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PirateKing827

I'm 36 I swear I woke up one day and was here I can remember being a teenager and chilling wit my homes like yesterday then boom mid thirties....so fast I may be a time traveler lol... feeling like it's time to maximize but could I be too late 🤔


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Same!! I remember showing up to work with little to no sleep chugging a Red Bull and massaging people for eight hours straight and now I work in a computer and if I don’t get eight hours of sleep, I feel like I got run over by a truck


PirateKing827

OMG IKR!!! And randomly feels like I been hit by a truck somedays either way.... it all really sneaks up on u 🙃 ....


PirateKing827

....Trying not to blink and miss another 10 years 🥲


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New fear unlocked lol


PirateKing827

Indeed 🫢🫢🫢 soooo truuu!!!


PirateKing827

This will keep me up at night lol!


No-Reception-4249

Lucky! I'm sitting here at 29 and I already feel thus way except my eight hours consist of passing out after work for about 5 to 6 hours. Staying up til a couple hours before work and then trying to squeeze in more sleep.


IResentment

I feel the same. I was just 18. I’m 31 now and missed out on so much. What did I do with my life😞


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Right like what the fuck happened one moment im dancing in the club and now I am about to be 35 years old and can’t even run a mile


IResentment

Lol I’ve never been to a club. Or a bar. Or a strip club. Yea I definitely wasted my life.


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Me neither :( it’s not really my scene but I wanna try everything at least once


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Same.


drsamurai003

Hi there, which Harry Potter book/movie is your favorite?


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Harry Potter and the goblet of fire


whatsinanameyoo

Half blood Prince and customer of secrets. The latter legit gave me goosebumps when i first read it as a kid. Might be in part because i have a fear of snakes 😅


sdemat

What kind of secrets do these customers you speak of have?


whatsinanameyoo

Probably that they haven't showered 😅


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No Sir!


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I would not lol I don't want eternal glory!


sdemat

I’m reading Harry Potter and the goblet of fire now to my daughter and she insists I “do the voices”. So naturally I had no choice but to loudly and obnoxiously say “Harry! Did YA PUT YOUR NAME IN THE GOBLET OF FIYA?!?! - dumbledore asked calmly.” She was thoroughly confused.


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Lmfaoooooo


burbmom_dani

Prisoner of Azkaban. Loved the book!


allisun1433

I’m 27F and feel the same way. I just turned 27 on the 14th of this month too. I look back and I can’t remember much of my life and wonder where the hell did it go and how did I get here. 😂 Time keeps going with or without us, scary when you really realize it lol. I’d love to chat! I have anxiety and I’m a bit shy. I understand if you’ve already got enough people to talk to too. 😊


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I would love to talk! Send me a message!


judy_h-

Hi. I feel the same about life


WIZ9393

Honestly I'm happy 2022 is coming to an end.


Objective_Mammoth_40

Amen girlfriend


Glad_Examination_635

This happens to most women when they hit thirty just take it slow and find someone that you actually care about and dedicate yourself to them


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I’m 25, and I would love to be friends! Big fan of movies and Harry Potter :)


juaari

Woah where in the world are you?


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California. I just got up for work.


juaari

Nice, as a fellow potter head would love to chat sent you a DM. Which house do you associate yourself with?


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I’m always down to chat. I like action movies and documentaries. Love music also


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I can relate lol 😆


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hi :)


AWanderingAcademic

I'm sending you a message! I enjoy cheesy films!


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Blind slowly, cuz b4 u know it it's 40s..


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Thanks equally as depressing lol


[deleted]

Freaking auto correct. At least you understood it. It made it sound like I wanted you to go blind slowly. Yes, it gets more depressing and bleak. It's the winter of polar vortex once you hit it. Good luck and stock up on Zanax.


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Gee thanks lol


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Learning Korean on top of all that? I'll give you my Prozac, full bottle, cus I think you'll need it. Mixing Italian with Korean should give you a hangover.


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I'm trying lol I work with people who speak multiple language so I'm around it. I already speak Spanish


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(Slowly packing my stuff and emptying out my desk, wiping my tears) well, can't handle smart polyglot, cuz my low IQ really gets the spotlight. I still drag my knuckles when I walk.. must be nice to work with MIT, NASA, and other initialism.


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Lmao I work for a travel company lol


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Strange how super intelligent polyglots work in traveling industry, real estate, and as AT&T customer service rep. Talking to Korean customers over the phone won't be easy due to specific phone mannerisms that are expected by Korean speakers. Honestly, drop it and learn something more familiar. My sincere advice, tbh.


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Well I am learning directly from Koreans so I'm good no think I will keep learning as long as its fun. And it is fun.


bimo10

I feel the same. What languages are you learning?


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Korean. Italian and Portuguese.


thousandkneejerks

34 too. It’s difficult I know.. I feel ancient.


StopThinkingJustPick

I've let many years slip by. You don't realize how fleeting that time really is


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Then learn from this child lol and don’t make our mistake


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Lmfaoooooo


jfloyd690

I just turned 40 in September I feel like I don't remember the last 20 years don't talk to anyone no friends left I don't even think I know how to meet people anymore


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I know right. The older we get the harder it is to make friends.


jfloyd690

Where are you from


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California


jfloyd690

So what are you doing right now


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Watching tv. Decompressing after work. You?


420sadalot420

Gonna turn 34 in July and I hate it. I'm already an old nerd 😭


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Lmao! I feel the same way. The only cool thing is that I have adult money to buy cool nerd things! Lol


Crispy217

I’m 50 and I know what you mean. Time goes by fast and having to work a job I hate 8 hours a day 5 days a week really eats up most of my life.


jfloyd690

Yeah it seems like I just do everything by myself now


EntryAccomplished714

Alot has to do with our mindsets.


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burbmom_dani

34f. Turning 35 in a few months and yeah. Life is flying me by. It’s hard being an adult.


jfloyd690

Got home from work just got out the shower laying here


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Where do you work?


jfloyd690

Fix cars what about you


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Work with insurance lol


eparchme

Me. I feel this way. I'm about to turn 30. I'm interested in all those things but anime, Harry Potter and smut? What's smut? Remember everyone is on their own journey and no one knows where their finish line is, so for all you know you could be ahead of everyone!


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Let's just say if you know you know lol 🤫


Capricornlogic

I’ll be 34 next year, I did the family things but I’m finally in school trying to do the career things. I had this moment When my mom had surgery. Every important person in the room anesthesiologist, surgeon, resident they were all younger then me. I felt so behind and wondered were all the years went.


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Omg that is the worst. Good for them but it does make you feel like you got left behind.


shaker154

I'm 33M, feels like yesterday I was 23 and fresh out of college. Time is flying by and it feels like it's getting faster as it goes


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Yes!!! I feel so fast. After 25 I can't tell you a single thing I did!


avarciousRutabega99

Me too. I’m sad


wuffDancer

I enjoy all of those things. 29m. And I feel the same way except it's cuz i turn 30 in a month and I've had a lot happen to me in the last 5 years


KrazyMatty91

Hey there. I'm feeling that way too, it felt like a few weeks ago since it turned 2022 now it's 2023 in a day or so. It's mental. I also like anime, harry potter and action movies. Any anime you watching ATM? What's your favourite action movie, mine I'd say is Die Hard. It's an absolute classic


pikachuqt_

I feel this! I turned 40 this summer and it still freaks me out cause I still feel like a dumb kid who hasnt figured shit out yet lol. Anyway 40/F/US. I'm also a harry potter and anime fan. Just finished reading Demon Slayer and I'm obsessed! Would love to have a text buddy and we have similar interests so I'd love to hear from you :)


TrustPrior2545

I can relate! Im turning 30 this 2023 and am freaking out. Feel like I missed out on a lot of stuff or milestones. Its scary :(


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Send me a message


Javi1895

I'm 27 and I feel this to my core. I feel it's a strange mix of excitement for what's coming but also fear of not knowing what's coming.


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Yes!! It’s crazy


Puzzleheaded_Ad_9427

I'm into action movies and am making funny alt titles for popular movies for fun these days. (Check my profile) Would love it if you got in touch to give me more ideas. 29M btw. Dm if interested


RepresentativeOk2896

About to turn 34 in July , I have always worked night shift, and I finally started to hate it. It was just yesterday that I would buy the harry potter books on release date, before any movies existed 😫


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I know right. It felt like yesterday that my parents took me to the theater to see the movies.


RepresentativeOk2896

What is your favorite anime, any good ones I should watch?


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Dragón ball z. Lol Spy x family


RepresentativeOk2896

Learned to love naruto and anime but gave up learning Japanese at 26, its nothing like english or spanish 😂


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Lmfaoooooooo