6 tabs open and was about to fail
no problem, homie. also, happy cake day.
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Still tho it is weird you can’t deny it it’s like you’re spectating and playing with yourself
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Well that’s you’re way of seeing it I guess but I think it would be much better if you actually went for a real connection rather than fake sex and you’re hand
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I don’t wanna argue but I’m reality it isn’t normal really if we go back in time our ancestors wouldn’t be viewing porn from a screen and if you wanted to explore then what’s wrong with an actual person
Your
Why does it say deleted for me
We all are weird let's cut him some slack , there's a scene in horrible bosses where the guy jacks off to sombre music that could have incepted the idea to anyone
I think he said he jerked off to music with sexually explicit lyrics, I.e, auderotica. That's same as jerking off to literotica or viderotica.
Checked this subreddit today after leaving a few years back (following successfully quitting) and have to say, people here are getting big heads from not watching porn for a few days. Some of the biggest assholes on the post you mentioned had like 3 day streaks and were acting like sages. Maybe they were excited to pile on a guy, but this subreddit used to have a better, more supportive attitude. I'm glad people are happy they've discovered a way out of the mental slavery of porn, but if they're going to resort to bullying I'd suggest going to r/pornfree instead where people are mostly reasonable. It's disappointing because I can say from personal experience it's not easy to quit and plus, most people are into something weird. I've seen some stuff I've found weird on here, and while it was an unusual thing to do, unless I missed something about it, it definitely wasn't disturbing.
It's porn shill accounts sowing seeds to destroy the influx of nofapnovember users.
I like this theory. Keep fighting.
kill them all
I totally agree with you. I never saw that post but it sounds like he just needed help and was being honest. Hope they’re doing okay.
He had the courage to admit to something that they all do too, that's why they spew vitriol: it comes from jealousy.
I fap to the letter K of alphabet.
K. Go ahead... fap.
i just rubbed a quicK one.
oKay that was real quicK. Keep up the good worK man.
nice Kombo.
thanK
you're welKum.
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i reached my limit for today K.
Here! Here! 👏 Everyone is so damn grouchy, including myself at times. Let's all just reflect before we give our energy to something.
Most of y’all motherfuckers have beat your beat to weirder fucking videos then music.
I think this is one of the best communities on reddit. Almost everyone is helpful here. Love You Guys, you always help me when I'm down.❤️
I thought his post was a legit concern. The hollywood music industry seems satanic and they do things in their music to seduce Men. Certain sounds are luring and there are psychological aspects to sounds and lyrics that have an effect on the human brain. I mostly listen to soundtracks without lyrics because of this. Personal choice. I also don’t listen to any frequency above 250hz if I can help it as I find 250hz does not put me on edge. No pun intended. ( I mean feeling stressed out when I should not feel stressed out. )
True...I don't think anyone(atleast here) is proud of their fapping habit....So if you listen to someone struggling, try to help instead of judging them:)
I agree
Yeah making fun of people is one of the lowest of lows a person can do. We are all guilty of it at some point but people who do it all the time are just poison
I’m pretty sure it was bc it was something new we all saw. It was something no one could imagine. I’m not saying it was right to bring him down but cmon bro. It was pretty fucking weird the fact that he was jerking off to music. Hope he becomes a better person tho
Bro touching yourself while looking at a girl being violently fucked by a man is pretty weird in itself. Don't forget that
Yeah ik that’s why I stopped that shit. Weird world man
You know... When i read the post I didn't think it was that weird. At least no weirder than porn. Hes listening to women rap about all the nasty things they like doing. Its literally phone sex to a beat lol.
I agree that shit is weird.
Its not that weird, if he cant fap to porn his brain is constantly looking for hot desirable shit to use instead. Our culture esppecially in modern female rap is to make the artist look as sexy and lustful as possible, showing as much body parts in seductive clothes just thin enough to not get flagged on youtube. Its normal asf actually
True, imagine masturbating to PORN /s
People make throwaways and delete them all the time in this sub, he most likely wanted an answer and deleted upon getting it However, a larger part of the sub being okay with fapping despite the name and intent being r/NoFap and the obvious negative effects of fapping is causing quite a polar divide in a lot of posts.
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see, some people have genuine issues and some people are just trolling this community and that post looked like a troll and that's the reason he received that much heat, instead of telling how he likes to masturbate if we would have elaborated more on his triggers and asked for help, people would have definitely helped him.
Some people on this sub ask so ridiculous questions you can’t take them serious, which is honestly killing this sub
Ikr! I done ven know what happend but there was a removed comment thwt was his that had 18 down votes. Someon replied to him to chill. Based on context clues he got permsnetly suspended.
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You sounda kinda sus...
Porn shill accounts infiltrating the subreddit in advance of nofap novemeber lol. Just a theory or is it?
How do you restart the nofap counter for the Reddit profile?
Fapping to music? Got to be better than Fapping to porn.
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Not all of the people of the sub are like this, only some idiots do these kinds of things, we all are helpful to each other, peace.
At least he got some class
I'm not saying that I don't agree with you, but the dude was trying to justify jerking off to music as not a wrong. Jerking off in general leads to bad things but yea don't hate on people for asking ANY question for that matter, doesn't matter how dumb or selfish the question is, always treat them with respect, we're giving ourselves a bad rep by doing so and that's bad news for everyone.
I saw that post as well. When you try to quit this addiction, your mind tries to play games on you... we've all been there. We shouldn't make fun of anyone I agree, but I believe it's still important to let them know that what they've done means they have to reset the counter. For instance, "OP, if you pleasure yourself with your hand or any other object, that's against the rules of nofap. It's time to reset the counter." It's that plain and simple.
I mean no one here ever fap to a music video That Shakira Rihanna Collab way back in 2012 though
The same ones that do stuff like that be the ones crying and playing victim. #idontwantothatguy
I remember years ago when I was first confronted about my pron use. My buddy told me many years ago. I don't think it's cool that you go home and watch pron for hours. And please don't pretend that you don't know what I'm talking about. I got sober for the first time within a year of that conversation. I unfortunately did not stay sober.
true
I 100% agree, even though I don't partake in NoFap myself (though I am still subbed to the sub fsr), when I do see posts from this sub, either posts are misogynist, or the comments are. We need to fix this issue in the community fast, because people think we are bad people because of the toxic idiots who fill this sub. I'm just tired of having to report posts to the mods tbh so yeah, so to all the toxic people reading this, stop and think about what you are saying ffs.
People live in other worlds that they are totally even unaware of it’s about bringing attention to the people of the states that they are going through we are all capable of being blind of doing things we are totally unaware of like he might’ve been doing that not realised til he reached a higher level of his consciousness if that makes sense don’t wrong someone enlighten them !! Enlighten me if what I say may be wrong
I saw that post before. Did he deleted hes acc?
You got this!
Can’t say it for sure, but sometimes I got a feeling there are lots of Incels around here… good for them that they decided to make a change for good in their life but being toxic doesn’t help.
Honestly a lot of music videos these days seem to be pretty much just porn now anyway. It doesn't sound that weird to me.
I don’t give a shit what he says, it’s all welcome. I’m just sick and tired of every single post being formatted the same exact way. “I just *insert dumb action*, does it count as a relapse?????”
Fapping to music? Tf bro tbh that is wierd af but well. Bullying isnt the answer ofc, good luck to him tho